Ezedon:
You are not yet married her and u expect her to be your drycleaner, is it proper? What if i turn ur sis that way will u be happy with me?

Ezedon:
You are not yet married her and u expect her to be your drycleaner, is it proper? What if i turn ur sis that way will u be happy with me?

chaircover:


Expecting!!!! . . . that is the word I have an issue with.
You dont force people to do things in a relationship.
If you are constantly expecting people to do things for you, then you can never be appreciative.

Sisi start as you mean to go on. There is nothing wrong in washing his clothes, helping with housework and cooking etc BUT only if you are comfortable with it and its something that you genuingly want to do for your loved one.
We are all different and some things sit with some people more than others and your bf has to understand that. Lady A may have happily washed his clothes, that does not mean that is the blueprint for all other ladys.

This is a reason why many people have married the wrong one, becasue the lady has to pretend to get a foot in the door and as soon as they are married she shows her true colour. Instead of the guy to let the lady be herself and watch her real character, he picks on irrelevant things.

Having all said and done. I dont really understand some relationships at all. Is it not fun for both to sit on wooden stools on a saturday morning and both washing the clothes. He washes and she rinses while both gist and throw soap suds and and water at each other. Some relationships are just too rigid. . . .way too rigid.

Wendy80:
Why shd you do his laundry for him? As what na? He's even angry about it. Better tell him to get a washing Machine for himself. A man who will marry you will definitely marry you weda u wash, scrub or mop for him or not.
I'm a prove.

crackhaus:

That you're 'a prove' does not mean it will work the same way for everyone else.

For all I know, your man could have thought about asking you to help with his laundry, but decided against it because he knew you would easily flair up as you did here, and use the opportunity to tell him to buy a washing machine he can/can't afford...who knows?

Wendy80:
Why shd you do his laundry for him? As what na? He's even angry about it. Better tell him to get a washing Machine for himself. A man who will marry you will definitely marry you weda u wash, scrub or mop for him or not.
I'm a prove.

zeb04:
Go wendy....so true.

I never did nothing like that for any of the man I dated.I didn't need to learn from experience .....I just had so much crazy elder brothers, a strict mom and an enligtned dad

Ogoanita:
In a serious, commited relationship where the guy is expecting the girl to help out with his house work * not that am saying it improper* i as a person can do all but when it come to washing cloths hmmmm:/ that where the real big deal comes in. Am really in a very tight corner right now cause all is not well with my relationship, i need sound and matured advice on this, your opinions and comments are highly welcomed tnx.

Ogoanita:
In a serious, commited relationship where the guy is expecting the girl to help out with his house work * not that am saying it improper* i as a person can do all but when it come to washing cloths hmmmm:/ that where the real big deal comes in. Am really in a very tight corner right now cause all is not well with my relationship, i need sound and matured advice on this, your opinions and comments are highly welcomed tnx.

Ogoanita:
In a serious, commited relationship where the guy is expecting the girl to help out with his house work * not that am saying it improper* i as a person can do all but when it come to washing cloths hmmmm:/ that where the real big deal comes in. Am really in a very tight corner right now cause all is not well with my relationship, i need sound and matured advice on this, your opinions and comments are highly welcomed tnx.

Ogoanita:
i meant hes like showing how upset he is u know hmmm i can wash it jst that my mind no gree for that one

Rapsainot:
[is he not paying your bills?

okiezman:


I have a girl friend who ask for my clothes to wash it for me, I refused her doing that... why cause I don't feel it right to me...she's ma gf I haven't paid bride price. I can't subject her to slavery biko...after she wash am finish theirs no guarantee you will marry her abegi...I dont encourage girls doing that..cook is allowed dress house allowed but washing clothes mbanu never

mutter:
In a serious committed relationship you should have taken his laundry and done it even without him having to ask you to do it.
What do you think marriage is all about?
- free maid and slave for husband and children.
-24 hours job, no leave no pay.

You don`t enter into a marriage and then suddenly start washing the cloths because of the ring.
If you love him you can do it with the joy of doing something for him.

Kachisbarbie:


Please be objective.
What's "is he not paying your bills"?

Which bills is that'

timmyboy5050:
Thumbs up bro... why will a guy force someone to wash his clothes for him...some guys are silly sha..

Ogoanita:
In a serious, commited relationship where the guy is expecting the girl to help out with his house work * not that am saying it improper* i as a person can do all but when it come to washing cloths hmmmm:/ that where the real big deal comes in. Am really in a very tight corner right now cause all is not well with my relationship, i need sound and matured advice on this, your opinions and comments are highly welcomed tnx.