Mobebi:
bygones are bygones.its painful sha but don't worry abt it, she will regret her actions later. whatever u do for love, don't regret. I know how u feel and its painful.

let maturity have its way.. why would u wanna get it back? if u do,its childish!

I don't like these types of suit and tie advice

Sapphire86:
2 days after the gift, she dumped you? That's cold!

Well, I'd say collect it back but the truth is since u gave her on a day of celebration u can't ask for it back without sounding like a douchebag. So let it go

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

***Clears throat****
Erm what type of phone is it sir?

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

My Brother I feel your pain and the truth of the whole matter is that she never loved you for a single day. She xame because to her you have cash and she came for it. She wanted to have broken up with you but as you promised her the phone, she ceased the advantage to still play one more game before dumping you. She was double dating and found out that she prefers that other guy to you. You fulfilled your promise to her and she felt there was no other need keeping you around then she decided to brake up with you 2 days after you fulfilled your promise. I advice you forget about the phone and also forget about her and also move on with your life. Remove her contact from both your phone list and also your BBM. Take heart my brother.

brixton:



My prob wit u is the arrogance u exhibit... I jokingly quoted u, u wrote back wit it "it's none of your business" and now you tell me to " just keep quiet and stop saying what you don't know"... Don't you know how to carry on a conversation without disrespecting the otha fela?

I am angry and I should be. What's all d stuff about being fugly....and hoping some rich guys bless my ministry?

You know I used to tolerate these things but I've decided not to anymore. How you treat me is how I will treat you

Guy,

Either forget the phone or collect it back. And don't regret buying the phone, cos as at that point in time, thats what u wanted to do.

But wait oo. U couldn't afford buying a phone outright and u decided to buy via corporative and pay for 12 months for a girl? Seriously

[i][/i]my brother i was once in ur shoes too.i had the intention of collecting the gift item back.mine was samsug grand.but my jnr sis asked me to let go.but guess wat? Til date if she had the means, she for invite bros Jesus come beg to uave me back.thank god today am wit my fiance who bought me a gift worth 2x the amount for my last Aug.bithday.as for the other bitch? She has had 3 failed relationshps now.

Mobebi:
bygones are bygones.its painful sha but don't worry abt it, she will regret her actions later. whatever u do for love, don't regret. I know how u feel and its painful.

let maturity have its way.. why would u wanna get it back? if u do,its childish!

OkikiOluwa1:

Hm!
Last Bullet
You are claiming eye for an eye, it serves him right talks!
You v forgotten that the wages of sin is death. If not death, calamity. You didn't consider that the guy might not v cheated on a girl before. Innocent people do fall victims.
Your case dey heaven!

correct talk

gbes!

Ladies and their pros.titue behaviour

aiiit

the guy is obviously an innocent guy that didnt cheat.

Gbes! Gbes!


The ladies has been fvcking other guys without the boy's knowledge

gbes!


Last condom

op settle police money like 6k, show them the receipt, make you collect ur phone.


Too many pros.titutes these days posing as girlfriends. God forbid bad thing

Jeez! d bitch jus used dis guy.hw can a lady be dis wicked?Mehn im so touched!n he's still payin 4 d phone,im so pissed!she has no conscience at all.

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

. Seriously dude she broke up after two days of gifting her the phone(and you are still paying for it) GET THE PHONE BACK NOW!!! She just used you to get the phone... She already acted immature so obtaining the phone back from her shouldn't be something shameful... You get RIGHT...

manuelpepper:
correct talk

gbes!

Ladies and their pros.titue behaviour

aiiit

the guy is obviously an innocent guy that didnt cheat.

Gbes! Gbes!


The ladies has been fvcking other guys without the boy's knowledge

gbes!


Last condom

op settle police money like 6k, show them the receipt, make you collect ur phone.


Too many pros.titutes these days posing as girlfriends. God forbid bad thing

no be small thing! i cant tolerate dis kind of thing at all.Evil bitches giving a bad impression of women

U didnt feel anything guy quote me! Presented with similar girl again u wil regret again. Now listen, correct guys no dey bring such issue to social media, na the girl go waka come here based on d guy clever,intelligent and smart reaction ie depossesing d phone frm her plus a free intricking sex with an elephant promises.

jidestroud.:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

Count which loss ehn? walahi Allah ur neck go stiff for the depth if u no collect d phone from her. na bitcches like her dey make men scare of d good babes out there. I repeat, *go collect d phone from her* >: my body dey hot as I dey type ds walahi.

PinkObsession:
Op go collect the phone abeg some girls are wicked

Like ta profile pix..

Can I knw u

Krystalxxx:


I am angry and I should be. What's all d stuff about being fugly....and hoping some rich guys bless my ministry?

You know I used to tolerate these things but I've decided not to anymore. How you treat me is how I will treat you

Not true, wrote em when u started with "it's none of my business"... Don't tolerate pipo but learn to respect people

It has gone my brother. Next time get a middle ground. Don't be stingy and don't be a maga. If she ask for iPhone 6 buy tecno. Give her 1k when she ask for 3k, learn to say no. And learn to give all once in a while and make sure u it is really wirth it.

destante:
sorry but anything that has been gifted is no longer yours. pele

taaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, who said so? no tell me that one oooo before I go vex.

Jidestroud

If you don't collect that phone NOW NOW, I go dash you one hot e-slap! Go and get that thing!

Henh?? You mean that girl was cheating on you, took that phone THAT YOU WILL BE PAYING FOR FOR 10 MONTHS, and left you for her new other boyfriend 2 days later?

My friend, you were robbed. Go and call the police if you are too timid to get it back yourself.

I'm seriously vexed. Get the damn phone.

jumainsexy:


Count which loss ehn? walahi Allah ur neck go stiff for the depth if u no collect d phone from her. na bitcches like her dey make men scare of d good babes out there. I repeat, *go collect d phone from her* >: my body dey hot as I dey type ds walahi.

As in. I'm also pissed.

philtrum:

The Op decided to buy his X a fone on/for her birthday , you think he wouldn't have been buying cheap stuffs at least considering he had to do cooperative to buy her a fone this time.....I'm sorry about what you went through with your first love.....but not all guys are the same .....I swear....You should know now

I hear you. All the same, if he ever played a girl or laughed with his friends about, if he ever then he deserves it.
Thanks for being polite and mature . It's a rare trait for some people I won't mention

130k can buy a plot of land.

@op, do you have a plot of land?

justmag:



MA NIGGA!! real dudes would be like "Ohhh so u don't see no future in us?? Okay! I don't see that phone in ya future too. Give it back!!"

Na dis kind tin make my girl dey call me aka gum

Mobebi:
bygones are bygones.its painful sha but don't worry abt it, she will regret her actions later. whatever u do for love, don't regret. I know how u feel and its painful.

let maturity have its way.. why would u wanna get it back? if u do,its childish!

Excuseeeee mee!!!!!! You mean the guy is nothing but a loser and his reward is in heaven?

kershley:
no be small thing! i tolerate dis kind of thing.Evil bitches giving a bad impression of women!

kershley i like you. You speak with a lot of sense, very mature.


If i tell you my own case, you will be move by tears.
Some bad treatment by some guys to ladies are caused by the ladies they have met before.

Imagine a guy showing true love to a girl, and the girl decided to make him a foooool.

That is how it is

Ishilove:

Seconded. Op collect the phone and resell it to clear the gbese. Rubbish

Pls come and finish your iyawo nylon bag story, pls

kellyJames5:
Dear Dr.
Please what can be done to correct the eye positioning,I mean; when looking at someone,it would seem to the person as if you are looking at another I.e 4'o clock eye.
It's really embracing me.

Am not a Dr tho' but from what I learnt in science, its an abnormal situation in the eye, medical operation can correct it if you 'got the money but my point is that you shouldn't think less of yourself, whatever any one with normal sight can do you can do better, friends can mock or laugh at you, let them do it just don't be a lazyman, be hardwork, ensure that you excell in your chosen career and you will be the one helping or even employing those that are laughing at you now. Goodluck!

The fact that you foolishly gave a bltch a gift you pay for a period of 1 year makes you not just foolish but mentally unstable, I can bet mylife this idiat won't do same his sibling maybe to pay school fees or if her mom asked that amount.

Well to all those advising you to get back the phone, I dint read in the writeup that the girl was putting a gun on your head, you gave her at will so deal with it. My policy, never give anyone ( babe ) what you can't easily let go.

Its so my dear. A dear virgin friend of mine lost her virginity to a guy. He has gone to her family, introduced her to his mom. Did formal family introduction as in all his people fixed a date and went to see all her people and all that wahala. Then a few weeks later pressured her to give him her virginity saying shebi wedding day has been fixed and her people know his people already. Unfortunately she did. Days later he sent a messg that he cant marry her as he wants to travel abroad to further his studies and doesnt want her to wait for him.
Shey she go ask him to return her flower ni?
Sometimes love gives us all! But, sometimes it seems to have taken all from us.
Do you think she will give it back? Or do you think you can get it back? If yes, then take it back. if it isnt "takable" then leave it. That small act may trigger some more wahala o.

Guy,,, go collect Ur phone jare, how u go fall maga to babe just like that?? Call her to a spot which you kno she will definitely come with the phone, don't say anything, just collect the phone and walk away. Later send her text to deliver the charger.. omor naija ni mi oo.

What is she still doing on your BBM ?


Concentrate on paying the debt back and learn your lesson that no amount of money or financial stress can buy a lady over.

As for the phone, you will sound M0r0nic saying "Give me my phone back" A real man should not even reason that.

Wow wow wow wow !!!!!!!

I will so be immature about this, cuz I'm getting my phone back, I don't a fucckk what anyone thinks of me...

go and wear my shoe then come and give advise


abeg bro collect your property

hannesy:
Eyaaaa sorrry ooooo play mature 4get it jst prove her wrong

Y'all better stop talking about maturity here. That girl is nothing but a big time love peddler taking advantage of the gullible all in the name of love? abeg abeg abeg!!!!!!!