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Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things
that will not
endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong
marriages and life time bondage. We need to
identify and deal with them:


1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a
baritone
voice, I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better
in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guys can give
you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth
of the guy
in God and in character.


2) MUSCLE: Muscular and heavy looking guys are also
fortunate, they are
seen to be good suitors, and girls do say “they look manly” “they
look like
real men”. Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man,
character and ability
to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without
character will use
his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.


3) A WELL SET HOUSE:
A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day.
Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who
have
a house with King size; beautiful Italian
Setter, micro wave oven, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker,
Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing
machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream
catch for
girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a
well set
trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or
discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.


4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond
of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones
for bank
alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover
the guy is
very rich with fat Bank balance. What a
mistake? They don’t want to know where the money is coming
from; they
don’t even want to know what the guy does for a living. What
concerns them
is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up
finding
themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base
your marriage on GREED, it won’t turn to
GREEN.


5) PLACE OF WORK:
Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision
base on the place a guy
works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a
Teacher or civil
servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a
small firm, or one man business. What an error?
Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not
mean he will
give you ACCESS to his heart or peace
of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL
forever,
you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST
BANK, a guy
that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE
your future. He
may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is
not about
where he is working but about who is
working in Him, God or devil.


6) ROMANCE: A young lady said, “The guy is romantic, hot and
sexy, i will
marry him” Stop girl!!!!, Romance is not enough for marriage.
The truth is,
most so called romantic guys don’t remain like that after
wedding. Marry a
guy base on qualities that will endure, romance don’t last
forever, go and ask
married women.


7) TYPE OF CAR:
A whole lots of girls will be enticed by a guy driving a big
and expensive car. Some will not even go out with a guy that
does not have a
car. If you want to mess yourself as a guy, ride on a bike to go
and propose
to a lady, you will hear the story of your life. Ladies, a guy that
has a CAR
may not CARE for you, life is not about CAR, it is about marrying
somebody
that will CARE for your future.
AND: Most girls will readily marry anybody with US or UK
passports, Lots
of girls have destroyed their lives in the process of looking for
somebody
with a foreign passport to marry.


RICH PARENT: Children of Rich parents are easy target for
many young girls not because they are in
love with them, but they know they will have access to money
and connection. Many of these guys come
from rich are pompous, cocky, proud and will be terrible and
irresponsible
husbands and fathers tomorrow but girls will not care about
that, Most of
these girls do live to regret their wrong decision.
Don’t marry anybody just because the parents are rich, marry
the person for
who he is and the love you share together.

http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/12-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy/

Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite

Sorry op... I know break ups can be painful

iceberylin:
I'll be blunt....


Rubbish

Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite

young man did u go through it carefully or u're just commenting so not to say u did'nt

silly dude @op

Xo in one word"marry a responsible guy". Ok,ma sister must to read dis one

pweetixandy:
silly dude

y

iceberylin:
y

How would you call someone's opinion "rubbish"?

You are free to disagree with his opinion and you may also make him see reasons for your disagreement.

Whatever happened to decorum.

Oluwatosean:
Xo in one word"marry a responsible guy". Ok,ma sister must to read dis one

Gbam!!!!

These are endowments God bestowed on us to attract our opposite sex.

Make no mistakes about this, the ladies are not guilty when they obey the law of attraction, same with guys.

The preaching here should be, let the ladies not be turned into slaves of these attractive features.

I guess I don't buy into most of what's on display here because it's not necessarily the case

So what are the right things to check?

iceberylin:
y

m sorry,I was addressing the op not u

pweetixandy:
m sorry,I was addressing the op not u

Who u fooling

who no like better thing? In my opinion, girls dont like money per Se, they like attaching themselves to rich Men.
DONT MARRY FOR MONEY, GO TO WHERE RICH PEOPLE ARE, AND GET MARRIED.

hmmmmm

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The number 1(one) thing they(gurlz) look up to,is his financial ability & capability.

is it now a crime to dream big?

i employ all ladies to have this as plan A..

make sure u have up to plan W X and Y..

please the OP is a plan Z.. do not consider except u are crippled, have AIDS, blind with no womb

I dont see anything wrong in place of work.

Very true

who's hungry? am about to order a pizza

Hehehhe

Most of dem need already made men that's why most of them marry their Fathers mate to get all these....#Surulere

Number 9 is nt calling me

Good for them, they will settle for less when they are 40 then the story will surely change.

ops,i'm not here trying to prove superiority.
But be known to the world is right to a common woman they are wrong

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