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Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by Evathyst(f): 11:13am On Dec 12, 2014*

Well,being a female, I gotta speak 4rm d feminist point of view. In my own candid opinion, having a boyfriend gives a lady an understanding of d creature 'MEN'. It's from relationships dt one gets an overview of who men really are. Although, dey will tell u all fingers are not equal. But beneath dt facade is an underlying similarities among dem all. For example, all men have d tendency to cheat, lie, and bully. My experiences in different relationships has taught me dt.

Also, being in a relationship gives one an insight of d kinda man one should marry wen d time is ripe. Nd how to co-exist peacefully with one's chosen one. If not for relationships, most marriages would av been ending in disaster. Although, many still do.

3- Probably to cope with boredom and loneliness which life constantly foster on us. Being in a relationship will provide one with adventure.

Ds are my own personal opinion, make anybody no attack me o! Whether u schooled in France rance, Afghanistan, Ukraine, or Iraq. I just spoke from d Nigerian perspective sha.

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by Evathyst(f): 11:16am On Dec 12, 2014

watchthisposter:
WAEC 2014 RELATIONSHIP STUDIES PAPER TYPE C

QUESTION 1

What are the purpose or benefits of even having a girlfriend or boyfriend? Don't tell me that one benefit is sex cos i can pay and have the same sex with a prostitute and we go our separate ways.
Isn't it better to remain alone without the problems of a girlfriend or boyfriend till u are ready for marriage? Why do people have girlfriend or boyfriend?

ANSWER

1. Sex with lower risk of STDs

2. ATM (girls)

3. Pretty gal to show off (if she fyn sha)

4. Rich boyfriend to show off (if he geh moni)

5. Marriage praticals, tutorials and rehersals before the main event

6. Somebody who'd be there for you to help during difficult challenges

7. Somebody to play with, laugh with and have fun with, and sometimes prank

8. Measuring up. You no wan cari last wen all ur friends get girlfriends finish.

Nice points, and please add, to cope with LONELINESS. grin

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by clevvermind(op): 11:23am On Dec 12, 2014

Infomizer:
O Boy!!!
I doff ma hat o!!!
But you haven't, I presume.

no. But i know what i'm capable of doing.

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by Evathyst(f): 11:24am On Dec 12, 2014

Tymax:
For girls, it's to have a second daddy to "take care" of them. I still don't get the "take care" part

For guys, having a girlfriend is just to "quench" the loneliness. Plus it's a step towards marriage.

with a post like ds, no doubt, nairaland is d home of intellectuals. U just nailed it Bro!

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by Infomizer(m): 11:35am On Dec 12, 2014

clevvermind:
no. But i know what i'm capable of doing.

Baba, I hail thee!

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by nawtibownie: 11:35am On Dec 12, 2014

watchthisposter:
WAEC 2014 RELATIONSHIP STUDIES PAPER TYPE C
QUESTION 1
What are the purpose or benefits of even having a girlfriend or boyfriend? Don't tell me that one benefit is sex cos i can pay and have the same sex with a prostitute and we go our separate ways.
Isn't it better to remain alone without the problems of a girlfriend or boyfriend till u are ready for marriage? Why do people have girlfriend or boyfriend?
ANSWER
1. Sex with lower risk of STDs
2. ATM (girls)
3. Pretty gal to show off (if she fyn sha)
4. Rich boyfriend to show off (if he geh moni)
5. Marriage praticals, tutorials and rehersals before the main event
6. Somebody who'd be there for you to help during difficult challenges
7. Somebody to play with, laugh with and have fun with, and sometimes prank
8. Measuring up. You no wan cari last wen all ur friends get girlfriends finish.

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by nawtibownie: 11:38am On Dec 12, 2014

watchthisposter:
WAEC 2014 RELATIONSHIP STUDIES PAPER TYPE C
QUESTION 1
What are the purpose or benefits of even having a girlfriend or boyfriend? Don't tell me that one benefit is sex cos i can pay and have the same sex with a prostitute and we go our separate ways.
Isn't it better to remain alone without the problems of a girlfriend or boyfriend till u are ready for marriage? Why do people have girlfriend or boyfriend?
ANSWER
1. Sex with lower risk of STDs
2. ATM (girls)
3. Pretty gal to show off (if she fyn sha)
4. Rich boyfriend to show off (if he geh moni)
5. Marriage praticals, tutorials and rehersals before the main event
6. Somebody who'd be there for you to help during difficult challenges
7. Somebody to play with, laugh with and have fun with, and sometimes prank
8. Measuring up. You no wan cari last wen all ur friends get girlfriends finish.

You gorrit.
There are many other answers to this, some to ease their boredom,while some cos they are blinded by love/lust. Shiii

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:49am On Dec 12, 2014

VickyyB:
wow. Happy birthday.

anchu

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by AfricanApple(f): 12:23pm On Dec 12, 2014

so you just wanna walk up to a girl and say marry me, she says yes and then the next day you are married huh

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by watchthisposter(m): 4:42pm On Dec 12, 2014

AfricanApple:
so you just wanna walk up to a girl and say marry me, she says yes and then the next day you are married

Marry me.

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by AfricanApple(f): 4:56pm On Dec 12, 2014

watchthisposter:
Marry me.

submit your bride price first, then I will consider

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by watchthisposter(m): 6:04pm On Dec 12, 2014

AfricanApple:
submit your bride price first, then I will consider

Lol

I have to first pay your bride price first? The way it works is you say YES, then bride price...

BTW how much is the bride price? I'll be willing to pay up front if you agree that I can pre-test the goods first, with a full refund if I am not satisfied grin

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by Tymax(m): 7:28pm On Dec 12, 2014

Evathyst:
with a post like ds, no doubt, nairaland is d home of intellectuals. U just nailed it Bro!

take kiss dia!!!!!
kiss

gbam!

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by Evathyst(f): 7:37pm On Dec 12, 2014

Tymax:
take kiss dia!!!!!
gbam!

nd I do gladly turn my cheek to receive dt 'intellectual' kiss, probably it can make me wise too. So, u av my cheek Bro!

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by Tymax(m): 7:52pm On Dec 12, 2014

Evathyst:
nd I do gladly turn my cheek to receive dt 'intellectual' kiss, probably it can make me wise too. So, u av my cheek Bro!

hehehehe my head o my head dey swell o grin

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by AfricanApple(f): 12:12am On Dec 13, 2014

watchthisposter:
Lol

I have to first pay your bride price first? The way it works is you say YES, then bride price...

BTW how much is the bride price? I'll be willing to pay up front if you agree that I can pre-test the goods first, with a full refund if I am not satisfied

every company has its terns and conditions. so u have to abide by the rules. pay first then imma check u out and see if I will like u cheesy

hmm, bride price is a long list o, I really dontcwanna put u in trouble tongue

no pretest
and no refund of cash

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:27am On Dec 13, 2014

Apart from sex,I see them as partners that I can talk to when am down and to share some romantic moment...abi u can share romantic moments with prostittute?

Re: What Is The Purpose Or Benefits Of Having A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend? by clevvermind(op): 8:08pm On Dec 14, 2014

Ipledge:
Apart from sex,I see them as partners that I can talk to when am down and to share some romantic moment...abi u can share romantic moments with prostittute?

forget romantic moment. i can share it with them. i can talk to my friends that are guys when i am down.

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