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One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by kingkoboko(op):
1st of all, make I introduce myself. King kObOkO na male-feminist. Pls feel free to google "male-feminist king koboko" to find my former post online explainin my position or reason or definiton for/of my male-feminism.

So I read one post by MzNelly here on why a woman must never toast a man & I was disappointed with her reasons.

Thinkin about it, I discovered that the only one reason, in my opinion, why women like MzNelly will ever feel comfortable to toast a man is if that man is a celebrity. Isn't it ironic that when it comes to celebrities or stars, most women forget about their many reasons not to toast a man? Think about it, my people.

Why do most women (includin women lik MzNelly) who oppose the idea of women makin the 1st move of toastin a man feel it is ok to approach celebrities and toast them fearlessly or shamelessly?

Why the double standards?

I think a woman should have the courage to walk up to a man she likes and at least initiate the relationship by introducing herself instead of dying in silence. Or are women like MzNelly subconciously agreeing to the belief that women should be seen not heard?

I know its the feminine thing for women to show greenlight to a man. But what if all the greenlight in the world isnt working & u know this is a man who deserves ur love? This is the man of ur dreams. Why not take the risk? Why not take a leap of faith? Will his saying "No!" be the end of the world? Nawa o!

Besides, a man may have been burnt so many times by the "No!" "No!" "No!" of Nigerian women that he loses interest in wooing a Nigerian woman any more. Do u know that such a guy would see a Nigerian woman approachin him 1st as a breath of fresh air and a better evidence of her "Yes!"? Everybody know Naija women too dey do unnecesary shakara.

Personally, I would appreciate a woman who can walk up to me & confess that she likes me. She has commited no crime in a 21st century Africa! She is a woman amongst women if u ask me.

Nevertheless, I only caution women not to make the 1st move on a man who is notorious for mocking women who toast him 1st. Such men still live in the nineteenth century & do not deserve a 21st century woman.

Wait! Wait! Wait o! I even bet that a bible-era woman would look at a woman who can toast a man with envy. Because those days, women were silenced by a male-dominated world & thus died in silence.

So wetin una think about this matter? I don talk my own. Make una talk una own o! *winks*
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody:
U wan make lalastic toohuh undecided

Modified I will never toast a guy in my life sad sh|t,gosh. How is it gonna be sefhuh

Hi boi I wanna let you know... Blah blah sad never

How many ladies are on the same queue with me grin

If you're with me, SHARE if u ain't,LIKE smiley
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody:
Too long. Won't make front page tongue

Modified

Na who fall my hand like so? huh
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 8:17am On Feb 02, 2015
ahahahaha, the king has spoken
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by banjicom(m): 8:21am On Feb 02, 2015
cool I agree with you 100%
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody:
Just get ready for the lashing of your life, I know they are already here with kokoboko King Koboko.
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by tosyne2much(m): 8:25am On Feb 02, 2015
Hahaha grin

Climbs my coconut, Lemme see if a lady will woo me on this thread.. Hehehehe grin
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 8:38am On Feb 02, 2015
Gbam. I endorse this topic!!! If u see d way girls dey throway dr soul sef not even body on flavour nabania eh, u go weep for dem lyk d women of jerusalem wey weep for Jay.
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 8:46am On Feb 02, 2015
Nice one.
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by alberto2k(m): 8:56am On Feb 02, 2015
vheMa:
U wan make lalastic toohuh undecided
Bae its lalasticlala... It means frontpage








Lalasticlala pls forgive me for replacing FP with your moniker...

I'll email Oxford so they'll add it their newest edition dictionaries

Again I'm sorry sir... Kindly bear the mentions you'll be getting in days to come


Your's NL agbero

Alberto del Oliver
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 8:58am On Feb 02, 2015
kingkoboko:
1st of all, make I introduce myself. King kObOkO na male-feminist. Pls feel free to google "male-feminist king koboko" to find my former post online explainin my position or reason or definiton for/of my male-feminism.
So I read one post by MzNelly here on why a woman must never toast a man & I was disappointed with her reasons.
Thinkin about it, I discovered that the only one reason, in my opinion, why women like MzNelly will ever feel comfortable to toast a man is if that man is a celebrity. Isn't it ironic that when it comes to celebrities or stars, most women forget about their many reasons not to toast a man? Think about it, my people.
Why do most women (includin women lik MzNelly) who oppose the idea of women makin the 1st move of toastin a man feel it is ok to approach celebrities and toast them fearlessly or shamelessly?
Why the double standards?
I think a woman should have the courage to walk up to a man she likes and at least initiate the relationship by introducing herself instead of dying in silence. Or are women like MzNelly subconciously agreeing to the belief that women should be seen not heard?
I know its the feminine thing for women to show greenlight to a man. But what if all the greenlight in the world isnt working & u know this is a man who deserves ur love? This is the man of ur dreams. Why not take the risk? Why not take a leap of faith? Will his saying "No!" be the end of the world? Nawa o!
Besides, a man may have been burnt so many times by the "No!" "No!" "No!" of Nigerian women that he loses interest in wooing a Nigerian woman any more. Do u know that such a guy would see a Nigerian woman approachin him 1st as a breath of fresh air and a better evidence of her "Yes!"? Everybody know Naija women too dey do unnecesary shakara.
Personally, I would appreciate a woman who can walk up to me & confess that she likes me. She has commited no crime in a 21st century Africa! She is a woman amongst women if u ask me.
Nevertheless, I only caution women not to make the 1st move on a man who is notorious for mocking women who toast him 1st. Such men still live in the nineteenth century & do not deserve a 21st century woman.
Wait! Wait! Wait o! I even bet that a bible-era woman would look at a woman who can toast a man with envy. Because those days, women were silenced by a male-dominated world & thus died in silence.
So wetin una think about this matter? I don talk my own. Make una talk una own o! *winks*
You did not have to attack my personality to make your point. undecided

We have different views on this matter, (you've stated your stand which concerns you and some few other guys); and that's fine by me. You do not have to agree with me and vice versa.
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by englishmart(m): 8:59am On Feb 02, 2015
you call this full page, one reason?. huh
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 9:02am On Feb 02, 2015
alberto2k:
Bae its lalasticlala... It means frontpage








Lalasticlala pls forgive me for replacing FP with your moniker...

I'll email Oxford so they'll add it their newest edition dictionaries

Again I'm sorry sir... Kindly bear the mentions you'll be getting in days to come


Your's NL agbero

Alberto del Oliver
I knw say na lalasticlala(that's even if I spelt it wrire grin) I no wanna gbahun that was y I abbr it grin
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 9:04am On Feb 02, 2015
Ladies should not woo men.
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by ghost1718(m): 9:06am On Feb 02, 2015
they cant tost, they cant tell u to bleep them when they re wet .......... To be truthful if any woman woo me i will drop any girl in my life and marry her
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by ronald4lif(m): 9:22am On Feb 02, 2015
MzNelly:
You did not have to attack my personality to make your point. undecided

We have different views on this matter, (you've stated your stand which concerns you and some few other guys); and that's fine by me. You do not have to agree with me and vice versa.
Ma'am you ehh smiley

So you are one of those wey dey put sand for mens garri. You no want make babes dey toast bobos ni undecided
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 9:24am On Feb 02, 2015
Nigerian men will always take you for granted if you try wooing any of them. No be today undecided
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by tosyne2much(m): 9:26am On Feb 02, 2015
vheMa:
I knw say na lalasticlala(that's even if I spelt it wrire grin) I no wanna gbahun that was y I abbr it grin
it actually took me a few months of cramming b4 I could spell it correctly

Lalasticlala, can you tell nairalanders why you decided to put us in confusion while trying to spell your moniker ? grin
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by ghost1718(m): 9:27am On Feb 02, 2015
rubey:
Nigerian men will always take you for granted if you try wooing any of them. No be today undecided
have u tried befor ??
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by ghost1718(m): 9:27am On Feb 02, 2015
rubey:
Nigerian men will always take you for granted if you try wooing any of them. No be today undecided
u don try befor ??
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 9:31am On Feb 02, 2015
tosyne2much:
it actually took me a few months of cramming b4 I could spell it correctly

Lalasticlala, can you tell nairalanders why you decided to put us in confusion while trying to spell your moniker ? grin
lol grin abi o tosyne10much( due to 10 facts you need to know you ain't 2(two) any longer) I no even knw maybe its correct sef lala... grin
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 9:37am On Feb 02, 2015
No matter the reasons never gonna do it.

Thankfully all the guys I like always approach me first.
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 9:37am On Feb 02, 2015
ronald4lif:
Ma'am you ehh smiley

So you are one of those wey dey put sand for mens garri. You no want make babes dey toast bobos ni undecided
Lol cheesy I'm looking out for my females. You guys would just take a girl who toasts you for granted.
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by tosyne2much(m):
vheMa:
lol grin abi o tosyne10much( due to 10 facts you need to know you ain't 2(two) any longer) I no even knw maybe its correct sef lala... grin
Back to the thread, so who are you wooing on this thread just as the OP has urged you to consider wooing a guy ? wink
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by ronald4lif(m): 9:56am On Feb 02, 2015
MzNelly:
Lol cheesy I'm looking out for my females. You guys would just take a girl who toasts you for granted.
That's not always the case but most of the time it is. How you dey
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by theorbiters: 10:00am On Feb 02, 2015
I personally think ladies too should woo a guy.
Yes, I knw some guys wud take u for granted, they may not respect you and all that but what about the shy ones.

You see, I believe every lady has eyes and has got a sense of reasoning. Before a guy opens his mouth to speak, a lady shud have known what kind of guy he is. So, what if u like the shy type that can't open his mouth?

He is dying in silence and you too you like him, why not just help his condition
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 10:01am On Feb 02, 2015
tosyne2much:
Back to the thread, so who are you wooing on this thread just as the OP has urged you to conside wooing a guy ? [/i] wink
its like I voted 4 u during mr NL.

Lemme woo you if u don't mind wink
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by tosyne2much(m): 10:12am On Feb 02, 2015
vheMa:
its like I voted 4 u during mr NL.

Lemme woo you if u don't mind wink
Ehn ehn grin

Oooyah drop those lines lemme see if it would open the key to my heart wink
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 10:24am On Feb 02, 2015
tosyne2much:
Ehn ehn grin

Oooyah drop those lines lemme see if it would open the key to my heart wink
from onset I'd liked to hate guys that has nothing upstairs and God knows what I love then he made you fell asleep and removed one rib of yours to made me. But you don't seems to know how much I hate the guys that I do show interest in,but they don't even care to give me face,how I wish you won't be one of the guys that won't gv me face. Cause I sincerely care for someone like you grin grin grin grin
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 10:34am On Feb 02, 2015
What is the work of a woman if not to woo-a-man

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Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by tosyne2much(m): 10:50am On Feb 02, 2015
vheMa:
from onset I'd liked to hate guys that has nothing upstairs and God knows what I love then he made you fell asleep and removed one rib of yours to made me. But you don't seems to know how much I hate the guys that I do show interest in,but they don't even care to give me face,how I wish you won't be one of the guys that won't gv me face. Cause I sincerely care for someone like you grin grin grin grin
Here's to the love that I hold for you;
May it day by day grow stronger:
May it last as long as your love for me­
And not a second longer!

Here's to love, life, and liberty.
Love pure,
Life long,
Liberty boundless.
A thousand welcomes you will find here
before you,

I Love you as if my life depends on you.. # kisses #
Re: One Reason Why A Woman Should Woo A Man by Nobody: 11:07am On Feb 02, 2015
tosyne2much:
Here's to the love that I hold for you;
May it day by day grow stronger:
May it last as long as your love for me­
And not a second longer!

Here's to love, life, and liberty.
Love pure,
Life long,
Liberty boundless.
A thousand welcomes you will find here
before you,

I Love you as if my life depends on you.. # kisses #
*Blushes* I love dis,buh ur last sentence, sorry 2much,I don't kiss,not even 4 once in my life sad
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