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Is calling your sweet heart as many times as possible a day a bad thing and you always have to tell her to call you back. For exxample when i get to work I would call her up that am at work I ll roll over to the phone at break time and call her when I close but she hardly calls Its only when she see that I did not give a call for long hours she then calls. Ladies what do you advise. Guys whats your opinion. Thanks

nice thread.
guy no kil urself just minimise the way u kal .just kal lyk in d mrning nd nite,u knw ladiez nw they take guys 4 grantd anihw?

@ poster.i don't think she really love u.the calls shd be reciprocal a kind of.in the skol i have a roommatethat his girlfriend hardly call him,even when he sent her a recharge card.i had the same experience with a damsel,even all my 1derful txt msg i spent hours composing meant nothing to her in the sense that,when the txt is just coming she will just be deleting them.the day i took her phone and go thru her txt msgs without seeing mine,i felt bad and i decided never to txt her again.unrequited Love i posit

guy dont rush urself into woman!! ill advice to call her once a day,may unless she beep ur phone.

Quote from honsule: Today at 06:10:31 PM




i had the same experience with a damsel,even all my 1derful VOCABULARIOUS txt msg i spent hours composing meant nothing to her in the sense that,when the txt is just coming she will just be deleting them. cUz THEY ARE TOO COMPLEX 4 HER SIMPLE BRAIN the day i took her phone and go through her txt msgs without seeing mine,i felt bad and i decided never to txt her again.unrequited e.g of the vocabs ==>Love i posit
//// erm h0nsule hope u n0w knw y?

lol. Confession hmmm honsule, so you still believe say love dey? Me i will never love a girl i can only like her. A girl would call,"hello baby please send me recharge card of 500 i want to make call" now tell me who she wanted to call? And more over i'll send a girl a recharge card and still she would be flashing me with the fare i sent to her lol. Never will i love a girl

Dude u just have to put yourself together ok.
Be strong.

Funi THREAD,

You dnt call a Frnd that don't take time to return ur Calls. . -Simple!

Mehn guy relax.Ur d 1 causn ur probs.U kol ha 2much.2 u,u r shown ur luv,but 2 ha,u r becomn 2 needy n born.Kol ha 1ce in 2days.N trust me u wil enjoy d results.Try nt 2 think bout ha every nw n den.It helps.Control ur self n d situation.U R D MAN!!!

Nko ti ama ri won si niyen, Hehehe, Love doctors in phone forum, *singn;God wil make a way,wen dere seems 2 be no way*

Hmm

1=>Show very little of the care you have,^{2=>call her unsually 3=> be in charge}

@poster,
can you hear! Be conservative wit your love,call and care. And see how things will miraculously turn around.
Except she's not really your girlfriend.

Wait o! Y wil a girl ask u for R.card nd she tels u d amount she wnts.she's nt meant 2 tel d amount she wnt nd at d end of it,she may nt evn at least flash u. Ure d 1 dat wil dcide on mayb its N100 or wateva u'l buy, cos dis is wat we cal 'thief wit style'.
@poster. Cal d girl like 1ce in a wk.if she asks u y u dnt cal her,tel her ur mnd.spick ur mnd,ure d man.tel her wat prob is.

Wait o! Y wil a girl ask u for R.card nd she tels u d amount she wnts.she's nt meant 2 tel d amount she wnt nd at d end of it,she may nt evn at least flash u. Ure d 1 dat wil dcide on mayb its N100 or wateva u'l buy, cos dis is wat we cal 'thief wit style'.
@poster. Cal d girl like 1ce in a wk.if she asks u y u dnt cal her,tel her ur mnd.spick ur mnd,ure d man.tel her wat prob is.

Romance and technology, what a sharp contrast!

Move this thread to romance, you'll get expert advice there

Hmmm.
I think mustay has to come.

AM A LADY AND WE ALWAYS WANT TO BE FLATTERD AT ALL TIMES. IT COULD BE SHE''S TAKING YOU 4 GRANTED? OR SHE MIGHT BE LOW OF CREDIT, OR DOESNT WANT YOU TO FEEL TOO MUCH LOVED AND THEREFORE MISBEHAVE, OR MAYBE HAS SOMEONE ELSE KEEPING HER BUSY AND WHO PROBABLY BUYS HER CREDIT. . DONT MIND ME. JUST THINK WELL

girls like guys putting then on the edge and curious even in sex sef.goin by ur post,u are givib her too much attention.reduce ur call very drastically say to once a day and say 3mins.talk aon general issue when u call like how she is and how is work.she will start thininkin her self if she is the serious type.good thing is that she callls when u stop.just reduce ur call rate and when she asks,tll her why


as pa crd thing.some girls sef u go send them crd na flash dem go take say thank u.they wont call u and will want u to send 1000 crd.

the more you look, the less you see. the more you call, the less she cares. my man, where is the mystery in your ways that would meake her call you. that means that you got no game. it's only females that i whine like this. stand up, walk out, chase and spend your call credit on her best friend then she'll start calling TDS.

I disagree with most guys here on the solution, most of dem talk bad but what happened while the love last. Personally i've experienced and still experiencing it. Its just their nature give dem a million now they will ask 4 recharge card but if u love here still keep doing wot u know best dont reduce it because u are going tru pain within because of a lady somewhere, my broda release urself and continue. Try to speak to older abt this topic they will tellu wot i'm telling u now. U can shout from now till eternity she will call @ her leisure. Just study her to know if she loves u if yes just tell her u are not happy with the way she is treating u dont let people break u. Make urself.

its basically a ladys world dont blame her shes just maybe not used to the idea of calling a guy if u feel u are not comfy thats why they made the idea of decison then stop calling her after u r not foced but rather obligated to

@honsule, you promised to send me some codes, ur gmail.sorry you got hit below the belt thats what i have bin trying to say that love stinks and cinderella THONIA called me a sadist.


@ symbian, you are the man, your type will last long and the ladies will do the calling.

@ as for me i don't call my babe till she ask me to, and if she flashes i don't even bother. though she complains, she's been trained to call also and never expect me to call her.

@ the original poster,delete her no and make sure you don't memorize it, then see if she calls. if she calls, call her three days later but if she doesn't take a hike.

@FREEZE
Is calling your sweet heart as many times as possible a day a bad thing and you always have to tell her to call you back. For exxample when i get to work I would call her up that am at work I ll roll over to the phone at break time and call her when I close but she hardly calls Its only when she see that I did not give a call for long hours she then calls. Ladies what do you advise. Guys whats your opinion. Thanks



My girlfrend is the opposite of urs, i thank GOD 4 her oooooooooooo.
She calls me more than 11 times a day, and i call her at the same rate also,
Freeze, there are plenty babes out there waitn 2 dial ur number 24-7 if only u give them d chance, waitn 2 treat u like a 3month old baby,
Guy 4get that unfaithful girl and move 4ward

we guys r de cause of our issues with girls thats y dey intentionally avoid what they need to do b/c we a 2 caring and don't want dem to stress themselves, but guys can we allow they to stress themselves and be more wiser think normally and not be 2 selfish and stingy, the way u start with a girl in a relationship or just normal friends thats the way girl will follow u up.
Nothwithstanding i work with a telecom company if she doesn't call me as a reciprocal of the love which should not be one-sided (which they believe thats what it ought to be) i stopped calling her completely and if she flash ,i won't call till she calls,

Don't call her again and let her initiate the calls to know the worth of the calls u'v being making , apart from that something is wrong somewhere with her,

I appreciate all those who commented on this thread am very grateful. I ll do a turn around and see the results. I actually cozed it cos I call her every time. Thanks y'all

:-x :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x.

She is changing now . even texting too. thanks all one more tym,

you know why i dey laugh
she's tryin to keep u in play. She looses nothing,she's a damn player.
When u change your mind,she starts up wit d formal/usual behaviour.
Be in charge from now on ok.

you know why i dey laugh
she's tryin to keep u in play. She looses nothing,she's a damn player.
When u change your mind,she starts up wit d formal/usual behaviour.
Be in charge from now on ok.

stingco

Huh.