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Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by lordmayor4(m): 1:21pm On Jan 15, 2015
2SWT:
Some virgins are not really virgins.






Some got nothing to offer except their hymen.



No good character to support it

Exactly what I meant... I can't even bleep aa virgin! Can't bring myself to do it... had to break up with a lady cos she is a v and wants me to pop it and I said no way loll

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Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by 2SWT(f): 1:21pm On Jan 15, 2015
tosyne2much:
Wedding night bleeping rocks my boat wink
At times l see reasons to doubt ur words
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by tosyne2much(m): 1:23pm On Jan 15, 2015
2SWT:
At times l see reasons to doubt ur words




Am I difficult to understand ?
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by 2SWT(f): 1:32pm On Jan 15, 2015
lordmayor4:


Exactly what I meant... I can't even bleep aa virgin! Can't bring myself to do it... had to break up with a lady cos she is a v and wants me to pop it and I said no way loll
bleeping a virgin should not be a problem if she's worth it.

Imagine when u break up with a girl and she say ''he disvirgined me and left'' when she knows fully well that her character stinks......if l were a guy l'll only disvirgin a girl if she's worth it after all there are many guys out there who take it as a pleasure
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by 2SWT(f): 1:33pm On Jan 15, 2015
tosyne2much:
Am I difficult to understand ?
yea
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by lordmayor4(m): 1:54pm On Jan 15, 2015
2SWT:
bleeping a virgin should not be a problem if she's worth it.

Imagine when u break up with a girl and she say ''he disvirgined me and left'' when she knows fully well that her character stinks......if l were a guy l'll only disvirgin a girl if she's worth it after all there are many guys out there who take it as a pleasure

That statement u made on quote is exactly why I can't do it... cos when she makes that statement, anything u say will be worthless to listeners.. also, I can't bring myself to do it cos I feel attached easily.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by tosyne2much(m): 2:02pm On Jan 15, 2015
2SWT:
yea
That's the way I am at times grin
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by Neobulletzz(m): 2:03pm On Jan 15, 2015
enimcnite:
Taking a girl’s virginity is a popular male fantasy, but if they stopped to consider the reality of the situation, the fantasy might start to look more like a nightmare. It may be an ego boost to imagine being a girl’s first and taking her precious virginity, bookmarking yourself in the annexes of her mind forever. However, there are aspects of making her a woman that could be less than pleasurable. So, before you unlock that chastity belt, get an idea of what you’re getting yourself into. Here are five reasons not to sleep with a virgin that you should consider before taking the plunge.

1- There’s extra prep work
Unlike a more experienced woman, a virgin really doesn’t know what to expect. This means that you’re going to have to put in some effort before the deed is done and plan ahead to make sure that she’s comfortable and completely willing. It may take some considerable convincing on your part to get her into bed, and while that isn't one of our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin, your seduction skills will certainly be put to the test when it comes to taking a girl’s virginity. Also, the older she is, the harder it will be. If she has managed to protect her virginity all through her school days and into her 20s, it will be that much more difficult to persuade her that she should give it up to you.

2- There’s a freak-out potential
When it comes to having sex with a virgin, the potential for her to freak out before, during or after the sex act is quite high. She may decide at the last minute that she doesn’t want to go through with it or she may feel massively guilty afterward for having done it. Because so much importance is put on her virginity, her first time is bound to be an emotional experience, which means that you might have to deal with panic, sadness, guilt, and other unpleasant reactions. She has probably imagined the event for a long time and wants it to go absolutely perfectly. If even the slightest thing doesn’t go according to plan, it could result in tears and tantrums. If you don’t like watching girls cry, don’t sleep with virgins. That’s a lot of pressure and that’s why it’s among our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin.

3- She’ll likely get attached
It is fairly likely that a recently devirginised girl will expect to have a lasting relationship with the guy that bedded her. If you’re not planning on becoming her boyfriend, or at least continuing to date her, don’t sleep with her. It’s really that simple. Very few girls imagine their first time with someone who drops off the face of the earth immediately afterward, never to be heard from again. She’s going to want you to stick around, so if a relationship is not in your plan, consider this point in our list of five reasons not to sleep with a virgin and find someone else to share your bed.

4- She lacks skills
Since she’s inexperienced, she’s probably not going to be that good in bed, and that’s a big reason not to sleep with a virgin. There are exceptions to this rule, of course, since there are plenty of skills a girl can learn before she loses her actual virginity. If, however, she has little experience with sexual activity in general, the encounter is not going to be all that pleasurable for you. If all you want is the power trip that comes from taking her virginity, then you’re golden, but if you want a mutually satisfying sexual experience, you should look for someone who has had time to develop some sexual skills.

5- It could get messy
There is a possibility that having sex with a virgin could literally make a mess of your sheets. Being penetrated for the first time is likely to hurt her and it could result in some bleeding. If the sight of blood makes you squeamish, devirginising a girl is not for you. A woman’s first sexual experience can leave a very unsexy mess to clean up.

where no man has gone before
As you can see, taking a girl’s virginity is not all that it’s cracked up to be. There are groundwork concerns, emotional issues, commitment questions, technique problems, and other more tangible messes to deal with. So perhaps you should leave the devirginising to the secondary school boys and look for a sexual encounter that isn’t quite so complicated.
abeg no be person go still sleep with the so called virgin..
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by 2SWT(f): 2:05pm On Jan 15, 2015
lordmayor4:


That statement u made on quote is exactly why I can't do it... cos when she makes that statement, anything u say will be worthless to listeners.. also, I can't bring myself to do it cos I feel attached easily.
I love guys like you





buh hope ur bae nor dey here
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by 2SWT(f): 2:07pm On Jan 15, 2015
tosyne2much:
That's the way I am at times grin
Lol





l love guys like you
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by lordmayor4(m): 3:04pm On Jan 15, 2015
2SWT:
I love guys like you





buh hope ur bae nor dey here

Lol... thanks and I like plain and straight ladies like u... about baae... don't know if she is here oo cos am still looking for her sef lol
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by pamcode(m): 6:51pm On Jan 15, 2015
tosyne2much:
I'm glad I have neva bleeped a virgin b4 and I will not even if I'm offered 10 million naira

Quote me and thunder blast you
i quoted you so what, o boy see thunder and lightning *runs out of thread with hands on head*
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by tosyne2much(m): 7:06pm On Jan 15, 2015
pamcode:
i quoted you so what, o boy see thunder and lightning *runs out of thread with hands on head*
lwkmd grin
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by Shiifi(m): 7:15pm On Jan 15, 2015
patrickdarlins:
i use GOD beg u op....

nor just try spoil my mind against dis girl when wen won com visit me tomao...abeg abeg!!!!


bia....op....na tru u talk oo....

choiii
Now they will count GEJ's visit to
Maiduguri as one of his achievements,
you just wait and see
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by LewisO: 7:15pm On Jan 15, 2015
Not bleeping a virgin, but remember she will get bleeped later.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by Mzgracie(f): 9:00pm On Jan 15, 2015
So, every virgin lady should die a virgin abi??

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Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by lordmayor4(m): 10:10pm On Jan 15, 2015
Mzgracie:
So, every virgin lady should die a virgin abi??

Mmake dem wait till wedding night lol or go to guys who derive joy in popping 'em cherries
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by TaiKuun(m): 10:33pm On Jan 15, 2015
but I have disvirgined two girls and nothing happened. tho the first one wey I disvirgin na like say she dey find somebody burst am before cuz she didn't even get emotionally attached afterwards. she just used and dumped me
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by TaiKuun(m): 10:35pm On Jan 15, 2015
Mzgracie:
So, every virgin lady should die a virgin abi??


slut, they didn't say you should die a virgin. they said keep yourself until ur wedding night. simple. at least we don't expect people to marry after death
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by Homguy(m): 10:43pm On Jan 15, 2015
I hug a lot of fun doing this.on the contrary not everything you mentioned is solely true.

1- for example, there are ladies who already want to be disvirgined, and you don't have to convince them in o give it up to you as long as they already like you.

2- my not all girls get attached to their first layer.

3-it takes a lot of effort, even may require several attempts, but to me the end always justifies the means.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by UyiIredia(m): 12:09am On Jan 16, 2015
enimcnite:
Taking a girl’s virginity is a popular male fantasy, but if they stopped to consider the reality of the situation, the fantasy might start to look more like a nightmare. It may be an ego boost to imagine being a girl’s first and taking her precious virginity, bookmarking yourself in the annexes of her mind forever. . . .Here are five reasons not to sleep with a virgin that you should consider before taking the plunge . . .

Then how the hell did you get laid ? Like every other human you must have also started out as a virgin.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by Nobody: 1:46am On Jan 16, 2015
Shiifi:

Now they will count GEJ's visit to
Maiduguri as one of his achievements,
you just wait and see
wetin be ur problem??

lols.....

i nor understand u oo
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by Nobody: 9:20am On Jan 16, 2015
patrickdarlins:
i use GOD beg u op....

nor just try spoil my mind against dis girl when wen won com visit me tomao...abeg abeg!!!!


bia....op....na tru u talk oo....

choiii
grin.. oya tell us, how d runs go? grin
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by Mzgracie(f): 9:47am On Jan 16, 2015
TaiKuun:



slut, they didn't say you should die a virgin. they said keep yourself until ur wedding night. simple. at least we don't expect people to marry after death



Jez!!!


Seems your mum and sister are sluts... A super-slut... Gosh!!! This is so uncalled for....

Normally, I would have ignored you and let it flow down the drain... But I ll never take the insult from you.

Youngman, you need to learn some manners. If you are brought up well with a good background from godly parents, you won't raise that your stinking dirty mouth to talk rubbish. Let this sink into your thick skull. Never in your miserable life call me a slut again.

MtchewWww... Olori buruku

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Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by LoveMEBaby(m): 11:13am On Jan 16, 2015
Mzgracie:




Jez!!!


Seems your mum and sister are sluts... A super-slut... Gosh!!! This is so uncalled for....

Normally, I would have ignored you and let it flow down the drain... But I ll never take the insult from you.

Youngman, you need to learn some manners. If you are brought up well with a good background from godly parents, you won't raise that your stinking dirty mouth to talk rubbish. Let this sink into your thick skull. Never in your miserable life call me a slut again.

MtchewWww... Olori buruku
Madam u don vex?? shocked shocked shocked
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by giwaabdulsalam(m): 11:39am On Jan 16, 2015
hmmmn lwkmd

Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by tiwalademi(f): 2:41pm On Jan 16, 2015
enimcnite:
Taking a girl’s virginity is a popular male fantasy, but if they stopped to consider the reality of the situation, the fantasy might start to look more like a nightmare. It may be an ego boost to imagine being a girl’s first and taking her precious virginity, bookmarking yourself in the annexes of her mind forever. However, there are aspects of making her a woman that could be less than pleasurable. So, before you unlock that chastity belt, get an idea of what you’re getting yourself into. Here are five reasons not to sleep with a virgin that you should consider before taking the plunge.

1- There’s extra prep work
Unlike a more experienced woman, a virgin really doesn’t know what to expect. This means that you’re going to have to put in some effort before the deed is done and plan ahead to make sure that she’s comfortable and completely willing. It may take some considerable convincing on your part to get her into bed, and while that isn't one of our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin, your seduction skills will certainly be put to the test when it comes to taking a girl’s virginity. Also, the older she is, the harder it will be. If she has managed to protect her virginity all through her school days and into her 20s, it will be that much more difficult to persuade her that she should give it up to you.

2- There’s a freak-out potential
When it comes to having sex with a virgin, the potential for her to freak out before, during or after the sex act is quite high. She may decide at the last minute that she doesn’t want to go through with it or she may feel massively guilty afterward for having done it. Because so much importance is put on her virginity, her first time is bound to be an emotional experience, which means that you might have to deal with panic, sadness, guilt, and other unpleasant reactions. She has probably imagined the event for a long time and wants it to go absolutely perfectly. If even the slightest thing doesn’t go according to plan, it could result in tears and tantrums. If you don’t like watching girls cry, don’t sleep with virgins. That’s a lot of pressure and that’s why it’s among our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin.

3- She’ll likely get attached
It is fairly likely that a recently devirginised girl will expect to have a lasting relationship with the guy that bedded her. If you’re not planning on becoming her boyfriend, or at least continuing to date her, don’t sleep with her. It’s really that simple. Very few girls imagine their first time with someone who drops off the face of the earth immediately afterward, never to be heard from again. She’s going to want you to stick around, so if a relationship is not in your plan, consider this point in our list of five reasons not to sleep with a virgin and find someone else to share your bed.

4- She lacks skills
Since she’s inexperienced, she’s probably not going to be that good in bed, and that’s a big reason not to sleep with a virgin. There are exceptions to this rule, of course, since there are plenty of skills a girl can learn before she loses her actual virginity. If, however, she has little experience with sexual activity in general, the encounter is not going to be all that pleasurable for you. If all you want is the power trip that comes from taking her virginity, then you’re golden, but if you want a mutually satisfying sexual experience, you should look for someone who has had time to develop some sexual skills.

5- It could get messy
There is a possibility that having sex with a virgin could literally make a mess of your sheets. Being penetrated for the first time is likely to hurt her and it could result in some bleeding. If the sight of blood makes you squeamish, devirginising a girl is not for you. A woman’s first sexual experience can leave a very unsexy mess to clean up.

where no man has gone before
As you can see, taking a girl’s virginity is not all that it’s cracked up to be. There are groundwork concerns, emotional issues, commitment questions, technique problems, and other more tangible messes to deal with. So perhaps you should leave the devirginising to the secondary school boys and look for a sexual encounter that isn’t quite so complicated.
op,sumone disvirgined d once virgined gurl u had love to av after bein disvirgined
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by enimcnite(m): 3:25pm On Jan 16, 2015
tiwalademi:
op,sumone disvirgined d once virgined gurl u had love to av after bein disvirgined
True that! but as long as I'm nt that "somone" I'm cool with that wink

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Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by TaiKuun(m): 4:46pm On Jan 16, 2015
Mzgracie:




Jez!!!


Seems your mum and sister are sluts... A super-slut... Gosh!!! This is so uncalled for....

Normally, I would have ignored you and let it flow down the drain... But I ll never take the insult from you.

Youngman, you need to learn some manners. If you are brought up well with a good background from godly parents, you won't raise that your stinking dirty mouth to talk rubbish. Let this sink into your thick skull. Never in your miserable life call me a slut again.

MtchewWww... Olori buruku





but you still a slut. Cuz we still can't turn a LovePeddler into a housewife
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jan 16, 2015
tosyne2much:
I'm glad I have neva bleeped a virgin b4 and I will not even if I'm offered 10 million naira

Quote me and thunder blast you
Back to sender 20 fold angry grin
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by Mzgracie(f): 5:01pm On Jan 16, 2015
TaiKuun:






but you still a slut. Cuz we still can't turn a LovePeddler into a housewife


Simple....


You lack home training...
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by TaiKuun(m): 5:36pm On Jan 16, 2015
Mzgracie:



Simple....


You lack home training...

you talk a lot

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