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Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by brandahi: 9:59am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Pls Take Your time to read this This is based on my own experience as a man, I didn't copy it from anywhere so anybody is free to air there view or counter me. Now there are many things ladies don't know abt us guys. Dis has led to a lot of misconception and disenchantment from both sex. I read a lot of comments here and I realise dat most ladies don't know anything about d makeup of a man. I believe dat the ladies will learn a lot if they realize some basic truth about us. 1.Men don't want only sex from you: many ladies believe or think dat d only thing guys want from dem is sex. Dis is why they go into a relationship with dat resource only as wat they are bringing on board hoping dat the guy will do anything for dem as long as he's getting sex. Dis is wrong. Men may like sex but its not d only thing they like or want in a relationship. A guy needs a lady who will understand him, who can stand by him and encourage him to reach his full potential, who can spur him on and always remind him dat he can make it no matter all odds. A lady who can come into his life and put things right dat were wrong, dat can get him to be organised and focused, dat can walk with him on d street, dat can smile and laugh at his jokes, dat can play with him and have a gud time with him, dat can love his family and respect him as a man. Some things are just more important than sex to guys. 2. It takes effort to woo a lady: ladies if u don't know it, know it now! Its not easy for a guy to stop a lady and share how he feels about her. It takes a lot of guts and also humility to do dat. Men are naturally egoistic and don't like anything dat puts dem down or make dem look like they're begging especially when it comes to ladies. Understand dat dis is natural and not dat they enjoy acting dat way, its a result of both nature and nurture. Before a guy approaches u as a lady, many things must have gone thru his mind. How best to make d move, wat to say, how to say it, hwo to smile and all dat. Dis cud take minutes or days or weeks or even months depending on d guy involved and d urgency. Some guys go thru sleepless nites thinking abt how to approach a particular lady, its not easy. And atimes, d lady will still turn dem down and once dis happens, it becomes more difficult for him to repeat d cycle again. So ladies, when a guy approaches u pls don't put him down like u usually do. Find a way to help preserve his confidence and also pay him back for his effort cos it takes effort. If u don't like him, turn him down softly! 3. Guys are more emotional dan u think: forget all d macho and strong man dat most guys put on d surface. Guys are much more soft and emotional dan they tend to present on d outer surface, even more dan ladies atimes. We cry, we fall in love, we get depressed atimes, we get frustrated. And the worst is dat we hardly show it or speak out for people to help. Becos of upbringing where guys are expected to absorb tension, we just bottle a lot of things up and keep dying inside. It takes a wise lady to unbottle these tensions and bring out the best in a guy. 4.Guys like spending money on ladies: Yes I said so! On the right ladies though. Once a guy loves you, he won't mind spending his last kobo on you. A guy can buy his girl Mr Biggs and go home to soak garri. Its not becos he's mumu or sth, its just how he values the lady in question. Guys love with their resources and their whole heart. Unfortunately, many ladies believe dat a guy who gives to a lady like dat is a fool or mumu. That's why many of us now withdrew because one of d worst things u can ever do to a guy is to tamper with his ego, to make him feel like a fool when he was loving you. Dats why a guy can love his girl and give her everything even while abandoning his own family and siblings. 5. Guys love sex: yes dis is true. Guys love sex not becos they just feel like loving it, but becos they are wired to love it. A healthy man gets erection even when he doesn't want to. Even when a man is sleeping, he gets erection without realising it. Just seeing a lady he likes can give a man erection and dat is how God made it. Its just dat some guys do a good job of controlling it dan others and u must respect those dat do so cos its not easy. So when next u want to knw why guys like sex, I suggest u ask God! 6.Guys are easy to manipulate: guys feel dat its their duty to help ladies. Most guys would fight their fellow men just to defend a lady. I once saw a guy slap his fellow guy just becos he said he would slap a lady! Guys are always d one who compromise for ladies and its natural. Even in d family, guys always feel its their duty to protect their sisters. Its easy to know wat a guy likes and doesn't like so it makes it easy to control and manipulate dem by d ladies. Once u give a guy wat he likes, he will do anything for you. More @ www.tiwasvibes.com 3 Likes
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Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by nosky4(m): 10:03am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Cnt wait for this thread 2 hit fp #facts op# |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Mzgracie(f): 10:04am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Lwtmb That yoUr number 4 got my ribs cracking... Do you that's possible? Ish!!! Guys don't wanna sacrifice... So, you mean a guy can actually buy Mr Biggs and he ll decide to take instead? Hian! Big lie!!! This is 2015... |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Nobody: 10:08am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Tell me more |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by naijaboiy: 10:18am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Mzgracie:Yes that's why he said most men have withdrawn from such acts because you ladies tag us "mumu" "maga" It's really 2015! 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by wenson(m): 10:19am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Am impressed |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Mzgracie(f): 10:23am On Jan 02, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Its not about ladies magalizing generous guys... I don't think that level of sacrifice is possible... Try and picture it... He drinks garri and I eat assorted meals or dishes. And he happy cos he has made the woman he loves happy... Hian! This is reality not one of those boring Nollywood films... Guys like that don't exist... 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by remsonik(f): 10:25am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Ok o.....I don't think guys re easy to manipulate o |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by yorex2011: 10:26am On Jan 02, 2015 |
O boy this write-up try o |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by ayanbaba2(m): 10:27am On Jan 02, 2015 |
just here to read comments... |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by yorex2011: 10:28am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Mzgracie: They do... As far as d garri doesn't kill them or they don't die of hunger...i can do that for a girl i love becos i know she can give all she has for me too (experience) |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by naijaboiy: 10:29am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Mzgracie:You should understand that it was simply a hyperbolic statement (exagerration) just to depict how a man can show his love for his woman. But on the other hand,,i think you should check again. There are actually men who can sacrifice many things just for Love. Yes they exist. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Mzgracie(f): 10:35am On Jan 02, 2015 |
yorex2011: Shush! That's the biggest lie I've ever heard... You love her and you decide sacrifice that much.. If she takes the meal, that's another wahala. You are stupidly in love and she is too damn selfish... Men don't fall stupidly in love. Not in this era |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Mzgracie(f): 10:37am On Jan 02, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Lol Dearie, they don't... They prefer "do me, I do you" style. |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by yorex2011: 10:39am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Mzgracie: Shush??... Did i say it is something i would do on a daily basis...would she knw wat was sacrificed?... Its not being stupid or selfish madam...just discovered that I really don't care what you believe sef.. |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Tallesty1(m): 10:40am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Takes effort to woo a lady? I don't think so. Your 4 and 6 no concern me sha. |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Mzgracie(f): 10:44am On Jan 02, 2015 |
yorex2011: Lwtmb Gosh! You are taking this personal Anyways, HNY |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by yorex2011: 10:46am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by naijaboiy: 10:49am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Mzgracie:Its safe to conclude that you've not met them then And that is not a criteria to conclude they don't exist 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by solomonbrown64: 10:51am On Jan 02, 2015 |
...True. ..very true...but the thing is; most girls don't understand the meaning of sacrifice., they take one as a fool when such is exhibited... 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Mzgracie(f): 10:54am On Jan 02, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Chai!!! Naijaboiy! Allow me win this argument nah.. |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by marieolae(f): 10:55am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Mzgracie:lol wat do u expect from a law student 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by spanzed(m): 10:59am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Nice writeup Op...I can bodly say am a product of NO4 |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Mzgracie(f): 11:01am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by naijaboiy: 11:05am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Mzgracie: Cant stop laughing here No be so e dey happen o |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by naijaboiy: 11:08am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Mzgracie(f): 11:08am On Jan 02, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Lol Okay, adon agree say you don win me today sha! Nah luck you get ooo.... 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Mzgracie(f): 11:11am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Janeify(f): 11:12am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Makes sense. This article is educative, i knew some and i have found more facts .. This will hit fp,hopefully |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by naijaboiy: 11:16am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Mzgracie:Loooool Next time na |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by Mzgracie(f): 11:17am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Re: Reasons Why Love Seems To Be Meaningless by naijaboiy: 11:18am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Mzgracie:Aah! For wetin na |
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