ocelot2006:


Feel free to buy YOUR own car with YOUR own money.

It shouldn't be that hard.

shut the he'll up stingy thing, why is he my boyfriend if he cannot be there for me, shior

Admin, some talk need nt to b on front page, but anywayz u need to stop putting eyes into wat his doing den one day body go tell am.

CoCoLav:



You killed it. But being a good girl is not bad oo, its being naïve that's bad. My boyfriend then had just one car but he doesn't like to see me trek. The day I was gisting him about something and included entering keke napep in the discussion it was wahala. He was like how can his gf enter Keke, Why didn't I collect money for cab? If I tell him I just strolled to get something, the next thing he will say is 'are you kidding me? why didn't you come and take the car? oya where are you let me come and pick you. My friends so envied me. That's being treated like a queen by a guy that knows your worth not all this stockfish guys that will be forming what I don't know. Even if we are fighting, I know that trekking is off limits.

I had a meeting sometime ago, he dropped me at the meeting then parked the car there and went to hang around somewhere till I was done before he came and drove me home and that wasn't the first time he was doing it. When a woman is loyal to you, you learn to appreciate her.

So did the whole thing lead to marriage? Well, I wouldn't do what he did, as in driving you around and hanging around, waiting for your meeting to be over and then driving you home.. Sounds sick to me when I know pretty well am not your driver, but on the other hand, if I get paid on monthly basis to drive you around, I don't see a big deal there (tho I don't intend to do that kinda job). But if my girl is sick, I can take her wherever she wanna go, otherwise she should drive herself..
I basically see all the guy did to you as pretence, else he would have married you, bath, brush, dress u up, wash your cloth, sweep, cook, and clean the house for you on daily basis.
Those kinda guys still change when they meet a girl they love more than you. Its just the realities of life. And he was screaming at you for taking keke napep, so I and other guys and girls/ladies that use keke napep are not humans or what?
That dude was just acting out a Hollywood series that was bound to have an end..

shayneharvey:
he is very very selfish!!!

and u are very very very very greedy

francizy:


So did the whole thing lead to marriage? Well, I wouldn't do what he did, as in driving you around and hanging around, waiting for your meeting to be over and then driving you home.. Sounds sick to me when I know pretty well am not your driver, but on the other hand, if I get paid on monthly basis to drive you around, I don't see a big deal there (tho I don't intend to do that kinda job). But if my girl is sick, I can take her wherever she wanna go, hence she should drive herself..
I basically see all the guy did to you as pretence, else he would have married you, bath, brush, dress u up, wash your cloth, sweep, cook, and clean the house for you on daily basis.
Those kinda guys still change when they meet a girl they love more than you. Its just the realities of life. And he was screaming at you for taking keke napep, so I and other guys and girls/ladies that use keke napep are not humans or what?
That dude was just acting out a Hollywood series that was bound to have an end..

Where do I start from to address your write up.

The only reason I left him was because of his faith. He didn't believe in God and tried to stop me from going to church. Always complaining about my church activities. He was caring like that until the last day. He never stopped. When I started dating him, he didn't have a car so he didn't do all that to get me. Hope that answers your questions.

And about the Keke Napep whatever, you want to bring another side to that statement. Even my brother doesnt like me entering Keke. He says if breeze blows, it can blow the keke away. Everyone has their reasons. My father doesn't let me take bike but does it mean those that take bikes aren't human beings? Bro, to each man his own.

apostlelic:
Hay yo woman must be ripping from what u sole long time ago, i strongly believe that u use to mock him with his ancient smoking car or bike, yo rather go on foot than to enter it and now things are getting better and u want a car, you started the whole bullshit okay, you always rely on ur leggedis bence 2.1 than to go with him in that smoking car..
I have witness other couples just like u and the major reason they trek is what i have just told u now...

Just so you stand corrected....Its "SOW" not "SOLE"......"REAPING" not "RIPPING".

Julieee:
shut the he'll up stingy thing, why is he my boyfriend if he cannot be there for me, shior

he is ur boyfriend nt ur father or husband....mtchew

ferdimako:

But when the ladies have...they don't give. So?

I don't know the type of ladies you roll with but many of us, give to our men.

CoCoLav:


Where do I start from to address your write up.

The only reason I left him was because of his faith. He didn't believe in God and tried to stop me from going to church. Always complaining about my church activities. He was caring like that until the last day. He never stopped. When I started dating him, he didn't have a car so he didn't do all that to get me. Hope that answers your questions.

And about the Keke Napep whatever, you want to bring another side to that statement. Even my brother doesnt like me entering Keke. He says if breeze blows, it can blow the keke away. Everyone has their reasons. My father doesn't let me take bike but does it mean those that take bikes aren't human beings? Bro, to each man his own.

If he so much loved u and was that caring, he should have joined you in ur religious life.. And there we go, I can actually do that for a girl I love, but you super hero guy couldn't, therefore, agree with you on the "to each man his own" tho...

freecocoa:
na wa o, why assume im not calm na? Anyways I didn't understand the question that's why it sounded like that.

I don't know about other women so I'm speaking for myself, I believe a woman should contribute financially to the household need.

I asked that, if you needed help and know for sure that your partner could help but won't, how would you feel/what would you do?

I will...
If my partner was worth it and not a leech

Also u r different in your outlook of joint support

freecocoa:
I don't know the type of ladies you roll with but plenty of us, give to our men.

but not a car. Especially wen ur Dad or mum is still trekking

francizy:


If he so much loved u and was that caring, he should have joined you in ur religious life.. And there we go, I can actually do that for a girl I love, but you super hero guy couldn't, therefore, agree with you on the "to each man his own" tho...

If you say he should have changed his religion for me then why couldn't I do the same? So he should be the one compromising? I can never force a man I love to change because of me he might later resent me for it. I will try to love him for who he is with all his curves and edges but some things are dealbreakers. We actually discussed this but because I hold God over him, I can only pray that he sees the light. I want him to choose Christianity because he believes and he has a conviction that Jesus is the saviour and he died for his sins and not because of Cocolav.

If you can change your religion for a girl, then it means you would change it when the next girl comes. That means you were only playing religion. Religion is a way of life and you don't just change your way of life.

ferdimako:

They don't wanna spend once a man is in d picture and they don't give u when u are down. It is my money my money and your money our money.

Lol

Our ladies......

firstEVA:
He just bought another car, isn't he suppose to give me one, is it that he doesn't genuinely love me or he's just being selfish.

Maybe it's cos he luvs u. Maybe he is goin to sell it n do other things wit d money, maybe he is sellin it to plan for ur marriage, maybe gettin a personal haus, maybe he is goin to replace it wit a new one for u. A Lot of maybes... pls try n think positively. And hav it @ d back of ur mind dat he is not yet officially n rightly urs.

Pls click on dis link nd type.....I VOTE JENNIMMA...SHE DESERVES D CROWN
Thankz.

https://www.nairaland.com/1986755/miss-nairaland december 2014 contest.

MUAAH

CoCoLav:


If you say he should have changed his religion for me then why couldn't I do the same? So he should be the one compromising? I can never force a man I love to change because of me he might later resent me for it. I will try to love him for who he is with all his curves and edges but some things are dealbreakers. We actually discussed this but because I hold God over him, I can only pray that he sees the light. I want him to choose Christianity because he believes and he has a conviction that Jesus is the saviour and he died for his sins and not because of Cocolav.

If you can change your religion for a girl, then it means you would change it when the next girl comes. That means you were only playing religion. Religion is a way of life and you don't just change your way of life.

Oh! Thought he's a Christian but doesn't like going to church, didn't know he's a muslim. Thats actually a difficult situation cuz i cant leave Christianity for Islam so i understand why he couldnt keave Islam for Christianity..Its all good..

lanicky:
Pls click on dis link nd type.....I VOTE JENNIMMA...SHE DESERVES D CROWN
Thankz.

https://www.nairaland.com/1986755/miss-nairaland december 2014 contest.

MUAAH

For how much?

He is afraid you Love his car more than him. Lol

jiddodo:



Maybe it's cos he luvs u. Maybe he is goin to sell it n do other things wit d money, maybe he is sellin it to plan for ur marriage, maybe gettin a personal haus, maybe he is goin to replace it wit a new one for u. A Lot of maybes... pls try n think positively. And hav it @ d back of ur mind dat he is not yet officially n rightly urs.

Or maybe he is going to give it to a baby mama he has at other place..

francizy:

Oh! Thought he's a Christian but doesn't like going to church, didn't know he's a muslim. Thats actually a difficult situation cuz i cant leave Christianity for Islam so i understand why he couldnt keave Islam for Christianity..Its all good..

Yeah.

francizy:


For how much?

2million dollars....hehe

Pls vote Jennimma

firstEVA:
gold digger how? Is it a dash? Just to use pending when I buy mine, whats so bad about that?

my friend go and buy ur own and stop posting trash. The next post will be"I crashed my boy friend's car and he is demanding for repair. I jst dislike people like u

I do not think I have come across a thread , with so many likes. This topic nah real hot potato !!!!

Shaakasi:
Sum guys buy cars for deir gf bt pls dnt disturb him about giving u a car tho
He can give u to drive around sumtyms if he wants
Save up girl and buy your own car
Dnt allow the issue of a mere car destroy the committed relationship u say u r in.

I knw the gal weller,she can't even pedal bicycle let alone voswagen she is expecting her fuckmate to give him...dreamer

LaurelP:
Girls pls pity us small nah
He shud just carry one car and give you?
Are u married to him?

lol bro.u funi die,bovi dy learn wrk for wer u dy

mezebel:
my friend go and buy ur own and stop posting trash. The next post will be"I crashed my boy friend's car and he is demanding for repair. I jst dislike people like u

I also dislike stupid hypocrites like you, u can't make a comment without garnishing same with subtle insult.

lanicky:


2million dollars....hehe

Pls vote Jennimma

Don't need your money jor, na only one night I want...

CoCoLav:



You killed it. But being a good girl is not bad oo, its being naïve that's bad. My boyfriend then had just one car but he doesn't like to see me trek. The day I was gisting him about something and included entering keke napep in the discussion it was wahala. He was like how can his gf enter Keke, Why didn't I collect money for cab? If I tell him I just strolled to get something, the next thing he will say is 'are you kidding me? why didn't you come and take the car? oya where are you let me come and pick you. My friends so envied me. That's being treated like a queen by a guy that knows your worth not all this stockfish guys that will be forming what I don't know. Even if we are fighting, I know that trekking is off limits.

I had a meeting sometime ago, he dropped me at the meeting then parked the car there and went to hang around somewhere till I was done before he came and drove me home and that wasn't the first time he was doing it. When a woman is loyal to you, you learn to appreciate her.

upon all dis goodies from ur man u still dey chop aboki kpomo for my corner.....my mouth dey leak o!

Khalessi:
How much did you contribute to buying any of the cars?

brilliant lady.dis one of ther best comment with highest like hv ever seen on NL

Julieee:
shut the he'll up stingy thing, why is he my boyfriend if he cannot be there for me, shior

be a good gal and u will be surprise the things that will follow

laroux:
@firstEVA broke dude? It would interest u to know that I'm richer than you and your hopeless existence. Might you I pay my own bills and I don't depend on any one unlike your lazy asss. The only purpose you have in life is to satisfy the Sexual urge in men and nothing more.

you this broke slowpoke is still lurking around like a jobless mofo. You say you are rich, hahaha, are you talking about your white woman's money? I laugh at you this miserable rat, I read your other posts and realise that you hate black women cos they demand stuffs from you, you prefer oyinbo so you can use their heads, don't worry, the juju you using on her will soon fade and your broke sorry arse will be in the streets. Daft

You better wake up to face what U know how to do better and stop this daylight dream of yours, OUR thing is different from MY thing. So ka ojue kuro......