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Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
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Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Urine: 11:34pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
nieema: Another reason not to fall in 'love'. Op, you're are leaving the guy because he has financial challenges so why do you have cook up lies to cover your real intention? I've been a victim of an action like yours before and I will say this to your face, that guy you have written off will end up being a great man. People like you that love giving up on people make it easier for God to remember them and change their stories. Btw, you can keep your 40k to yourself, he won't be needing it. Love is loyalty, staying true to a cause despite the challenges, Karma is lurking, waiting for you. 10 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by koolg: 11:34pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
nieema: This OP has written off the guy Anyway, money answereth all things 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by TDstarr: 11:34pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
nieema:hahahaha you need an adventourous relationship, people like you dont think of the future, if u date a player who will break ur heart u will start crying for husband later, God has given u a good man u want to leave him, noproblem, remember me in 10years 40thousans to break someones heart, smh people like him comes once in a lifetime pls dont make a mistake plssss 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Dannylux: 11:35pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Lala247: The lady seems very confused or probably impugned by her conscience for trying to dump the guy. 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Dannylux: Thats true, its a guilty person that would do that, she doesn't need any space she just want out of the relationship n is trying to do it nicely but its insulting giving him a gift on top of break up lol 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by 05984901JE(f): 11:37pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
As for me.....breakup gift is trash for sm1 dt truely loves u.....its an insult....its like tryin to bride da hrt nt to hurt...rlatioships r way deper dn friendship..tinz,moments r shared...den u xpect sm1s hurt to b lessend by some silly gift..d gift cannt replace d person or cure d hurt....comin to ur story dear...guys r egoistic givin hm d bah may feel Tryin to burst his buble...I'd rada u pay it into his aCcnt dan give him cash.....dts jst ma opinion tho.....wish ya luck... |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Abraham2013(m): 11:38pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
nieema:Well d problem is dat d money is too small. Watever is worth doing, is worth doing well. Make dat money 4million and d guy will not disturb u again, make it 40 million and d guy will even agree to be d best man to whoever u chose to marry in future. 7 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by TDstarr: 11:39pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
nieema:pls forget the money dont worsen it, just forget and walk out stop deceiving urself, you dont love him 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Dannylux: 11:40pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Lala247: No sane guy would accept such gift. See her funny reason, she wanna focus on something more important.. Cliche. 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by TDstarr: 11:42pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Nmeri17:av seen these cases a hundred times over she always end up regretting and the guy picks up himself and becomes a better person 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Dannylux: Looool more important= guy with money lol she fed up of poverty . Mayb shes asses the guy and knows he needs the cash lol but she shouldn't dent his ego any further. And if he accepts it lol dey wer both deceiving each other 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by ifoundmyperfect: 11:43pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
My girl tells me shez no longer interested, I'd give her a gift of freedom to leave. If I indeed love her, I'd let her go. If we're meant to be, our paths will cross. OP, you don't need to give him a monetary gift. It'd be demeaning, demoralizing and humiliating. Which bobo go wan collect money from babe wey just shenk am 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by qtx(m): 11:47pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
nieema:Although it sounds like your heart has already been fixed on what you believe if you dont do, nothing else will work, however, have you raised these issues point-blank with him and he is unable to discuses and advise with better alternatives or options? sometimes my dear one head cannot carry all alone neither can one heart envelope all things at ones part of the reasons you are lovers/friends. In my opinion, lay the issue bare and naked to him and wait to see his suggestions. Because at times in the issues of life, you may just be seeing a solution that in your mind is a thousand times correct and perfect,until just a single word from another person you now begin to see alot of lapses in that your presumed prefect solution. You may be surprise that that young man will just say one single word that will act like a password to that mighty looking challenges you are facing. why not try this first? Give him the details no matter how nasty they may seem and allow him suggest ways out. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by justscorch: 11:49pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
fuckshit: Truu 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by sleek82(m): 11:53pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Well I'm findin your excuse for breakup really hard to bliv...I guess your real reasons r still best known to you. I bliv if u have somethings to straighten in ur personal life, your partner shuld b one of the persons to help out. Im sori if I sound out of point here but anytime I go into a serious relationship, I see the lady as if she were ma wife and so I alwys find reasons to alwys keep her instead of lose her. I bliv if dis man means 'd world' to u, you wuldnt even give it a thought to lose him irrespective of wat u r goin thru. Wat if u r married to him? Wont you still tackle ur personal probs and still av him beside you as ur husband? I think he might read a negative meanin to ur gift as I would if I were in his shoes.........just ma thoughts sha |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by adbokus(m): 11:55pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Pls go ahead and allow the young man meet someone who truly deserves him. Enjoy your intended rollercoaster while it lasts!... 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by sleek82(m): 11:59pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
qtx:God bless you for this piece! |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Holuwathosyn(m): 12:01am On Dec 28, 2014 |
nieema: Won't collect d money but would respect her decisions and for her being honest. We would go have a valedictory fun with the money. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by zilon12(m): 12:01am On Dec 28, 2014 |
Just 40k? Op you can do better now But to be candid with you, you don't love him anymore 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by zilon12(m): 12:06am On Dec 28, 2014 |
Abraham2013: I don't think she will need the breakup if she had N4m 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by ashahmali: 12:08am On Dec 28, 2014 |
Been thr done that.. who is the new guy? 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by feelme3(m): 12:09am On Dec 28, 2014 |
prince3009: End of story! The bolded na the koko. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by afbstrategies: 12:09am On Dec 28, 2014 |
I wouldn't tie money around any break up and I am sure he may be reluctant to take the money from you. I like women that are sincere and straight forward. Just tell the poor guy that you are not longer feeling him romantically. There are also some other questions you are silent on: is there any guy lurking around? It may not be fair to break up with him today and then end up in another guy's arm next month. Finally, if you love or care about him so much, why can you let him stay and help you tackle this so called problem you are facing?. No one is forcing you to stay if you don't want to but how I wish women will stop all these excuses and break up with men if they want to. Good Luck 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Mavor: 12:10am On Dec 28, 2014 |
nieema: This tale is half untold. Why are you dumping him? 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by stint(m): 12:11am On Dec 28, 2014 |
Even without hearing your bf's side of the story i know he has three problems at least: 1. He is broke 2. His girlfriend think he is incapable of helping him solve her problem. She thinks he is a distraction. 3. This girlfriend whom he loves has been trying to break up with him for some time now. Am sure he has been sensing it before u ever mentioned it. But that does not matter since your own problems which neither I nor your bf knows about are a lot greater than the ones lifted above. Pls stop trying to be righteous. You want to break up. Its messy, it will be your fault, its grown up stuff, its not easy, its not pretty, but u have to do it. I want you to do it for the guy's sake. Dont offer him money. Try to tell him the REAL reason. I know most girls dont like to do that because they dont want their guys painting them black after thr break up. But dont worry about that. This one loves u. Be honest if u want him to get closure and think good thoughts about u when he finally gets over it. I 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Darvel(m): 12:12am On Dec 28, 2014 |
Mhen..... U re really really heartless... Tell me who does dat... BREAK UP GIFT.... The story is clear, u re seeing anoda guy and he is lavishing u with money.... PERIOD.. Go kiss naked wire if u like.... Ur choice tho |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by justscorch: 12:13am On Dec 28, 2014 |
I know a rich nigggga wants u and u feel there's nothing ur niggga can do for ya,Wallahi bish u ain't loya 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nmeri17: 12:19am On Dec 28, 2014 |
TDstarr: does not always work out that way. the guy could be introvert and the girl an outgoing flirty bombshell in this present situation where the op is not completely over the guy, I think he's more likely to move on than she is sha |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 12:22am On Dec 28, 2014 |
Of course, yes. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by wunmi590(m): 12:27am On Dec 28, 2014 |
ireneony: We need to fire dis moderators... Dey don dey do politics 4 NL nw |
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