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Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by engrjacuzzi: 10:50am On Jan 28, 2015

it takes only the grace of God to overcome lust. it starts with the discipline of the mind. I will advice that the best way to abstain from prostitution is engaging the mind with consequences. once you can let go of masturbation and prostitution, you will b a happy man. it starts with you.

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Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by holusormi(m): 10:50am On Jan 28, 2015

@op,, there's nothing wrong with what you are doing , it shows you are perfectly normal , don't mind the people shouting here , many of them do things that are far worse , just make sure you protect yourself and by all means , have sex regularly , it helps clear your mind and makes u focus better on the task at hand , we all pay for sex one way or the other ( the recharge cards, the Brazilian hair , the night calls , the expensive dinners... Etc) at the end of the day the punna might even be wide sef and the butts might even be enhanced with butt pads and other shii angry

But with prostitutes and runs girls it's straight to business , although I'll advice that u step up your game ( leave them 500 prostitutes and go for them runs girls , Allen girls etc)

Bless up !!!

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Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by ganganawuj: 10:51am On Jan 28, 2015

Direct him to Cossy and i can bet his addiction will be a thing of the past.

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by Kedam(m): 10:56am On Jan 28, 2015

You need to pray, go for counseling and lastly date a girl and get marry. Lobatan

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:57am On Jan 28, 2015

man... u need deliverance... that the only solution to ur problem without deliverance u will go back to it...

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by Tonytonex(m): 11:01am On Jan 28, 2015

do these things and you will be free
1 fast for 21 days
2 dnt watch movies that has to do with romance and the like
3 dnt listen to and dnt watch worldly music only gospel
and 4 stay away from gals. God will deliver you.

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by iykedare(m): 11:02am On Jan 28, 2015

MizMyColi:

Which one is most naija women?

Have you met close to a thousand of the over 50 million women of Nigeria?

Besides, whether it is full blown or shadow prostitute.
OP is tired of them.
We should help him profer a way forward.

I don't have to meet a thousand of naija women to know this.

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by obontami: 11:02am On Jan 28, 2015

adexsimply:
Ain't you supposed to be a guy? Hermaphrodite ?

i be get toto for one side and prick for one side8-)

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by bcy(m): 11:04am On Jan 28, 2015

judedwriter:
Sex is a mystery; we can never fully understand sex because God created it for his own purpose. The purpose of God for sex is for enjoyment, intimacy and reproduction in marriage. Take sex out of marriage and you are not rebelling against God's purpose for sex but you are destroying his destiny for your life. Nothing kills destiny faster than sex outside marriage; don't let sexual pleasures deceive you-any type of sex outside marriage will surely demote your destiny, if not now, later. The only narrow way out is REPENTANCE. And that is one thing God can't do for you-goodluck

Right on point!

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by MizMyColi(f): 11:04am On Jan 28, 2015

judedwriter:

Hello ma, noted but repentance is one of the most practical aspect of christianity. God may lead or convict but he can't force you to repent. Our flesh is very weak and rebels against God.

No dear.
It's not repentance.

LOVE is.
The kind that doesn't condemn nor feels self-righteous.

You see, this issue of flesh bah......
I think it's high time christians start walking in the knowledge as it is written in the bible that they and God are one!

It's high time we stopped being so Sin conscious and become more and more love conscious.
Quote me anywhere - you cannot do both at a time.

God as I know him, understands our humanity.
And while we have been taught to abhor our flesh and our deep feelings - the problem arises.

Haven't you read that passage in scripture where it is written that his spirit works in us to to do that which is unto his good pleasure?

Granted, there are those who by virtue of their confession and actions, have outrightly rejected God.
But It would surprise me and you to know that, God still loves these people the same way he loves you and I.

The only difference is that we have varying levels of awareness when it comes to acessing the riches of his grace and mercies.

Besides, most times, people just can't help themselves.
People decide to live right and for one reason or another they just can't!

Does it mean their creator now sees them as less?
Mbanu!
Even though that's what the christian religion indirectly preaches.

No wonder apostle paul pondered over this matter of wanting to do things that he would ordinarily not want to do and alas! he exclaimed
Sin Shall Not Have Dominion Over Me(You).
He said this because he acknowedged Jesus' once and for all sacrifice.

My message is this.
No matter your mess, no matter your highs, your lows, your highlows.
FOCUS
Focus on God's love for you, for that is the only way to be truly free from the guilt and burden of sin.

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Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by arimahoseloka(m): 11:07am On Jan 28, 2015

ruffhandu:
Pour ground fresh pepper mixed with annointing oil on your Ochocho once the urge comes while saying the prayer below:
"I come against you spirit of immorality in Jesus name, Amen!"
For sure, the urge will dissappear immediately. And, if you do it repeatedly, the urge will cease completely.

are u high on super glue?

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by MizMyColi(f): 11:07am On Jan 28, 2015

iykedare:

I don't have to meet a thousand of naija women to know this.

Fallacy of Generalisation.

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by obiak4(m): 11:10am On Jan 28, 2015

GeneralShepherd:
You have a normal sex life, do not allow.religious fanatics to deceive you.

The only problem might be sleeping with prostitutess as you might contract diseases but that being said always protect yourself and live your life.

bro it never normal oooo it serious have been in his shoes before sleeping with anything but just can't explain why all of a sudden I stop it when I distance myself from some people in my life (school life)
all in all it very bad am full of regret now that am trying to find a soulmate
so my sincere advice is not to even try getting into it rather than looking for solutions

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by poweredcom(m): 11:13am On Jan 28, 2015

Joavid:

Does the 'chat' include you telling her she's the best thing after bread and buttter? And all those sweet talks just to get her laid?

With a prostitute, it's business (like other businesses) that's why u go straight to the point.

So there's a difference

Why do you always justify bad attitudes in life?
Do you live a ~~reckless~~ carefree life for real?

Bro u can also chat up a pros ok they r human being like every gaal dem no dey write am for face.....a prostitute can work in a bank or any firm daytime n start her work nighttime...all gals of these days are one....na formaat make am different

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by ruffhandu: 11:17am On Jan 28, 2015

arimahoseloka:
are u high on super glue?

The truth you don't know will be useless to you only.

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by welemouskey: 11:19am On Jan 28, 2015

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OP, if you dont mind, you can contact me. I just might be able to help you.God bless you

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by omonnakoda: 11:24am On Jan 28, 2015

judedwriter:
Sex is a mystery; we can never fully understand sex because God created it for his own purpose. The purpose of God for sex is for enjoyment, intimacy and reproduction in marriage. Take sex out of marriage and you are not rebelling against God's purpose for sex but you are destroying his destiny for your life. Nothing kills destiny faster than sex outside marriage; don't let sexual pleasures deceive you-any type of sex outside marriage will surely demote your destiny, if not now, later. The only narrow way out is REPENTANCE. And that is one thing God can't do for you-goodluck

What do you know about life and destiny. That is the problem we have in Africa too much superstition and very little analysis. Yes everyone is entitled to their opinions but let us not pass off stupid opinions as some kind of divine injunctions
Hear him "having sex outside marriage will demote your destiny" . What percentage of the world does not have sex outside marriage?
If you put 10000 Nigerian adults in a room how many will you find that have not had sex outside marriage . ??

What is destiny ,exactly
Why are human beings such hypocrites.See the number of likes. How many of those have not had sex outside marriage

Is sexual indiscretion worse than stealing or robbery ? What about those people who go to a village and take a small child and enslave her in the name of house girl while their children enjoy the best lives and then they go and sit in the best seats in church on Sunday.
The issue here is the OP is not at peace with his conscience and so his actions need to change BUT we all do not have the same conscience structure. let me repeat we all do not have the same conscience structure. What this means is simple some people can enjoy prostitutes without a qualm or a pang of guilt whatsoever. This may be difficult for some to understand but is a fact. The ultimate spirituality is to be at peace with your conscience not some meaningless injunctions. If your conscience does not allow it stop otherwise Ma jaiye ori e

Fact is a lot of people suffer from anxiety or depressive disorders and use sex as a MOOD REGULATOR similar to alcohol or cigarettes. When the mood dips or they feel tension they turn to sex for a dopamine boost which is accompanied by euphoria and as that dips the mood crashes and then enter a vicious cycle of compulsive behaviour. That same cycle will continue even if married as long as it is being used in this way and for that purpose. Once you get understanding of that you have to develop healthy ways of mood regulation the best of which for many is physical activity. This is a simple psychological problem but not easy.Simple meaning a non-complex mechanism. Not easy meaning difficult to change habits.
We are creatures of habit and to change habits you must develop new ones.Nothing to do with God or gods. Breaking habits requires understanding of the neurobiology and neuropsychology of habits which are simply learnt behaviours just like driving.Once learnt they are difficult to unlearn but this can be and has been achieved severally both by the "godly" and the "ungodly"

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Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by scobaba: 11:25am On Jan 28, 2015

donifez:

Did you not read the op last statement, oversabi.

did u not see the laff sign dat showed i was playing?..jonathan.

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by 50calibre(m): 11:27am On Jan 28, 2015

MizMyColi:

It's not doubt per se.
It's a deep feeling.

I'd be surprised to know for sure I'm wrong.

Hmmm nice one!!

Well you're not totally wrong.

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by gabicon: 11:34am On Jan 28, 2015

Its a good thing you accept that you have a problem half of the problem is solved already by this realisation.
I assume you are sincere about getting a solution, so here it goes you have to first truely repent and ask God to forgive you. Secondly you have to replace the through of sex in your head with other profitable things, the reason you want sex always is because you always think about sex. I would suggest that yo go past reading the bible to meditation on the what you read for say an hour a day, by meditation I mean saying the word to yourself and thinking of the word. Thirdly you need to do what you have meditated on act on the word I.e don't commit fornication or join yourself with a harlot. Meditating makes doing the word easier. Fourthly you need to stay away from ever person, place, material, gadget that feeds you with the thought of sex. I would have advised you get married but if your wife travels and you have a urge will you then go to a harlot? You have to control your emotions and not let your emotions control you and the only way to do that is by renewing your mind with the word of God. Your body is the temple of God and you defile that temple when you sleep around have this thought anytime the sex though comes further more the bible say wat so ever you do word or did do it to the glory of God so wen ever you drop your pant just say God im doing this to your glory. God bless you

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by Nobody: 11:36am On Jan 28, 2015

kennygee:
He should visit any MFM for deliverance or take off the part of his body that is guilty.

But seriously, he needs prayers and deliverance.

U CAN'T STOP AMAZING ME #LIFE CHANGING ADVICE NEEDED... MAKE HIM CUT WHAT?....also in abuja. May I knw u better?

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by lovemaths(f): 11:36am On Jan 28, 2015

MrHardOn:
lovemaths. Is he a he or she? How sure are you. Can I meet you up, so you can explain better.

Send him a mail. go through his tweets. listen to his programme on city 105.1fm lagos on sundays 1 -2 pm. follow him on facebook. he has written a lot of books on sexuality, sex, rape and abuse

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by Nobody: 11:39am On Jan 28, 2015

mickyeddi:
You wait till you get a weeping willy or any other gentle man disease, then you will know you should not be sleeping around.

hehehehehehehe

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Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by Nobody: 11:42am On Jan 28, 2015

lovemaths....Not for that. I want to meet you in person.

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by Edigrows: 11:42am On Jan 28, 2015

So far as av known... the Best way to Overcome a Particular Habit (whether the habit is bad or good) Is to REPLACE THE HABIT WITH ANOTHER ONE.
Yes. There are more interesting things to enjoy than going out to have sex whether free or paid to prostitute.
Until U realise this Fact. Then U can replace Ur habit.
- that's My 2cents #dalu

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by lovemaths(f): 11:46am On Jan 28, 2015

MrHardOn:
lovemaths....Not for that. I want to meet you in person.

I am not interested.

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by Nobody: 11:46am On Jan 28, 2015

ruffhandu:
Pour ground fresh pepper mixed with annointing oil on your Ochocho once the urge comes while saying the prayer below:
"I come against you spirit of immorality in Jesus name, Amen!"
For sure, the urge will dissappear immediately. And, if you do it repeatedly, the urge will cease completely.

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by Nobody: 11:47am On Jan 28, 2015

lovemaths.... Am not asking you out. Anyway... Never mind. Is that how they do in Manchester? undecided

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by nkemoke: 11:56am On Jan 28, 2015

Dan 1.8 But Daniel purposed in his heart that he will not defile himself with a portion of the king's meat nor with the wine which he drank .......
Bros thank God you have recognised d need for change. Now just like Daniel make up ur mind to live for Christ.
1. Give ur life to Jesus Christ. invite him to be your lord and saviour.
2. Invite the Holy spirit to take over your affairs. Be filled with the Holy ghost evidence by speaking in tongues.
3. Learn to hear God speak. Through His word and through his audible voice. I am a living witness. He speaks clearly with out ambiguity.
4. cut off from worldly friends. Two people who are going in opposite directions cannot be in the same vehicle. The Friends you are leaving now may laugh at you today but tomorrow will run to catch up with you, but alas.
5. sanctify all that belongs to you. say NO to any form of worldliness be it songs, videos, photos, parties etc.
6. Join a bible believing word based pentecostal church, be active , join a department, attend all services. if possible appear in God's sanctuary daily and see what He will turn u into. He said draw near to me and I will draw near to you. You dont know who you are until you discover God's purpose for ur life.
Trust God with ur life cos He made u and there is no man dat loves you as much as He does. He said come to me all ye dat labour and are heavy laden and I will give u rest. There is enjoyment in Christ , much more plenty dan the world can offer.
Try God and You will surely testify.
Shalom.

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by Rapture4real(m): 12:03pm On Jan 28, 2015

judedwriter:
Sex is a mystery; we can never fully understand sex because God created it for his own purpose. The purpose of God for sex is for enjoyment, intimacy and reproduction in marriage. Take sex out of marriage and you are not rebelling against God's purpose for sex but you are destroying his destiny for your life. Nothing kills destiny faster than sex outside marriage; don't let sexual pleasures deceive you-any type of sex outside marriage will surely demote your destiny, if not now, later. The only narrow way out is REPENTANCE. And that is one thing God can't do for you-goodluck

Very sensible comment.use the device according to the Owner's manual and you will enjoy it.sex is addictive.only true repentance, openness to those who can help you,deliverance and determination can help you.walk with godly friends

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by Abbey2sam(m): 12:04pm On Jan 28, 2015

icebeatz:
You are human being. There is nothing wrong in sleeping with ladies of easy virtue.

If its too difficult to stop, then resort to masturbation. You could try masturbating twice a day in order to numb your urges. There is no way to kill those urges especially in you 20's and 30's... it can only be managed.

the first person to have said anything reasonable is you, facing the fact straight up, (reality ) everyone here is talking about deliverance, born again, go to imam..etc so what should the already bornagains that are indulging in acts like this? What should they become? born anew...lol

addiction is a very serious problem that requires management, self control and determination, at op you need to control your urge occupy your mind with something useful and be around around friends.....

sex is not a bad tin, but where you're getting it is bad, get yourself a girlfriend that can help you monitor you ......

masturbation is not as bad as people make it seem, it can save you from this, but it also have have a side effect which is addiction but it better than humping prostitutes or random girls

Re: Negative Effect Of Sleeping With A Prostitute. by adexsimply(m): 12:11pm On Jan 28, 2015

MizMyColi:

Pardon my intrusion please, but, by "telling" do you mean the current situation of things or the positive words?

If it helps........
You could add stuffs in these lines to your confession.

I am helped.
I am a man of value.
I no longer disrespect my body.
Henceforth I refuse to engage in any form of mumu project.
All my lost virtues can and will be recovered.
I break myself free from any spell or voodoo.
All I see and All I know in my life is God's glory, his light and his love.

^^^ Whatever positive words you choose to say, please repeat them until they're internalized.

And please, if after discussing with us here, you find yourself in the wrong again, don't feel bad nor condemn yourself for long, just rise, dust your bum and keep on.

Be like that chain smoker who even while she smoked heavily, kept telling herself that she can do better, that she is not a chain smoker.
Today she's free!
That can and will be your portion too (the freedom part, I mean).

This method is a bit ridiculous. He might as well chant the confession forever, he'll still have the urge to boink prostitutes

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