Temptee101:
This man did the traditional marriage of my sister on the 3rd of January 2015. I went to club last night which was Friday with some friends. On arrival, one of them ran to me narrating how he saw my in-law in the club.

On getting to the corner where my friend told me he saw him; i saw my sister's husband with another lady. In fact they were kissing.

On sighting me after few minutes, he became uncomfortable and stopped dancing with her.

It wasn't up to 5minutes he left with the lady. On their way out i rushed to him and greeted him to make sure he actually saw me.

My sister is already pregnant for him. What should i do to save my sister's marriage?

Should i let my family know because he fears them so much?

himkers:


You need to back off from people's business and stop poking ur nose in ur sister's affair. Tell her about what you saw, and you don't mean well for her.

Besides, you don't even have the right to tell the man how to run his life, or is it cuz U re his inlaw?? If I were him and I get to find out you gossiped about me, i'll strike you hard.

#KeepSecretsToYourself

keppyy:



I refuse to believe this...

Deefuray:
@op, inform your family members, your parents most especially.
Jeez! The man is such an a$$, barely one month? Na wa ooo

Romzy007:
Hey man, I spent few minute reading some of the suggestions you were given. All I have to say is that you need to be very careful on how you handle this matter. You don't want to see your sister's marriage crashed and having her is sitting with you in your daddy's house in search of another husband for the next few years, which you can't tell how long that will be. having said that, I don't mean you should open your eyes and watch another man cheating on you beloved sister without taking any action(s). What I will suggest to you might be difficult for you to do depending on your kind of person. I opine you don't tell anyone, not even your sister or mother.My opinion is that you call your inlaw for a sit down and advise him on the matter. Make him understand that you did not feel cool about that issue and you thought the best thing to do was to speak to him to refrain from such attitude. Don't make this too formal, you guys should start talking about something else and then you should chip in the talk. If you have the confidence to do this, that guy will forever respect you and I hope he will see reasons to change too. This is my take, and I do hope it helps... Cheers

Temptee101:
This man did the traditional marriage of my sister on the 3rd of January 2015. I went to club last night which was Friday with some friends. On arrival, one of them ran to me narrating how he saw my in-law in the club.

On getting to the corner where my friend told me he saw him; i saw my sister's husband with another lady. In fact they were kissing.

On sighting me after few minutes, he became uncomfortable and stopped dancing with her.

It wasn't up to 5minutes he left with the lady. On their way out i rushed to him and greeted him to make sure he actually saw me.

My sister is already pregnant for him. What should i do to save my sister's marriage?

Should i let my family know because he fears them so much?

Temptee101:
This man did the traditional marriage of my sister on the 3rd of January 2015. I went to club last night which was Friday with some friends. On arrival, one of them ran to me narrating how he saw my in-law in the club.

On getting to the corner where my friend told me he saw him; i saw my sister's husband with another lady. In fact they were kissing.

On sighting me after few minutes, he became uncomfortable and stopped dancing with her.

It wasn't up to 5minutes he left with the lady. On their way out i rushed to him and greeted him to make sure he actually saw me.

My sister is already pregnant for him. What should i do to save my sister's marriage?

Should i let my family know because he fears them so much?

Cmanforall:


Don't curse the guy yet. You've not heard from him.
Like Op wrote---- they've done trad.(Not white) and they did it on ds January. Now the sis is pregnant(Jan 24).
Does it mean she was alrdy pregnant b4 marriage?

I think the story is somehow. What if the guy got trapped into that marriage with pregnancy? #just Saying... And now he meets his former true 'Love' and decides to club with her, away from his wife. Now he got caught by the brother.
WHAT IF this his nature is already known by the wife or the wife alrdy aware of the lady?
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@Op... You may tell your sister and don't be surprise @her response(like.... wen will ds man change self?)
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There are many things couple may not want to open up to others...
If I may ask, how long did they date b4 getting married? @Op

nattyhero:
its quite painful and dicey. But I will advice you confront the guy instead of telling ur family members. knowing fully well u dont have d right to confront him. you said ur sister is quite temperamental. u will be be responsible for d collapse of her marriage. Think before u take any action.

Temptee101:
People dont seem to know what they truly have. My sis is a first class graduate, a lecturer and also doing her Ph.D now. Though she's not the outgoing type but that does not give him the temerity to cheat on her.

ManTiger:

Club tinzz nah. That doesn't mean he doesn't love ur sis anymore... Besides you're married too and you dey enter to club too. Abii u go dere go preach nii?
Abeegii leave the man alone joor.

argon500:
Nothing cos your sister must have had idea about who she is getting married to..

Ugly bitter truth

FrancisTony:

If a girl had made this comment, a clueless guy from nowhere will ask, "including her father".?

How many guys have you met & hang out with, to arrive at the conclusion that 90% are cheats.
You hang out with morally bankrupt guys doesn't mean there are no millions of faithful guys out there.

Assumption is the mother of all fùck up.

PapiDShipCapt:
To me, I feel a bruise on his face would have best narrated d story to ur sister.

PapiDShipCapt:
To me, I feel a bruise on his face would have best narrated d story to ur sister.

zoelife:
. Spot on. He's either always been a womanizer or he didn't marry with his whole heart. Probably pressured in. Who knows. Tis just too early.

Sparksfly:


She leaves him or not, it's not your decision to make. Do the right thing. Let her know. You are only watching out for her. She's your sis damn it!

Temptee101:
People dont seem to know what they truly have. My sis is a first class graduate, a lecturer and also doing her Ph.D now. Though she's not the outgoing type but that does not give him the temerity to cheat on her.

PapiDShipCapt:
To me, I feel a bruise on his face would have best narrated d story to ur sister.

elantraceey:



She'll have to face the truth about the person she married.

natureblack:
oops,that's great,after the miscarriage I guess

Jennifer89:


Yoruba adage says a spouse who cheats the other is on the mission to kill his/her partner. You must be new to the society to ignore the fact that murders, children born out of wedlock and unhealthy marriages are results of infidelity.

If divorce would mean raising her child from an unhealthy environment, so be it. The world and I are tired of making excuses for unhealthy children when it could be easily avoided in most cases.

Easier said than done. Have you taken a look at children brought up by single parents? Have single parents shared their burden and pain with you?
"When another family's corpse is being moved around, it feels like the corpse of a dead chicken"



She is your sister do whatever you wish. Good luck.