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youngice:
I won't deceive my self I'm a nice guy to the core
I'm the kind of guy that holds the door open for a lady
I call her by 6:45 to be the first to start her day. I don't shout at her , I'm a nice guy but I'm not a pushover
I don't take shiit (what I considered shit might vary from what others considered shit)
But I have perennial bad luck with women ,looks can be deceiving , I have the looks a player and also my startup lines and catch phrases are straight out of the players manual,I tried to be a player but it never worked out for me
Maybe it because I'm the only guy among 3 girls and mom ensured and still ensures that I treat all women like queens ,im yet to meet a lady that hasn't given me her her number and I'm very picky but I've only had 2 successes in all my dating attempts, admittedly I'm quite young (very early 20's) , but in all the ladies I've woed I've observed a pattern it goes like this

week 1 everything perfect, she calls I call , lovey dovey shi, love is in the air

week 2 I really have no idea what always happens

subsequently she hates me,absolutely detest me, she doesn't reply pings, see's me and ignores me I'm beginning to wonder if I have a problem because the pattern is getting very annoying
PS
I'm in an 'all guys uni (FUTO) and I'm in my early 20's with a young fac
please relationship experts advise needed
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Mizmycoli (Nairaland love expert )
Kachisbarbie ( pretty Lady analyst

Williamso:
Forget the bad boy issh. If you aren't a bad boy naturally, you'll end up being worse with the ladies...

uglyogre:
keep deceiving yourselves with the 'ladies love bad guys' notion, don't go and work on your characters, manners and your words.maybe when you stop being picky and give others the chance to receive the love you crave for, you'll also find what you're searching for

TDstarr:
, hahaha i have seen a girl cheat on me to my face with my player friend, worse part is she knew my friend had a girlfriend. she told me and my friend that she choose my friend over me, this girl denied me sex and gave my bad boy friend sex within one week of meeting him, i have spent time reading and experiencing women way of thinking, thats why u can see a man beat his wife and she still wont leave him. my friend dumped her after one weekend of fun and she still came back to beg me....the nice mugu

i can give you books to read if u want , its not their fault, its in their genes

thegoodjoehunt3:
There is no need given me books. I take my time to understand why things happens.

Women love being seduced. Playas are good seducers. At the time the lady is being seduced, nothing matters to her than fulfilling that urge.

As soon as he dumped her, he is no more seducing her, that is when she remembered you.

If you were chasing and seducing another girl, you will not feel the pain she caused you. That is why playas do not feel pains of heart break.

It is not that girls love bad guys, she loves being the center of attraction. If she was dating the playa and another guy comes with more game and thrill, she will leave him for that one.

Remember the garden of Eden. Eve (Woman) had it all but was tempted for the one she did not have. That is how most women are. They always want more.

doskie:
didn't even read the screed. im replying the ropic from what I think its about. I dont like nicr guys. I refer you to one book. its titled THE PRINCE BY NICOLO MACHIAVELLI. read it.

doskie:
didn't even read the screed. im replying the ropic from what I think its about. I dont like nicr guys. I refer you to one book. its titled THE PRINCE BY NICOLO MACHIAVELLI. read it.

YNeme3E:
I feel for u bro,, buh I think u need to be less nice, cos most of d girls see you as mr nice, and they don't lyk it much.. PS. SOSC and SOHT girls are good at this.. Buh take ur time bro, I'm sure soonest u find a girl d@ lyks u,,, though those futo girls dey worry shaa...

frankmoney:
Through my research I have found out women don't like nice guys ...they like guys that are in control and a bit rough ...you can be nice but not too nice else she would take u for granted and feel Mr nice guy is always there .....

TDstarr:
think we on the same page

uglyogre:
keep deceiving yourselves with the 'ladies love bad guys' notion, don't go and work on your characters, manners and your words.maybe when you stop being picky and give others the chance to receive the love you crave for, you'll also find what you're searching for

doskie:
didn't even read the screed. im replying the ropic from what I think its about. I dont like nicr guys. I refer you to one book. its titled THE PRINCE BY NICOLO MACHIAVELLI. read it.

bisous:
Do you bleep them before things go awry? if yes maybe you got the wrong entrance or just don't do it right or they are scared you'd take them for granted.....Relationships are about energy exchange (as most of life is) and most times the less care you show(for most young people) the more atop of the game you are

youngice:
I won't deceive my self I'm a nice guy to the core
I'm the kind of guy that holds the door open for a lady
I call her by 6:45 to be the first to start her day. I don't shout at her , I'm a nice guy but I'm not a pushover
I don't take shiit (what I considered shit might vary from what others considered shit)
But I have perennial bad luck with women ,looks can be deceiving , I have the looks a player and also my startup lines and catch phrases are straight out of the players manual,I tried to be a player but it never worked out for me
Maybe it because I'm the only guy among 3 girls and mom ensured and still ensures that I treat all women like queens ,im yet to meet a lady that hasn't given me her her number and I'm very picky but I've only had 2 successes in all my dating attempts, admittedly I'm quite young (very early 20's) , but in all the ladies I've woed I've observed a pattern it goes like this

week 1 everything perfect, she calls I call , lovey dovey shi, love is in the air

week 2 I really have no idea what always happens

subsequently she hates me,absolutely detest me, she doesn't reply pings, see's me and ignores me I'm beginning to wonder if I have a problem because the pattern is getting very annoying
PS
I'm in an 'all guys uni (FUTO) and I'm in my early 20's with a young fac
please relationship experts advise needed
Only mature comments
Niaraland love experts
CC
Mizmycoli (Nairaland love expert )
Kachisbarbie ( pretty Lady analyst

Urine:
If I have my way I'll really love to knock some sense into you but I also sympathise with the fact that you're the only guy in your house and there's no one to talk to.

That said, too much of everything is bad and you're giving too much so early. With women you have to give them the dose little by little and make them want you. You have to stop the early morning calls right away! It doesn't and will never work. Be friendly and firm to the girl you like, everything you do must be in moderation, in fact learn how to live for 24 hours without seeing or talking to her. On the long run moves like these will separate the fake girls and the keepers.

Finally, the most important don't trade or loose your dignity because you like someone, do stuff you won't be ashamed of if your business was all out in the open.

@yougice

He has spoken my mind. It's harsh. But it's true. I've learnt too @TheEmboldened.

Thanks U-rine

Williamso:
Don't change what you do. Continue to be yourself. You'll definitely come across people who are looking for your type, trust me on that!!!

Forget the bad boy issh. If you aren't a bad boy naturally, you'll end up being worse with the ladies...

Mutuwa:
Op?

Did you know that greed is a bottomless pit which exhausts the person in an endless effort to satisfy the need without ever reaching satisfaction.

Did you know the people that are the strongest are usually the most sensitive?

Did you know the people who exhibit the most kindness are the first to get mistreated?

Did you know the one who takes care of others all the time are usually the ones who need it the most?

Did you know the 3 hardest things to say are I love you, I'm sorry, and Help me.

Always shame the devil plz..don't allow trifflings like this to deter u from being nice..

MizMyColi:


He has spoken my mind. It's harsh. But it's true. I've learnt too @TheEmboldened.

Thanks U-rine

MizMyColi:

@yougice

He has spoken my mind. It's harsh. But it's true. I've learnt too @TheEmboldened.

Thanks U-rine

bisous:
Do you bleep them before things go awry? if yes maybe you got the wrong entrance or just don't do it right or they are scared you'd take them for granted.....Relationships are about energy exchange (as most of life is) and most times the less care you show(for most young people) the more atop of the game you are

bisous:
Do you bleep them before things go awry? if yes maybe you got the wrong entrance or just don't do it right or they are scared you'd take them for granted.....Relationships are about energy exchange (as most of life is) and most times the less care you show(for most young people) the more atop of the game you are

Princecharmin:
is d fish whose brain u borrowed aware of how u'r misusing it?.....thunder fire u n dat book
































































































ode buruku
is d fish whose brain u borrowed aware of how u'r misusing it?.....thunder fire u n dat book
































































































ode buruku

youngice:
I won't deceive my self I'm a nice guy to the core
I'm the kind of guy that holds the door open for a lady
I call her by 6:45 to be the first to start her day. I don't shout at her , I'm a nice guy but I'm not a pushover
I don't take shiit (what I considered shit might vary from what others considered shit)
But I have perennial bad luck with women ,looks can be deceiving , I have the looks a player and also my startup lines and catch phrases are straight out of the players manual,I tried to be a player but it never worked out for me
Maybe it because I'm the only guy among 3 girls and mom ensured and still ensures that I treat all women like queens ,im yet to meet a lady that hasn't given me her her number and I'm very picky but I've only had 2 successes in all my dating attempts, admittedly I'm quite young (very early 20's) , but in all the ladies I've woed I've observed a pattern it goes like this

week 1 everything perfect, she calls I call , lovey dovey shi, love is in the air

week 2 I really have no idea what always happens

subsequently she hates me,absolutely detest me, she doesn't reply pings, see's me and ignores me I'm beginning to wonder if I have a problem because the pattern is getting very annoying
PS
I'm in an 'all guys uni (FUTO) and I'm in my early 20's with a young fac
please relationship experts advise needed
Only mature comments
Niaraland love experts
CC
Mizmycoli (Nairaland love expert )
Kachisbarbie ( pretty Lady analyst

Mutuwa:
Op?

Did you know that greed is a bottomless pit which exhausts the person in an endless effort to satisfy the need without ever reaching satisfaction.

Did you know the people that are the strongest are usually the most sensitive?

Did you know the people who exhibit the most kindness are the first to get mistreated?

Did you know the one who takes care of others all the time are usually the ones who need it the most?

Did you know the 3 hardest things to say are I love you, I'm sorry, and Help me.

Always shame the devil plz..don't allow trifflings like this to deter u from being nice..