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Re: I Need Help by Gboliwe: 6:34pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
olu4life: Is that what the brother told you? |
Re: I Need Help by Isiterere(m): 6:36pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
ifyalways:Pls calm down .... ALL IZZ WELL 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 6:39pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
olu4life:I thought these should be an emergency case. |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 6:39pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
ifyalways: Nne afukwana ifem furu? Ife nke a dikwa egwu oo. Amarom mgbe dibia ochie ji ka dibia bekee mma. Aghotazikwarom ife ndia na eme ebea oo. Ya abukwana na ezi na ulo djbola choro inara mmadu ego bocha? Ma gboto nwa ikorobia ahu na ulo ogwu? Okwa maka idunyere mmadu mmou nso . 6 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by austinoeze(m): 6:40pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
place ur right hand on ur stomach n repeat these words with faith "Father i am a sinner who is willing to give his life unto u, Lord i plead u forgive me and wash away all my sins, Lord whatever the devil and his agents are using against me i stand on ur words that say by ur stripes i am healed, Christ u r d great healer of all times, please heal me, any gathering of d wicked against my life, holy ghost fire!. i believe am healed. thank u Jesus, in Jesus name i pray Amen! if u've prayed this prayer i congratulate u because Christ d great healer is working on u now. 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 6:40pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Gboliwe: They seem not to realise that with each hour that passes his case is worsening. sorry all the faith pundits but I need to say this. The OP does not understand what faith is all about so we need to speak realistically now. How would u rate a hospital that does not have a doctor on call for 24hrs? a doctor that closes by 6pm with no substitute? so the OP has to "hold on" till tomorrow or even Thursday? So this hospital cannot differentiate between an emergency and one that isnt? I wish I had gone with the OP to that place. They would have known that naijadeyhia is in the house. 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by komek(m): 6:41pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
bebe2: This is the singular reason i dont like going to the hospital. Because most hospital workers are supposed to be carpenters and bricklayers. |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 6:43pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
austinoeze:Smh 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by Caracta(f): 6:45pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
delightful1: Abeg don't make me laugh. I'm not only tired but very angry. Lol 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 6:46pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
babyosisi: Sighs. I don't even know book You are the one who left your medical ethics at the door to diagnose an online patient you have not seen nor examined, with Cirrhosis and end stage liver failure and has recommended liver transplantation... Whereas the tests/scan/result, CEA, CA 19-9, etc, of the Clinician who examined the patient uploaded on this thread, so far, points to the Doctor investigating cancer as the underlying etiology of the diagnosis of malignant ascites he stated in his notes... And this is why the further scan is required to ascertain whether it's the Big C, and whether it is metastatic cancer or malignant hepatoma, and to find out its origin, stage, where it has spread to, etc... And where have I ever stated a liver biopsy is redundant? Did I not ask Olu4life earlier on in this thread to find out how much it costs at LUTH! I am tired of this coulda, woulda, shoulda argument. You win All I said to you initially was you and naijadeyhey should keep asking the patient further questions about his symptoms, etc, biko before assuming the worst on his matter... Hopefully all this will be a FALSE positive and ALL the patient will only need is lactulose or milk of magnesium or probiotic and all will be well and he will be free to go home 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 6:47pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
austinoeze: As you are mixing prayers, be mixing money for him too. All these peeps that just pray and leave, do you know that even if it is hundred naira that you deposited in his account, it will go a long way to help raise more money? 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 6:49pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
So much has happened in the past few hours and also a number of misconceptions. Seun . . . . . caracta and another nairalander confirmed the case. Caracta was there first and other nairalanders have also been to his home to visit him. Your FP header makes it look as if my mum was the only person who verifed the case, besides my mum is not a nairalander lol. . . . . Just to clear up that point. As regards the situation of things as they stand now, like many I am not comfortable with DJ not being in a specialist unit at the very least & no proper diagnosis, but we have to understand that when people/famiies are under stress they sometimes make not too clever descsions, which someone not under stress will not take. They have a sick relative and they are trying everything within their own understanding to get help for him Looking in from the outside, they havent chosen the best option, but to them they think they are doing the best for him. At the very least the doctor should have been informed and waiting for them rather than the other way round. Ideally, This whole effort should have been co-ordinated, and funds sent directly to the hospital that offers the best treatment, however unfortuantly due to the urgency of the situation and the lack of a dedicated team upfront on ground, this could not be achevied However all is not lost and people can still "monitor", "support" and "advise" the family Already I am sure that deep in them they know that their coming to Abeokuta and the doctor not even being able to see them today is not too good for DJ, however I pray for strenght for him and most importantly healing I dont think its a good idea to bother the doctor, he is already busy from the sounds of it and disturbing him and pressurizing him wont help the situation. Our prayer is that God sends capable and competent people DJ's way. 11 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 6:50pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Caracta:As in ehn! I don't even know What to make out of the whole repentance or is it confession prayer. I understand your 'anger' hopefully things get better. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by olu4life(m): 6:50pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Bunsky:Well he isn't the only one with emergency. That's why |
Re: I Need Help by tempem: 6:55pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
marcjane:God bless you Jane... 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 6:58pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
I really hope this guy makes it. 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 6:59pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Please the family should act fast 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by danbrowndmf(m): 6:59pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
[quote author=jaybee3 post=27858994] It's unreasonable to expect every single cry for help thread to graze the FP. These cases if and when alerted usually go through rigorous verification process so as to protect funds donated as well as ensure donations are used for the intended purpose. Hindsight is very easy to stress but please let's apply some sort of reason to the case at hand[/quote] but every tonto dike topic grace the FP. |
Re: I Need Help by lookmangiw(m): 7:04pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
It still surprising to me that the OP and his family can be taking this risk. With the way he was begging why he was still in luth over funds, it was only when the funds starting coming in that his families decided not to go to LUTH again using the embarassment they went through as an excuse not to return there. No life is worth any embarrassment, everybody here knows that when it comes to chronic medical cases, LUTH is the first point of call in these country. My humble advice is that hamed and his families should do the needful as soon as possible and stop all this charade. |
Re: I Need Help by tempem: 7:06pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Caracta:Why can't he travelled down there. Some people, henh!! Well don't want to insult anyone.. Well done, sis. I've been looking for ways to thank you for all you've been doing.... Now is the time, thank you, and God replenish all you have used and you're still using. |
Re: I Need Help by Caracta(f): 7:10pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
tempem: Amen. Thank you too. |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 7:13pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Can people know definitively what is being done before more money is sent? When it is known what the family plans to do exactly and what the doctor is actually doing before sending any more money. I am saying this because people may get heartbroken if this hospital Abeokuta / Oyo turns out to be money down the drain and may negatively affect others who need help in the future. People are contributing money and emotions. The initial request was for Luth and others suggested other good hospitals suddenly its a rural medicine specialist who obviously runs a one man show that is the option. Please no more money, let us know what is being done, how much is needed and a way forward 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help by margenta(f): 7:17pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
olu4life: Hmmm, who knows how many others on that queue are also having emergency situations, even more critical than the op. Bombarding the doctor with calls may not help his cause. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by okiezman(m): 7:18pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
redcliff: Your a mess already. u digust me |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 7:19pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
olu4life: Way forward? Till the family decide what they want. All I can advice is no more money till we know what exactly they intend to do |
Re: I Need Help by Mrfils(m): 7:20pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
aisha2:Pls ma, dnt talk like dat. Let those who want to help kindly do so. Dnt b discouragement to others pls. God bless U 4 ur support 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by pickabeau1: 7:20pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
I tend to agree with you at this juncture aisha2: 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by pickabeau1: 7:21pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
chaircover: The bolded is the reason why a group is needed to be set up or activated to handle this 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 7:24pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
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Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 7:24pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Mrfils: Please dont tell me.what to say. I have been a social worker for years, playing on peoples emotions is wrong because not everyone is strong. If you take your case to the public then be accountable to the public or else you ruin it for people who will need help in the future This is not sentiments this is serious, see people investing their time, energy and travelling up and down to ensure the op gets what he needs treatment wise. So tell me if all the money raised is spent in this rural clinic then when money finishes they say they cant handle it and send him back to juth will you go and beg these people to contribute again? 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by margenta(f): 7:24pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
aryzgreat: Maybe they didn't know he'd get as much help and planned to work within realistic budget. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by Gidigidi3(m): 7:24pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
chaircover: It is very clear dat majority of us are angry at the decision of the family. Please and please, those who can speak d language should call the elder brother and inform him of our displeasure. Tell them in clear terms to take him to UCH as was suggested. Based on this and further tests we can work on plan B if need be. #flydjtoindia. With the way things are unfolding, this anger will turn to loss of interest soon. Though i put him in prayers during this evening mass. 100k from me if it comes to plan B. My last bullet as i watch from the sides. 3 Likes |
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