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Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by humilitypays(m): 8:48am On Jan 25, 2015
Samsonklin:
What are u doing in a club? Is it nt to get somone's husband too? Damn it!! Just face ur life n leave d couples jor! All I see s pot calling kettle black.
God bless you jareh!

But I think the poster is a guy probably at the night club with his gang of bad friends to find free loose woman and here whinning that the husband of his claimed decent best graduating student PhD lecturer sister is cheating!

Now I ask: Op & others acting shocked and forming saints, are u people innocent Mstewwwwww

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Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by julietakinf: 8:58am On Jan 25, 2015
when men stop cheating?pls be faithful to ur wife.I will advise u kip it to urself nd if possible confront him nd talk to him to pls stop cheating on ur sis.try dt first
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by humilitypays(m): 8:59am On Jan 25, 2015
This story just reminded me of the story that was told in the Holy Bible whereby a woman was caught in prostitution, and the whole crowd was shouting: kill her! Condemn her! Stone her! Until Jesus came and told the crowd of pretenders: if any of you haven't done what this woman did, be the first to caste (throw) her a stone!

Gradually, the crowd disappeared, not even a single person was clean enough to pick a stone and throw on the said sinful woman they wanted to condemn to death for doing what all of them have done in hidden and maybe fortunate enough not to be caught!

See, in this life, don't judge anyone thinking u are holier because if at all u face that person's situation, u may become worst!!! My opinion

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Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by jemype(m): 9:27am On Jan 25, 2015
U fyn oo.
Sparksfly:
Oh... you want to wait, till when then?..
Delay is dangerous dear. I read this somewhere.
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Temptee101(m): 9:31am On Jan 25, 2015
humilitypays:
God bless you jareh!

But I think the poster is a guy probably at the night club with his gang of bad friends to find free loose woman and here whinning that the husband of his claimed decent best graduating student PhD lecturer sister is cheating!

Now I ask: Op & others acting shocked and forming saints, are u people innocent Mstewwwwww
Why are you trying so hard to justify this guy's digusting act? What is bad is bad simple.
You claimed that 90% of married men cheat without showing proof. Even if you are right that stil doesnt justify the man's action. Must everybody cheat since 90% engage in it?

You also submitted that i was bad. You dont know me ok; so you dont have the right to judge and conclude.
It's obvious you are also guilty of the crime.

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Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Samsonklin(m): 9:32am On Jan 25, 2015
Mrbigman1:



Oga, catch up with the guy man to man, I guess u re not free from same sin of cheating? His a man, u re a man, fix a date with him, know what he has to say. Dnt tell it to ur mum or any woman in the house, women do not handle such cases with wisdom, I guess ur dad is still around, talk to d guy first, if d convo is not favorable, tell ur dad but make sure u go with one or two of d guys u saw him doing it. Just be composed, man to man gentle talk and it should be ok I trust. U for no even allow d babe follow am go first, u for disengage dem dia first so dat guilt go dey rush through his vein with increased pressure.
But if ur sister is hot tempered, y she enter marriage? In a million men alive, u can't get up to 100 dat did not cheat outside marriage, I see dem and I pray God help me not to follow dia way but dat guy own too short sha.
I will honour ur date.. but d moment u start talking abt dat night, whether u are warning me or even advising me, I will walk out of dat place. Do u know why? Its cos m nt scared.. And I will ask u "who the f*ck re u to tell me how to run my life and home" if u dnt gv me gud reason, I go just BOUNCE!!
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by lbgr8t1993: 9:51am On Jan 25, 2015
Dude I will only beg u not to be the reason of ur sis break up, let her see it herselve.

Moreover she is pregnant except u want to hurt her.

Let go of that thought bkus u are a man and might fall guilty of that situation oneday. so just slub.
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by obaino75(m): 9:51am On Jan 25, 2015
Just advice d husband on how to be faithful to his wife. But don't review such to ur sister.
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by natureblack(m): 10:00am On Jan 25, 2015
elantraceey:



Some women are stronger than that
it's not worth the gamble Dear,some secret is better left untold.
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by sojsmith: 10:00am On Jan 25, 2015
What goes around comes around. What are u doing in a nite club urself? Don't u do the same to other pple's sisters, married or not? Do u knw if he met ur sis in a club or how many times they have clubbed 2gether? Face ur warrant o, and stop playing hypocrite.
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Jay5000(m): 10:10am On Jan 25, 2015
You saw him, you walked up to him, you said hi. Job done. That's all you need to do.
If you shout, you'll eventually wish you didn't.
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by vainfairy: 10:22am On Jan 25, 2015
Temptee101:
People dont seem to know what they truly have. My sis is a first class graduate, a lecturer and also doing her Ph.D now. Though she's not the outgoing type but that does not give him the temerity to cheat on her.

Ur sista's dis,she's dat! Who gives a phuck?? Pls restrict ur amebo tinz 2nairaland!! U gat no buisness wiv ur sis' marriage, ok? U catch him phuckin anoda woman, & so? Him carry am cum houze? Abeg, go & get married & face ur own life,,,, Lubbish!!
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by precisionindepth: 10:38am On Jan 25, 2015
humilitypays:
The hypocrisy of people once they are on the internet is really scary! Why are we acting surprised that a man cheated on his wife and his wife's brother caught himn y the surprise like u nver heard such stories or worst stories b4

Men will always be men no matter what u do!

Most men that cheat on their wife or partner don't do it because they don't love their wife or partner; they just do it most times for no reason aside the desire to explore or inability to resist temptation; and I can boldly tell u that over 95% married men in the whole world today cheat on their wives- deal with it! The few that don't cheat must be very spiritual and close to God else, no man can marry for 30 years without cheating on his wife unless the man is broke or very poor and lack the opportunity of meeting other prettier/hotter women with irresistible sex appeal temptation.

And to the guys acting surprised, if u have cheated on your girlfriend b4 or cheating on her and u believe once u marry that u will stop, u are just fooling yourself because once u marry, the desire to cheat on your wife will become even more.

To the ladies, you all shouldn't be shocked reading something like this because I am sure most of you must have done it with another girl's boyfriend or husband while coming online to pretend like a saint.

I insist that the op should just bottle it up and maybe talk to his sister's husband if he has the guts...telling your sister will only hurt her and her unborn baby because it won't make any difference.

And u thinking that your sister is a PhD holder, a lecturer, bla bla bla and feeling she's too good to be cheated, I laugh at you because men who married beauty queens, super models, female MDs, professors, female ruling politicians, etc still cheat on their wives, or didn't you hear that the husband of Queen Elizabeth of England cheated on Queen Elizabeth not long after they got married as Queen and Prince of England and u are here talking about your sister having PhD and being a lecturer, I laughgrin

So your sister's husband cheated not because your sister is not good or outgoing, he cheated because cheating and exploring other women is a natural curse on men, which u the op is a partaker of that curse until u become a complete practising born again; which u are not by going to night club!!grin
since cheating is d nature of men, wouldn't it b better to be in an open relationship then? and in your beautiful mind, Does that mean that women too are not been tempted to taste other men? if that is the case, what then is the excess of marriage? what a pervert generation!

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Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Nobody: 10:54am On Jan 25, 2015
Yo see something bad happening and u feeling confused and u don't want to let the cat out of the bag, u'll av urself to blame at the end.
U see som1 stealing from ur dad, u forming confused cos hez ur dad's PA for many years. Not saying a word bout it will mean u definitely stupIid in the real sense of it.
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by precisionindepth: 11:08am On Jan 25, 2015
humilitypays:
The hypocrisy of people once they are on the internet is really scary! Why are we acting surprised that a man cheated on his wife and his wife's brother caught himn y the surprise like u nver heard such stories or worst stories b4

Men will always be men no matter what u do!

Most men that cheat on their wife or partner don't do it because they don't love their wife or partner; they just do it most times for no reason aside the desire to explore or inability to resist temptation; and I can boldly tell u that over 95% married men in the whole world today cheat on their wives- deal with it! The few that don't cheat must be very spiritual and close to God else, no man can marry for 30 years without cheating on his wife unless the man is broke or very poor and lack the opportunity of meeting other prettier/hotter women with irresistible sex appeal temptation.

And to the guys acting surprised, if u have cheated on your girlfriend b4 or cheating on her and u believe once u marry that u will stop, u are just fooling yourself because once u marry, the desire to cheat on your wife will become even more.

To the ladies, you all shouldn't be shocked reading something like this because I am sure most of you must have done it with another girl's boyfriend or husband while coming online to pretend like a saint.

I insist that the op should just bottle it up and maybe talk to his sister's husband if he has the guts...telling your sister will only hurt her and her unborn baby because it won't make any difference.

And u thinking that your sister is a PhD holder, a lecturer, bla bla bla and feeling she's too good to be cheated, I laugh at you because men who married beauty queens, super models, female MDs, professors, female ruling politicians, etc still cheat on their wives, or didn't you hear that the husband of Queen Elizabeth of England cheated on Queen Elizabeth not long after they got married as Queen and Prince of England and u are here talking about your sister having PhD and being a lecturer, I laughgrin

So your sister's husband cheated not because your sister is not good or outgoing, he cheated because cheating and exploring other women is a natural curse on men,
which u the op is a partaker of that curse until u become a complete practising born again; which u are not by going to night club!!grin
so therefore cheating is the best option cos its a curse? do you subscribe that women should be placed under such curse too? so everything can be balanced?

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Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by humilitypays(m): 11:11am On Jan 25, 2015
precisionindepth:
since cheating is d nature of men, wouldn't it b better to be in an open relationship then? and in your beautiful mind, Does that mean that women too are not been tempted to taste other men? if that is the case, what then is the excess of marriage? what a pervert generation!
if u think women have the natural tendency to cheat like men, I ask u: how many times have u as a girl seen guys u admire and went after them just to have sex with them

How many times have u as a girl seen a guy u admire and go straight to him to pls give u his number that u will like to visit him tomorrow or for him to visit u tomorrow

How many times have u told a guy u aren't dating that u just want to have sex with him

How many times have u and other girls reading this went to a brothel to pay a guy just to have sex with him and go? or meet a guy in a public bus or park, church, school, etc and not ask him for money or favour but to just have sex with him and go

How many times have u seen a cute guy u admire and stop your car or okada just to run to the guy and beg him to give u his number so u can get to know him

How many times have u stopped your car just to give one cute guy lift with the hidden intention of having sex with him that same day

How many of the guys that approached u or other ladies reading this did u accept to date and have sex with

You think it is because u are so decent, disciplined, well brought up or too spiritual that u and most other ladies have not been doing all that I mentioned above If u don't know, know it today that it is a natural making for women to resist sexual urge more than men!

If they tell u how many girls that your sweetheart, hubby, boyfriend approached, wooed or tried to woo before he met u, u will pity him and also pity yourself!

Men are born sex explorers even before this generation!

It didn't start in our time, it was even worse before now...or y do u think in the past men married numerous wives and kept concunbines wherever they travelled to for business, trade, fishing, expedition, war, etc

No one can stop men from being cheats, and no matter how women whine and cry, men won't stop cheating...so the best thing u can do is to help your man remain close to God so that his fear of God will make him flee from the temptation of sex immorality, but if u think is by shouting and calling men demeaning names that will make them stop cheating, then be ready to call men more demeaning names while the trend continues!

Don't listen to what some broke boys talk online...go out in real life and mix with financially buoyant men and u will weep for the world- so this story isn't new as far as I am concerned and non of us has the right to condemn the said-man or other men that cheat, only God should!
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by precisionindepth: 11:14am On Jan 25, 2015
vainfairy:


Ur sista's dis,she's dat! Who gives a phuck?? Pls restrict ur amebo tinz 2nairaland!! U gat no buisness wiv ur sis' marriage, ok? U catch him phuckin anoda woman, & so? Him carry am cum houze? Abeg, go & get married & face ur own life,,,, Lubbish!!
nice you! sometimes when u view the way the world it, it pains that the nice ones are always unfortunate while the bad ones take the best.
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by brainiac007: 11:15am On Jan 25, 2015
prettyjo:
the best thing is to mind your own business.you Dont have to tell the wife or any family member;just go and confront the guy and hear what he would say.
although am not in any way supporting the guy but do not be a bearer of bad news or a seed of discord in their marriage.
#i don talk my own #

But what if the man contracts a deadly sexually transmitted disease due to his unfaithfulness? He could transmit it to the poor girl if she's not told. He's putting her at risk as it is now.
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by humilitypays(m): 11:17am On Jan 25, 2015
Temptee101:
Why are you trying so hard to justify this guy's digusting act? What is bad is bad simple.
You claimed that 90% of married men cheat without showing proof. Even if you are right that stil doesnt justify the man's action. Must everybody cheat since 90% engage in it?

You also submitted that i was bad. You dont know me ok; so you dont have the right to judge and conclude.
It's obvious you are also guilty of the crime.
Going by your story bro, you aren't a saint yourself; if u were, u ought not to be in a night club when your mates are sleeping or praying or singing praises to God at one Church; so u see

Pls let your sister be; those happy couple u see and admire, if they tell u what's happening behind the scene of their marriage, u may die of shock!

My suggestion is: if u have the gut, talk to him about it and make he understand that u weren't happy seeing him in such mood. But don't go condemning him, make him understand that u knw that as a man it isn't easy but encourage him to try harder for his own good and maybe forge a fake story of how one girl killed one of her married man lover when she discovered he was married. This may scare him into becoming faithful...

Nobody holy pass, so don't judge others!
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by humilitypays(m): 11:23am On Jan 25, 2015
precisionindepth:
so therefore cheating is the best option cos its a curse? do you subscribe that women should be placed under such curse too? so everything can be balanced?
I already pointed out the only way out of that natural curse on men- being a sincere practising born again!

Except a man becomes a sincere practising born again Christian, he will never run away from that natural curse of sexual exploration till he dies or becomes old/senile!

Only God's intervention can stop a financially buoyant man from cheating on his partner! So if u want your man not cheat, help draw him very close to God or else, u are gambling!
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by precisionindepth: 11:31am On Jan 25, 2015
[quote author=humilitypays post=30114098]if u think women have the natural tendency to cheat like men, I ask u: how many times have u as a girl seen guys u admire and went after them just to have sex with them

How many times have u as a girl seen a guy u admire and go straight to him to pls give u his number that u will like to visit him tomorrow or for him to visit u tomorrow

How many times have u told a guy u aren't dating that u just want to have sex with him

How many times have u and other girls reading this went to a brothel to pay a guy just to have sex with him and go? or meet a guy in a public bus or park, church, school, etc and not ask him for money or favour but to just have sex with him and go

How many times have u seen a cute guy u admire and stop your car or okada just to run to the guy and beg him to give u his number so u can get to know him

How many times have u stopped your car just to give one cute guy lift with the hidden intention of having sex with him that same day

How many of the guys that approached u or other ladies reading this did u accept to date and have sex with

You think it is because u are so decent, disciplined, well brought up or too spiritual that u and most other ladies have not been doing all that I mentioned above If u don't know, know it today that it is a natural making for women to resist sexual urge more than men!

If they tell u how many girls that your sweetheart, hubby, boyfriend approached, wooed or tried to woo before he met u, u will pity him and also pity yourself!

Men are born sex explorers even before this generation!

It didn't start in our time, it was even worse before now...or y do u think in the past men married numerous wives and kept concunbines wherever they travelled to for business, trade, fishing, expedition, war, etc

No one can stop men from being cheats, and no matter how women whine and cry, men won't stop cheating...so the best thing u can do is to help your man remain close to God so that his fear of God will make him flee from the temptation of sex immorality, but if u think is by shouting and calling men demeaning names that will make them stop cheating, then be ready to call men more demeaning names while the trend continues!

Don't listen to what some broke boys talk online...go out in real life and mix with financially buoyant men and u will weep for the world- so this story isn't new as far as I am concerned and non of us has the right to condemn the said-man or other men that cheat, only God should![/quote/ if that actually is the case which most time it is, I think that men and women should v d license to sleep with anybody dey so wish even though they are married DAT way there won't b tension and none will feel cheated and everybody will be happy . imagine if you are in this shoe, you kept your self for just one person bodily and in all ways but the other feels he can't do without sampling, how will you feel? I guess you will b smiling and giggling?
why should we justify what is bad?

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Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by precisionindepth: 11:38am On Jan 25, 2015
humilitypays:
if u think women have the natural tendency to cheat like men, I ask u: how many times have u as a girl seen guys u admire and went after them just to have sex with them

How many times have u as a girl seen a guy u admire and go straight to him to pls give u his number that u will like to visit him tomorrow or for him to visit u tomorrow

How many times have u told a guy u aren't dating that u just want to have sex with him

How many times have u and other girls reading this went to a brothel to pay a guy just to have sex with him and go? or meet a guy in a public bus or park, church, school, etc and not ask him for money or favour but to just have sex with him and go

How many times have u seen a cute guy u admire and stop your car or okada just to run to the guy and beg him to give u his number so u can get to know him

How many times have u stopped your car just to give one cute guy lift with the hidden intention of having sex with him that same day

How many of the guys that approached u or other ladies reading this did u accept to date and have sex with

You think it is because u are so decent, disciplined, well brought up or too spiritual that u and most other ladies have not been doing all that I mentioned above If u don't know, know it today that it is a natural making for women to resist sexual urge more than men!

If they tell u how many girls that your sweetheart, hubby, boyfriend approached, wooed or tried to woo before he met u, u will pity him and also pity yourself!

Men are born sex explorers even before this generation!

It didn't start in our time, it was even worse before now...or y do u think in the past men married numerous wives and kept concunbines wherever they travelled to for business, trade, fishing, expedition, war, etc

No one can stop men from being cheats, and no matter how women whine and cry, men won't stop cheating...so the best thing u can do is to help your man remain close to God so that his fear of God will make him flee from the temptation of sex immorality, but if u think is by shouting and calling men demeaning names that will make them stop cheating, then be ready to call men more demeaning names while the trend continues!

Don't listen to what some broke boys talk online...go out in real life and mix with financially buoyant men and u will weep for the world- so this story isn't new as far as I am concerned and non of us has the right to condemn the said-man or other men that cheat, only God should!
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by precisionindepth: 11:42am On Jan 25, 2015
humilitypays:
if u think women have the natural tendency to cheat like men, I ask u: how many times have u as a girl seen guys u admire and went after them just to have sex with them

How many times have u as a girl seen a guy u admire and go straight to him to pls give u his number that u will like to visit him tomorrow or for him to visit u tomorrow

How many times have u told a guy u aren't dating that u just want to have sex with him

How many times have u and other girls reading this went to a brothel to pay a guy just to have sex with him and go? or meet a guy in a public bus or park, church, school, etc and not ask him for money or favour but to just have sex with him and go

How many times have u seen a cute guy u admire and stop your car or okada just to run to the guy and beg him to give u his number so u can get to know him

How many times have u stopped your car just to give one cute guy lift with the hidden intention of having sex with him that same day

How many of the guys that approached u or other ladies reading this did u accept to date and have sex with

You think it is because u are so decent, disciplined, well brought up or too spiritual that u and most other ladies have not been doing all that I mentioned above If u don't know, know it today that it is a natural making for women to resist sexual urge more than men!

If they tell u how many girls that your sweetheart, hubby, boyfriend approached, wooed or tried to woo before he met u, u will pity him and also pity yourself!

Men are born sex explorers even before this generation!

It didn't start in our time, it was even worse before now...or y do u think in the past men married numerous wives and kept concunbines wherever they travelled to for business, trade, fishing, expedition, war, etc

No one can stop men from being cheats, and no matter how women whine and cry, men won't stop cheating...so the best thing u can do is to help your man remain close to God so that his fear of God will make him flee from the temptation of sex immorality, but if u think is by shouting and calling men demeaning names that will make them stop cheating, then be ready to call men more demeaning names while the trend continues!

Don't listen to what some broke boys talk online...go out in real life and mix with financially buoyant men and u will weep for the world- so this story isn't new as far as I am concerned and non of us has the right to condemn the said-man or other men that cheat, only God should!
if that actually is the case which most time it is, I
think that men and women should v d license to
sleep with anybody dey so wish even though they
are married DAT way there won't b tension and
none will feel cheated and everybody will be
happy . imagine if you are in this shoe, you kept
your self for just one person bodily and in all
ways but the other feels he can't do without
sampling, how will you feel? I guess you will b
smiling and giggling?
why should we justify what is bad?let men continue to cheat and let women do same but please Dont bring innocent children into such perverse relationship.

so sickening the type of relationships we have nowadays, no wonder children of nowadays are nothing to right home about. everything is just shattered and scattered. may God help us.

what is wrong is wrong but if we feel that the right thing, then, let everybody continue.

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Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Samsonklin(m): 11:42am On Jan 25, 2015
Temptee101:
Thank you all for your contributions. It pains me alot when i remember how reserved and diligent she was to her studies. She was quite brilliant. She had many suitors coming for her. She never had time for any man during her school days; like some people here had said ''maybe he met her at a night club bla bla bla''. She was not the partying type.

She was the best graduating student in her department
She was the best in her faculty
She was the third best overall in her set
Oh please!!! Spare me the preaching.
It will never get her Angel Michael or Angel Gabriel. Never, not in this world. Its not a curse, dnt misquote me. Its is just a #FACT
If she want those kind of men, maybe u shuld get her some clay and create "the man" herself.
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by crackhouse(m): 12:06pm On Jan 25, 2015
They got married on 3rd Jan and now ur sister is already pregnant and probably for a month+ which means the man have been going to ur sister's honey pot before they got married. That's a sin before God so their marriage was built on sin and u expect it not to continue that way? U must be Cracking a Joke.
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by humilitypays(m): 12:25pm On Jan 25, 2015
precisionindepth:
if that actually is the case which most time it is, I
think that men and women should v d license to
sleep with anybody dey so wish even though they
are married DAT way there won't b tension and
none will feel cheated and everybody will be
happy . imagine if you are in this shoe, you kept
your self for just one person bodily and in all
ways but the other feels he can't do without
sampling, how will you feel? I guess you will b
smiling and giggling?
why should we justify what is bad?let men continue to cheat and let women do same but please Dont bring innocent children into such perverse relationship.

so sickening the type of relationships we have nowadays, no wonder children of nowadays are nothing to right home about. everything is just shattered and scattered. may God help us.

what is wrong is wrong but if we feel that the right thing, then, let everybody continue.
lol, my sister it didn't start in our generation; it has been there b4 we were born...even b4 our forefathers, cheating and immorality have always been in existence, just that modern media and internet is now making them more known to everybody.

Life isn't fair!

Men also pay their own prize- do u know what guys pass through trying to be a man that u women admire and adore

Every gender has its own prize to pay in this unjust world...let's learn to live by it and rely only on God!

And even the ladies themselves aren't saints because they make big mistakes during selection of a partner out of selfish interest.

Who knows; maybe the Op's sister may have rejected/turned down some better guys coming to marry and accepted this one maybe because of financial reasons, or maybe because he has big degrees to match her own PhDcheesy and now u see the outcome
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by 1miccza: 12:41pm On Jan 25, 2015
brainiac007:


But what if the man contracts a deadly sexually transmitted disease due to his unfaithfulness? He could transmit it to the poor girl if she's not told. He's putting her at risk as it is now.

Under the circumstances I think the best option would be to tell an elderly person who is close to the and who can break the news to her wisely
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by popcykaylah(m): 12:51pm On Jan 25, 2015
the dude still dey celebrate him wedding with the kiss na grin
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by precisionindepth: 12:58pm On Jan 25, 2015
humilitypays:
lol, my sister it didn't start in our generation; it has been there b4 we were born...even b4 our forefathers, cheating and immorality have always been in existence, just that modern media and internet is now making them more known to everybody.

Life isn't fair!

Men also pay their own prize- do u know what guys pass through trying to be a man that u women admire and adore

Every gender has its own prize to pay in this unjust world...let's learn to live by it and rely only on God!

And even the ladies themselves aren't saints because they make big mistakes during selection of a partner out of selfish interest.

Who knows; maybe the Op's sister may have rejected/turned down some better guys coming to marry and accepted this one maybe because of financial reasons, or maybe because he has big degrees to match her own PhDcheesy and now u see the outcome
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by precisionindepth: 1:00pm On Jan 25, 2015
humilitypays:
lol, my sister it didn't start in our generation; it has been there b4 we were born...even b4 our forefathers, cheating and immorality have always been in existence, just that modern media and internet is now making them more known to everybody.

Life isn't fair!

Men also pay their own prize- do u know what guys pass through trying to be a man that u women admire and adore

Every gender has its own prize to pay in this unjust world...let's learn to live by it and rely only on God!

And even the ladies themselves aren't saints because they make big mistakes during selection of a partner out of selfish interest.

Who knows; maybe the Op's sister may have rejected/turned down some better guys coming to marry and accepted this one maybe because of financial reasons, or maybe because he has big degrees to match her own PhDcheesy and now u see the outcome
]I Dont concur to the last part of your reply. I v seen ladies marry men DAT are flat broke in the beginning with virtually nothing not cos the ladies never had better options but cos dey believe they can work with the guy and become something...
but lol and behold, few years later after all the toiling and pulling of resources together , and greatness achieved..what then happens? cheating starts , bulling, getting to see prettier ladies and boom! " u will hear d guy saying I will pay u and buy anything u want just cos he wants to marry another"

I just hope we all , both men and women stop entangling ourselves in vanity and stop carrying extra burden.

I really Dont know y sex is so overrated cos all still bounce back to wanting to sample another 'V'

like I said b4, if men wants to sample every V, let women also do same to different D..DT way nobody will feel cheated and every body will b apy

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Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by justmenoni: 1:39pm On Jan 25, 2015
@Op in as much as i dont support cheating partners or cheating in a relationship or marriage...but after the incident have you ever take time to ascertain what could have led ur BIL to commit such act? of cos ur sister is a phd holder,career woman etc but that doesnt makes her a good woman,wait i didnt mean she has a bad character but Sex plays a vital role in any relationship and alot of women actually denies their men the right to sex especially during the pregnancy periods...why not take time as some other members have suggested and talk with ur BIL and see what actually is wrong cos from your description he is a gentleman but wait oo does it mean womanizers are actually not gentleman or easygoing?.. talk to your BIL and ascertain what is wrong..i understand the kind of dilema u found urself in..but there might be more to the story than you actualy imagine cos if i should understand ur post very well you dont stay with them(ur sister and ur BIL) and even if u do i blv u dont sleep in dere bedroom..i have seen lots of couples screaming that u canhear dere voices form the main compound but on getting to their door or entering their apartment you will find them laughing and pretending all is well....Please do ur best and try as much as u can not to dissolve their marriages and wait ooo if ur sister sef is looking for a oman woman kind of man then she hv to exercise alot i mean alot of patience cos we men thse days are actually cheaters grin grin grin grin ;Dlike my brother usually says you cant be eating rice everyday there should be time you have to eat it with beans or plantain grin grin grin grin
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by precisionindepth: 1:47pm On Jan 25, 2015
justmenoni:
@Op in as much as i dont support cheating partners or cheating in a relationship or marriage...but after the incident have you ever take time to ascertain what could have led ur BIL to commit such act? of cos ur sister is a phd holder,career woman etc but that doesnt makes her a good woman,wait i didnt mean she has a bad character but Sex plays a vital role in any relationship and alot of women actually denies their men the right to sex especially during the pregnancy periods...why not take time as some other members have suggested and talk with ur BIL and see what actually is wrong cos from your description he is a gentleman but wait oo does it mean womanizers are actually not gentleman or easygoing?.. talk to your BIL and ascertain what is wrong..i understand the kind of dilema u found urself in..but there might be more to the story than you actualy imagine cos if i should understand ur post very well you dont stay with them(ur sister and ur BIL) and even if u do i blv u dont sleep in dere bedroom..i have seen lots of couples screaming that u canhear dere voices form the main compound but on getting to their door or entering their apartment you will find them laughing and pretending all is well....Please do ur best and try as much as u can not to dissolve their marriages and wait ooo if ur sister sef is looking for a oman woman kind of man then she hv to exercise alot i mean alot of patience cos we men thse days are actually cheaters grin grin grin grin ;Dlike my brother usually says you cant be eating rice everyday there should be time you have to eat it with beans or plantain grin grin grin grin
its not actually good to eat same tin every time..u get bored
when the man is tired of only rice and he start putting beans or plaintain, I think whenever the woman is tired of rice too, she shd start putting vegetable soup with different meats cos vegetable can be so nutritious.

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