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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by ritababe(f): 9:00am On Dec 11, 2014
LongShadow:
Wear it @Hme..... undecided

ok
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by yuncka: 9:01am On Dec 11, 2014
braine:


This analogy is soo wrong and unfair.

Bro, there's no beta analogy to describe a guy wit such atitude.

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by HARDDON: 9:01am On Dec 11, 2014
vivaciousvivi:
Your hubby, like most men are childish creatures.
Call him and go all luvey dovey on him and buy him another gift jare.
Case closed

It beats my imagination how those that crave attention like kids @ their mother's br3ast turn around to cal d shldas they lean on most often, childish

We men wen We call, we buy gifts, we take care of u lot , we spend on shopping spree

But wen we show our disgust @ ur cheap whack ways, u term urselves childish!
Isn't that just sexy?

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by Nobody: 9:03am On Dec 11, 2014
ritababe:


so u mean i offend him by giving him the gift

Yes. A gift that costs u nothing is not a gift. Its rude in fact. You are telling him many things;

He is cheap.
He is not worth the sacrifice of being bought a gift.
You don't respect him.

A guy won't give u something from a party and claim its a gift......

Check yourself too, you might be miserly.
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by treasuress: 9:05am On Dec 11, 2014
Melahou:
that is disrespectful on your part...
how would you give him a gift from a wedding...
you are lucky he didn't tear it in your present and use it
to tie you up.

if you love him you would give him some special from your hrt
not something you feel is of no use to you.
BEST COMMENT EVERRRRRRR*POPPING ANDRE*FOR YOU BRO
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by vivaciousvivi(f): 9:05am On Dec 11, 2014
HARDDON:


It beats my imagination how those that crave attention like kids @ their mother's br3ast turn around to cal d shldas they lean on most often, childish

We men wen We call, we buy gifts, we take care of u lot , we spend on shopping spree

But wen we show our disgust @ ur cheap whack ways, u term urselves childish!
Isn't that just sexy?

And your post just right there, just cemented my statement.

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by Oahray: 9:06am On Dec 11, 2014
The comments I'm reading here are pissing me off seriously. How come we have so many vain kids alive at the same time? No wonder relationships are now a mummer's farce. What is wrong with all of you?

Anyone who talked about the guy having too much class for a mere shirt from ceremony, is incredibly stewpid. The dude practically scavenged her bag like a homeless guy, looking for rice like he has never eaten in his life before. That's someone with class?

What's wrong with sharing ceremony souvenir with someone close to you, especially when he's interested enough to ransack her bag? You people are very sick in the head. undecided

Ritababe, your proud bf (abi husband) needs to apologise. If you call him first or beg him, you no get self-respect, and I'd understand why he doesn't respect you at all.

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by treasuress: 9:06am On Dec 11, 2014
ritababe:


i buy gift for him all the time, i bought his current phone for him.
IT MUST BE A CHEAP FONE
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by treasuress: 9:07am On Dec 11, 2014
ritababe:


so u mean i offend him by giving him the gift
Yes, would you have prefered he pretented and stop giving you gifts or secretly revenge? he sounds like a good guy, just apologise simple, a simple text will do , .

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by optimusprime2(m): 9:08am On Dec 11, 2014
ritababe:



i buy gift for him all the time


if i dont give him the shirt who should i give?

Your Father...
#Nooffence just saying.
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by harrysterol(m): 9:08am On Dec 11, 2014
Hazardd:
Is a sin! grin
a big sin sef cheesy
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by vivaciousvivi(f): 9:08am On Dec 11, 2014
freecocoa:
And this right here is why these men keep misbehaving, imagine, buy him another gift, kai! Jesus!

A man outrightly told you, you mean nothing to him and the next thing you do is, beg, pet and buy him more gifts for insulting you, okay o, thank God for my life sha.

Bae, its not just any man...its her hubby.
What is she to do? File for divorce because of this little thing?
She needs to bring peace back into her home o. Husbands are scarce. And yes, since he was being childish, she needs to find a way to resolve the issue. Let's face it freecocoa, this is Africa. If push come to shove, na she go still kneel down in front of family and beg the man!
I stand by my earlier quote o.
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by HARDDON: 9:08am On Dec 11, 2014
vivaciousvivi:


And your post just right there, just cemented by statement.

undecided undecided
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by treasuress: 9:09am On Dec 11, 2014
freecocoa:
I'm sorry but are you people crazy or suffering from something similar? Call and apologize for what exactly? That arsehole should be the one apologizing and someone like me will prolly not take him back.

What's wrong in sharing what you brought from a ceremony with your partner? The hediot asked for rice from the ceremony but felt offended when given a shirt? Like seriously? I'm speechless.
you sound proud , av seen your type either your relationships dnt last or the guy cheats, i drove one of your type out last week
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by cc150615(f): 9:10am On Dec 11, 2014
the dude is proud egocentric, has attitude issues, nd in fact probably has a low self esteem, I'm sure she buys this guy stuffs normally nd now this shirt was given to her nd cos she can't wear it since she's female decides to give it to him, nd he got angry, she could have given it to anybody but she just placed the guy as priority nd gave him nd he started asking if she bought it, next thing he'd have asked is how much she bought it. their type if she gave it to someone else nd he finds out he'll still get angry. proud dudes everywhere. so it's only things I buy directly with my money I can give someone Abeg make una just go rest all these guys shouting cheap.

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by Nobody: 9:13am On Dec 11, 2014
ritababe:


i put the 5 shirt in my bag, when i enter he took my bag and ask me "where is my rice" he took the shirt out himself.


Na shirt we go chop?after u don go jaiye for groove finish,me sef like party now,what is wrong with u woman.better enter the kitchen and make yasef useful
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by vivaciousvivi(f): 9:13am On Dec 11, 2014
HARDDON:


undecided undecided

Typo - "my"
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by phabulous88(m): 9:14am On Dec 11, 2014
What kind of shirts does he wear and what kind of shirt did you give to him? Is it some cheap shirt with the Ade weds Bisi kinda inscription?
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by cc150615(f): 9:14am On Dec 11, 2014
chrisbaba1:


Yes. A gift that costs u nothing is not a gift. Its rude in fact. You are telling him many things;

He is cheap.
He is not worth the sacrifice of being bought a gift.
You don't respect him.

A guy won't give u something from a party and claim its a gift......

Check yourself too, you might be miserly.
Dude it's not his birthday or Valentine's so What's all this hullabaloo about special gift, I just got sth from somewhere nd since I can't use it tot to give my guy, if she didn't give him at all nobody would hold her for anything o,Except maybe the guy go even vex say u go somewhere u no bring anything for me

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by Oahray: 9:15am On Dec 11, 2014
vivaciousvivi:


Bae, its not just any man...its her hubby.
What is she to do? File for divorce because of this little thing?
She needs to bring peace back into her home o. Husbands are scarce. And yes, since he was being childish, she needs to find a way to resolve the issue. Let's face it freecocoa, this is Africa. If push come to shove, na she go still kneel down in front of family and beg the man!
I stand by my earlier quote o.
what exactly should she beg him for? undecided
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by ritababe(f): 9:15am On Dec 11, 2014
youmour:



Na shirt we go chop?after u don go jaiye for groove finish,me sef like party now,what is wrong with u woman.better enter the kitchen and make yasef useful

lol
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by Nobody: 9:15am On Dec 11, 2014
Allureoftheseas:
you have no respect for a man's ego. so downgrading. giving your man a cheap shirt from a mere ceremony. you coudlnt even say it was a gift instead you just went agead to break it down to him that it was from a mere ceremony. if you wanted to give him something why didnt you go to a boutique and buy a nice shirt and give that to him? Girls so annoying. that is why i play them like football and score as many goals that i am able to.

u will get many viruses in return

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by tonero230(m): 9:16am On Dec 11, 2014
May be that subsequently,you have been giving him things that are not worth it
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by vivaciousvivi(f): 9:16am On Dec 11, 2014
Oahray:
what exactly should she beg him for? undecided
If you didn't understand anything I typed, then sorry even I can't answer your question dear. undecided
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by freecocoa(f): 9:17am On Dec 11, 2014
moscobabs:
u need to respect man ego my sister.

I did the same to my wife also.....'there was an anniversary in our church,my house is close to the church and they came to arrange their food in our house.my wife and other women decided to take one place each home for their husbands. during the anniversary in the church I did not each cos I dnt like eating outside,so when I got home,I met the rice at home,i knew its part of the anniversary food,so I called my wife that im hungry and I have to eat, she told me to eat the rice at home. I was furious and went to buy food at eatery.

That's man
Grow the feck up niggah, the food at the eatery, was it made by your wife? Your wife was at a function and you called her to say you were hungry, she even try say make you eat food wey dey house still you no happy, what should she have done? Left the occasion and come breastfeed you or what exactly? May I never end up with men like you, mschew.

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by ritababe(f): 9:18am On Dec 11, 2014
treasuress:
Yes, would you have prefered he pretented and stop giving you gifts or secretly revenge? he sounds like a goos guy, just apologise simple, a simple text will do , .

ha na wa oh, say i come give am gift na crime again, abeg if im nor tell me why im throw the shirt away make im go sit down i nor dey apologise.
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by Nobody: 9:20am On Dec 11, 2014
Christmas is approaching
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by ethylene: 9:20am On Dec 11, 2014
In china, you don't give cheap gifts to your partner
Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by Oahray: 9:21am On Dec 11, 2014
vivaciousvivi:

If you didn't understand anything I typed, then sorry even I can't answer your question dear. undecided
alright then... You ladies can keep rolling in the mud just because you are afraid husbands are scarce. Just don't come back to ask why many men treat their women badly.

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by ritababe(f): 9:21am On Dec 11, 2014
treasuress:
IT MUST BE A CHEAP FONE

samsung s3 and the one he gave me is p5

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by freecocoa(f): 9:24am On Dec 11, 2014
vivaciousvivi:


Bae, its not just any man...its her hubby.
What is she to do? File for divorce because of this little thing?
She needs to bring peace back into her home o. Husbands are scarce. And yes, since he was being childish, she needs to find a way to resolve the issue. Let's face it freecocoa, this is Africa. If push come to shove, na she go still kneel down in front of family and beg the man!
I stand by my earlier quote o.
It's not her hubby, except I read wrong and even if it is, he should be the one apologizing for being a mannerless overgrown baby.

Feck Africa, Africa my nyash, 'she needs to bring peace back into her home' kai! This kind talk dey vex me wella, so she has to keep putting up with his excesses unnecessarily just for peace to reign? I hear you.

Make una dey kneel down dey go, I'm not a party to such and it will not be my lot.

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Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by omakay(m): 9:24am On Dec 11, 2014
This is why i always say that couples should try and study themselves as best as they can.

The OP has the slightest idea how her BF reacts to certain kind of gifts.

There are actually some men out there who would not even react at all to the gift. They would actually collect it, and keep it in the deepest of their wardrobe. The shirt would be a forgotten issue and he would later try and communicate to her in the cutest of manner that he did not like the gift. In the end, no harm is done and the girl will now know better.

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