Pls Take Your time to read this

This is based on my own experience as a man, I
didn't copy it from anywhere so anybody is free to
air there view or counter me.

Now there are many things ladies don't know abt
us guys. Dis has led to a lot of misconception and
disenchantment from both sex. I read a lot of
comments here and I realise dat most ladies don't
know anything about d makeup of a man. I
believe dat the ladies will learn a lot if they realize
some basic truth about us.

1.Men don't want only sex from you: many ladies
believe or think dat d only thing guys want from
dem is sex. Dis is why they go into a relationship
with dat resource only as wat they are bringing on
board hoping dat the guy will do anything for dem
as long as he's getting sex. Dis is wrong. Men
may like sex but its not d only thing they like or
want in a relationship. A guy needs a lady who
will understand him, who can stand by him and
encourage him to reach his full potential, who can
spur him on and always remind him dat he can
make it no matter all odds. A lady who can come
into his life and put things right dat were wrong,
dat can get him to be organised and focused, dat
can walk with him on d street, dat can smile and
laugh at his jokes, dat can play with him and have
a gud time with him, dat can love his family and
respect him as a man. Some things are just more
important than sex to guys.

2. It takes effort to woo a lady: ladies if u don't
know it, know it now! Its not easy for a guy to
stop a lady and share how he feels about her. It
takes a lot of guts and also humility to do dat.
Men are naturally egoistic and don't like anything
dat puts dem down or make dem look like they're
begging especially when it comes to ladies.
Understand dat dis is natural and not dat they
enjoy acting dat way, its a result of both nature
and nurture.
Before a guy approaches u as a lady, many things
must have gone thru his mind. How best to make
d move, wat to say, how to say it, hwo to smile
and all dat. Dis cud take minutes or days or weeks
or even months depending on d guy involved and
d urgency. Some guys go thru sleepless nites
thinking abt how to approach a particular lady, its
not easy. And atimes, d lady will still turn dem
down and once dis happens, it becomes more
difficult for him to repeat d cycle again. So ladies,
when a guy approaches u pls don't put him down
like u usually do. Find a way to help preserve his
confidence and also pay him back for his effort
cos it takes effort. If u don't like him, turn him
down softly!

3. Guys are more emotional dan u think: forget all
d macho and strong man dat most guys put on d
surface. Guys are much more soft and emotional
dan they tend to present on d outer surface, even
more dan ladies atimes. We cry, we fall in love,
we get depressed atimes, we get frustrated. And
the worst is dat we hardly show it or speak out for
people to help. Becos of upbringing where guys
are expected to absorb tension, we just bottle a
lot of things up and keep dying inside. It takes a
wise lady to unbottle these tensions and bring out
the best in a guy.

4.Guys like spending money on ladies: Yes I said
so! On the right ladies though. Once a guy loves
you, he won't mind spending his last kobo on you.
A guy can buy his girl Mr Biggs and go home to
soak garri. Its not becos he's mumu or sth, its just
how he values the lady in question. Guys love
with their resources and their whole heart.
Unfortunately, many ladies believe dat a guy who
gives to a lady like dat is a fool or mumu. That's
why many of us now withdrew because one of d
worst things u can ever do to a guy is to tamper
with his ego, to make him feel like a fool when he
was loving you. Dats why a guy can love his girl
and give her everything even while abandoning
his own family and siblings.

5. Guys love sex: yes dis is true. Guys love sex
not becos they just feel like loving it, but becos
they are wired to love it. A healthy man gets
erection even when he doesn't want to. Even
when a man is sleeping, he gets erection without
realising it. Just seeing a lady he likes can give a
man erection and dat is how God made it. Its just
dat some guys do a good job of controlling it dan
others and u must respect those dat do so cos its
not easy. So when next u want to knw why guys
like sex, I suggest u ask God!

6.Guys are easy to manipulate: guys feel dat its
their duty to help ladies. Most guys would fight
their fellow men just to defend a lady. I once saw
a guy slap his fellow guy just becos he said he
would slap a lady! Guys are always d one who
compromise for ladies and its natural. Even in d
family, guys always feel its their duty to protect
their sisters. Its easy to know wat a guy likes and
doesn't like so it makes it easy to control and
manipulate dem by d ladies. Once u give a guy
wat he likes, he will do anything for you.

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Cnt wait for this thread 2 hit fp



#facts op#

Lwtmb



That yoUr number 4 got my ribs cracking...

Do you that's possible? Ish!!! Guys don't wanna sacrifice...

So, you mean a guy can actually buy Mr Biggs and he ll decide to take instead? Hian! Big lie!!! This is 2015...

Tell me more

Am impressed

naijaboiy:

Yes that's why he said most men have withdrawn from such acts because you ladies tag us "mumu" "maga"

It's really 2015!

Its not about ladies magalizing generous guys... I don't think that level of sacrifice is possible...


Try and picture it...

He drinks garri and I eat assorted meals or dishes. And he happy cos he has made the woman he loves happy... Hian! This is reality not one of those boring Nollywood films...

Guys like that don't exist...

Ok o.....I don't think guys re easy to manipulate o

O boy this write-up try o

just here to read comments...

Mzgracie:



Its not about ladies magalizing generous guys... I don't think that level of sacrifice is possible...


Try and picture it...

He drinks garri and I eat assorted meals or dishes. And he happy cos he has made the woman he loves happy... Hian! This is reality not one of those boring Nollywood films...

Guys like that don't exist...

They do... As far as d garri doesn't kill them or they don't die of hunger...i can do that for a girl i love becos i know she can give all she has for me too (experience)

yorex2011:


They do... As far as d garri doesn't kill them or they don't die of hunger...i can do that for a girl i love becos i know she can give all she has for me too (experience)

Shush! That's the biggest lie I've ever heard...

You love her and you decide sacrifice that much.. If she takes the meal, that's another wahala. You are stupidly in love and she is too damn selfish...

Men don't fall stupidly in love. Not in this era

naijaboiy:

You should understand that it was simply a hyperbolic statement (exagerration) just to depict how a man can show his love for his woman.

But on the other hand,,i think you should check again. There are actually men who can sacrifice many things just for Love.

Yes they exist.

Lol

Dearie, they don't...


They prefer "do me, I do you" style.

Mzgracie:



Shush! That's the biggest lie I've ever heard...

You love her and you decide sacrifice that much.. If she takes the meal, that's another wahala. You are stupidly in love and she is too damn selfish...

Men don't fall stupidly in love. Not in this era

Shush??... Did i say it is something i would do on a daily basis...would she knw wat was sacrificed?... Its not being stupid or selfish madam...just discovered that I really don't care what you believe sef..

Takes effort to woo a lady? I don't think so.



Your 4 and 6 no concern me sha.

yorex2011:


Shush??... Did i say it is something i would do on a daily basis...would she knw wat was sacrificed?... Its not being stupid or selfish madam...just discovered that I really don't care what you believe sef..

Lwtmb


Gosh! You are taking this personal


Anyways, HNY

Mzgracie:




Lwtmb


Gosh! You are taking this personal


Anyways, HNY

same to you ma'am

...True. ..very true...but the thing is; most girls don't understand the meaning of sacrifice., they take one as a fool when such is exhibited...

naijaboiy:

Its safe to conclude that you've not met them then

And that is not a criteria to conclude they don't exist

Chai!!!


Naijaboiy!

Allow me win this argument nah..

Mzgracie:



Chai!!!


Naijaboiy!

Allow me win this argument nah..

lol wat do u expect from a law student

Nice writeup Op...I can bodly say am a product of NO4

marieolae:
lol wat do u expect from a law student

Lol


Babe, you dey try ooo

Mzgracie:



Chai!!!


Naijaboiy!

Allow me win this argument nah..

Cant stop laughing here

No be so e dey happen o

naijaboiy:


Cant stop laughing here

No be so e dey happen o

Lol


Okay, adon agree say you don win me today sha!


Nah luck you get ooo....

naijaboiy:

Hehe

Lol,,don't mind her o

She's worse.

Lol



Hmmmm, false accusation.

I trust my babe.

Makes sense.
This article is educative, i knew some and i have found more facts ..
This will hit fp,hopefully

naijaboiy:

Loooool

Next time na

Better


Then, I ll come with my machine gun.