Taking a girl’s virginity is a popular male fantasy, but if they stopped to consider the reality of the situation, the fantasy might start to look more like a nightmare. It may be an ego boost to imagine being a girl’s first and taking her precious virginity, bookmarking yourself in the annexes of her mind forever. However, there are aspects of making her a woman that could be less than pleasurable. So, before you unlock that chastity belt, get an idea of what you’re getting yourself into. Here are five reasons not to sleep with a virgin that you should consider before taking the plunge.

1- There’s extra prep work
Unlike a more experienced woman, a virgin really doesn’t know what to expect. This means that you’re going to have to put in some effort before the deed is done and plan ahead to make sure that she’s comfortable and completely willing. It may take some considerable convincing on your part to get her into bed, and while that isn't one of our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin, your seduction skills will certainly be put to the test when it comes to taking a girl’s virginity. Also, the older she is, the harder it will be. If she has managed to protect her virginity all through her school days and into her 20s, it will be that much more difficult to persuade her that she should give it up to you.

2- There’s a freak-out potential
When it comes to having sex with a virgin, the potential for her to freak out before, during or after the sex act is quite high. She may decide at the last minute that she doesn’t want to go through with it or she may feel massively guilty afterward for having done it. Because so much importance is put on her virginity, her first time is bound to be an emotional experience, which means that you might have to deal with panic, sadness, guilt, and other unpleasant reactions. She has probably imagined the event for a long time and wants it to go absolutely perfectly. If even the slightest thing doesn’t go according to plan, it could result in tears and tantrums. If you don’t like watching girls cry, don’t sleep with virgins. That’s a lot of pressure and that’s why it’s among our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin.

3- She’ll likely get attached
It is fairly likely that a recently devirginised girl will expect to have a lasting relationship with the guy that bedded her. If you’re not planning on becoming her boyfriend, or at least continuing to date her, don’t sleep with her. It’s really that simple. Very few girls imagine their first time with someone who drops off the face of the earth immediately afterward, never to be heard from again. She’s going to want you to stick around, so if a relationship is not in your plan, consider this point in our list of five reasons not to sleep with a virgin and find someone else to share your bed.

4- She lacks skills
Since she’s inexperienced, she’s probably not going to be that good in bed, and that’s a big reason not to sleep with a virgin. There are exceptions to this rule, of course, since there are plenty of skills a girl can learn before she loses her actual virginity. If, however, she has little experience with sexual activity in general, the encounter is not going to be all that pleasurable for you. If all you want is the power trip that comes from taking her virginity, then you’re golden, but if you want a mutually satisfying sexual experience, you should look for someone who has had time to develop some sexual skills.

5- It could get messy
There is a possibility that having sex with a virgin could literally make a mess of your sheets. Being penetrated for the first time is likely to hurt her and it could result in some bleeding. If the sight of blood makes you squeamish, devirginising a girl is not for you. A woman’s first sexual experience can leave a very unsexy mess to clean up.

where no man has gone before
As you can see, taking a girl’s virginity is not all that it’s cracked up to be. There are groundwork concerns, emotional issues, commitment questions, technique problems, and other more tangible messes to deal with. So perhaps you should leave the devirginising to the secondary school boys and look for a sexual encounter that isn’t quite so complicated.

Mumu.

i use GOD beg u op....

nor just try spoil my mind against dis girl when wen won com visit me tomao...abeg abeg!!!!


bia....op....na tru u talk oo....

choiii

Pls op, dont forget to give us the advantages of the same act cos i know that everything that has disadvantage has advantages as well. Ichoziri isa anyi isi...?

male fantasy?.. naaaahh.

all a man needs is knowing he's got her 100% heart and body.. past life doesnt matter anymore

BokoHaramm:
Mumu.

CTRL * P

patrickdarlins:
i use GOD beg u op....

nor just try spoil my mind against dis girl when wen won com visit me tomao...abeg abeg!!!!


bia....op....na tru u talk oo....

choiii

lol

simplemach:
Pls op, dont forget to give us the advantages of the same act cos i know that everything that has disadvantage has advantages as well. Ichoziri isa anyi isi...?

very true, noted!

Op stop using dat word of is everi guys fantasy
Not all guys luv to go down with a virgin haba

Chai Ignorance is really an incurable disease. Lollz I reserve my comment.

Chimerase:
Op stop using dat word of is everi guys fantasy
Not all guys luv to go down with a virgin haba

Your signature is hilarious

Care to go into a bit more detail?

I'm glad I have neva bleeped a virgin b4 and I will not even if I'm offered 10 million naira

Quote me and thunder blast you

Missmossy:
Chai Ignorance is really an incurable disease. Lollz I reserve my comment.

Seems u jst lost urs..

InZA:


Your signature is hilarious

Care to go into a bit more detail?

nop amu a man of god

Chimerase:
stop using dat word of is everi guys fantasy
Not all guys luv to go down with a virgin haba

ok sir, here's the logic; it's the same as saying every guy/girl will fantasize over a tear rubber range rover 2014 model than a tokunbo model

Chimerase:
nop amu a man of god

Okiiiieee

enimcnite:
ok sir, here's the logic; it's the same as saying every guy/girl will fantasize over a tear rubber range rover 2014 model than a tokunbo model

just stop dis nonsense
Is not applicable to women

Must u marry or date a virgin
U re u a virgin eh
See I dnt see de reason why if I wan to use ma fone and I hv not inserted ma sim card and I want to do so and I start encountering difficulties in doing so
Meanwhile dat is not a genuine reason

so ur saying....

The virgins are out there to attack lol... Anyways, everything has their advantages with disadvantages too. But honestly, why is this issue such a big deal?

@op am sure with every single disadvantage there are 5 more advantages each for a virgin
1.the extra prep work indicates the innocence of the lady and so you get to treat her with care in the act
2. freaking out! haaaaa that is even the salt of the food because the more the guy works for it the more he will appreciate it when he finally get it and the irony of the matter is that the more the lady makes it difficult for the guy the harder he will keep on trying.
3. For you to have thought of having xes with her then there must be something you appreciate about her so when she gets attached i think its a plus for you
4. Her lack of skills gives you full control and makes you the only sailor of the ship and you have full access to the direction the ship goes.
5. thats the beauty of it cause if you see her in that condition then you have fully seen her and issue of cleaniness am sure she would be shy and would want to clean up as soon as possible
And finally after the act the feeling of been a real man is there for such a man




#xes b4 egairram si a nis


i belief we all know this but we seems to ignore it

tosyne2much:
I'm glad I have neva bleeped a virgin b4

so reality don hit u now.. You're not a virgin again? Lmao

marieolae:
so reality don hit u now.. You're not a virgin again? Lmao

Virgin or no virgin, I neva bleep anyone b4.. In fact, I have neva seen a lady's unclothedness b4

Amthol:
@op am sure with every single disadvantage there are 5 more advantages each for a virgin
1.the extra prep work indicates the innocence of the lady and so you get to treat her with care in the act
2. freaking out! haaaaa that is even the salt of the food because the more the guy works for it the more he will appreciate it when he finally get it and the irony of the matter is that the more the lady makes it difficult for the guy the harder he will keep on trying.
3. For you to have thought of having xes with her then there must be something you appreciate about her so when she gets attached i think its a plus for you
4. Her lack of skills gives you full control and makes you the only sailor of the ship and you have full access to the direction the ship goes.
5. thats the beauty of it cause if you see her in that condition then you have fully seen her and issue of cleaniness am sure she would be shy and would want to clean up as soon as possible
And finally after the act the feeling of been a real man is there for such a man




#xes b4 egairram si a nis

well said!

tosyne2much:
I'm glad I have neva bleeped a virgin b4

chai wat of pple dat have fuvcked virgin?

tosyne2much:
Virgin or no virgin, I neva bleep anyone b4.. In fact, I have neva seen a lady's unclothedness b4

ok

4- She lacks skills

The girls who now have skills, werent they virgins once?

Medunah:
The girls who now have skills, werent they virgins once?

sure they were, but somone took the time and stress to baptize and certify them as fairly used

Medunah:
The girls who now have skills, werent they virgins once?

E.g Medunah

tosyne2much:
E.g Medunah

Nah true oo, i don forget sey we dey jam wella for that place wey u sef dey bring girls come