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Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Chrisx1x(m): 7:56pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Take her to a renowned church such a SCOAN for deliverance.its obvious the devil is trying to distroy your marriage and he is doing that by using your wife.she isnt the enemy bro dnt go for divorse yet 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by idu1(m): 7:57pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Op, that's good for u, face it. Bola wey luv u with all her life... U say she no fine she no get education she no social.... Look at ur life now. Let this serve as a lesson to other gullible guys. Don't marry because of beauty or any other ungodly reasons. My guy, run away, go nd rent another house somewhere.... She fit kill u oooooo. 3 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
BABANGBALI: I don't sleep with married women and if I ever would it would not be a dirty Yoruba wh0re. You know your women. Stop denying it. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Opiosko: 7:57pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Op, is she from Rivers state?. Had a friend like her during my undergrad days. A very good girl who can even do anything for u when she's feeling good, but a monstrous demon when angry. She can use abusive words to unimaginable extent, engage u physically cha!. That's why i laugh at Gov Rotimi Ameachi's gragra stuff..... It took insight and tact to sideline her..... Pls don't say or do anything again, just take a walk and say "Goodbye". I repeat, Rep042 just walk away. Thnk me in yrs to come. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by ceejay80s(m): 7:58pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
WombRaiders:True talk but if I click on like button ,seun will ban me 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Na wa o! Dem don give marriage bad name finish o |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Sleekyshuga(f): 7:58pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
****vexing mood***** Who the hell does she even think she is? What set of generational women are mothers producing these days? This is too much for 1 man now .. @OP, I blame you for virtually everything.. Firstly, you dated/courted her for 2years, and you knew she had this tongue lashing mouth, yet, u went ahead and married her? What does that make you? A good guy? Secondly, there is a saying: "The day you ever allow a woman pay your bills, that day you become her slave". Trust me... She can be all sweet and rosy, and even plead with you to let her do it, and if finally you fall for her charm, and she does it and continously do it, you are in for the worst.. Borrowing from friends, family members etc would have being more responsible, and would have kept your respect in check than dealing with your abusive wife.. Thirdly, you fought with your wife.. You dragged her, and she dragged u!! What a disgusting scenario.. Clap for yourself!! You did well by beating a lady.. There are other better ways of treating a nagging/abusive wife.. Lastly, your wife will never CHANGE.. She is in a world of her own, coupled with the support and encouragement she is getting from her people.. She has sounded it to you.. She wants a DIVORCE.. What are you still waiting for? Until she kills you? It's obvious you don't value your life.. "The shits I keep hearing about marriages keeps me on an alert daily".. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by HopeAlive14(m): 7:58pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Divorce is not the answer to marital challenges. No condition is irreparable before God who instituted marriage! If necessary, try get both your family members to intervene on this issue, the goal should be on reconciliation. See also that your church is involved. Above all, be patient, and more patient with her. Forgive, and forgive her more. Continue to show her love, and more love. Love covers multitude of ills. By God's grace, someday this storm will be over and your home will be filled with peace, joy and laughter. Amen! 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by donmalcolm21(m): 7:58pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
WombRaiders:FYI I'm ibo, but your stupidity knows no bounds and you will remain miserable for being bigot the rest of your life, onye efulefu ka ibu. 7 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
kindly report her 2 a spiritual head she submits to, either a pastor or rev. Fr. Or better still 2 d Man of God dat joined two of u in marriage. Now dat has to be done very fast. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by kullozone(m): 7:59pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
ifyalways: please don't listen to this woman/lady ok? run away.. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by 100Cents: 8:01pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
This is not a marriage. Some ladies cannot build homes with a man without gossiping him to her parents, siblings, friends and neighbors. When you make your man lose his self esteem and always challenge him, then you will remain single for life.. This is too bad.. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by drnairalov: 8:01pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Rosarie: In as much as you re entitled to ur opinion..you need 2 realise you re so wrong in so many level 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
This is a typical episode of those Yoruba reality tv series,never knew the real WWE Smack down happens. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by cococandy(f): 8:02pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Jarus:your house? Is she a tenant? Why won't some men have marital problems when they go about thinking the marriage is all about them and the family home is "his house". Not nice. 4 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by spanzed(m): 8:02pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
I feel ur pain OP but why did u go ahead with the trad wedding when u no her behaivour were you so blinded in love sha the deed has been done my advice to you is that you should take things gently don't let one stu*pid woman give you hypertension....Always remener to put her in prayers I won't advice u divorce her firstly for ur safety and b'cos of ur child don't let him/her grow in a broken home.....The lord is ur strength.... |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by stevecantrell: 8:04pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
All because you wanted to join the "I'm married" club.... 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by phlame(m): 8:05pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Rep042: OP... Good 4 U... |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by adconline(m): 8:05pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Rep042:Asking God to change another person's character when you have actually witnessed it is pure stupidity!! You guys never talked about financial responsibility. What do couples get taught at marriage classes or counseling classes? So he never wore butt pads when u were dating her? Did you not see her panties or unclothedness b4 marriage?? |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by ShaheedBinAliyu(m): 8:05pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
If all u said is true, my advice. .divorce her. if u a muslim, go to alfa to tell u the legal way of divorcing. . my man, if u dnt divorce her n0w, everything will bounce on your kid. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by passionate88: 8:06pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
When I say marriage bring out the DEVIL in MOST modern day Nigerian women, people say it's because I'm not an advocate of marriage... Modern days marriages is a scam. Most sha... 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by lolaxavier(m): 8:06pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
@op, If you used the word 'nice' to describe that lady, then I'd be right to describe snakes as 'nicer'. This girl will send you 6ft below if you don't do the needful ASAPly. You no dey watch Investigation Discovery on top dstv channel 171 - crimes of passion, killer wives, I married a devil etc..Na so e dey start ooo. Consent to divorce and run for ya life ooo. Married woman, buttpad, wetin we no go see.i don talk my own ooo. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by morbeta(m): 8:06pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
janvier27:i was in the same shoes and today my ex-wife is running from pillar to post to have my attention. Why, cos she couldnt place how God bleSsed me beyond human imagination in less than 3years of seperation. Eventually she has turned born-again. 10 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
donmalcolm21: Shatap there. Even the inlaws supporting their butt implant wh0re of a daughter made me know their origin. A wise man once told me that it is better to marry a bad wife who has good parents than a good wife who had bad parents. His reasoning being that eventually there will be conflict in any marriage and the wife will seek counsel and comfort from her parents and siblings. A bad set of inlaws will always encourage her to break up. In OP's case he married a wh0re from a very bad family who in turn see nothing wrong if their daughter is an adulteress. This is a trait common among these people. Now go and be your Igbo someplace else because I am not even one. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by benodic: 8:06pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
@ op you may not know it now but spiritually you have been given a wonderful gift. if you can settle down for a moment and contemplate on your marriage you will discover the blessings in it. marriage is the strongest training school on earth. if you are able to master whatever challenges is thrown at you in a marriage it will take you a lot closer to spiritual mastership. it is never about your spouse, it is all about you. how do you marshall out the positive virtues in you to counter the negative ones she throws at you. once you successfully rise above her negativity, it will fizzle out because it will not have any impart on you again. you have mastered the situation. this will give you a very big boost in life and enable you to also master other challenges thrown to you. that is why we are here on earth. the worst thing you can do is to run away from the situation. you will only be postponing the evil day. you will still meet those same challenges in the future even if you marry another person. contemplate on what i have told you. go into silence and ask God for strength and guidance remain blessed |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by thecommunist(m): 8:06pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
now I am really afraid of getting married...God please help me not to make a wrong choice in choosing a wife! 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 8:06pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
AdeniyiA:This type will never come back to her senses. She's determined to live her life without this man 4 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by ololo12: 8:08pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
The kind news we dey hear for this nairaland ehh |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by superior1: 8:08pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
idu1: You know the Op outside NL? |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Jhayeahsam01(m): 8:09pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
bad market for u |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by ocelot2006(m): 8:09pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
This is why I am a strong advocate of long courtship periods in a relationship. That way both parties get to know each other and avoid messes like this. In my own case, I married my wife FOUR years after proposing to her. Those years got me to know her through and through. Right now, despite the usual challenges we face as a couple, I can confidently boast that I have a very blissful marriage cos I found my missing rib and now have not only a wife, but a lover, best friend, confidant, personal cheer leader, prayer warrior, and bedroom vixen (darn straight ) by my side. @ OP, I honestly can't say same about u, and it's a pity your wife has turned out to be like this. The fact that she called in her sisters in one occasion to confront you is a major NO NO. No sane husband or wife washes his/her family's dirty linen in the public. In this case I think separation is the best idea. You don't want to die. Just make sure you cater for your child. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by BABANGBALI: 8:10pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
WombRaiders:will you shut the fok up and grow up,all the married women from your place are saints.My friend ja danu jo. |
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