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[b]1. Marry someone you find extremely sexy, one of the easiest ways of falling into the temptation of extra-marital affairs is
being with a spouse who is not your kind of sexy

2. Marry someone whose face you find appealing , because it is that face you will wake up to each day

3. Marry someone you enjoy talking with, because forever is a very long time to be with a boring spouse.

4. Marry someone who keeps their word, for if they can't keep their word they won't keep their vows

5. Marry someone who makes you laugh and smile , because everyday of your life you will need joy and sweet memories.

6. Marry someone who doesn't give up easily, because in marriage there will be many storms , you will need a reliable spouse who doesn't let go.

7. Marry someone who is ever honest with you no matter how painful, because in marriage you will need someone who will be real with you, someone you can trust

8. Marry someone who believes in you and sees your potential, as your star rises you will need a spouse who holds your hand and brings out the best in you. Your future is bright but with supportive spouse it is brighter.

9. Marry someone who is ambitious and with a vision, because more than having a fruitful marriage you need to live fulfilling lives. Life is more than getting married and having kids.

10. Marry someone who believes in God and walks with God just like you, because if God is your reason, your pillar and theanchor
you run to, what will your spouse run to when things get shaky? Who will you pray with? How can two walk together unless they agree?

11. Marry someone who is your bestfriend, because marriage is more than sex and romance, many times all you will need is a true friend.[/b]

Well said

A lot of valid points!

thanks

Yungwizzzy:
12. Marry someone who is light-skinned

including the bleached ones? Time will tell the true colour.

12. Marry someone who has respect and value his/her family in that way they will feel the same way about yours

13. Marry someone who is a good manager in everything

Nice post! So on point

Hard to find a gal with 4 and 7, and being the hardest to find,they are the most important to me.

Montaque:
Hard to find a gal with 4 and 7, and being the hardest to find,they are the most important to me.

I will say dis till tomorrow. ...there are a lot of good girls with these qualities but guys aren't seeing probably she's not a what's girl, fashionable, the type that hangs out, clubbing bla bla bla. I always tell guys my brothers inclusive it doesn't how a girl look when you met her as long as she's ready to learn and you are willing to teach her although I don't subscribe to ladies who are heady and doesn't want to learn. Let the spiritual be above the physical. You can never get an already made partner, you must compromise! Nobody is perfect except God so why waste your time on something that's not real

14. Also marry someone that can make good love to you in bed, that one too is important

All true..

Never marry out of pity..

Yes! Well said. Marry because you want to fulfil purpose and destiny

Unfortunately looking out for these qualities is very exhausting unending task. People pretend.

Above all mary somone wu loves God,fear him,and belive he iz d one and only creator
Den in such marraige you would have nothing to wory about




Op evrything u said so on PPoint

ammyluv2002:
I will say dis till tomorrow. ...there are a lot of good girls with these qualities but guys aren't seeing probably she's not a what's girl, fashionable, the type that hangs out, clubbing bla bla bla. I always tell guys my brothers inclusive it doesn't how a girl look when you met her as long as she's ready to learn and you are willing to teach her although I don't subscribe to ladies who are heady and doesn't want to learn. Let the spiritual be above the physical. You can never get an already made partner, you must compromise! Nobody is perfect except God so why waste your time on something that's not real

I like your summation.

ammyluv2002:
I will say dis till tomorrow. ...there are a lot of good girls with these qualities but guys aren't seeing probably she's not a what's girl, fashionable, the type that hangs out, clubbing bla bla bla. I always tell guys my brothers inclusive it doesn't how a girl look when you met her as long as she's ready to learn and you are willing to teach her although I don't subscribe to ladies who are heady and doesn't want to learn. Let the spiritual be above the physical. You can never get an already made partner, you must compromise! Nobody is perfect except God so why waste your time on something that's not real

I like your summation

God help me

Nice one, Op...you made lotta sense