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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by GoodFaith: 7:12pm On Jan 26, 2015
Sophyrocks:
This Op is a total disgrace to manhood!! You are fortunate i am not your wife and my mother isnt your mother in law. Omo mehn, we will soooooooo fvck you up!! we will make a perfect team. If i were your wife, it would make sense you even pack some things and leave that house because my hot temper will make that house hot for you. I wont touch you but you will die of stroke.

Just imagine bringing a friend to help you out with something and your wife becomes intimate with him just because of his 13 inches d1ck. What do you think you would do if you found out? That is what makes me sooooo angry when you men cheat!! You dnt forgive but want forgiveness which is what motivates me not to tolerate it at alllllllll. Mbanu! You men should try and reason with the brain often. Your d1cks are not your brains. The more you use it the more mistakes you make. What will it profit you to use 5 minutes pleasure to loose your family and break down your marriage completely? cant you see you have a lot to loose when you cheat as a man? If 42 size of bra is what you love, why didnt you marry a woman with one?

Get ready to face the consequences of your actions because you will face them no matter how much schemes you wanna pull here. Adultery has consequences. Every man who commits it faces them. God cannot be mocked for whatever you sow you must reap. Your wife will get to know if not now but in the nearest future after many threats from her mother.
devil
forgiveness
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jan 26, 2015
GoodFaith:

devil
There is what is called forgiveness

Demon! will you forgive a cheating bastard?
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by EricDonn(m): 7:23pm On Jan 26, 2015
Cutehector4u:
Bribe mama
.
With her own kiss too....who says she wont enjoy it
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jan 26, 2015
See gobe,take mama go lakeside shopping or blue water if you re in london,buy her nice things,beg her very well o to forgive you,am sure mama will not tell her daughter,but make sure that lady leave your house,shes dangerous to your marriage,are you not afraid that she might have witchcraft to destroy your marriage and hiv too?
zeefa:
Please, I need a serious advise from people in the house. I really don't know what to say to my mother in-law, may be to beg her or ignored as if nothing happen.

Let me give you a little summary of what happened to me.

My wife just put to bed and the whole loads of work have been much for her that she called on her friend who just graduated from the university to come and stay with us so that she could help with little work at home.

We didn't have problem with her because it will save her from paying bills whereas we have more space in our own house for her to occupy free of charge without having to pay any bills.

She was so hard-working and even without telling her,she knows what to do at the right time. She does all the cooking for us and most time before I get home from work, she calls me to ask what I would love to have for dinner which she will gladly organise.

Gradually, we get little bit close and talk freely to each other without having to define our boundaries.

Wumi is a dark skinned chobby lady with a 42DD size (please don't ask me how I got to know her size). And am sure those that have the picture of sizes on their brain will understand my point. It was tempting.

It all started when I got home and saw her cooking with one nasty top showing off her assets. She caught my attention and smiled and I returned my gesture given her a soft smile too and that was how the whole madness started.

My mother in-law just came from nigeria few days ago to help us as well. But left for me, I was enjoying the new atmosphere with Wumi in our house.

Just yesterday the nasty incident happened. Mama caught me in d washroom kissing and touching wumi . Meanwhile, my wife went for Dr appointment for our son with cold.

Right now, I'm afraid because mama didn't say anything and I don't know how to convince her as well.

Wumi is not comfortable at home again and I can't look into ma ma's face anymore.

The funny thing is that mama didn't discuss what she saw with my wife because I knew if my wife heard, in fact, I wont be on nairaland now to narrate the story of my life.

Please, do I call mama and beg her? Or should I just ask my wife to allow her (wumi) go since mama is around. ?

I'm really confused here because I can't not face or talk to Mama freely at home anymore.

Please what do I do?


Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by GoodFaith: 7:27pm On Jan 26, 2015
Sophyrocks:


Demon! will you forgive a cheating bastard?
slow down here
You bad
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 7:33pm On Jan 26, 2015
why are you talking like dimwit,how can he control himself?dnt you knowthe veins in dat tin got blood flowing through it,the reason Allah the almight says women should waer an outer covering big enough to cover their inner wears i.e all the curves and tits,and men must not look at non- related twice,the second glance must not occur,you have to lower your gaze,even in my religion islam it forbids strange people living with couples like that,these are all ways to prevent evil occurrence
masterpower:
BUT GUY YOU FUMBLED.
COMMITING ADULTERY IN YOUR HOUSE?
ARE YOU A HE GOAT(MKPI)?
CAN YOU CONTROL YOURSELF?

STOP THAT, CAUTION AND DISCIPLINE YOURSELF FOR ONLY WHEN YOU RESIST SUCH THAT YOU'RE TRUELY A MAN.

TELL YOUR WIFE AND PLEAD WITH HER TO BEHAVE AS IF NOTHING HAPPEND. TAKE THE BLAME AND DONT BE THE COWARD HERE, TELL HER YOU KISSED HER BY FORCE AND.....

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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jan 26, 2015
GoodFaith:

slow down here
You bad

You are worse!! Answer my question jare! You can preach but you want to remain a hypocrite. Will you remember forgiveness if your wife cheats on you?
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by GoodFaith: 7:39pm On Jan 26, 2015
Sophyrocks:


You are worse!! Answer my question jare! You can preach but you want to remain a hypocrite. Will you remember forgiveness if your wife cheats on you?
GOD KNOW WHAT WOMEN DO BEHIND OUR BACK
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jan 26, 2015
pls from now tell mama to be doing the cooking,dnt evertaste wumi food anymore,let your wife eat the rest,nd if your wife ask why u sent her pcking,just tell her the truth her body is or her stay in dat house is tempting you,truth,its very easy to get tempted at this time as you know your wife cannot have intercourse for now,you have to flee or else you commit adultery against your own soul,your woman,and God,and dishonouring your newborn baby and mama d inlaw,think twice.
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jan 26, 2015
Dnt ever tell your wife you kissed her o or smooche her,cos she will hate the lady for life,just tell her her presence is tempting you

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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jan 26, 2015
GoodFaith:

GOD KNOW WHAT WOMEN DO BEHIND OUR BACK

And this is your answer? I can see you are scared of your wife cheating on you. You will just develop high b.p. So stop being a hypocrite! NO ONE LOVES BEEN CHEATED ON INCLUDING YOU.

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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jan 26, 2015
Mama is going to harmer prayer to tighten her daugter marriage by whaetever means,even my mum will race to do same to destroy any yoke yokable.just make sure you do nice shopping for her,dnt let pride swallow you,be nice to her,mother have say in their ward o,she can make ur wife love youforevera and also can make her deal with you by any means forever too,thats why people say,wife wey mama never die ,get backup like witch,they are pillars to their daughter's marriage.
zeefa:
It's 5.16am here! I have been going through people's comments both the good ones n the bads ones..

Well, like I said Mama called me yesterday while my wife was upstairs sleeping. Our guest room is a basement so I was there to see her.

Mama didn't say anything about what see saw, she only complained about the weather and need for her to return home latest next week.

As I was about to start conversation, I heard the cry of my son and I rushed to see him and I noticed my wife was awake as well.

With the flow between us, I noticed mama didn't discuss it yet with her but i told her mama's idea of leaving us soon. She confidently asked me to calm down that mama won't go, that may be she was missing home.

I still don't know if I should confess my sin to her this morning.

Wumi is still at home but I plan to ask my wife to release her since mama is around. But how do I justify that when mama threatened to leave us too!

My wife like her friend because they both finished from same secondary school somewhere in ibadan (Queens Apata).

Do I confess to her? I need to sort these issues out asap. I can't sleep and am getting seriously worried.



Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jan 26, 2015
I repeat dnt tell your wife,it caan cause post natal depression and also afffect her milk production.

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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jan 26, 2015
You are right,the marriage would have reach rock,cos wunmi too wil be claiming ehn now we are both equal now having same tin,some women can do dat.
kuzee:

even if she does, dnt you think it will have any effect on her daughter and her father,especially the whole family when they found about d blackmail .
you dnt nid to ask me if i ws there..the op has already spill out the answer..
first her daughter gave birth,wnt she be happy herself to be called a grandmama,
secondly she came all d way from nigeria..
God brought her there to catch the devil cz he doesnt want to spoil the home..God hs a way of doing things,suppose he wasnt caught..the marriage will be far dead..
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by teenature(f): 8:31pm On Jan 26, 2015
The evil that men do scares the devil himself

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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jan 26, 2015
Am sorry to say dis but you are a chicken ho w dare u? How can you treat ur wife like dis after giving u a sweet son? Now u are looking 4 advice go hug transformer infact stay wit wumi love nd cherish her nd leave ur wife u hear rubbish.
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jan 26, 2015
Wunmi don become pain in the neck for ya family ooo cheesy
I sure say if she leaves, na U sef go pay for her new apartment so as to chop belleful and unchallenged grin
So, men dey fear like this? Even Truckpusher gree say you don enter one chance cheesy grin

Ogbeeni, deny am if mama talk am angry Tell dem say she no see clearly undecided

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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Truckpusher(m): 9:39pm On Jan 26, 2015
chimkaire:
Wunmi don become pain in the neck for ya family ooo cheesy
I sure say if she leaves, na U sef go pay for her new apartment so as to chop belleful and unchallenged grin
So, men dey fear like this? Even Truckpusher gree say you don enter one chance cheesy grin

Ogbeeni, deny am if mama talk am angry Tell dem say she no see clearly undecided
Hehe...Respect for your spouse is not about being afraid. tongue
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by GoodFaith: 9:41pm On Jan 26, 2015
Sophyrocks:


And this is your answer? I can see you are scared of your wife cheating on you. You will just develop high b.p. So stop been a hypocrite! NO ONE LOVES BEEN CHEATED ON INCLUDING YOU.
Ok
Let be upfront with you
I did check your profile
You will make me cheat girl --you pretty
At the moment , I am just taking things slow
I am taking time off the field
If a woman cheat, she is out the door, No high BP
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jan 26, 2015
onoja12:
my friend you didn't do anything wrong,if not for laziness what would make a married woman bring temptation into her house to tempt her husband,pregnancy is not a sickness nor a liberality,if she brought her friend then only means she felt she needed an assistant to assist her in doing her job and her friend just did literately that


I pity you infact am weeping 4 u as am typing now I guess its men like you dat dere wives give birth 2day nd pound yam de nxt dat. Hmmm shaking my head 4 u I really pity u my prayer is God shld turn u in2 a woman so u give birth let's see what u be saying Den.

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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by GoodFaith: 9:47pm On Jan 26, 2015
uplawal:
Mama is going to harmer prayer to tighten her daugter marriage by whaetever means,even my mum will race to do same to destroy any yoke yokable.just make sure you do nice shopping for her,dnt let pride swallow you,be nice to her,mother have say in their ward o,she can make ur wife love youforevera and also can make her deal with you by any means forever too,thats why people say,wife wey mama never die ,get backup like witch,they are pillars to their daughter's marriage.

If that was me mama bag will be fill up
I will call mama weekly-- with out saying, Mama will know it was the devil's work
That, I am good son-in-law

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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by onoja12: 10:00pm On Jan 26, 2015
My friend tv has finished you,its you i piety,your grand mother did it,and your mother did it,you cant do it because of tv,your children are brought up by house mad,you husbands are feed by house mads,cloths washed by washing machine,so as a wife of what use are you?that is why you people new job is how to make the life of your husband miserable,because you are jobless,rubbish


cyberry21:
I pity you infact am weeping 4 u as am typing now I guess its men like you dat dere wives give birth 2day nd pound yam de nxt dat. Hmmm shaking my head 4 u I really pity u my prayer is God shld turn u in2 a woman so u give birth let's see what u be saying Den.
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 10:07pm On Jan 26, 2015
[quote author=onoja12 post=30162539]My friend tv has finished you,its you i piety,your grand mother did it,and your mother did it,you cant do it because of tv,your children are brought up by house mad,you husbands are feed by house mads,cloths washed by washing machine,so as a wife of what use are you?that is why you people new job is how to make the life of your husband miserable,because you are jobless,rubbish
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[/quoteOnoja I won't exchange words wit you keep ur opinions de are good 4 you nd FYI I am married wit kids no hux help . By de way ur wife is ur partner not some gal who shld do all de chore + de era of my grand ma nd mum have pass its de 21st century wake up

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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jan 26, 2015
GoodFaith:

Ok
Let be upfront with you
I did check your profile
You will make me cheat girl --you pretty
At the moment , I am just taking things slow
I am taking time off the field
If a woman cheat, she is out the door, No high BP

Thank you.

Good. since you will send her out of the door, there is no need preaching and being a hypocrite. If others feel the same way you do about cheating, let them be afterall it is who wears the shoe that knows where it pinches.
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by GoodFaith: 10:16pm On Jan 26, 2015
Sophyrocks:


Thank you.

Good. since you will send her out of the door, there is no need preaching and being a hypocrite. If others feel the same way you do about cheating, let them be afterall it is who wears the shoe that knows where it pinches.
Girl, I am at a point in my life
If you want to play in my play ground, You can bring your sand or play on my sand
If you are becoming problem, You can leave with just the sand your brought
I thanks God for put me in more control of my life
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 10:28pm On Jan 26, 2015
Truckpusher:
Hehe...Respect for your spouse is not about being afraid. tongue
True grin
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Streamsyjd(f): 10:29pm On Jan 26, 2015
ronald4lif:
You have to pretend as if nothing happened and don't plead with the mom. It's possible she didn't clearly see what happened between you and the girl. And you pleading with her will throw all her doubts. But even if she did she may not want to tell her daughter so as to avoid problems and avoidable issues in your marriage. Maybe it's time to let your wife friend leave the house to avoid more drama. And just be more nice to your wife and your mom now generally.

But if your mother in-law finally tells her daughter what transpired please deny it completely. You can say you were passing by and along the line you heard

the friend calling for help and you went to assist her (if it was a kitchen incident you could say things like oil poured on her and you had to quickly get a cloth to clean up the mess on her) and was only trying to help before mama came in. Don't make it appear as if mama is lying but rather that yes she saw you both but didn't get the exact picture of what was happening. You can discuss whatever story you may want to say with the girl so you both can have same story.

Wumi should leave the house

Talented liar.... I hail ooooo.

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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by onoja12: 10:43pm On Jan 26, 2015
explain what partner means to you,because to my understanding when they say partnership that means all agreeing members,have separate roles to play with a view to achieve something.so i think most women don't understand the word at all.it doesn't mean your husband becomes your slave for you to order as you like,do anything you like then refuse to take responsibility



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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jan 26, 2015
Yeah.
GoodFaith:


If that was me mama bag will be fill up
I will call mama weekly-- with out saying, Mama will know it was the devil's work
That, I am good son-in-law
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by cozy7(m): 12:08am On Jan 27, 2015
Adam! Where are your clothes? Since your wife put to bed, u faced her frd, bah?
U wanna father all first kids born in your neighborhood. Make we no ask u watin be 42DD, showing u still got plans. Alright, it Will soon get to mama's turn, so keep her share.
Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by ronald4lif(m): 12:13am On Jan 27, 2015
Streamsyjd:


Talented liar.... I hail ooooo.

Na from you I dey take tutorials from na grin

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Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by studded(m): 12:25am On Jan 27, 2015
OGeeKush:
mama knws ur wife love you nd wouldn't want to destroy ha daughter's happiness.. thats the reason for her silence, jez wait for d dust to settle nd plead with her with the normal lines na (it was devil's work and i wasn't thinking straight) cool

but u too..... undecided

Gbam!!!!

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