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Hello Nairalanders,

One faithful night i was having a heart-to-heart chat with my girlfriend which later leads to us talking about our past. While she was talking about her ex boyfriends she told me that she had dated 11 guys before she met me and she slept with 9 of them. This girl i'm talking about is just 21 years old, i was shocked and dumbfounded. My feelings towards her has changed ever since that night i always try as much as possible to hide the feelings for her. Please my fellow brothers and sisters, is this kind of a girl worth spending the rest of my life with? Please kindly advice my on worth to do because right now i'm thinking of breaking up with her. This girl is just 21 years old. Please i need mature advises not insults.

Thank you all.

You will make her the 12th ex boyfriend she will have

Better go drink acid and die than thinking over it my humble advice.... Tenk

lolzz very funny, i give it to ur gf she is very honest.

You have your own standards. My own standards ain't the same with yours.

Btw, how many girls you don "chop"?

She z honest sha !!!! No nid freaking awt ...guess she Loves U for her to tell U

9*3=27

That's the actual number.

She's slept with 9 guys at the age of 21?
1 word for her--*slut*
But sluts do change,mostly when they've found someone they truely love .
But as you said,you've got no feelings for her.
A relationship can't work without love,can it?
You either find the love or you quit.
Your call

guy,follow your mind and stop disturbing us

Then make it twelve

why are u judging her by calling her slut
hey dude because she dated doesnt mean she slept with all
im sure she thought those dudes meant well for her
she needs a break after a break up not a dude thats why she has that much

KiidaACE:
She's slept with 9 guys at the age of 21?
1 word for her--*slut*
But sluts do change,mostly when they've found someone they truely love .
But as you said,you've got no feelings for her.
A relationship can't work without love,can it?
You either find the love or you quit.
Your call

I have being the second guy to all ma girls.

Awon oniro gbogbo

She is really in love with you, girls don't kiss n tell.

Ok. You dont need any advice.

pinkhill:
why are u judging her by calling her slut
hey dude because she dated doesnt mean she slept with all
im sure she thought those dudes meant well for her
she needs a break after a break up not a dude thats why she has that much

i aint judging her.
Read the post again and see were the op mentioned it.

saintneo:
9*3=27

That's the actual number.

Em sure she haz not told ya all of them, they normally reserve few names.

Ploy:
I have being the second guy to all ma girls.

Awon oniro gbogbo

She is really in love with you, girls don't kiss n tell.

Choi
What if she didn't tell you?

Chop ya Own and clean mouth

I thank you all.

needofadvice:
Hello Nairalanders,

One faithful night i was having a heart-to-heart chat with my girlfriend which later leads to us talking about our past. While she was talking about her ex boyfriends she told me that she had dated 11 guys before she met me and she slept with 9 of them. This girl i'm talking about is just 21 years old, i was shocked and dumbfounded. My feelings towards her has changed ever since that night i always try as much as possible to hide the feelings for her. Please my fellow brothers and sisters, is this kind of a girl worth spending the rest of my life with? Please kindly advice my on worth to do because right now i'm thinking of breaking up with her. This girl is just 21 years old. Please i need mature advises not insults.

Thank you all.

Bro, its hard not to feel the way you do.

But that's why you don't go asking questions you don't want to the answers to.

Look at it this way, she's just entered her sexual prime. Gets chyked on all sides with financial rewards on the table. And to cap it, her hormones are pushing her hard to get d1ck.


Ask yourself how 'virtuous' you would be under similar circumstances. Imagine if you were 2face or Wizkid for 24 hours, I have no doubt you would populate a continent.

The real reason you are distraught is not because she is now diminished in some way. But because her attention/affections no longer make you feel so special anymore.

If you like her, enjoy her company and she respects you...that's all that matters.

needofadvice:
Hello Nairalanders,

One faithful night i was having a heart-to-heart chat with my girlfriend which later leads to us talking about our past. While she was talking about her ex boyfriends she told me that she had dated 11 guys before she met me and she slept with 9 of them. This girl i'm talking about is just 21 years old, i was shocked and dumbfounded. My feelings towards her has changed ever since that night i always try as much as possible to hide the feelings for her. Please my fellow brothers and sisters, is this kind of a girl worth spending the rest of my life with? Please kindly advice my on worth to do because right now i'm thinking of breaking up with her. This girl is just 21 years old. Please i need mature advises not insults.

Thank you all.

Mr boyfriend! how many ex girlfriends do u have?

MrTeymee:
Chop ya Own and clean mouth

you must be Abubakar shekau's brother, your wickedness are the same in sense.

The girl had done her best by coming out straight, you can not judge her on what she did before meeting you. You can only judge her on what happens while with you.

Some secrets are left as secrets.

The problem now is "You". What she said will definately affects the trust you have for her but you really need to answer some basic questions and come to realization yourself.

The aftermath of this is that, you will start suspecting every of her moves to the extent that you will want to know who calls her....Trust is a very vital tool in a relationship, any crack will melt the entire house down.

to avoid hypertension and cardiac arrest, give yourself time to really think about it if not, free the girl.

My Goodness

hadizadeezy:
you must be Abubakar shekau's brother, your wickedness are the same in sense.

Sister wat I do lah?

Op u get gun?

bros if you don't like it that she has gunned down 9 dickks pls free her jare... you can leave her for other guys to maximise her vast sexual experience, I kinda like her CV sha.

hope she's good in bed?

one man's tozo is anoda man's bonga fish.

u wanted sincerity and now you gat it but you can't handle it?

smh

niqqa:
You will make her the 12th ex boyfriend she will have

Advice? OK! Start a football club, you be the coach, the 11 others will be thn players with keeper. O did u ask who will be on the bench? Don't worry your gf will look for them.

sexyseun:
Dated only 12 and slept with 9

@OP, if you know how many guys i av slept with, you will hug ur Gf and tell her she is a virgin
Btw: i have changed though

Change? e no go better for change. Now that technologists are working on e-sex. Don't change, faster than u can imagine, prick will soon be flying accross the wire. Just click on prick more than 10 goons leing btw goons legs will appear.

needofadvice:
Hello Nairalanders,

One faithful night i was having a heart-to-heart chat with my girlfriend which later leads to us talking about our past. While she was talking about her ex boyfriends she told me that she had dated 11 guys before she met me and she slept with 9 of them. This girl i'm talking about is just 21 years old, i was shocked and dumbfounded. My feelings towards her has changed ever since that night i always try as much as possible to hide the feelings for her. Please my fellow brothers and sisters, is this kind of a girl worth spending the rest of my life with? Please kindly advice my on worth to do because right now i'm thinking of breaking up with her. This girl is just 21 years old. Please i need mature advises not insults.

Thank you all.

mine was 19 and had 9 ex nw 10 cus she dumped me