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DieeDiee:
Walanter = air

lol prime..... Ur points ar wick to mi .the velocity at which u ar try trying to gravitate with... is of low thinking and it met kil someone if not cut of..
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walanter:
lol prime..... Ur points ar wick to mi .the velocity at which u ar try trying to gravitate with... is of low thinking and it met kil someone if not cut of..
plain

If you want to say something to me you are need to learn English. I do not speak or understand ignorant language.

Ps before you use big people language it will help you immensely to learn the meaning of words first

DieeDiee:
Just curious: Have you ever had a differing opinion to his to something important? Did you suppress it or express it? If you expressed it, what was his reaction and how did that make you feel? (Really am curious, I'm trying to understand the kind of relationship you have)

Btw I find it hard to believe he only has complements for your outfits. Surely if he is someone who likes judging your clothes there have been outfits he hasn't liked, unless you deliberately dress in a way you know he will find pleasing...? In which case that means you have absolutely no mind of your own in this relationship. Do you not then see that not being allowed/given the opportunity to have a mind of your own means he has authority and power over you? In other words you are a child and he is your father?

pls how old are u,i hope u are more dan 18yrs ooo,if u are,so sorry abt ur shallow tinkin...did i tell u his complement on me is only on cloths...i av notin to xplain to u agn cos i blive u are underage... all i kno is i av d best r/ship.

Chiadanin:
This is my anthem:

I am a feminist and damn proud of it !! I think there's a misunderstanding on what a feminist means. Please listen to Bey's "flawless"- and that Nigerian (?) lady's definition.

I love love men. Well, in theory. Practically, there's some shades of grey there to my likes.

I love being a woman. I love dressing as such, acting as such (grace, elegance and strength, resilience, intelligence).

Yea, I get emotional and sensitive at times, but I also can display strength, get aggressive when it calls for it.

I also have no problem being submissive- man or woman, younger, older, different culture etc. I see that as a strength not weakness.

I am physician and a business woman and conduct myself professionally. I am also very playful, silly, get dirty, cook/clean etc.

The key is in knowing when to stand your ground and when to take a sit; speak or silence; stand out or blend in etc.

For me, I straddle the middle ground in most things life. Only rarely does situations call for extremes.

Acquire the personality of flexibility/compromise, teachable, humility. It goes a long ways in any relationship.


PS: Lean in by sheryl sandberg is a great book for this topic specifically in the work place.

If all feministts are like u,plss I need one in my liFe NOW. U are a real wonan. Not like stupid selfish immature unrealiseic runs-girl DieeDiee with her Arab aristos. She go soon hear am when she go don marry finish. If she ever marries shaa. I pitty her.

conscript1967:
If all feministts are like u,plss I need one in my liFe NOW. U are a real wonan. Not like stupid selfish immature unrealiseic runs-girl DieeDiee with her Arab aristos. She go soon hear am when she go don marry finish. If she ever marries shaa. I pitty her.

If that was meant to be an insult it went right over my head. As I said, I don't speak ignorant ... Next insult...

Ps: I've said over and over again I don't consider myself a feminist. The reason I don't cook or clean has nothing to do with feminism it's because I've never needed to learn or do manual labour. Some of us can afford to pay people to cook and clean for us

Midehi:
pls how old are u,i hope u are more dan 18yrs ooo,if u are,so sorry abt ur shallow tinkin...did i tell u his complement on me is only on cloths...i av notin to xplain to u agn cos i blive u are underage... all i kno is i av d best r/ship.

Why do you feel the need to insult? Do you feel better now? Do you feel more powerful? Do you use those insults on your "most wonderful, bestest boyfriend in the world"? Not once have I been rude to you. May I remind you, you are the one who chose to come here and speak about your relationship - its only natural I will ask questions.

I could very easily insult you back but my good upbringing holds me back. Honey, next time if you have nothing of value to say just shut up. The fact you can't answer my questions and you chose to show anger only proves I hit a nerve. I really was just asking. I was just curious about the mindset of someone who is supposedly a mature adult but needs another to tell her what is right or wrong. Can you not think for yourself that where you live is not safe and therefore work out the appropriate time to get home yourself? Who's the one with a child's mind here? I can certainly work out what time is appropriate for me to get home, when and how to do my errands I don't need a third party.
And love, next time read s-l-o-w-l-y you might have better comprehension . I never said he only complements you on clothes, I said he only has complements about your outfits that means he only has good things to say about your outfits that is a completely different meaning from what you say I said.

Engrish people! I know George belongs to England but come now it's not that hard.

DieeDiee:
Why do you feel the need to insult? Do you feel better now? Do you feel more powerful? Do you use those insults on your "most wonderful, bestest boyfriend in the world"?

I could very easily insult you back but my good upbringing holds me back. Honey, next time if you have nothing of value to say just shut up. The fact you can't answer my questions and you chose to show anger only proves I hit a nerve. I really was just asking. I was just curious about the mindset of someone who is supposedly a mature adult but needs another to tell her what is right or wrong. Can you not think for yourself that where you live is not safe and therefore work out the appropriate time to get home yourself? Who's the one with a child's mind here? I can certainly work out what time is appropriate for me to get home, when and how to do my errands I don't need a third party.
And love, next time read s-l-o-w-l-y you might have better comprehension . I never said he only complements you on clothes, I said he only has complements about your outfits that means he only has good things to say about your outfits that is a completely different meaning from what you say I said.

Engrish people! I know George belongs to England but come now it's not that hard.

U are stil vry daft...u are one way thinkin...Mr. know it all, what is Engrish..
Oh u created that thread yet you dont know what it meant,just created to insult fellas or probably you copied it,hmmmm,Behind up my dear..Lmao

DieeDiee:
If that was meant to be an insult it went right over my head. As I said, I don't speak ignorant ... Next insult...

Ps: I've said over and over again I don't consider myself a feminist. The reason I don't cook or clean has nothing to do with feminism it's because I've never needed to learn or do manual labour. Some of us can afford to pay people to cook and clean for us

Appologies hun. Insults are never my thing. But truth be told, you are lucky u are not nigerian. Cultures differ really. Here in Nigeria,a girl who can't cook n clean is considered a waste of space. Despite her other achievements she isn't "wife material" at all. That is the norm. Here,women with ur vew usually end up single. But cultures differ. Where u from?

walanter:
lol prime..... Ur points ar wick to mi .the velocity at which u ar try trying to gravitate with... is of low thinking and it met kil someone if not cut of..
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Agree with you...he is so daft

Midehi:
U are stil vry daft...u are one way thinkin...Mr. know it all, what is Engrish..
Oh u created that thread yet you dont know what it meant,just created to insult fellas or probably you copied it,hmmmm,Behind up my dear..Lmao

Engrish is what you speak because English is clearly above you. Case point? Saying Mr to a woman, well... Unless you used Mr to show I have an intelligence of a man which you clearly view as above yours in which case you mean my intelligence exceeds yours. So... THANK YOU!!!

conscript1967:
Appologies hun. Insults are never my thing. But truth be told, you are lucky u are not nigerian. Cultures differ really. Here in Nigeria,a girl who can't cook n clean is considered a waste of space. Despite her other achievements she isn't "wife material" at all. That is the norm. Here,women with ur vew usually end up single. But cultures differ. Where u from?

Stop telling lies please.
Large number of women who can cook are single.

Many high class women don't cook.
They have house cook and in some case, the cook would be a male.

Midehi:
Agree with you...he is so daft

Look at me cry at being insulted by someone who unlike a 2 year old can't think for herself how to hold a spoon ... PSYCHE!

DieeDiee:
LMAO!!!!!! *dead*
You are not a good man, you are nothing but a pathetic, sorry excuse of a human being. You only wish you are a man. All you are is a little boy trying to play big.

I pity you, can u see all d insult u av bn receivin?hahahahahahahaha....same thing am sayin,you jus av a small prik*wink*

DieeDiee:
Engrish is what you speak because English is clearly above you. Case point? Saying Mr to a woman, well... Unless you used Mr to show I have an intelligence of a man which you clearly view as above yours in which case you mean my intelligence exceeds yours. So... THANK YOU!!!

Oh she is evn a girl...no wonder,she ws furious cos she has bn jealos dat i av a guy better dan her,i shud av known...ops...hahahahahahahahahaha...My kudos goes to my Treasure..hehehehehe

conscript1967:
Appologies hun. Insults are never my thing. But truth be told, you are lucky u are not nigerian. Cultures differ really. Here in Nigeria,a girl who can't cook n clean is considered a waste of space. Despite her other achievements she isn't "wife material" at all. That is the norm. Here,women with ur vew usually end up single. But cultures differ. Where u from?

Apology accepted.

Before you call someone a waste of space again, think about this: G created us differently. Our abilities differ. Not all men are handy, not all men can lift a 20kg weight, not all men can fight but that does not make them any less of a man. What defines one is one's character. Medusa has proven herself that she lacks character and is not a lady, she is nothing more than a straat-meisie (loose translation - street lady as in lacks class and is undignified) there are even sex workers who have better class than her. A real lady always carries herself with decorum even when she is faceless and behind a computer.

DieeDiee:
Look at me cry at being insulted by someone who unlike a 2 year old can't think for herself how to hold a spoon ... PSYCHE!

Hahahahahahahaha...jealousyyyyyyy...u better compose ursef wella so u can get a man in ur life or u wan remain *ashere*?

Sorry meant midehi not medusa

DieeDiee:
Apology accepted.

Before you call someone a waste of space again, think about this: G created us differently. Our abilities differ. Not all men are handy, not all men can lift a 20kg weight, not all men can fight but that does not make them any less of a man. What defines one is one's character. Medunsa has proven herself that she lacks character and is not a lady, she is nothing more than a straat-meisie (loose translation - street lady as in lacks class and is undignified) there are even sex workers who have better class than her. A real lady always carries herself with decorum even when she is faceless and behind a computer.

Jus see wat she created her thread for...insultin a lady more mature,educated,classy dan her...quotin words to insult...taaaaa

Midehi:
Hahahahahahahaha...jealousyyyyyyy...u better compose ursef wella so u can get a man in ur life or u wan remain *ashere*?

You never get a chance to have your say, ane? It's okay babe. Go ahead release all that negativity you've been holding in. All though you attempts at insults keep falling flat on me: babe you are way below my league for you to have an effect on me ... Wack-wack-wack ... Soooorrrryyy

DieeDiee:
Sorry meant midehi not medusa

Oh oh....hehehehehehehe...d brain tinkin has damaged oooo,d daftnes has increased...little advice dear, go & relax ur brain a little ok,so dat small grammer go enter ur brain agn...bush animal

DieeDiee:
You never get a chance to have your say, ane? It's okay babe. Go ahead release all that negativity you've been holding in. All though you attempts at insults keep falling flat on me: babe you are way below my league for you to have an effect on me ... Wack-wack-wack ... Soooorrrryyy

Am only letting u know dat u are a FOOL

Midehi:
Jus see wat she created her thread for...insultin a lady more mature,educated,classy dan her...quotin words to insult...taaaaa

Mature? Babe, a 2 year old can decide for itself what to wear. A 7 year old can save and budget for itself that is why in my country a 7 year old is allowed to open a bank account ... What does that say about your level of intelligence?

Midehi:
I pity you, can u see all d insult u av bn receivin?hahahahahahahaha....same thing am sayin,you jus av a small prik*wink*

What a LOOSE GIRL.

You like your bf 'cos of prick. Smh

Midehi:
Am only letting u know dat u are a FOOL

A bigger fool than someone with an intelligence less than a 2 year old? :-/

DieeDiee:
Mature? Babe, a 2 year old can decide for itself what to wear. A 7 year old can save and budget for itself that is why in my country a 7 year old is allowed to open a bank account ... What does that say about your level of intelligence?

still on my...ur brain is daft,if nt you will understand all my writeup...go & rest your brain..biko..b4 it will blast

Midehi:
Oh oh....hehehehehehehe...d brain tinkin has damaged oooo,d daftnes has increased...little advice dear, go & relax ur brain a little ok,so dat small grammer go enter ur brain agn...bush animal

Sigh.. Another sign of your lack of intelligence. I was being sarcastic, there's a reason I called you Medusa. If you were educated as you claim you are you would know who Medusa was

Midehi:
still on my...ur brain is daft,if nt you will understand all my writeup...go & rest your brain..biko..b4 it will blast

Thank you for the concern but unlike you I don't have a pea size brain. Mine is large and can handle a lot but I thank your concern.

DieeDiee:
Thank you for the concern but unlike you I don't have a pea size brain. Mine is large and can handle a lot but I thank your concern.

If its large i wont tell u to go & rest...mumu

DieeDiee:
Sigh.. Another sign of your lack of intelligence. I was being sarcastic, there's a reason I called you Medusa. If you were educated as you claim you are you would know who Medusa was

I remain Midehi notin else ok, & pls dnt give me names..turn ursef to Medusa..i dnt care

VickyyB:
What a LOOSE GIRL.

You like your bf 'cos of prick. Smh

She obviously lacks the ability to take care of herself so he probably also pays for her life and so she is dependent on him.

DieeDiee:
A bigger fool than someone with an intelligence less than a 2 year old? :-/

Omg!!! she is still quotin d same foolishness

Midehi:
still on my...ur brain is daft,if nt you will understand all my writeup...go & rest your brain..biko..b4 it will blast

There you go with your Engrish again...