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Chubhie:
Have gone through amazing transformations and have discovered to self love and not seek it outside. It over flows and spills to all Gods creature without expecting nothing in return. It will be a cosmic injustice to pour it all on a single soul!!!! I'm afraid and really afraid of getting involved romantically with the wrong person cos all I now represent could be made a mess of. But most times, you wished you had that ONE you let into that private place of innocence and experiment as little kids in a vast universe filled with endless possibilities. Mum wants cute grandkids and I've told the universe to re align and fish a match cos I don't have time to work on a raw material anymore. If it doesn't happen I'm still committed to self love and spreading goodwill amongst Gods beautiful creatures. Only by cosmic intervention have I held out for so long.

@FirstEmboldened
Yes and No to that.

@Purpled --- now you know the reason for my "no" at first emboldened

@SecondEmboldened
So, what if the universe has plans that don't align with your dictates at face value, even when you both re working towards a common goal?

@3rdEmboldened
If it happens now, honestly, do you think you'd recognize it?
Don't you think you've shut out that part completely?
For someone with this kind of thought process and big heart, I believe Love can happen to you.
Question is; Is your mind, your seat of awareness prepared?

Elantracey:
That's my biggest question , all the time it has always been.

LordReed:
Your experience may have been bad but believe me it's no reason to give up on love. Don't love because the person is good or beautiful, love because you have it to give. Be you every time, not letting what someone else is cause you to hide yourself.

MizMyColi:

MizMyColi:
@Cwaya @Ela
If it takes that route, it's become an obsession of sorts.

MizMyColi:
@FirstEmboldened
Yes and No to that.

@Purpled --- now you know the reason for my "no" at first emboldened

@SecondEmboldened
So, what if the universe has plans that don't align with your dictates at face value, even when you both re working towards a common goal?

@3rdEmboldened
If it happens now, honestly, do you think you'd recognize it?
Don't you think you've shut out that part completely?
For someone with this kind of thought process and big heart, I believe Love can happen to you.
Question is; Is your mind, your seat of awareness prepared?

Samsonklin:
Taaaaaaaaaaaah!
The sincerest love of all is the love of food.
#teamall-lovelost
Merry xmas MCOLI n a prosperous new year to ya

UjSizzle:
It's a shitty place to be stuck in. Period.

You might wanna change that mindset Hun, and maybe the person in question
Wisdom tho'............

craziebone:
I read your article about virginity and to be honest, i didn't get anything from it. Not everyone who is virgin is happy with it. There are those who are happy staying chaste and the are those who are just not happy!

Teespice:
choi.

I totally agree with this post.

mizmycoli, brilliant piece. I can relate to what you wrote.

waxyung:
I mean it.. Dis is a mirror of my hrt content.. I jst cnt help bt read it over nd over again... Wez my luv?... #shy off

YoursSolomon:
Gracias! Mizmycoli

LordReed:
We are afraid to love because we are afraid to be naked. We cover ourselves with lies and deceptions so much we are afraid to look at the things we hide. Even the simplest things get complicated because we need to coat everything with the "veneer of civilization", creating facades we show to the world to appear "more interesting". Is it any surprise we are afraid to love when love requires you to be beholden by the other without any deceptions? Naked?

Until we learn to live without all those coverings we throw upon ourselves, we will not love. Until we learn to be comfortable being naked we will continue to be lonely in the midst of a crowd.

LordReed:
Never give your love because of another person. Give your love for you. This way your love will remain true even if the other does not.

MizMyColi:


You might wanna change that mindset Hun, and maybe the person in question
Wisdom tho'............

priscaoge:
Intelligent thread you've got here Coli!!! Nice one. Can't help but read from top to the end unlike other ones
Congrats on ur new blog @mizmycoli

LordReed:
No doubt it is but remember you are doing it first for you, that is a whole lot of compensation already.

joedrae:
Mizm ycoli, a million thumbs up. Nice piece.

MizMyColi:








I'm an empath sir. More oft than not, I live my life through others



It becomes venomous when it is one sided and self seeking and self preserving.




Scary, yes. But that's why you and I are here.
Let's be change. Let's be the true love that our world desperately needs.
Let's let go of our fears and hurts and try again.
While at it, let's apply wisdom and follow our innerlight.



This is my stand too.
As 2015 approaches



I have to screenshot this
Tenks

Speakdatruth:
colly, dats a gud awakenin u knw, buh if u had had abt 3/4 heartbreak, it's wisdom 2sit yo as$ down n tink, of wot benefit iz 2b emotionally sold? wot makes d love i receive everyday frm odas diff frm d one opposite gender? cud it b all in my quest not 2b lonely or just 4d altar-walk? d truth iz even till now, many just profess love buh do not understand it n hence, d emotional casualties continues...............

You have just sparked some truths.
Lolz

MizMyColi:
Honestly Nne, some parts of that writ gets me to tears.
That wasn't solely my write up.
I prayed, I called on heaven for inspiration.

Feraz:
*there's dust in my eyes hence why it is teary*

I'm afraid cos the person will not reciprocate it.

ImpactWorld:
Awesome!

obiaguna:
This is so me right now, for most people(like me) its the hurt that lingers from the previous relationship. Mehn I was so hurt and I lost every will to fall in love again. The fear still abounds but maybe when I'm fully ready I would try to love again. Good write up, you have spoken well.

youngice:
A beautiful write but I don't think I'm ready to love ,at least not for now,the last person I tried loving did a number on my heart.

Cwaya:
Uuhmmm, Concur with that !!


Anyway, Letz say i'm not Ready for it Now !!

IamDejman:
We think up all possible and impossible reasons in the universe why we may not be right for each other, even when our heart clearly thinks we are. We think of the scores of guys and ladies we might be liking at the same time like we do eachother. We practically kill a love so innocent and budding with our bare hands, because we can't stand going through the pains --- again. We have somehow developed a tradition of getting out, even before going in. (Sigh).

Happened lot of times this year!!!

You can make a fresh start.
Look!
Its a new year!