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Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by LadyX(f): 3:33pm On Feb 03, 2015
mrkay101:


his money

You know she said, "Is he trying to buy me with his money? (I love him already)"

Op, just to be sure you really love him, ask yourself, "If this man lost all his money, woud I still be willing to be his wife?"
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by mrkay101(m): 3:38pm On Feb 03, 2015
LadyX:


You know she said, "Is he trying to buy me with his money? (I love him already)"


u noticed she asked dat question after he had given her d 300k and the supermarket and maybe some other thrills..
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by gifttracy(f): 4:40pm On Feb 03, 2015
op your lucky oo if this your story is true
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 5:12pm On Feb 03, 2015
numericalguy:
OP,

Your sister is jealous of you and she has been putting all manner of evil thoughts in your head. Doesn't your man smile If you both are together? If the man had been smiling so much, then your sister would have claimed he was making passes at her.
when we are together he smiles alot.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 5:17pm On Feb 03, 2015
LadyX:


Well put. She's already in love with him.
yes i am in love with him.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 5:19pm On Feb 03, 2015
LadyX:


You know she said, "Is he trying to buy me with his money? (I love him already)"

Op, just to be sure you really love him, ask yourself, "If this man lost all his money, woud I still be willing to be his wife?"

with all he has done for me i will say yes
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 5:20pm On Feb 03, 2015
gifttracy:
op your lucky oo if this your story is true
sorry friend i dont have time to write super stories, am a serious type in life.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Feb 03, 2015
wat are u waiting for abeg propose to dat guy.hes an angel
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by Amarachi1(f): 5:31pm On Feb 03, 2015
The story is just too perfect for my liking
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by sod09(m): 5:41pm On Feb 03, 2015
Purity01:
Dis story is just too perfect. I smell rotten fishes!
no wonder u no day get val....
too quick to judge
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Feb 03, 2015
Looks like a super story, but i believe sha, op you are really lucky
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by bellalove(f): 5:46pm On Feb 03, 2015
........Sweetie you mentioned at the beginning of your story you are a graduate of unilag& you studied mass communication...... am seriously having a hard time reconciling that with your very poor spelling& even poorer write up......considering you studied an English course, you and your lecturers through out your 4years in school should be sued for fraud!.....Let me ask, you actually GRADUATED?!!!!!

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Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 5:53pm On Feb 03, 2015
bellalove:
........Sweetie you mentioned at the beginning of your story you are a graduate of unilag& you studied mass communication...... am seriously having a hard time reconciling that with your very poor spelling& even poorer write up......considering you studied an English course, you and your lecturers through out your 4years in school should be sued for fraud!.....Let me ask, you actually GRADUATED?!!!!!
You mean am not that good at my spellings and writeup?
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by Purity01(f): 5:54pm On Feb 03, 2015
U might be right! Am very judgmental, and it has helped save me from men like u who just wants to use and dump. Beware of Hiv/aids when u sleep around
sod09:
no wonder u no day get val....
too quick to judge
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by dayleke: 5:57pm On Feb 03, 2015
He is a ghost!!!!!!!
Run!!!!!!!!

But on a more serious note,what do "women" really want?
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 6:02pm On Feb 03, 2015
dayleke:
He is a ghost!!!!!!!
Run!!!!!!!!

But on a more serious note,what do "women" really want?
GHOST
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Feb 03, 2015
Amarachi1:
The story is just too perfect for my liking
the girl too fine, no wonder the guy they cry so that im no go loose am.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by yemicoal(m): 7:06pm On Feb 03, 2015
LadyX:


On NL, I prefer LadyX to my real name cool
lol, aii maam
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by sod09(m): 7:34pm On Feb 03, 2015
Purity01:
U might be right! Am very judgmental, and it has helped save me from men like u who just wants to use and dump. Beware of Hiv/aids when u sleep around
u see wat I'm saying...
try to get fact b4 concluding pls
its will help u alot
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by Tymax(m): 7:38pm On Feb 03, 2015
LadyX:


A guy almost hit her...a year later they met. They became friends, then he asked her to be his girlfriend. He's been buying her gifts ang giving her money.

When her grandma passed away, he gave her 300, 000 because her parents were not in a position to meet burial expenses. He later opened a supermarket for her with 6 staff, but he pays them. He bought her a car. She slept in his house once, but he didn't ask for s*x.

He has not mentioned marriage...Op's sister told her not to marry the man because he never smiles.

All these happened/is happening in Port Harcourt.

Oya make u pay me for this summary grin

shocked shocked shocked

You are good.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by lyricalpontiff(m): 7:48pm On Feb 03, 2015
Story story, marry him sharpaly
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 8:07pm On Feb 03, 2015
elantraceey:
1. Na, From the way you guys met i don't think so , i believe he's one of those men that believe in spending on their woman since they have the money.

2. I think he just wants to study you more , from you're story he's very emotional and he's just being cautious not to make a mistake .

3. Why don't you talk to him about that and ask him why he doesn't smile and make him start smilling !!!

4. How else can you define true love please tell me?


5. People change so don't be surprised if he doesn't , just try to not always push him to begging and crying else he'll get tired of it one day .
thanks for your advice.

I talked to him about the issue of not smiling and he told me he only smile when is neccessary, but one thing i have noticed about him is he always smile when we are togeda.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ogaofficer(m): 8:09pm On Feb 03, 2015
emusmith:


Hmm... This is quite huge...

It's tempting, girl!

He might be married? You fear...

So many questions...

Best Advice: Pray ooo...


what if she (op) is not spiritually connected with jah, Do you think jah will respond?
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 8:10pm On Feb 03, 2015
killercute16:
He seems good,kind,holy,gentle and rich...an average lady dream man,but if the dude is pretending,mehnn e go hard for you oh.....All you need is prayers sweety......CHia!!..But that guy is living well oh..Working in shell,ceo of a pure water and bottle water industry + opens a large super-market for his girlfriend...what else!!
He is a member of RCGG, and he easily lay emphasies on the Bible when we discuss.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 8:12pm On Feb 03, 2015
johnbuck81:
he seem lyk a gud guy to me o!
giv him lil time n pray over it.
by d way..u guys hv not been sexually intimate for 2yrs?
Yes...... I was also suprise when he asked me to sleep in a seperate room.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 8:13pm On Feb 03, 2015
Kennywills7:
This story sha
Anyway y worry wen u hv dat dream guy of most ladies?
By d way has ur elder sister said something funny dat d guy refuse to laugh?
sorry sir is not a story, i dont have time to write stories.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 8:15pm On Feb 03, 2015
Chidexter:
Well this story is kind of the average nollywood movie, but i cant say if its the truth or its just lies.
1. I dont think he wants to buy your love with money, if anything i think he feels thats the only was he can show how much he loves you

Anyway, you should try to ask him but indirectly why he's still not proposing marriage

the issue of your sister saying you shouldnt marry him because he never smiles is absurd, you're the one he's into not her, the question is does he smile to you?. Which is most definitely a yes

Yes it could be true love, he's got the money, the looks, he can as well spend his time on another girl not you

The last question, i must say not all guys can show their emotional sides to such extent, crying and begging probably shows he's being frank and open to you. But also shows that he's emotionally unstable(weak) all in all, i cant say if he'll still show you love after marriage, me i no be God o.

Cheers
lol is not a nollywood movie ooo, is real.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Feb 03, 2015
ogaofficer:
what if she (op) is not spiritually connected with jah, Do you think jah will respond?

Hmm...good question... But What Is His Mercy For?

If she sincerely, wholeheartedly ask for help... God can lead her aright...
# my thought #

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Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 8:19pm On Feb 03, 2015
emusmith:


Hmm... This is quite huge...

It's tempting, girl!

He might be married? You fear...

So many questions...

Best Advice: Pray ooo...


he is too sincere, to me i dont think he is married ex-were.

Thanks anyway.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by Kennywills7(m): 8:37pm On Feb 03, 2015
ispeaklight:
sorry sir is not a story, i dont have time to write stories.
Its alright but then i see no reason for u to b worried besides u luv d guy.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(m): 8:39pm On Feb 03, 2015
Kennywills7:

Its alright but then i see no reason for u to b worried besides u luv d guy.
most times what people say can make you change your mind about something.
Re: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by Kennywills7(m): 8:43pm On Feb 03, 2015
ispeaklight:
most times what people say can make you change your mind about something.
For me i think there is no valid reason as of now to change ur mind, ur elder sister has never seen him laugh but am sure u hv, from ur story
D guy is caring and responsible so d best thing u can wish for is dat he propose marriage to u
Dats like one a lifetime kind of guy

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