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| Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by Phoenixfrank(op): 7:04pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
In the spirit of maturity and to convince ur ex that u are doing very well without her. And u dont feel abit of hurt. You discover that u want to fake ur smiles, send her birthday messages, sometimes a gift or a card, pretend to have be enjoying a small chat, pretend u are happy for her new boyfriend; u know u get to ask her about him, ask about her studies, siblings and parents. Y'know things that could make u look matured and happy. I dunno what u do. What do u guys think and have u had this experience? |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by Nobody: 7:07pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
What's the need for the pretence ? Be who you are and do whatever you want to do irrespective of their opinion . 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by Lovetinz(m): 7:09pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
And how would you explain that to your new girl? Stop all avoidable communications. 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by Tymax(m): 7:11pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Don't be nice to her without good reason- especially if she broke your heart. Treat her like every other person. No extra favors. After all, she is no longer special. There is nothing mature about faking smiles or being Mr Nice Guy. Why do you need to pretend so you can impress a heartbreaker? Just stay normal. 3 Likes |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by chigoizie7(m): 7:12pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Truth be told, why being hostile to ur ex? Be friendly, believe me,there is no need for malice in dis small world. 2 Likes |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by Phoenixfrank(op): 7:16pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Lovetinz:I really don't intend to have another relationship after the broke up. |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by Phoenixfrank(op): 7:18pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Tymax:You got my point I decided that I will treat like another of my female friends, and y'know u gotta be nice to the ladies |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by Tymax(m): 7:20pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Phoenixfrank:Well I'm not nice to ladies unless they have earned it. 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by Lovetinz(m): 7:32pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Phoenixfrank:1. An ex-lover is not just another female frind. 2. As long as you are still texting and calling, you haven't broken up. You are just having an extended chill session. |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by Phoenixfrank(op): 8:34pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Lovetinz:Well, she is with someone now. The break up was understood |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by Phoenixfrank(op): 8:36pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Tymax:I like ur perception but people are different though |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by Tymax(m): 8:39pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Phoenixfrank:  |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by bynat(f): 8:44pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Break every line of communication pls.[color=#990000][/color] 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Suppose To Be Nice To My Ex by SRT8: 8:45pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Only be nice when your paths cross, or when she calls you for help. . . Chasing her around town in the name of calls, gifts, remembering her birthday, asking after her parents blah blah, is just borderline silly. Shows you might never get over her. 2 Likes |
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