₦airaland Forum

I recently encountered a situation where a friend of mine who met a lady in London and made the lady to believe he had his papers. After a short while when they started dating, she fell in Love with him and before he proposed to her, he revealed the truth that He was still struggling to get his papers right. So for that reason he couldn't do the traditional marriage in Nigeria, everything was done in the UK.

After a while she started feeling the heat and complaining that she wished she had married someone with a British Passport because she wants to travel around the world. Then she also mentioned that leaving everything behind in Nigeria and relocating to London was a waste of time since what she wanted she couldn't get it out right, which was her UK residency.

Now this prompt me to ask, do most Nigerian Girls think of what they want to achieve before marrying a UK/US based Nigerian? or they marry because of true love...

I have had friends who travelled to Nigeria and brought their wives over with no problem. even though they dnt travel often she seems satisfied.

Or could it be that the old aged mentality of thinking London / Yankee as a paradise still exists among young Africans??

Ladies whats your take on this subject??

God made marriage for life and I will not undermine my principles and boundaries just because of certain benefit. Peace of mind is in my dictionary.

coolzeal:
God made marriage forever and I will not underline my principles and boundaries just because of certain benefit. Peace of mind is in my dictionary.

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great way to look at life

Tearg1:
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great way to look at life

Yeah!. This is someone I will be spending the rest of my life with, I shouldn't get greedy and ruin my peace. Can't take that chance.

Every body's dream.

Am coming

Ipledge:
Am coming

coming where? . Come back here and answer d question

Citizenship is too much sef. Some girls will agree to marry a guy once that small flag on BBM that shows your current location has changed from green-white-green. Them nor wan know even if na Togo the guy dey.

It will not be priority to marry but if it comes as a plus,so be it.

Skillfullulu:
Every body's dream.

True that.

No!
Personality is everything for me.

echobee:
coming where? . Come back here and answer d question

The question is whould you marry a guy?am a guy,and I can't marry a guy .is that all?

Extom:
Citizenship is too much sef. Some girls will agree to marry a guy once that small flag on BBM that shows your current location has changed from green-white-green. Them nor wan know even if na Togo the guy dey.

lol reminds me of my friend that ffucked a girl and she began to give him attitude, immediately the guy's Location changed to the US flag the girl proposed all the way from Naija