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This man did the traditional marriage of my sister on the 3rd of January 2015. I went to club last night which was Friday with some friends. On arrival, one of them ran to me narrating how he saw my in-law in the club.

On getting to the corner where my friend told me he saw him; i saw my sister's husband with another lady. In fact they were kissing.

On sighting me after few minutes, he became uncomfortable and stopped dancing with her.

It wasn't up to 5minutes he left with the lady. On their way out i rushed to him and greeted him to make sure he actually saw me.

My sister is already pregnant for him. What should i do to save my sister's marriage?

Should i let my family know because he fears them so much?

Dnt put ur sis in pain by telling her.she is pregnant, dnt kill her or her baby.chill pls,time wuld come for d man to get exposed

this one na confusion mode oo......even if or sis will know, don't tell her direct..u can like Tell ur mom, she should b in d ryt position of sorting it out

AlphaGentleman:
Dnt put ur sis in pain by telling her.she is pregnant, dnt kill her or her baby.chill pls,time wuld come for d man to get exposed

Thanks for your wonderful input

jamex93:
this one na confusion mode oo......even if or sis will know, don't tell her direct..u can like Tell ur mom, she should b in d ryt position of sorting it out

I do appreciate your comment. Thanks alot.

These niqqaz aint løyal

This condition is quite tricky and very difficult I must admit. To tell, or not to tell given the situation of things is one phenomenon that requires serious thinking and guardiance from Well respected people in the community. The situation is beyond you @Op. You may have to involve and seek advice from well respected elders in your church or community. They will know what to do.

To me, I feel a bruise on his face would have best narrated d story to ur sister.

iceberylin:
These niqqaz aint løyal

People dont seem to know what they truly have. My sis is a first class graduate, a lecturer and also doing her Ph.D now. Though she's not the outgoing type but that does not give him the temerity to cheat on her.

major466:
This condition is quite tricky and very difficult I must admit. To tell, or not to tell given the situation of things is one phenomenon that requires serious thinking and guardiance from Well respected people in the community. The situation is beyond you @Op. You may have to involve and seek advice from well respected elders in your church or community. They will know what to do.

Thank you so much

PapiDShipCapt:
To me, I feel a bruise on his face would have best narrated d story to ur sister.

How do you mean? Please explain

Nothing cos your sister must have had idea about who she is getting married to..

Ugly bitter truth

Sparksfly:
[color=deeppink] Oh... you want to wait, till when then?..
Delay is dangerous dear. I read this somewhere.
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Then what do you suggest i do, i know my sister she might quit the marriage no matter the consequences. She's kinda hot tempered

Temptee101:
This man did the traditional marriage of my sister on the 3rd of January 2015. I went to club last night which was Friday with some friends, one of them ran to me narrating how he saw my in-law.On getting to the corner where he told me he saw him; i saw my sister's husband with another lady, infact they were kissing. On sighting me after few minutes, he became uncomfortable and stopped dancing with her. It wasnt up to 5minutes he left with the lady, on their way out i rushed to him and greeted him to be sure he actually saw me. My sister is already pregnant for him. What should i do to save my sister's marriage? Should i let my family know because he fears them so much?

op am sure u watch movies.. u know when it gets to that scene in a movie where the actor is meant to do something at dat moment to prevent any further trouble.. well ur in dat scene now and delay is dangerous.

argon500:
Nothing cos your sister must have had idea about who she is getting married to..

Ugly bitter truth

I beg to disagree. What if he has been pretending along. The man inquestion is very gentle and shy to the core that you will hardly believe that he could engage in such an act

Temptee101:
Then what do you suggest i do, i know my sister she might quit the marriage no matter the consequences. She's kinda hot tempered

[color=deeppink] She leaves him or not, it's not your decision to make. Do the right thing. Let her know. You are only watching out for her. She's your sis damn it![/color]

its not up 2 a month and he's cheating men ehn

just tell ur mom...i guess she'l know how 2 go abt it

your sis is very delicate now that she's pregnant and might not b able 2 handle d news

Temptee101:
How do you mean? Please explain

Meaning, you for land the guy blow for face.

@op, inform your family members, your parents most especially.
Jeez! The man is such an a$$, barely one month? Na wa ooo

Deefuray:
Meaning, you for land the guy blow for face.

Ok

Deefuray:
@op, inform your family members, your parents most especially.
Jeez! The man is such an a$$, barely one month? Na wa ooo

Thank you for your contribution

mirexxx:
its not up 2 a month and he's cheating men ehn

just tell ur mom...i guess she'l know how 2 go abt it

your sis is very delicate now that she's pregnant and might not b able 2 handle d news

I think that's what i should do right away. Thanks dear

OP.....u have to start billing the niccur as early as possible..

God bless us in mysterious ways

the best thing is to mind your own business.you Dont have to tell the wife or any family member;just go and confront the guy and hear what he would say.
although am not in any way supporting the guy but do not be a bearer of bad news or a seed of discord in their marriage.
#i don talk my own #

na this kain man dey make ladies talk say men are cheats! if i be you, i will never let him leave with that lady! i will politely tell d lady that he's married n she should stay off him, then i'll take him to his house n wife! I'll talk some sense into him n add a little threat!

*na womanisers dey get babe pass, innocent ones no dey get at all*

[color=#1980BC] Confront and advice him not to do such ignominous thing again...but make sure you wear red bra and pant. [/color]

Tell your mum about it. She knows how to handle the situation. That your inlaw shaa'... Just a month... GEJ till GMB present his certificate

prettyjo:
the best thing is to mind your own business.you Dont have to tell the wife or any family member;just go and confront the guy and hear what he would say.
although am not in any way supporting the guy but do not be a bearer of bad news or a seed of discord in their marriage.
#i don talk my own #

Mind my business and watch as it deteriorates huh? We are talking about my blood sister here. As for hearing whatever he has to say, he has no excuse whatsoever. For crying out loud we talking about someone who barely married three weeks ago and whose wife is already pregnant for him. I'm sorry i cant keep it to myself.

what are you doing there if the location aint right?

Temptee101:
This man did the traditional marriage of my sister on the 3rd of January 2015. I went to club last night which was Friday with some friends, one of them ran to me narrating how he saw my in-law.On getting to the corner where he told me he saw him; i saw my sister's husband with another lady, infact they were kissing. On sighting me after few minutes, he became uncomfortable and stopped dancing with her. It wasnt up to 5minutes he left with the lady, on their way out i rushed to him and greeted him to be sure he actually saw me. My sister is already pregnant for him. What should i do to save my sister's marriage? Should i let my family know because he fears them so much?

Better tell your sister everything, before that man infects her with baba nla STD/HIV. The marriage is just about two weeks old yet he is already club hopping with hoes.

Let your sister know so that your conscience will be clear.

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