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CuteEmma:
Have you liked me?

Sorry , I mean my picture. 'Cause that's the surest way of becoming successful.

My gf is the only girl am following on nairaland,why?to know what she does on nairaland,jealousy is a part of love oo.if I do something and think my gf should be jealous,if she doesn't Na query be that

Ipledge:
My gf is the only girl am following on nairaland,why?to know what she does on nairaland,jealousy is a part of love oo.if I do something and think my gf should be jealous,if she doesn't Na query be that

wow...this shows u r one jealous guy. n to me I think it's cos u really like her. but d problem with we guys is that ur affection for her will not stop u from doing one or two things cos even u hv said it that if u do something n she doesn't get jealous then it's an issue.

Prixus:
wow...this shows u r one jealous guy. n to me I think it's cos u really like her. but d problem with we guys is that ur affection for her will not stop u from doing one or two things cos even u hv said it that if u do something n she doesn't get jealous then it's an issue.

I think I shoul be very thankful, my man's not an a.s.s, like you.
Good morning, how was your night?

CuteEmma:
Sorry , I mean my picture. 'Cause that's the surest way of becoming successful.

Thanks. but there's nothing special about it that I should like. it's just a regular pix like many others. besides don't go about begging for likes. were u d one that posted stuff n kept asking people to like ur pix? I read something like that a few days ago. can't remember d moniker. don't b so desperate.

CuteEmma:
I think I shoul be very thankful, my man's not an a.s.s, like you.
Good morning, how was your night?

lol...I can b an a.s.s. at times.
my night was blissful. couldn't sleep much tho. kept thinking of what I'm gonna say to u today.
the last time I was nice to u by apologising all I got was insults. I don't think this mushy mushy thing will work btw us so pls don't ask me questions like that. I prefer it d way it's been...

I would say jealousy like a lot of other things is like a continuum, we should always maintain a balance, it is healthy like that but taking it to the extreme is what I'd term as 'obsession'. Too little isnt good, too much is suicide.
My opinion.

beckyomas:
I would say jealousy like a lot of other things is like a continuum, we should always maintain a balance, it is healthy like that but taking it to the extreme is what I'd term as 'obsession'. Too little isnt good, too much is suicide.
My opinion.

well spoken ma lady but the issue is knowing what maintaining a balance is. what I think I hv a right to do might not be acceptable To her. like I might want to check her messages n call records. would u b on if u r guy does this all d time?

Prixus:
wow...this shows u r one jealous guy. n to me I think it's cos u really like her. but d problem with we guys is that ur affection for her will not stop u from doing one or two things cos even u hv said it that if u do something n she doesn't get jealous then it's an issue.

Am very jealous but not selfish with it

Prixus:
well spoken ma lady but the issue is knowing what maintaining a balance is. what I think I hv a right to do might not be acceptable To her. like I might want to check her messages n call records. would u b on if u r guy does this all d time?

my bf does all of that, i wasn't ok with it @ first but now i just let him, no big deal. But it becomes a big deal if he's doing it because he suspects me or when he starts picking holes in what he sees.
Personally, i dont like it but i have to indulge him, u compromise on somethings when dealing with other people (relationships).

Prixus:
well spoken ma lady but the issue is knowing what maintaining a balance is. what I think I hv a right to do might not be acceptable To her. like I might want to check her messages n call records. would u b on if u r guy does this all d time?

then talking about maintaining a balance, this one boils down to communication.
Guy tells girl he likes checking her phone, girl says she doesn't like it. Both of them can shift grounds. The fact that she allows u check shouldn't be taken as a 'right', you as d guy can compromise by ignoring her phone for sometime, only check once a while, doing it jokingly etc...not like you are trying to catch her at something, trust me, she would hate u sooner or later and ur relationship ruined.
Just try and Make her feel comfortable.

Prixus:
Thanks. but there's nothing special about it that I should like. it's just a regular pix like many others. besides don't go about begging for likes. were u d one that posted stuff n kept asking people to like ur pix? I read something like that a few days ago. can't remember d moniker. don't b so desperate.

Meanin you don't wanna be successful. No p

CuteEmma:
Meanin you don't wanna be successful. No p

lol...u sure r one hack of a child. anyway how can u leave me for virtually a whole day without even a mention? I've missed u o...I never believed u could ignore me like that. oya say something to blow my mind again as usual

beckyomas:
then talking about maintaining a balance, this one boils down to communication.
Guy tells girl he likes checking her phone, girl says she doesn't like it. Both of them can shift grounds. The fact that she allows u check shouldn't be taken as a 'right', you as d guy can compromise by ignoring her phone for sometime, only check once a while, doing it jokingly etc...not like you are trying to catch her at something, trust me, she would hate u sooner or later and ur relationship ruined.
Just try and Make her feel comfortable.

u really broke it down well...in summary communication is key...