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5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by ilotriouzAY(m): 10:08am On Feb 10, 2015
1. You Don’t Fight For Her.

No matter how much you love each other, disagreements are an inevitable part of being in a relationship. Men often make the mistake of fighting against their partner rather than fighting for her. A man who fights for his partner makes her feel safe and cared for.

2. You Never Took Time To Study Her.

Though men are often all-too-aware that the women they’re in relationships with are complex, they often make the mistake of relying on surface knowledge in the way they relate to their partner without really understanding her.

3. You Ain’t Trustworthy.

Nothing destroys a relationship more quickly or more thoroughly than doing something that breaks down your partner’s trust in you. Nothing cultivates a relationship more than being dependable.

4. You Never Made Her A Queen.

Many relationships suffer when the woman begins to feel either unimportant or less important than something else. The best relationships are often cultivated most by the value a man places on the woman he loves.

5. Your Didn’t Take Her To Different Places.

Relationships can grow stale when dating becomes routine by doing the same things over and over. Studies have shown that couples who spend their time trying out new activities are generally healthier.

What do u think??

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by iceberylin(m): 10:11am On Feb 10, 2015
How can i make her a queen undecided
My papa no be king

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:17am On Feb 10, 2015
undecided They'll never learn made

Nigerian men, unromantic since ........

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:17am On Feb 10, 2015
undecided They'll never learn jare

Nigerian men, unromantic since ........

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 10:17am On Feb 10, 2015
Me-thinks the NO1 mistake we make in relationship is falling in love

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by ilotriouzAY(m): 10:21am On Feb 10, 2015
iceberylin:
How can i make her a queen undecided
My papa no be king

Make her feel precious

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by ilotriouzAY(m): 10:21am On Feb 10, 2015
MzNelly:
undecided They'll never learn made

Nigerian men, unromantic since ........

My dear,there are some guys/men who are awesome

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by ilotriouzAY(m): 10:23am On Feb 10, 2015
Tallesty1:
Me-thinks the NO1 mistake we make in relationship is falling in love

Love is a beautiful thing when done with sense wink

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 10:26am On Feb 10, 2015
ilotriouzAY:


Love is a beautiful thing when done with sense wink
If your senses are still intact then it is not love. Love turn off other senses.

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Redoil: 10:39am On Feb 10, 2015
MzNelly:
undecided They'll never learn made

Nigerian men, unromantic since ........
i am not ready to try any of that if any gurl do mumu i will not waste time in dumping and tumpimg her sorry head

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Enegod(m): 10:56am On Feb 10, 2015
The BIGGEST MISTAKE is doing a lot of things IN THE BEGINNING to get the girl then once you get her, you stop doing what attracted her to you in the first place.
Then once her behavior changes or she seems to be acting weird, the guy starts
scratching his head wondering what HER problem is.

Getting a woman isn't like fishing. When you go fishing, you use bait. Well, once you catch the fish, you NO LONGER NEED the bait.

In dating, you CAN'T do that. Whatever you used in the beginning to get the relationship started needs to be used to MAINTAIN the relationship. If not, the women will "feel" like something is
missing, she'll feel that something is "different", but won't know what it is, and
that "missing feeling" will either make her lose interest or cheat..undecided

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:29am On Feb 10, 2015
ilotriouzAY:


My dear,there are some guys/men who are awesome

Aw, you sound like a hopeless romantic cheesy
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:29am On Feb 10, 2015
Redoil:
i am not ready to try any of that if any gurl do mumu i will not waste time in dumping and tumpimg her sorry head

grin grin Bros dey para

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Redoil: 11:34am On Feb 10, 2015
MzNelly:


grin grin Bros dey para
yes na. It is very unfortunate that the greedy ones are more than the ungreedy. Sad
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:36am On Feb 10, 2015
Redoil:
yes na. It is very unfortunate that the greedy ones are more than the ungreedy. Sad

You are what you attract.

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:37am On Feb 10, 2015
I have a problem with too many stup1d female worshipping threads in this section. . .

How many times have females created threads that extol males?

Rubbish thread.

Make a woman I'm not married to, my queen? Gtfoh.

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Redoil: 11:39am On Feb 10, 2015
MzNelly:


You are what you attract.
lies from a lady encouraging greed and long throat among gurls even when she is never a greedy persö.

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:47am On Feb 10, 2015
Redoil:
lies from a lady encouraging greed and long throat among gurls even when she is never a greedy persö.

I'm not encouraging it. I'm juss saying you as a guy want a lady with BIG assets, she wants a man with a BIG wallet.

Its a circle. You guys bring it on yourselves.

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Brugo(m): 12:00pm On Feb 10, 2015
MzNelly:


I'm not encouraging it. I'm juss saying you as a guy want a lady with BIG assets, she wants a man with a BIG wallet.

Its a circle. You guys bring it on yourselves.
So you equate good looks to money.

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 12:01pm On Feb 10, 2015
Brugo:

So you equate good looks to money.

undecided
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Brugo(m): 12:04pm On Feb 10, 2015
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 12:05pm On Feb 10, 2015
Brugo:


I dunno what you on about, buh iss all good kiss
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Brugo(m): 12:07pm On Feb 10, 2015
MzNelly:


I dunno what you on about, buh iss all good kiss
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Redoil: 12:08pm On Feb 10, 2015
MzNelly:


I'm not encouraging it. I'm juss saying you as a guy want a lady with BIG assets, she wants a man with a BIG wallet.

Its a circle. You guys bring it on yourselves.
as for me sha women with big asset are problem to them self and the society at large.
I always prefer taking care of any lady i am with wether a relative or not for i believe that it is oone of my primary lot as a person. But when greediness and long throat comes in an you mznelly is encouroging it. I give up.
Ciao

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 12:10pm On Feb 10, 2015
Redoil:
as for me sha women with big asset are problem to them self and the society at large.
I always prefer taking care of any lady i am with wether a relative or not for i believe that it is oone of my primary lot as a person. But when greediness and long throat comes in an you mznelly is encouroging it. I give up.
Ciao

Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by senorova(m): 12:49pm On Feb 10, 2015
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by jnrprof(m): 2:46pm On Feb 10, 2015
Too many woman wrappers in this world!Na dem dey make women feel like sey na dem control the world *scoffs*. Women will always have an endless list. No matter how wonderful the man is, they will still want something extra (Oliver Twists), whereas you hardly see lists of what guys want. Guys are very simple and go with the flow, women are just too frigging complicated!

Blackett:
I have a problem with too many stup1d female worshipping threads in this section. . .

How many times have females created threads that extol males?

Rubbish thread.

Make a woman I'm not married to my queen? Gtfoh.

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Oahray: 2:55pm On Feb 10, 2015
Blah blah blah...

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by FredHandsome(m): 3:06pm On Feb 10, 2015
How can you make a gold-digger bitc.h a queen? U dey craze?

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Hotdiamond(m): 3:15pm On Feb 10, 2015
Last piont::
You don't communicte .

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by lilmax(m): 3:15pm On Feb 10, 2015
Okay
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by freshness2020: 3:15pm On Feb 10, 2015
True!

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