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Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by dutchtopper(m): 2:10pm On Jan 11, 2015
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Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by PerfumeRepublik: 2:10pm On Jan 11, 2015
Not always true they just check No 4.
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Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Krisgift(f): 2:11pm On Jan 11, 2015
hmmm...most of the things you mentioned are very crucial for a succesful marriage.

well,thats your opinion
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by IVORY2009(m): 2:13pm On Jan 11, 2015
dechandel:
You just made a single point and numbered it differently undecided
[color=#FF6600] Don't tell me you're a golddigger tooo...[/color]
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by theimmortals(m): 2:13pm On Jan 11, 2015
iceberylin:
Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite undecided
If all this thing you just listed are wrong, then what should a lady be looking for in a man?
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jan 11, 2015
I swear to lawd, they only care to check about the fat bank account and the how big the living díldo is; nothing else. embarassed
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by obiaguna(m): 2:16pm On Jan 11, 2015
deparagon:
Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things
that will not
endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong
marriages and life time bondage. We need to
identify and deal with them:


1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a
baritone
voice, I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better
in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guys can give
you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth
of the guy
in God and in character.


2) MUSCLE: Muscular and heavy looking guys are also
fortunate, they are
seen to be good suitors, and girls do say “they look manly” “they
look like
real men”. Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man,
character and ability
to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without
character will use
his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.


3) A WELL SET HOUSE:
A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day.
Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who
have
a house with King size; beautiful Italian
Setter, micro wave oven, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker,
Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing
machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream
catch for
girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a
well set
trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or
discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.


4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond
of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones
for bank
alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover
the guy is
very rich with fat Bank balance. What a
mistake? They don’t want to know where the money is coming
from; they
don’t even want to know what the guy does for a living. What
concerns them
is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up
finding
themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base
your marriage on GREED, it won’t turn to
GREEN.


5) PLACE OF WORK:
Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision
base on the place a guy
works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a
Teacher or civil
servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a
small firm, or one man business. What an error?
Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not
mean he will
give you ACCESS to his heart or peace
of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL
forever,
you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST
BANK, a guy
that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE
your future. He
may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is
not about
where he is working but about who is
working in Him, God or devil.


6) ROMANCE: A young lady said, “The guy is romantic, hot and
sexy, i will
marry him” Stop girl!!!!, Romance is not enough for marriage.
The truth is,
most so called romantic guys don’t remain like that after
wedding. Marry a
guy base on qualities that will endure, romance don’t last
forever, go and ask
married women.


7) TYPE OF CAR:
A whole lots of girls will be enticed by a guy driving a big
and expensive car. Some will not even go out with a guy that
does not have a
car. If you want to mess yourself as a guy, ride on a bike to go
and propose
to a lady, you will hear the story of your life. Ladies, a guy that
has a CAR
may not CARE for you, life is not about CAR, it is about marrying
somebody
that will CARE for your future.
AND: Most girls will readily marry anybody with US or UK
passports, Lots
of girls have destroyed their lives in the process of looking for
somebody
with a foreign passport to marry.


cool RICH PARENT: Children of Rich parents are easy target for
many young girls not because they are in
love with them, but they know they will have access to money
and connection. Many of these guys come
from rich are pompous, cocky, proud and will be terrible and
irresponsible
husbands and fathers tomorrow but girls will not care about
that, Most of
these girls do live to regret their wrong decision.
Don’t marry anybody just because the parents are rich, marry
the person for
who he is and the love you share together.

http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/12-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy/
This article or sermon or what ever it is the shittiest thing I have ever read in my life. Smells like poverty.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by kennyamusan(m): 2:17pm On Jan 11, 2015
Who told u know none of this are important its just that emphasis should not be based on them as they are only temporary.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by bynat(f): 2:17pm On Jan 11, 2015
I dnt check all these
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jan 11, 2015
Make dem dey check dey go naaw.
Hian.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by victors123: 2:17pm On Jan 11, 2015
:DNice one but the situation of Nigeria have turn ppl to another tin especially ladies but ladies take am easy
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Krisgift(f): 2:17pm On Jan 11, 2015
hmmmm...some of the things you mentioned are very important. so,what should a gal now watch out for when getting married?
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Nobody: 2:23pm On Jan 11, 2015
I reiterate, girls by nature are fantasists, only few of them make pragmatic calls.

They live in dreamland. They want it all and would go ahead to whine if they're starved of those jejune wishes.

God must have encountered complex logistics problem prior to Eve's creation.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Hydrogen9R(m): 2:25pm On Jan 11, 2015
Number 9:Common sense
But these days ask a girl first thing she will say
Number 10: He must be GOD FEARING
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Monicasque(f): 2:27pm On Jan 11, 2015
Nice thread op
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by ifeomaekol(f): 2:30pm On Jan 11, 2015
coolTrue, but no one would want an opposite please. Good thing good jare
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by canalily(m): 2:33pm On Jan 11, 2015
angryladies please love you the heart that loves you, and not the one you lovesad
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by amtheone(m): 2:34pm On Jan 11, 2015
iceberylin:
Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite undecided
U must be one frustrated fellow.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Jerry2i(m): 2:34pm On Jan 11, 2015
No 4 got me thinking undecided
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by agrovick(m): 2:35pm On Jan 11, 2015
Op, u don't need to sound them out, majority of the ladies in my class who are into serious relationship have boos who look totally different from the fantasy images they created back when we were freshmen. All those height and muscle talks na initial gra gra.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by vislabraye(m): 2:36pm On Jan 11, 2015
dechandel:
You just made a single point and numbered it differently undecided
Exactly. Thats the problem with most of "lists' threads.
If I have all these qualities, I will definitely bE a good boyfriend. Alternatively, you can still have these qualities and be a good husband

Abi Op, what other reasons should a lady marry, nah? The donts are too much.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by remi4ever(m): 2:37pm On Jan 11, 2015
Thanks, I Was about to Say the Same...In one Sentence, Girls Please Marry.. A Responsible Guy...[/color=]
dechandel:
[color=#990000]You just made a single point and numbered it differently undecided
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by kalufelix(m): 2:37pm On Jan 11, 2015
Fraih:
So what are the right things to check?
d!*k size actually
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by naijaboiy: 2:38pm On Jan 11, 2015
It's normal for them to be delusional. undecided

When the time comes,,they'll realise that life is not all what one has planned.

Some of them learn the hard way tho...the stubborn ones undecided
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Revolva(m): 2:41pm On Jan 11, 2015
See dem in picture below gals like dis are fond of wat d op says

Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by ndcide(m): 2:46pm On Jan 11, 2015
So much wisdom from the @ op,

fact is the points listed, are not the most important things in a relationship.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Truckpusher(m): 2:46pm On Jan 11, 2015
iceberylin:
Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite undecided
What if your sister ends up in a body bag before her tenth wedding anniversary because you insisted on her marrying a big boy?
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jan 11, 2015
Every girl will *YIMU* at this thread.

If na lie make my left ynash blind.

What am I saying sefhuh
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