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Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by jidestroud(m): 1:44pm On Oct 24, 2014
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Mobebi(m): 1:45pm On Oct 24, 2014
bygones are bygones.its painful sha but don't worry abt it, she will regret her actions later. whatever u do for love, don't regret. I know how u feel and its painful.

let maturity have its way.. why would u wanna get it back? if u do,its childish!

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Sapphire86(f): 1:50pm On Oct 24, 2014
2 days after the gift, she dumped you? That's cold!

Well, I'd say collect it back but the truth is since u gave her on a day of celebration u can't ask for it back without sounding like a douchebag. So let it go

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by hannesy(f): 1:51pm On Oct 24, 2014
Eyaaaa sorrry ooooo play mature 4get it jst prove her wrong

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 1:52pm On Oct 24, 2014
Wait!! U seriously had to ask

Common, find the b*tch and make sure u collect that phone back. She used u, the speed at which she broke up with u says it all. All she needed was the phone and if u don't collect it back, u deserve a plaque for Ur "MAGArious" actions

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Tallesty1(m): 1:56pm On Oct 24, 2014
Mobebi:
bygones are bygones.its painful share but don't worry abt it, she will regret her actions later. whatever u do for love, don't regret. I know how u feel and its painful.

let maturity have its way.. why would u wanna get it back? if u do,its childish!
I'm certain that 90% of the likers of this comment would be people that collected big gifts from their partner and dumped them later.










I beg you in Gods name@OP. To jejely collect your phone if you can.

Someone who does not love you do not deserve your gift.

She knew for sure that she would breakup with you yet she collected it.

To hell with maturity.


Please use ur brain next time you wanna date.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by gede7744(f): 1:56pm On Oct 24, 2014
some post on this forum heeennn......

l don't want to be insultive sha


next time buy her a plot of land in d outskirt of town and will it to her after u are married

130k for phone......... is ur love for sale?

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by faithugo64(f): 1:57pm On Oct 24, 2014
op you already made a mistake, you have to live with it. Just be careful next time. Always use your head not your heart!!! Sorry bros

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Rapsainot(m): 2:05pm On Oct 24, 2014
Op, please find any means possible... Collect that phone, she doesn't deserve it... Fire the debts sake, collect it and give it to one of your siblings if at all you can't use it.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Richiy(f): 2:05pm On Oct 24, 2014
Tallesty1:
I'm certain that 90% of the likers of this comment would be people that collected big gifts from their partner and dumped them later.


I beg you in Gods name@OP. To jejely collect your phone if you can.

Someone who does not love you do not deserve your gift.

She know for certain that she would breakup with and yet she collected it.

To hell with maturity.


Please use ur brain next time you wanna date.

Hahaha...Indeed.

This thing happened to one of my friends. She was obsessed with the guy and he wanted out.

He jejely collected the phone he gave her and disappeared.

We laugh her die when she started explaining that he would bring it back, that he wanted to use. the camera to video a show.

Up until today, both the guy and phone has gone AWOL.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by chymystique(f): 2:05pm On Oct 24, 2014
@op, IMO I think you should free the phone for her cause if you could bring out 130k to buy a lady phone that means u are bigger than the 130k. Don't worry That phone won't last long with her because nemesis will surely come visiting her soon.. How come immediately she dumped you she had another boyfriend? E be like say you were just a MAGA undecided .. That girl is mean oo.

That's why before you invest too much in a girl be sure of your position in her heart and I don't blame guys that don't invest in their girlfriends cause na this kin story wey dey come out from it.

In other words, if your mind wants to collect the phone back then do because she doesn't deserve it @ all.




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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Tallesty1(m): 2:09pm On Oct 24, 2014
Richiy:


Hahaha...Indeed.

This thing happened to one of my friends. She was obsessed with the guy and he wanted out.

He jejely collected the phone he gave her and disappeared.

We laugh her die when she started explaining that he would bring it back, that he wanted to use. the camera to video a show.

Up until today, both the guy and phone has gone AWOL.
If they had dated much longer after he gave her the gift then I would advice him to forget.

But this one ended within 48hrs

Imagine.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Oct 24, 2014
No..it shows ur not matured enuf...eva wondered why God didnot strip satan off his powers?

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 2:13pm On Oct 24, 2014
U asked if u have the right? No u don't

Painful sha
Buh jx let it go. Ur life ain't dependent on dt

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Oct 24, 2014
Kini? Collect that phone from this scheming b*itch!!! Invite her or fix an appointment with her and do the needful angry//Which Karma are peeps talking about here undecided Why not honorably drop that phone and take a walk? The fact she left with these phony reasons are Karma's not this guy's sweat naa cry definitely not the one he's gonna slave for. This is O B T oooooo. If na my Bro and I get to know eeeeehn angry. What fuckery lipsrsealed angry. Get that phone back from her, I say angry. A hundred + grand no be small money if U worked for it ooooo kiss

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by MizMyColi(f): 2:20pm On Oct 24, 2014
Sapphire86:
2 days after the gift, she dumped you? That's cold!

Well, I'd say collect it back but the truth is since u gave her on a day of celebration u can't ask for it back without sounding like a douchebag. So let it go

What are you saying now.

If he had finished paying for the phone now, I'll understand.
I could be the idealist and tell OP to take heart, that God will provide, but realistically speaking now;

Do you think it's that easy.
He is still PAYING for the phone for crying out loud!
That's Wikkidness grin

imo, it is only the gift of God that comes without repentance and irrevocability (sic).

If getting the phone back will leave you happier and more fulfilled, by all means go ahead.
If not getting it and paying thru your nose after all, will leave you more miserable, biko, kindly request for the phone, or better still, find a way to get it in your hands and BeGone with it.

Sometimes, we need to serve others the same kinda dish they serve us, especially if it doesn't portend any physical harm to them.

Self love is not selfish.

If I were you sha, I will let go. (HARD AS IT MAY BE)

OP, whatever decision you make in the end.
I stand gidigba for your back.
angry

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Sapphire86(f): 2:31pm On Oct 24, 2014
MizMyColi:


What are you saying now.


If I were you sha, I will let go. (HARD AS IT MAY BE)

angry

U sef talk am!

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Lumyboi(m): 2:33pm On Oct 24, 2014
Lol. Guy na to arrange her collect fone o. Leavin u 2days afta means she don leave u b4. Was jst waitin to collect bday gift Frm u n u duly delivered... grin
Mit d tough sha(cos honestly I doubt u v a rit) since twas a gift bt if u can, abeg try

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by YungwizzzyPt7: 2:33pm On Oct 24, 2014
[size=45pt]I smell poverty!!![/size]

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by beinstein(m): 2:34pm On Oct 24, 2014
call me all names you wish, i shamelessly collected the phone i gifted her with no regret.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Oct 24, 2014
Okokobioko ....
cheesy cheesy cheesy grin

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Rapsainot(m): 2:36pm On Oct 24, 2014
MizMyColi:


What are you saying now.

If he had finished paying for the phone now, I'll understand.
I could be the idealist and tell OP to take heart, that God will provide, but realistically speaking now;

Do you think it's that easy.
He is still PAYING for the phone for crying out loud!
That's Wikkidness grin

imo, it is only the gift of God that comes without repentance and irrevocability (sic).

If getting the phone back will leave you happier and more fulfilled, by all means go ahead.
If not getting it and paying thru your nose after all, will leave you more miserable, biko, kindly request for the phone, or better still, find a way to get it in your hands and BeGone with it.

Sometimes, we need to serve others the same kinda dish they serve us, especially if it doesn't portend any physical harm to them.

Self love is not selfish.

If I were you sha, I will let go. (HARD AS IT MAY BE)

OP, whatever decision you make in the end.
I stand gidigba for your back.
angry
the epistle of mother MizMyColi to jidestroud

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by jidestroud(m): 2:55pm On Oct 24, 2014
I guess i have to count my loss then. cry cry cry
And i really did loved her cry cry cry cry
life goes on!!! undecided
and ofcos, no more phone giving undecided

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Missmossy(f): 3:09pm On Oct 24, 2014
Eeyah,pathetic

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by ivyy(f): 3:29pm On Oct 24, 2014
Tallesty1:
If they had dated much longer after he gave her the gift then I would advice him to forget.

But this one ended within 48hrs

Imagine.

Within 48 hours?
Wat rubbish sad
Get back that fone if you can especially since your still in dept for it.


And pls guys be watchful of golddigers

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by kagari: 3:42pm On Oct 24, 2014
Op most people telling you to take heart would do much more than you. Take this fact.
.
As long as u are still paying for the phone in ur ex possession you would always be emotionally tormented
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As long as u still keep her on ur social networks, you would always be emotionally tormented.
.
But i bet you it would be much more easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle, than for you to be able to book a date again with your ex, to execute the plan of phone retriever
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If you know her house, just go there and collect your phone, you would recieve insults but there is no one you would tell the story that wont support your idea.
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Give the phone to your mum or you sibling and see the blessings that would follow it.
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#teamolosho
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No time for story that touches the heart

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Oct 24, 2014
jidestroud:

i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?
This got me lmao!
That girl sure did have a breakup in mind ever since, was just waiting to get the phone you promised. I wouldn't dare say you forget it, cause heaven knows I wouldn't if I were in your shoes. Had it been you weren't in debt for the next ten months, it would have been better. But how can you bear paying for something someone who ditched you is using? If you can bear that thought for the next ten months as you pay, then forget the phone.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by maxy097(m): 3:54pm On Oct 24, 2014
ivyy:


Within 48 hours?
Wat rubbish sad
Get back that fone if you can especially since your still in dept for it.


And pls guys be watchful of golddigers
Long time ivvy
ivyy:


Within 48 hours?
Wat rubbish sad
Get back that fone if you can especially since your still in dept for it.


And pls guys be watchful of golddigers
Long time ivvy
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Ilovenigeria(f): 3:57pm On Oct 24, 2014
Collect your phone bck jooor. Next time buy cheaper things for a girl you are not sure where her loyalty lies.


One of my girlfriend collect Gold necklace from one of my male friend and broke up with him. Na so the guyman carry two giant dogs come our house one early morning collect the necklace, phone and all the things him don buy for the babe.

Some girls are wicked.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by bakynes(m): 4:51pm On Oct 24, 2014
Breezy's song is the song of the year 'These hoes ain't loyal' I don tire for woman matter myself. You don't give to them, dem go say you stingy, you give dem, dem go turn you to maga. Confused set of human beings.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Tallesty1(m): 4:58pm On Oct 24, 2014
ivyy:


Within 48 hours?
Wat rubbish sad
Get back that fone if you can especially since your still in dept for it.


And pls guys be watchful of golddigers
as in ehhhh


the whole thing is just annoying


and some people can be so heartless

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