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Most times, 'investing' in a boyfriend or girlfriend could end up being a bad investment/market due to obvious reasons. Cos, its not every relationship that would end up in marriage. Some are bound to die along the way, while others might not even get off the ground. Cos most people tend not to put all their hearts and hopes in their relationship or partners. They are always looking for better options or where the grass is greener, thereby leaving the other party heartbroken or 'bankrupt'

I dey craze... Wen die nor dey hungry me

Am i mad

Broke nairaland guyz whining about ladies since 1900bc...

Invest in your relationship,once u hav decided 2 have monopoly over a person be it boy or girl b ready 2 invest...

nothing wrong but people aren't grestful dis days

'Invest' as in help him bulid his carrier in terms of money? I can, if m sure the rellationship will lead to marriage. When he is rich enof he will surely remember me nah!
Wen u invest, you r expected to get something out of it

There's always a risk factor to every investment. That's what makes it pay off eventually. It makes no difference whether it's a business or a relationship.

Not wise.... Bad market

Why should I do that?

I don't like the word invest.
I'd rather use the word sacrifice.

Warning: Long Post Ahead.

Now I know of a guy whom sacrificed everything for his girl. He gave up his education because he was very bad at it, and toiled hard day and night to help his girl with hers.

He assisted with pocket money, schooling fees, and everything you can think of for a straight run of four years. And never for once did he back down even with the pressure from his folks.

Why? because he met the right girl. She was the right girl for she loved him back two folds than he did. As I type, they are both happily married with a son. She's a doctor, he's nothing. But they are both happy.

Trust me, I envy that guy a lot. So when I do meet the ‘right’ girl, I wouldn't only sacrifice, invest, or help but give my life without doubt. But only for the right girl.

Aprime:
I don't like the word invest.
I'd rather use the word sacrifice.

Warning: Long Post Ahead.

Now I know of a guy whom sacrificed everything for his girl. He gave up his education because he was very bad at it, and toiled hard day and night to help his girl with hers.

He assisted with pocket money, schooling fees, and everything you can think of for a straight run of four years. And never for once did he back down even with the pressure from his folks.

Why? because he met the right girl. She was the right girl for she loved him back two folds than he did. As I type, they are both happily married with a son. She's a doctor, he's nothing. But they are both happy.

Trust me, I envy that guy a lot. So when I do meet the ‘right’ girl, I wouldn't only sacrifice, invest, or help but give my life without doubt. But only for the right girl.

It is and can never be a wise one. One mugu will come one day and reap you off. Either you commit her with a pregnancy if you are truly serious or you marry her. Without this two. I am sorry. You are working in another mans vineyard. Those human species are really heartless bunch.

friendship is about helping each other out, if your bf need some help, n u r capable, u can jst assist n forget, rather than hoping on a payback, ,,its wrong u shudnt trust humans besides...

Lol relationship this days don turn BUSINESS