shayneharvey:
he is very very selfish!!!

if I had 20 cars, I sure as hell won't still give a bicycle talkmore of 1 of the cars. Even if I love her to pieces, she should be more concerned about getting the ring than a friggin car

Tashamania:
Ask him for permissions to use the car. Its his car, not yours. And you're not his wife.. I don't know why this is a big deal.
You can ask him for it jokingly but don't call him selfish, for the fact you are giving him sexx doesn't mean he must please you all round. Women sha! We can be greedy oh.

I'm sure you are enjoying other benefits that comes with been the woman of a car owner, yet you're not satisfied until he gives you one..

I like u so much dat I must marry u in my next world

Tabh:

Tha fu#k is blunderfull? Seriously boy,you need to pull a gun through the brains of whoever taught you English language.
I knew you were a dummy right from your first quote,not my fault anyway. I don't need to explain my post to you cos you or any fool isn't responsible for my being.
I don't blame you,i blame the stupid chicks who depend on you for small change,send them to me for re-orientation.
You keep mentioning biiiitch,dwag,are you on heat? Do not forget to say me well to my mentor,my most senior colleague(i mean your momma),incase the senior biiitch is dead,take a trip to hell and tell her one of her breeds says hi.
If this is the statement that hurts you,i still stand by it. MEN HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER WOMEN EXCEPT THEIR DiiiCKs. You in particular have nothing to offer any woman except being a "cry baby". Stop whining mofo.

meeen!! Dis girl is very mean ooo. See sharp mouth. If I were d guy u were attacking like dis, I will be speechless after this Ur thunderbolt. I personally think d guy over reacted sha.

But seriously, I like Ur sharp mouth. It cud come in handy in some situations. Can we hook up?

Op,I like d way u composed urself despite the comments,is not like he doesn't luv u but some pple are self centred and also not considerate,I wud hv told u of a frnds xperience in her hubby's houz but I dnt like long post. Just talk to him abt it,dat is if u can drive. Also don't push the car issue else he may think otherwise. *keep ur thots far far from nairaland,u can discuss ur issues out with a mature mind and not bring it here*

dem tell u say wealth is sexually transmitted?

Define "my man". Is he your boyfriend, fiancé, or your husband? I think that matters. How long have you been together, etc. it all depends on how he sees you and the kind of relationship you have.

But all said and done, pls aim at buying your own. I think thats your best shot. Besides trekking is "healthy"

I love d replies I see here, bitch just thinks she would sit her lazy butt without Hustle

Worry about his heart not ya entitlement to his possession.

Vivly:
You TREK around??
So you don't even have #50 for transport fare yet you want a car?

You never even offer to pay the insurance? All you offer is insult of selfishness and request of "give me one".. What happens when you waste it in an accident? Will you be there with the insurance claim you paid for to replace the car? Or will you be selfish to leave him there to be treking because his cars are finished from accident? Maybe its best to leave you treking so that you dont leave him treking in the future with no cars and no money...
I have money to buy a car but i have no car and i trek, it keeps me in good shape and saving money for the future seen and unseen needs..

Idowuogbo:

She'll ask him to hand over his salary. Yeye dey smell... to think she could even come up with the word 'selfish' on top something wey her one kobo no dey inside sef fit provoke the bobo.

Op,I pity you... go use greed collect sack letter you hia? Smh

lol..... wickedt. #noPity

firstEVA:
He just bought another car, isn't he suppose to give me one, is it that he doesn't genuinely love me or he's just being selfish.

see what you wrote yourself...... selfish ontop gf wey u be? U are the selfish one here better change ur attitude cos with this ..... u nor go last for man house... dem go panel beat u go ur papa house.... Shey u wan still drive car? #goldDigger

Sweetlemon:


I owe you a plate of freshly prepared ekpang nkukwo.


Sad thing is that all these fish-brained girls here don't know it. They are here forming good girl. LMAO!

You killed it. But being a good girl is not bad oo, its being naïve that's bad. My boyfriend then had just one car but he doesn't like to see me trek. The day I was gisting him about something and included entering keke napep in the discussion it was wahala. He was like how can his gf enter Keke, Why didn't I collect money for cab? If I tell him I just strolled to get something, the next thing he will say is 'are you kidding me? why didn't you come and take the car? oya where are you let me come and pick you. My friends so envied me. That's being treated like a queen by a guy that knows your worth not all this stockfish guys that will be forming what I don't know. Even if we are fighting, I know that trekking is off limits.

I had a meeting sometime ago, he dropped me at the meeting then parked the car there and went to hang around somewhere till I was done before he came and drove me home and that wasn't the first time he was doing it. When a woman is loyal to you, you learn to appreciate her.

wicked wicked comments in this thread

firstEVA:
He just bought another car, isn't he suppose to give me one, is it that he doesn't genuinely love me or he's just being selfish.

Buy yours and stop making noise

booqee:
the mod who put this on front page just want to humiliate the op firstEVA

anything for the traffic

I'm here to read comment, and i really enjoy myself .

'giving him sex' I have never heard something as degrading to the woman as this since 'fishbrain'.
Sex is mutual!

OgaTheTop2:
For all the years I've known my woman I've been paying for house rents, I've bought and changed two cars, I've bought land and done so many other financial obligations single handedly. Then I changed job to federal job. While on probation I didn't have much to spend. I needed money, I needed to pay rent and buy another car. I sold my car to meet up with some financial obligations due to change of job and environment. During this downtime, I asked my woman for support financially. She refused. She said she was into contributions at her office. Contributions in two places o , while I worked my azz out. Things later picked up for me. My entitlements were paid. I bought another car and three months later bought a jeep. She's been on my neck for driving lessons and ultimately release the car for her use. I never bothered. I told her to use her office contribution for buying a car of her choice. As to release my car, No way!

VERY FUNNY DUDE. THE IRONY IS THAT NO ONE WILL HEAR OUTSIDE WEN U ARE BEGGING HER FOR HER SUPPORT, AND I AM SURE SHE MIGHT HAVE INFORMED HER FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES AT OFFICE WHO WILL GIVE HER ADVICE AGAINST YOU. NOW, WEN U ARE DOING UR OWN, EVERYONE MUST HEAR OUTSIDE, JUST LIKE THIS OP. THANK GOD FOR MY WOMAN, SHE IS VERY SUPPORTIVE EVEN WEN THINGS ARE NOT REALLY MOVING ON AT HOME. JUST LIKE RECENTLY, SHE KNEW THAT I HV SOME CHALLENGES FINANCIALLY, WHILE I WAS THINKING OF PAYING MY CHILDREN SCHOOL FEES, SHE TOLD ME SHE HAD ALREADY PAID IT , FROM HER SAVED POCKET MONEY I WAS GIVING HER EVEN BEFORE SCHOOL RESUMED. IF I HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY, WHY WONT I BUILD A HOUSE FOR HER?
WOMEN NEED TO CHANGE THEIR MENTALITY TOTALLY ESPECIALLY TOWARDS A LOVING AND HARD WORKING HUBBY.

me get dis inside ur head,since is not ur husband rather ur man me get dis inside ur head,since is not ur husband rather ur man, so why are u worried and greedy wat is not urs

letme get dis inside ur head,since is not ur husband rather ur man me get dis inside ur head,since is not ur husband rather ur man, so why are u worried and greedy wat is not urs

#FirstEva...why did you create this thread? I don't really get it. You want over 1m Nairaland Members to go talk to your BF?

Op, learn to be contented...did you even discuss this before posting this on a public forum...

Naija girls be like, collecting advices that ruins their rship since 1960's....

You should talk to him to know why he dosent like driving u in his car

Khalessi:
How much did you contribute to buying any of the cars?

wicked gal see as u finish d op

There are times a lady must sit down to ponder on some issues, be it relationship related, family related or career related. The " man" in question isn't your husband my dear, and be very careful of the attitude you portray. Him getting a new car for himself doesn't mean he should give you the old one. You can survive without his car. Strive to get yours my dear. If he wants to give you he will without you having to say it. You have to be very careful so you won't loose this " committed relationship" there are attitudes women portray that makes a man leave a relationship.My dear, focus your mind on making yourself a more better and independent woman as the day goes by. You never can tell what his plans towards you are.

When you date a "Big boy" it should at least rub off, too many [size=58pt]SELF CENTERED GUYS HERE[/size] and [size=58pt]HYPOCRITICAL LADIES[/size]

Vivly:
You TREK around??
So you don't even have #50 for transport fare yet you want a car?

mumu you should have known she didn't use trek literally

firstEVA:
He just bought another car, isn't he suppose to give me one, is it that he doesn't genuinely love me or he's just being selfish.

Your man's money is not yours. Go make your own money and buy your own car.

kilokeys:

humor intended o...
na hearsay o..

nah.. i have never seen one in my life.

A beauriful morng to my crush...enjoy ur wkend

@firstEVA broke dude? It would interest u to know that I'm richer than you and your hopeless existence. Might you I pay my own bills and I don't depend on any one unlike your lazy asss. The only purpose you have in life is to satisfy the Sexual urge in men and nothing more.

CoCoLav:



You killed it. But being a good girl is not bad oo, its being naïve that's bad. My boyfriend then had just one car but he doesn't like to see me trek. The day I was gisting him about something and included entering keke napep in the discussion it was wahala. He was like how can his gf enter Keke, Why didn't I collect money for cab? If I tell him I just strolled to get something, the next thing he will say is 'are you kidding me? why didn't you come and take the car? oya where are you let me come and pick you. My friends so envied me. That's being treated like a queen by a guy that knows your worth not all this stockfish guys that will be forming what I don't know. Even if we are fighting, I know that trekking is off limits.

I had a meeting sometime ago, he dropped me at the meeting then parked the car there and went to hang around somewhere till I was done before he came and drove me home and that wasn't the first time he was doing it. When a woman is loyal to you, you learn to appreciate her.

Will u call him selfish and term him as uncaring if he doesn't do all what u mentioned above?

Babe wake up from dat dream b4 u die in ur sleep ur man not ur husband u wan drive person sweat go scratch den say BABY is it not dat stupid car? When u marry means ull nid a BEAST oh baby park well oh...... Go bk ya papa hauz