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J3nnyluv:
Maybe just maybe...
Y do guys ask such qstn? Ansa: Cos every guy want to atleast disvirgin one gal in deir lyf tym.

[size=13pt]False!!!! Where do girls get their details from? Guys don't exactly fancy disvirgining girls because it is a big responsibility (attachment issue). Personally I won't mind disvirgining my wife, but if she isn't its not a problem.

Only really bad minded guys go around disvirgining girls for the fun of it. Some girls even offer it but who want s wahala[/size]

sallysalsa:
What is ju-men?
A lot of us react to the question based on experience from our interaction from the opposite sex. At 16 I was a virgin and my bf never believed me because I looked like an oversexed teen.I told my second bf and he said o you think I am a fool.today am 25 still a virgin I didn't bother telling the last couple because they won't believe. I now work hard to create an image of an enlightened woman so my gfs won't think am a novice and the guys around me won't see me as a Liar trying to fool them.

Abeg remember me when you wan auction your virginity.

@op i think the question is not peculiar to women only...we all must try and learn to accommodate everyone irrespective of their flaws.call them virgin or not , i think the most important consideration to make in life is to check fellows with bearable characters.......what is the need of being a friend to a virgin without human pity and compassion

am 19 nd a virgin but i know i wil alwayz be a virgin coz i cn neva dizvirgin

iamchiddy:
you look familiar. i grew up in Onitsha.
My bros married from Umudim, E/Ukwu

Okay, kool

remsonik:
Well it depends on who is asking and the level of closeness between us btw

That's it! If you are very close to the lady, with a high degree of trust, then I see no reason why she would be stiff answering such question. It's a personal issue and should not be told to just anybody.

abdulkayus:
Enugwu Ukwu before Abagana in Njikoka LG of Anambra state.
I served in Anambra state, Nawfia precisely more than two years ago.
First time of coming to the East . Still has good of Anambra, wish to visit there again one day

Yeah, ur correct. Its bfr Abagana. Hmmm datz nice to know

nnekamezor:
Yeah, ur correct. Its bfr Abagana. Hmmm datz nice to know

nne how was ur 9t? Hapy sunday

nnekamezor:
Okay, kool

which side of Lagos are you?

AgapeCharis:
u couldn't handle it?? Why did u ask den
BTW no one is perfect.

Ya nid to mature o

I know, like I said it was my first time. We still remain good friends not that I dispise her.

nnekamezor:
Okay, kool

which part of Lagos are you?

canalily:
nne how was ur 9t? Hapy sunday

Kool ooo, hp urs wasnt bad?....same to u

[quote author=iamchiddy post=28063067]which side of Lagos are you?[/quote) Mainland

nnekamezor:
Kool ooo, hp urs wasnt bad?....same to u

splendid

ireneony:
why would any guy ask that kind question, as if any girl will go all around asking her male friends if they are virgins.
guys who ask those questions are hungry lions

that's not true

I don't normally ask, until I found out that a churchy girl I was chasin for almost a year was not what I thought she was. When I met her in a friends place he told me "aah guy forget that girl na church girl oooo, na virgin mary she be she nor go reason u @all" I took the bold step,talked to her then she echoed "no sex" and I echoed fine. We were like that for over a year..my friend relocated and one I went to her place with my friend we saw her she decide to know my friends place coz they were friends. We got there we were playin, I inserted my hand inside her jean, she wasn't wear panties this gingered me I pressed further..dear sist big hole dey there I left her..
When I called her later and talked about it, she said did you ask me before

The next babe i asked simply said NO there is nothing wrong in asking. The manner off asking is what couunt!!

dhamstar:
Black people with black mentality....................... This don't In the UK where I reside.

Ur father...........




Sori seun,

jeje123:
haa lagbaja curseeee

. Meaning?.. Am covered wit the blood of Jesus Christ

I dnt know the biggie in this matter at all...Naija girls and there penchant for drama sef.na only una different for this whole world and i dnt mean that in a good way at all.Why shud anyone say that this is a private question?whats's the diff btw asking if you're a virgin and if u've had sex?na waoo....OP let me tell u straight-up...In the course of many conversations with diff girls,this question came up and trust me the one's who feel uncomfortable or who would go on the offensive are the ones who are nt virgins.I find out that when virgins are asked that question,they always answer proudly and feel no discomfort.Well let me give u non-virgin girls a bit of news: most guys dnt dig virgins and i'm one of them trust me.Why would i abandon a 'freak in the sheets' and get down with a chic who knws nothing ( at least practically ) about good sex and will cry and give me drama when 'junior' is hungry? SMH

Vivipop:
Exactly! @op,some things are meant to be personal/private. Don't over step your boundaries.

You could have aired your view/opinion without quoting me.

singledude:
I dnt know the biggie in this matter at all...Naija girls and there penchant for drama sef.na only una different for this whole world and i dnt mean that in a good way at all.Why shud anyone say that this is a private question?whats's the diff btw asking if you're a virgin and if u've had sex?na waoo....OP let me tell u straight-up...In the course of many conversations with diff girls,this question came up and trust me the one's who feel uncomfortable or who would go on the offensive are the ones who are nt virgins.I find out that when virgins are asked that question,they always answer proudly and feel no discomfort.Well let me give u non-virgin girls a bit of news: most guys dnt dig virgins and i'm one of them trust me.Why would i abandon a 'freak in the sheets' and get down with a chic who knws nothing ( at least practically ) about good sex and will cry and give me drama when 'junior' is hungry? SMH

'Give it to him?is it something tangible like money that I could use in getting myself a G-Wagon?girl you dnt see urself giving it out in 6 years because you are scared of the pain whn an anaconda like mine tears it's way inside you..most of u are afraid and claim u are intentionally holding off or that u r doing it by choice.Whn u finally give it up and start enjoying getting fu.k.ed u will look bak and ask urself why you actually waited that long trust me.

I have deflowered 2 girls in my life so far and trust me it's not a memory i like going back to...the first one took hours and the second took days.Remembering myself stressing about busting a hole;sweating and aching only to bust the hole,f.uc.kin her while she moans like she wants to pass out and me c.u.min.g and then asking myself : was it really worth my time and effort to try breaking down a heavily locked door whn i could just go 2 an open door in the next room,pass thru it and breath some fresh air.

mirabell23:
To remain a virgin a decision we all hav to make our selves am 17 and still a virgin.and i dont see my self loosin it to any guy in da nxt 6 years.....its difficult for most guys to believe and i dont knw y...probably cos dey hav never been with a virgin...dosent mean u shld also say dere r no more virgins.....my frnds sometimes make me feel bad weneva dey say ' babe u r missin out....just look for a guy daz worth it..nd giv it to him...u r nt yet a woman'.......mornin y'all

Genea:
lol,kilonsele are dey sharing money ni
@op most times d question is embarrasing and feels like u r washing some1 dirty linen in public

so u know it's dirty linen but u can't help keeping it dirty

mickykhe:
Ur father...........




Sori seun,

Who is seun?

odepacy:
Why most u asked?

La wa oo!

merieam16:
Don't kno wat 2 say cos am still a virgin

pipeline!

nnekamezor:
Yeah it is ooo..buh on oda hand it still a private matter. It still boils down to ones choice in disclosing

...well....like you said, it's a matter of choice.

coldFLARES1:
. When u were 16, your first bf erroneously viewed u as a over-sexed teen and then u moved on. U are now 25, having had 9 years of relationships with at least 2 guys and u are still a virgin. Some guys have been served! U deserve a PLAQUE

Thomas! How ur side??

coolxpat:
I know, like I said it was my first time. We still remain good friends not that I dispise her.

Kk

[quote author=olorunsogo1 post=28053002]Thank God for those who still fight hard to please God. We are proud of them![/quote
God's standard, precepts and ordinances have not changed. May God help us to do what is right always. Happy Sunday bro.

sallysalsa:
What is ju-men?
A lot of us react to the question based on experience from our interaction from the opposite sex. At 16 I was a virgin and my bf never believed me because I looked like an oversexed teen.I told my second bf and he said o you think I am a fool.today am 25 still a virgin I didn't bother telling the last couple because they won't believe. I now work hard to create an image of an enlightened woman so my gfs won't think am a novice and the guys around me won't see me as a Liar trying to fool them.

its ppl lyk u dat I've always dreamed of being with. Ppl who value their personal morality and uphold it. I'm solidly behind you!

Question:are you a virgin? Answer:e concern you?

D question could be derogatory sometimes

;DHaha if u still be virgin keep it ooo is ur virture for those wey don loose their own jst remain disvirgined.