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She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 6:22pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
She's a month pregnant for her late boyfriend who died a week to Xmas and d boyfriend wasnt aware neither was she. She didnt see her flow n test confirmed it. Now she is confused. Her boyfriend family arent yet aware of d pregnancy and though her mother n older brother are against abortion, so they told her. She's an auxiliary nurse n got just O'level cert wit intent to further her education n sees her present state as a setback. She also was diagnosed of having "OVARIAN CYST". Doctor said one ovary need be removed. Pls kindly advice on what to do.. An idea on ovarian cyst medication be great without surgery. God bless you as i wait to read ur useful comments. Thanks |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by Evina(f): 6:29pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Please let her keep the baby. It may be a setback to the furtherance of her education, but it certainly isn't an end. Let her inform the boy's family too, they may find solace in the baby, as they should be grief stricken. Things will be tough but she will find joy in knowing she made the right decision. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by apparentlylaw(m): 7:14pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
If u Love her ..Love the baby ..Claim tz ur own ...nd u live a Happi Life wif her |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by leshluap(m): 7:18pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
L"" |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by mirexxx(f): 7:26pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
ovarian cyst hw old is she plz? well i hope d operation doesn't affect d baby. she should keep d baby cos its d only memory she has of fiance. all d best & quick recovery |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by 25omega(m): 7:35pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Ovarian cyst doesnt have to come out immediately. If her doctor adviced her thst it has to come out then why question that advice? It may be cancerous which is why they ssid to remove it. She can deal with that after the baby is born. If she were smart, she would announce the pregnancy now before people call her a liar. Or get the abortion and wonder if she would be able to have kids if her ovary is removed |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Sometimes, setbacks are like catapults, you pull hard behind to gather momentum before letting go. I'd rather she keep it... He/she might discover the permanent solution to aids, cancer or ebola. 2 Likes |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by Nobody: 9:03pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Since her mum is against her aborting the baby I suggest it's Ok to give birth. she can be rest assured that her fiance family will see the baby as their dead son. At least the guy now has a future generation tru her. 1 Like |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by Afrok(m): 10:28pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Abortion is an option in unwanted pregnancies, urs wasn't unwanted, so abortion is not an option. |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 11:54pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
apparentlylaw: Bros am not dating her.. shes only confiding in me as a good friend to advice her. thanks anyways |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 11:59pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
mirexxx: She is 25. thanks for ur opinion. i find it useful. |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 12:02am On Jan 12, 2015 |
emmyrichie: thanks man.. U ve spoken wisely. God bless u |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 12:04am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Afrok: thanks deacon |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 12:11am On Jan 12, 2015 |
25omega: thanks for ur wonderful comment. since d death of her man which came as a shock to her n which she also witnessed live at d hospital, she hardly eat, all she does is stay quiet thinking. both were suppose to be married dis year. she complained of pain being caused by d cyst. from my findings, removal of an ovary dont cause infertility but prevents some.form of cancer. d pain felt is d reason doctor adviced removal. at dawn i will meet her n advice her to see d boys parent b4 dark along aide her mom n brother. thanks. |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 12:14am On Jan 12, 2015 |
classicB: thanks |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by apparentlylaw(m): 1:01am On Jan 12, 2015 |
saintruky:aiit ..Unless dat buh seemz u ve feelinz for her ryt |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 7:44am On Jan 12, 2015 |
classicB: thank you |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 7:46am On Jan 12, 2015 |
apparentlylaw: Nope. we too close to date. friendship best than dating. |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by chingydaboss(m): 7:56am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Pls pls pls.. abortion is nt an option.. No one can create life, so no one is allowed to tak it away.. She shud tel d guy's parents as well as siblings.. God will mak her rejoice again... Last bullet.. lady's shud stop getting pregnant for guys b4 marriage.. no reason is reasonable.. |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by Afrok(m): 10:08am On Jan 12, 2015 |
saintruky:My pleasure Elder |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by chimerase2: 10:52am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Just pray dat God will see her tru in dis her predicament |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 10:54am On Jan 12, 2015 |
chingydaboss: thanks bros. these days guyz avoid use of gold circle n so d babes dunno wheb d thing dey enter. moreso guyz do tell babes to get pregnant 1st b4 talking marriage. nobody wan marry risk 7yrs wit no child. dat wats trending now. |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by chingydaboss(m): 11:15am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Dat was y I said no reason is reasonable.. D child cud die nd d woman cud b childless after d first issue.. only God knows tomorw..dat is why we need to follow him in order for him to direct our paths.. saintruky: |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 11:35am On Jan 12, 2015 |
chingydaboss: True talk. sadly these days men of God dont preach salvation. sermon now is all about d pathway to wealth. maybe jwit is d only option to salvation sermon. 1 Like |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by saintruky(m): 10:29am On Dec 30, 2015 |
Hey fam compliments of d season. I'm sorry it took dis to let out d good news. She's been delivered of a very cute bouncing baby boy. Baby is now 4 months old. I carried him while composing dis n was seriously dragging d fone wit me lol. All thanks to ur wonderful advise. Happy new year!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by Nobody: 10:54am On Dec 30, 2015 |
Pls dont abort the baby because if you do, you will live to regret it in life. That unborn baby is precious and special, even your late boyfriend will keep asking in anywhere he is |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by lovinam: 5:21am On Dec 31, 2015 |
Glory to God. This is great news!! Hugs to baby and greetings to young mummy. saintruky: |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by miqos02(m): 6:31am On Dec 31, 2015 |
hmmm |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by nmreports: 8:20am On Dec 31, 2015 |
Morally and spiritually/ religiously she is meant to keep the pregnancy. The pregnancy is all part of the results of her actions and that of the guy so she has to live with it. On the other hand, keeping the pregnancy may see her life flashing before her own eyes if she is not strong willed like Genevieve. As per marriage, Genevieve is not even married. If she also aborts, perhaps that would be her last chance at getting pregnant. So the ball is in her court... Make a choice and bear the consequences. |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by Creamish(f): 9:43am On Dec 31, 2015 |
nmreports: U skipped the below comment from the OP saintruky: 2 Likes |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by Chizzyblinks(f): 9:47am On Dec 31, 2015 |
She should inform d guys family and knw their reactions maybe it may ease their grief,even if they dnt wnt the child she should keep it,nobody knows tomorrow,removing he ovary might prevent her from conceiving in future although am not praying for that Goodluck dear. |
Re: She's Pregnant For Late Fiance... Pls Advice by nmreports: 10:51am On Dec 31, 2015 |
Creamish: Thank you Creamish. How are you? |
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