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i dont know how to explain this but it keeps disturbing me. im not into any serious relationship ryt now but i am a very social person.i have many friends, male and female included. my problem is the moment i approach a girl and try to be casual with her, she will start giving me green lights within few days of meeting and if i dont respond positively, they will snub and ignore me afterwards.it has happened on several occcasions. how do i handle this? im not ready for any dating things

Then stay own and stop being a toza queen

Must you keep a female as a friend?

Exjoker:
Must you keep a female as a friend?

I prefer them to male friends sometimes............

Some of the are like mothers, always there when your life is messed up.



OP, what do you discuss with them?

How do you approach them?

U no know say na God dey protect u. U no know problems wey dey If u start dey date dos babes abi.

Tallesty1:
I prefer them to male friends sometimes............

Some of the are like mothers, always there when your life is messed up.



OP, what do you discuss with them?

How do you approach them?

Look who is talking?? I assumed you have separate agenda for keeping females as friends . No vex bro, na cause i no the trust you again

Dude just keep bleeping em jooor(your prob no gt solution)i can't ask you to stay away from them(can't b possible)

Exjoker:
Look who is talking?? I assumed you have separate agenda for keeping females as friends . No vex bro, na cause i no the trust you again

The reason is this, I have been betrayed many times by guys.

let me c ur pix b4 i no wat to say

Tallesty1:
The reason is this, I have been betrayed many times by guys.

Lol... You're not serious, are you? To be honest I have also got many female friends but to tell you the truth, Friendship with my fellow boys are the way forward

Show them the red light...

zoeee:
Show them the red light...

yeah Green n Red... 9ce combination 4 Xmas

Exjoker:
Lol... You're not serious, are you? To be honest I have also got many female friends but to tell you the truth, Friendship with my fellow boys are the way forward

lols..... Good for you nah......

I am not luck with male pals.

Tallesty1:
The reason is this, I have been betrayed many times by guys.

lol got nothing but 'aww' for you..
i prefer female friends too though..

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@OP.. then stop being 'casual' talk to them like u do your fellow guy.. i for one am so so free with girls, so they dont mistake intents, they'd know am not into them that kinda way. Laugh normally, dont be too nice, be frank, talk about things that wont be suggestive, dont be too much of a gentleman too, talk to them like equals( i mean, take a virtual men and women are equal stance) .. if you are this way with them, they would only take you serious on a romantic level when u go verbal about certain feelings and all... All these should come naturally though, if you really have alot of girls coming at you though.

frankyskyboi:
i dont know how to explain this but it keeps disturbing me. im not into any serious relationship ryt now but i am a very social person.i have many friends, male and female included. my problem is the moment i approach a girl and try to be casual with her, she will start giving me green lights within few days of meeting and if i dont respond positively, they will snub and ignore me afterwards.it has happened on several occcasions. how do i handle this? im not ready for any dating things

I am just like you in same shit too..

frankyskyboi:
i dont know how to explain this but it keeps disturbing me. im not into any serious relationship ryt now but i am a very social person.i have many friends, male and female included. my problem is the moment i approach a girl and try to be casual with her, she will start giving me green lights within few days of meeting and if i dont respond positively, they will snub and ignore me afterwards.it has happened on several occcasions. how do i handle this? im not ready for any dating things

make friends with the normal ones na

ooooooooooooooooo....... i c!

Brother, you are into "canopy" ministry. I think you allow your emotions to control you too much, that is the reason you don't really define your relationship with the opposite sex... Try to always define your relationship before going into one whether it is mutual or otherwise.. Stop putting our ladies into emotional imbalance(that might be the reason for their reactions)

Ehemmn why are you telling us? You want us to clap for you??

Bro there are not so many ways about it, it's either U keep females as casual friends, as friends with benefits or as lovers. Either ways, U must take charge and be urself.

tunapa2009:
Brother, you are into "canopy" ministry. I think you allow your emotions to control you too much, that is the reason you don't really define your relationship with the opposite sex... Try to always define your relationship before going into one whether it is mutual or otherwise.. Stop putting our ladies into emotional imbalance(that might be the reason for their reactions)

Gbam..!!!