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Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ayokunlei(m): 8:01pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
ifeoluwa05:I asked because it sounds as if u are a Male. If u prefer reading books, I wd recommend a book by Tim Lahaye to you... |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by bringbackdgirls: 5:21am On Oct 16, 2014 |
ifeoluwa05:quite better cos u use more of ur brain during browsing than watchnig movies |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ifeoluwa05(f): 12:49pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
ayokunlei: Title? Lemme guess 'why you act the way you do' a christian inspirational book on temperament which generalizes rather than rationalize the term temperament.... Am I right? Not really flatterin to knw dat I sound more lik a guy btw 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ifeoluwa05(f): 12:50pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
bringbackdgirls:Very interesting. Is dat a fact? |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ayokunlei(m): 12:58pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
ifeoluwa05: well, I have read alot of books on temperament from different authors most especially from Lahaye; Anger is a choice and others... 'Why u act d way u do' generalizes rather than rationalize? Try and expatiate what u mean. Generalize as in not straight4ward? |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by Kissbliss(f): 1:11pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
ayokunlei: ve read dat book n honestly it didn't help alot. Why i act the way i act depends on the environment and the factors around. Ve been bullied, ve bullied others, i can be pretty feisty n yet i remember running from some fights. Sometimes i just wanna be alone n won't talk for days even if all my friends are with me and ve been know to talk n talk even wen everybody is quiet. My behaviours are fashioned by occasions and not some stuffs suppose to be ingrained in my DNA. Wats ur take on dt? |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ifeoluwa05(f): 1:27pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
ayokunlei:I meant it has no depth. The book brushed lightly on the term temperament. I could not figure out what my temperament was after reading the book. I prefer using MBTI tool to ascertain my weakness and strength in terms of personality. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ayokunlei(m): 2:46pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
ifeoluwa05:well, Lahaye's book is d best have read so far as regards to temperament sha... D book was very straight4ward on my own part. Even without knowing people personally, I can analyse pple with d knowledge from his books. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by GlorifiedTunde(m): 3:00pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Still on this issue? Nawao! NL definitely has a lot of shy/introverted guys. Many extroverts are hating also. Me? I'm extrovert and I feel good |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ayokunlei(m): 3:15pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Kissbliss: i got ur points, but u still said d sametin with what d book says... D way we react to pple, to ourselves, d way we respond to situations is caused by our inborn trait also known as temperament. D topic of temperament is a very wide one. D Lahaye's books talks on how to know ourselves better,how to know and deal with others, it talks on where each temperament can work best, d strengths and weaknesses of each temperament and others... You said d book didnt help, reading books helps, BUT our actions towards what we read helps most. The fact is that we cant change our nature, we can only TRAIN it. No book or psychologist or councellor can change our nature. The book has helped me in alot of ways... Being reserved is nt interesting to some introverts because dey are being dominated by dia weaknesses, while being reserved has brought greatness and positivity to others because dey have used dia Strengths to overcome dia weaknesses. 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by walanter(m): 3:44pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
to mi simply...dere is no tin lik d shy ones it's jus a mater of tim dey becom expose to wat ever dey ar shy of....and dere is a sayin all boyz ar rugged ...dat oT ....so wi advice d female ones not to fall in to dis trap...bec dey kush lik mad and dey ar alcoholic dudes ....i guist dat d only u can control d mind at will....blah blah ..tak it and eat it fuc |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by bringbackdgirls: 3:51pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
ifeoluwa05:yes http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7667610.stm |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by hallmar08(m): 4:07pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
See me here mr shyman u stand to gain the whole world as you date me, happy dating. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by mrklock(m): 5:04pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Cmanforall:Congratulations 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by mrklock(m): 5:06pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Arva:Do you believe "Goonies never die" ? |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ifeoluwa05(f): 7:52pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
bringbackdgirls:Wow! And double woow! Thanks for the info |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ifeoluwa05(f): 7:56pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
ayokunlei: Alright! We all are entitled to our opinions and preference. Can yu tell me me wat my temperament is? |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by bringbackdgirls: 8:18pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
ifeoluwa05:u'r welcome 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ayokunlei(m): 8:45pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
ifeoluwa05:yes I can, tell me few things about yourself. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ayokunlei(m): 6:34am On Oct 17, 2014 |
ifeoluwa05: you have a Phlegmatic as primary and a Mel secondary |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ifeoluwa05(f): 12:48pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
ayokunlei: Am really impressed... Pple say dat too. Love to know hw you came about dat conclusion. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by bringbackdgirls: 1:12pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
ayokunlei:i'm phlegmatic also.just knew it recently http://temperaments.fighunter.com/?page=phlegmatic |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ayokunlei(m): 2:06pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
ifeoluwa05:yeah... Phlegmatics are introverts,reserved, dey are also known as relationship oriented introverts becos dey relate more to people than to task. They are diplomatic, also known as Natural peacemakers. D Phlegmatic trait shows from ur posts and conversation so far. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ifeoluwa05(f): 3:17pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
ayokunlei: But Phlegs are lazy and less motivated ... I wont call myself a relationship oriented introvert since I focus more on a task and blank out from external distraction. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ayokunlei(m): 4:06pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
bringbackdgirls:its cool... Whats ur secondary? choleric it seems.... |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ayokunlei(m): 4:14pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
ifeoluwa05:you have a melancholic secondary. Melancholics are also known as task oriented introverts. Dey relate to task than to meeting people. They are perfectionists,are analytical, likes reading,very detailed, they reflect on tins... |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by bringbackdgirls: 6:01pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
ayokunlei:choleric ke.i wuld say melancholic is my secondary. i aint stubborn or relationship oriented so both doesn't describe me 100pct bt acurately describe many of my traits.http://temperaments.fighunter.com/?page=melancholic |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ifeoluwa05(f): 7:57pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
ayokunlei: Dat sounds more like me Thnx for d knowledge. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ayokunlei(m): 8:12pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
bringbackdgirls: its cool... |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by ayokunlei(m): 8:18pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
ifeoluwa05:its cool. I share similar personality with you, I wl like to be ur friend. |
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