pickabeau1:
Hmmm..


men and irrigation factor

Deep......

coogar:


and that would explain why 70% of all divorces are initiated by women, isn't it? why do they embark on a process that doesn't favour them like you put it?

fhemmmy, stop reaching.....

sukkot:
mi breda, you hafi go erritrea or ethiopia to marry. em women over there know how to act. they measure people by dignity on that side of the continent and not by the weight of ya pocket. and you in london so i know you see so many somalians ethiopians erritreanns

bukatyne:


Walk away with What?

sukkot:
[b] brah, you trying too hard to be on the ladies side. it is a honorable thing to do and i am sure a few of the ladies will PM you their phone numbers lmao. however you are not being truthful with yourself. listen, nigerian women have egos the size of dangotes bank account. HUGE EGOS. see a nigerian woman is like a see-saw, you are either rich and paying for her or she is rich and dont want you around. no inbetweens . thats just how it goes. nigerian women have this thing called ' IRRITATION FACTOR' and one of the things that trigger that factor is a broke man or a man who earns less than them. these women are easily irritated. heck have you seen what they do to their housegirls and houseboys ? they treat their housegirls and houseboys like that because they are irritated that such a lowly despicable poor creature is in their presence. lmao. naija women hate people who they perceive as lowly or lower than them. now you can peep game and try to adjust or you can be stubborn and go marry some naija woman who earns more than you. next week we would be reading about how you got so angry you strangled her to death after you got tired of her disrespecting you. this will be frontpage topic next week[/b]

babygirlfl:


These men specifically marry nurses/doctors/pharmacists. What does it tell you? They want a working wife and not a house wife.

Fhemmmy:


Man and woman are greedy, as long as you are human, you are greedy only the level are different

wingman:






Aisha2
you are poorly bred. You didnt need to insult to pass ur point across.

Kedam:
enlighten me more using Nigerians in usa as an example

I know a dude that was single, went back to Nigeria married a lady, they came back to USA and they are happy, they still have not much, God forbids things goes wrong, and the court told the guy to carry the couch while the woman carry the computer and the kids, who lost? Jokes apart, my guy, it is not about loss, if the couple so much in love, they could while apart work at their relationship and be happy and be back together . .

Fhemmmy:


So cos it doesnt favor them, they should put up with abuse and allow their kids to see that on a daily basis? only for the kids to now thing it is normal for MOM to slave for papa?

Fhemmmy:


Gbam! but you forgot to add that the man should love her wife regardless of what she is as well . . . Yippeeee, i am loving this.

coogar:


he could be the step father? where's the real father? a woman committed an act of paternity fraud. husband discovers he's not the real father and went to court with his facts - and the family court insists he must pay, that's fair to you?

how come women are never forced to pay for a child that isn't theirs?

fhemmmy, i reiterate.....stop reaching.

edwife:
@Mutter i have to say this,you have won my respect over again,for you to have handled the attack with grace shows how mature and a lady you are.

CFCfan:


But it's very serious sha. Divorce is waay too messy.

pickabeau1:


And pay Child support for another man's child that you and the cheating wide know it's not yours?

Come on bro...

Fhemmmy:


If you wife wanna leave and asking for NOTHING, i will ask you to quick beg her to take call . . cos a hen's will make noise but what the dove would do is within the dove.

manny4life:


Well, the greed in women should be at normal level to where you honor your husband and not trying to compete with him. If a woman comes to the U.S. and takes her family as no.1, she has no business working 12hrs/day just to make $500

manny4life:


No, the men did not marry them before they were nurses, it was after they became "career women" that trouble started. Most were married from Nigeria. Besides, it's majorly nurses... You barely hear about pharmacists let alone doctors.

coogar:


and what exactly happens to children of divorce if i may ask? do you even bother to check at all?

children of divorce are nine times more likely to commit a crime than those brought up in standard families.

as you can see, divorce isn't good for the kids.

SirShymexx:


Bredrin, a lot of these are decepticons beneath the angelic faces, and it cuts across all races. They have mastered the art of pretending, till you get in too deep, put a ring on it, and can't fall back - before they start showing their true colours. Loyalty doesn't exist in their dictionary - it's about being opportunists. Like my Uncle always tell me: "women always love you cos you've something they can benefit from, once that thing goes, you're on ya own - so always remain steadfast for all eventualities." Coupled with manipulative friends.

However, I hate to say this, but I'd say based on ratio, white women still remain the most loyal in terms of family structure. The horn mofos are nuts as well. In Africa, I'll probably say Ghanaians are the most loyal. And Caribs are alright to an extent as well.

Fhemmmy:

Show me one case where there was paternity fraud and the court proves it and yet they made that man's life a living hell, show me one . . .

Fhemmmy:

And children in a home that is not stable are 9 in 10 likely to kill their spouse as well, chairman, i am not a supporter of divorce but sometimes, it is the only choice once violence is involved.

manny4life:


There is nothing wrong in that as well, my point is that this unhealthy competition is common to women.

Fhemmmy:


Chairman, do you know that not only abuse are physical?
You have a misunderstanding with your wife and cos of the heat in argument, one person must leave the house, you as a man without being told to leave the house that DAY, would you allow your wife to leave the house and you will be able to sleep comfortably that night without bad dreams, be real

Timbuktou:
Please stick to facts. The only man that would marry a younger woman in Nigeria and kick out his old wife is one who has been in the shoes of the man in this story because the environment enables it. No Nigerian man will kick out a respectful bread-winning wife. Let's not lose forthrightness in a bid to score points.

If a Nigerian has been disrespected and/or feel short changed with his hag of a wife, he within his rights to get her replaced. If she wants to keep her home, she would do well rto be the submissive temperate wife.

raumdeuter:


Beg say wetin? When I take care of the kids we have together and she too has her own income.

I wont marry a leech in the first place. Or a woman with zero earning potential who sees marriage as a break from poverty

coogar:


there are plenty of them.....
have you been following this topic from the start? where do you want them? usa or canada?

tanner pruitt is a victim of a flawed system.




there's no such statistic anywhere. children from stable homes cope quite well. obesity, suicide, child abuse, health problems, etc are common issues with children of divorce. they suffer it more than kids living with both parents.

Fhemmmy:


I know a dude that was single, went back to Nigeria married a lady, they came back to USA and they are happy, they still have not much, God forbids things goes wrong, and the court told the guy to carry the couch while the woman carry the computer and the kids, who lost? Jokes apart, my guy, it is not about loss, if the couple so much in love, they could while apart work at their relationship and be happy and be back together . .

Fhemmmy:


A leech, she has kids for you, took care of you and all that, and now she is a leech . . . check the meaning of a leech Pal, and then, we could talk about it again, later

SirShymexx:


Sir, I know, but it's rare to see a normal guy initiate verbal abuse - maybe emasculated and emotional guys do. However, at the end of the day, whoever makes the first call gets the automatic right. And that's enough to get restraining order. You know how calculative and fraudulent women are when it comes to achieving a desire goal...you'll fall into that trap without knowing it.

I've got a couple of experiences as well. I'm not even married - I just locked off on my ex on time cos she was pissing me off. This girl drove all the way to my house, and cos it was late, I had to open the door to let her in. Boom, she started screaming - and I left her in the living room, went upstairs to my room. She just kept banging the door, and before I knew what was going on, the police were outside. True story. However, the PC that came was a decent chap, who had similar experiences in the past. And she didn't even press any charges when they came over, she just lied to them that I locked her in the house.

Fhemmmy:


I will read when less busy . . .

pickabeau1:
Ladygogo

So is money the reason why a woman should choose a mate since you don't see a correlation between a woman in Mobil and a care worker

raumdeuter:


A leech is who wants to make a living where they didnt work, Having a child is not a source of income. Only the child deserves to be taken care of

In the same token maybe women should be paying men who impregnate them too