Finestlex:
Am a guy and i'll give you the best advice, break up with him.. he's still a boy, not matured. we should appreciate gifts no matter how small they are cos it's from the heart.. you sound so decent, you deserve a good man with manners

nigga u r a wimp, appreciate gift no matter how small pls dont generalise it, talk of yourself only

I tink some guys are getting it twisted here. The way the babe presented d gift to him isn't d real issue nor the triviality of the gift. To the guy in question, the gift has much more significance and meaning to him. Afterall had he gone to a wedding and was presented with such a gift, am sure he'll take it whole-heartedly. By presentnting that gift to him, the gf was indirectly asking him "when are we walking down d aisle"? "Na ur fellow man gave me this oooo 4 ur infor". U knw that many guys feel uncomfortable wen ladies try to coerce them directly or indirectly, consciously or unconsciously, knowingly or unknowingly to pop d big question. #myopinionthough#

thorpido:
Even if it was a handkerchief,he should have kept it and even if he wouldn't use it,he could give it out later.
You dldn't tell him you bought it,you told him it was a gift from a marriage ceremony.
I hope it was a one-off thing,if not,I would have told you to keep him out forever just as he walked out on you.

You are dealing with a guy who has an attitude.

Thank u at least some men still reason with deir heads

You are A very nice woman that shares everything with your friend. You even told him the source without lying, but he acted the way he did. He's simply sending you a message , that it's over btwn you two. Take it or you leave it, whatever you're doing with him from now YOU're OYO!!!

mizjules:

Haba that's harsh! I see nothing wrong with it. Who told you the shirt is cheap, not all ceremony gives out cheap things you know. For her to give it to him means a lot. Its a. Gift!!. She should have either rejected the shirt or given it out to someone, but she thought of her boyfriend and that's something.

imagine the first shirt your gf gives you is a cheap shirt with marriage imprint on you its like an insult to me o

Sunkyphil:
for ur mind abi

fact.

Allureoftheseas:
you have no respect for a man's ego. so downgrading. giving your man a cheap shirt from a mere ceremony. you coudlnt even say it was a gift instead you just went agead to break it down to him that it was from a mere ceremony. if you wanted to give him something why didnt you go to a boutique and buy a nice shirt and give that to him? Girls so annoying. that is why i play them like football and score as many goals that i am able to.

hello?wat stupid ego are u talkn abt..y lie dt she bought it wen she git it as souvenir. Am sure if it were to b a rolex watch dt dey share in somr big society wedding he wld hv bn d one yo collect it frm her even if she sd she pikd it.abegggiii.dre is nutn bad in it, for her to hv given him it meant d shirt is unisex and she must hv pref giving him dan wearn...mscheeww guys and stupid ego, op just tk d cloth gv it to ur bro and if u dont hv one gv it to a begger ull be more appreciated....its not d weigh of a gift dt matters its d intention.

ohh Rita sorry for dat. ur man lacks attitude

ritababe:
He asked me if i bought the shirt for him and i told him no, that its a gift from marriage ceremony.

The next thing, he took them and walked to waste basket and dispose them there.

I asked him why he did that, but without saying anything, he quietly walked out on me and closed the door.

I don't understand. Is it a sin to give your boyfriend something they gave you in a ceremony?

Is a sin, an insult! Infact u don't have regards for him. If my babe try this kind thing to my side I go give her a dirty slap first. Judging from his action, he is mentally matured and he a man of bright future, he may be out of cash now or with no job but he is sound!

leofab:
op now you are saying the truth: he is angle because you are thief; how can only you get 5 shirts from a single ceremony Dem call your name organize the party?

na my friend ceremony na i suppose carry more than that

Dreyl:
If i were the one i would have done worse than that, nonsense! thank God i didn't have a girl like you.

hmm.story for d gods

treasuress:
many people are taking trash, its like the guy is trying to teach you something, if he goes soft you wont learn trust me, if he didnt love u he would have ignored and threw the shirt away at your back, its good to be open minded, just call and apologise forget nigerian mentality simple

I'm sorry but are you people crazy or suffering from something similar? Call and apologize for what exactly? That arsehole should be the one apologizing and someone like me will prolly not take him back.

What's wrong in sharing what you brought from a ceremony with your partner? The hediot asked for rice from the ceremony but felt offended when given a shirt? Like seriously? I'm speechless.

owolawitola:
No matter what mood he was in, he had no right to do that! And she was there sef. He could hav smiled and said thanks. And after leavin, he coulda given sumone else. And if the poor girl has no one else to tell nko? Nairaland is obvioysly the best place to get different opinions. I dont see anything wrong in what she did o. The guy is just an a*s.

you go cheap ooo, well girla are cheap its not now giving you hankerchief expecting s5

Jamean:
Is he your bf or husband

b.f

ritababe:
He asked me if i bought the shirt for him and i told him no, that its a gift from marriage ceremony.

The next thing, he took them and walked to waste basket and dispose them there.

I asked him why he did that, but without saying anything, he quietly walked out on me and closed the door.

I don't understand. Is it a sin to give your boyfriend something they gave you in a ceremony?

it's not a sin but a crime against manhood. As much as I don't have much in my bank account, I hate stuff of lo quality and gifts like that are always of very lo quality. The fact that your thread hasn't earn a ''like'' should give u concern na. My girl gave m something of such nature, the quality is poor for my taste. Guess what I dd? I turned it to ''duster'' immediately.

Your hubby, like most men are childish creatures.
Call him and go all luvey dovey on him and buy him another gift jare.
Case closed

You're late that's why you did not cook, so the wedding is more important than your man, that's just ridiculous by preffering wedding to your man.

treasuress:
he is fed up with your cheapness, learn to spend

is not about being cheap, even if he buy me 10 naira something i cherish it with my whole life,

Ishilove:

I agree. Even if it is a mere pen, it's the thought that counts. It is very insultive and if I were the one he did this to he would have gotten it very very hot from me.

Cheap totz don't count.
U know d kinda guy u with , u learn to save him d stress by keeping ur cheap ish to ur self.

It is insulting to bring Lazarus robes to a rich man's stables . u shld be getting it hawt rather



#teamallegictofakeassgurls

Joel3:
hey rita. Here you bring our private issue to The public.

Hi everyone i am her boy friend. I walk out on her because she think i am that cheap.

And for you rita. now i finally dumped you.

Vex

See this guy sef, throwing shirts in the bin. What rubbish and you are still bold to open your mouth here. I was even abusing the girl b4. Its obivious now you have got pride issues.

ritababe:


i really dont undertsand, though he has good attitude.

My friend stop making excuses for him, unless you are not telling us everything that happened. No one with a good attitude behaves that way.

treasuress:
many people are taking trash, its like the guy is trying to teach you something, if he goes soft you wont learn trust me, if he didnt love u he would have ignored and threw the shirt away at your back, its good to be open minded, just call and apologise forget nigerian mentality simple

so u mean i offend him by giving him the gift

Yemlizzy:
Chai! Its so obvious he is so damn insensitive and inhuman to your feelings. What kind of guy does what he did?

[size=16pt]Ladies . No it doesn't mean he is insensitive, he might just be tired of the love not being reciprocated (she said he is loving), he possibly gets her gifts, good onesvand she gets him boxer's. An item from the party is no gift to ur man, give it to ur brother's. A gift is meant to be worth something, thats when it can be appreciated. [/size]

This small ashawo girl; so you have a fiancée that you stay with and you were crying wolf the other day; how someone paid your transport fair without asking for your mobile number; you see your life?

owolawitola:
Nobody kuku asked what u do to girls. So are u sayin u've never given someone sumthn u got from a 'mere ceremony'. Or u've not seen weddin ceremonies where they share expensive stuff. And besides, the price doesnt matter. So far as its a presentable shirt. Am very sure if it wasnt, she wouldnt have given it to him.

i go throway the shirt eh God go save her if i nor collect the ipad wey i buy for her and beat her join fr her next life she go run from cheapness

shindarayo:
hello?wat stupid ego are u talkn abt..y lie dt she bought it wen she git it as souvenir. Am sure if it were to b a rolex watch dt dey share in somr big society wedding he wld hv bn d one yo collect it frm her even if she sd she pikd it.abegggiii.dre is nutn bad in it, for her to hv given him it meant d shirt is unisex and she must hv pref giving him dan wearn...mscheeww guys and stupid ego, op just tk d cloth gv it to ur bro and if u dont hv one gv it to a begger ull be more appreciated....its not d weigh of a gift dt matters its d intention.

That's why Rolex cannot she shared in a wedding
Rolex is bought not shared
That's why is "Rolex" (Roadless)
U don't pick it on road

you didn't cook for him before leaving and on your return from a wedding ceremony,all you could present were just some boring shirts,no wedding rice......
food matters most in this situation or you present both together....
Your mistake,just try to get along with him again and since you say this is his first time,an hungry man is an angry man.

treasuress:
you cheap sha, why did u not give your broda, or throw it away, your guy obviously has class and you should be glad

i buy gift for him all the time, i bought his current phone for him.

ritababe:


is not about being cheap, even if he buy me 10 naira something i cherish it with my whole life,

you still dont get it...this your said gift did not come from your heart or effort ...it came from a wedding! thats why your B>F(not yet your husband) is annoyed with you. don`t try this next time!

ritababe:



i buy gift for him all the time


if i dont give him the shirt who should i give?

U should have told him u bought it simple. Must u tell him its a free gift from an owanbe?

vivaciousvivi:
Your hubby, like most men are childish creatures.
Call him and go all luvey dovey on him and buy him another gift jare.
Case closed

And this right here is why these men keep misbehaving, imagine, buy him another gift, kai! Jesus!

A man outrightly told you, you mean nothing to him and the next thing you do is, beg, pet and buy him more gifts for insulting you, okay o, thank God for my life sha.

Sulemanmathew:
go to 3rd mainland bridge, den jump into d water or go get Potassium Cyanide and consume it orally.

some guys self, if u dont have anything to say why not keep quiet must you comment