Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? - Romance (5)

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Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by bigiyaro(m): 12:44pm On Dec 24, 2014

Who told you it's wrong to tell a guy u miss him?

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by harffie(m): 12:48pm On Dec 24, 2014

EroticAngelina:
Abeg mind ur biz jare. mtchewww mr i-too-know.

I'm sorry!

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by Keky(m): 2:08pm On Dec 24, 2014

No try that nonsense with me ooo, miss wetin.

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Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by ogawisdom(m): 2:11pm On Dec 24, 2014*

A man missing another man haba huh

Its wrong bc d words come with lots of affection in it. A man showing affection for another man is wrong.

Y nt jst say o boy hw far long time, may b we shld hang out this wkend. yeap dts more lik it. There is a way a man shld talk to anoda man but some men r women wit a dick n ll always wanna show feelings

Pls no man shld b missing me wen my baby dey there.

I understand dt some guy -guy friendship can b sooo close dt gfs r abandoned. My guy back in sch we were soo close dt where u see me u see him jst lik twins but no show of affection at all na jst brothers thing. D highest we say to ourselves is peter u kw u r my mannest man ........

My take though

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Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by darkjorse: 2:12pm On Dec 24, 2014

I have a friend who uses those words before and I was uncomfortable, but I realize later it's no big deal. If you love someone just tell him or her, that's how you feel the world will always judge but GOD knows your heart

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by princy80(m): 2:40pm On Dec 24, 2014

u no c anyoda tin to tlk xcept "i miss u" 99% of guys will tak it homotically.....dem no wnt 14yrs imprisonment
cool

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by Akalia(m): 2:44pm On Dec 24, 2014

No Biggie,been gay is allowed too

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Dec 24, 2014

tartar9:
some people keep telling me "you look really cute" is that also gayish.

No, it's a MISTAKE! :-)

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Dec 24, 2014

Ion haf any friends so I cnt relate...
Bur I'll pray for yhu bro, xo you'll overcome yur obstacles in lyf.. grin

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Dec 24, 2014

Its just a monkier that has nuffin to do with my personality huh

tosyne2much:
your moniker says you are a badooo

Hmmmmm I comment my reserve

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by XwhY(m): 3:54pm On Dec 24, 2014

Fraih:
I Miss you or I love you shouldn't be restricted to a particular sex, for goodness sake, you are expressing urself and its not about homo or not, that shouldn't even come to our miind at all...
I do tell my female friends I miss and love them because I really do and cos we had great moments together, I see no biggie when a guy tells that to his guys-man...
PERIOD

But don't you think telling the opposite sex you love him/her could mean something. I support the 'miss' part tho.

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by lagcity(m): 3:56pm On Dec 24, 2014

much ado about nothing. a guy can tell his buddy that he misses him. this new generation don dey kolo, everytin na homo for dem mind.
skinny jeans-wearing modafokers embarassed

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Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by tosyne2much(m): 4:09pm On Dec 24, 2014

badoolee:
Its just a monkier that has nuffin to do with my personality

are you sure ?

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by peter1994(m): 4:42pm On Dec 24, 2014

.you have to put ''o'' or "jor" else it would sound awkward to tell a guy that u miss him

asin;
*guy i miss u o
*guy i miss u jor

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Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by liricyst(m): 5:27pm On Dec 24, 2014

say it in pidgin..it reduces the homo sound.

''How far my nigga, e don tey o..me don miss you gan. How your end na?''

no dude would find that gay

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Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Dec 24, 2014

I yamu very sure huh

tosyne2much:
are you sure ?

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Dec 24, 2014

It would be very gay to tell a dude that...as a dude.

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Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by MrCork: 11:17pm On Dec 24, 2014

badoolee:
I yamu very sure

..kaiii...see booobsi...nice pic. sweeerry plis can I drink u? cheesy

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Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by kika23(f): 11:20pm On Dec 24, 2014

MrCork:
..kaiii...see booobsi...nice pic. sweeerry plis can I drink u?

You want to drink from a dark sinned female? angry

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by khia: 11:21pm On Dec 24, 2014

2sExy1:
I remember when I once told a friend that I miss you and he burst into laughter.

I told another friend today same and his reply was "How a man go dey miss a man. I don't understand".

Frankly, when I say those words it means I don't see you as just a friend but a brother. One I could do anything for.

But why is it wrong?

It's not wrong.

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by dahfweshdude69: 11:24pm On Dec 24, 2014

my friends will simply call you a f*g if you tell them you miss them. angry

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by MrCork: 11:25pm On Dec 24, 2014

kika23:
You want to drink from a dark sinned female?

....sweeery all booobsi r the same in the dak...,.we don't this criminate! wink

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Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by kika23(f): 11:27pm On Dec 24, 2014

MrCork:
....sweeery all booobsi r the same in the dak...,.we don't this criminate!

Hahahahahaha......

SMH.....

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by MrCork: 11:35pm On Dec 24, 2014

2sExy1:
I remember when I once told a friend that I miss you and he burst into laughter.

I told another friend today same and his reply was "How a man go dey miss a man. I don't understand".

Frankly, when I say those words it means I don't see you as just a friend but a brother. One I could do anything for.

But why is it wrong?

...Franklin.. how looong u beeeen G@y? (no oofeinse) angry

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Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by Nobody: 11:53pm On Dec 24, 2014

MrCork:
..kaiii...see booobsi...nice pic. sweeerry plis can I drink u?

u are allergic to dark skinned gehs grin

We ar poisinous

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by Nobody: 2:10am On Dec 25, 2014

Abbey2sam:
You need to be a guy in this our generation to understand what we are talking about .....

no one sees anything wrong when two girls holds hands one the road......Make guys try am see nah.....

girls even carry their selves on their laps
make two guys try am nah......

girls peck their selves, some of them even kids

boys have restrictions

I swear this your post killed me... Laff wan kill me die. Even as far back as 2008, my neighbours (guys) were strolling together and one was like "nna guy, but I love you o" the guy stopped dead in his tracks and replied "bia iwu homo? Why you go dey tell me that kain thing?"

I almost shit myself with laughter that day, till date, that experience makes me laugh anytime I remember it.

You are very correct, guys in this part of the world have restrictions, they are not supposed to express their feelings. It's seen as a female trait and perceived as a sign of weakness. Even when your father is dead, you are not allowed to cry. That's Nigeria and Africa for you.

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by Nobody: 2:15am On Dec 25, 2014

WackyJ1:
2Sexy you dey listen to females wey dey hug each other when theye greet and kiss each other for cheek, you be guy oh!

Don't say i miss you just say How far bruh, how we go see..

But i know say you no dey miss me

Gbam!!! You nailed it.... that's how the guys I grew up with and around greet themselves. No time for too much talk. Guys talk in codes, anything short of that is gay related. Lol

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by Nobody: 2:26am On Dec 25, 2014

ogawisdom:
A man missing another man haba
Its wrong bc d words come with lots of affection in it. A man showing affection for another man is wrong.

Y nt jst say o boy hw far long time, may b we shld hang out this wkend. yeap dts more lik it. There is a way a man shld talk to anoda man but some men r women wit a dick n ll always wanna show feelings

Pls no man shld b missing me wen my baby dey there.

I understand dt some guy -guy friendship can b sooo close dt gfs r abandoned. My guy back in sch we were soo close dt where u see me u see him jst lik twins but no show of affection at all na jst brothers thing. D highest we say to ourselves is peter u kw u r my mannest man ........

My take though

I swear you have made my day... grin

Re: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by SHOCK7(m): 2:49am On Dec 25, 2014

EroticAngelina:
It just feels wrong ok? Just like telling a guy 'i love u' makes him think ur gay, where as you just love him like a brother. Thats just how things are. But are u gay?