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Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Nobody: 4:21pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Good one dear |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by MissMich(f): 4:23pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
woah!! @OP, you are soooo on point!! |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by anwo247: 4:24pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
The greatest problem of women not finding husband is this HOPE OF BETTER ALTERNATIVE and trust me, guys are good to see this and respond accordingly. Ladies shd be content and simply go into relationship because of love, however they define it. Love will always be capable to culminate in marriage whereas marriage may not always be able to culminate in love. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by gungab(m): 4:25pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
nice one... we guys should turn a new leave o! |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Nobody: 4:26pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Nobody: 4:28pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
searching4love:Guy calm down.... seems like you've gotten the worst of it and u Are still searching for love. Better clear that mentality 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Nobody: 4:28pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Akinz0126:which help you need now? For you to write this comment show that you don't love the girl. Is the girls complaining. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Nobody: 4:29pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Stillfire: 4:30pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
centjamie: Can this tradition still be as rigid when today more men do not have the economical power to handle the costs citing unemployment. I believe tradition should evolve and change with times. By change I mean amended to fit the state of the times and age. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by iykedare(m): 4:30pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Age is nothing,just numbers. |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Stillfire: 4:31pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Why was this transferred to Romance section? Eww! |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Nobody: 4:33pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Sweetlemon:pics or I don't believe 1 Like |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by castrokins(m): 4:37pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Woged2005: Warms My Heart |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by XKZ(m): 4:41pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
striktlymi: Shey? All I was seeing is "don't", "can't", "is not", "not"... It's like you're walking on a minefield. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Nobody: 4:43pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
brito: Not heart broken. Preach to your fellow girls especially the hungry ones to desist from scamming in the name of love 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by centjamie(m): 4:45pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Stillfire: Sure.tradition is for man and not man for tradition.tradition should be flexible and not rigid so as to flow with the current trend.it should be subject to amendment(change).you are so right....i'm one of those guys that believe women should support their men financially in marriages and in healthy relationships whent they are capable,but i think it is more honourable and worthwhile for the man to fix the bride price alone without involving the woman. |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by soultender(f): 4:46pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Harmonyemerald:Thats it. |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Nobody: 4:49pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
searching4love: Abegi, make I hear word |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Funjosh(m): 4:50pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Woged2005: AMEN |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Nobody: 5:00pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
WOMEN think they are the only ones interested in HUSBANDs.... I need a WIFE as well.... -a working class lady - a presentable lady... -height 5ft 5inch at least..or 1.7M. -waist line 36... -ass line 52... -breast line 40... -oblong head/face.... -retroverted UTERUS... -age..b/w 22 and 26.. -fair to creamy in complexion. -last Baby of the family precisely.. -CGPA..3.5 and above.. - a Christian ( well devoted) -or Muslim ready to convert.. -virgin or near Virgin.. -enlightened and sociable..but prudent.. -superb medical history... -adventurous, yet submissive... -Minimal dependent relatives.. -comfortable family... -genotype AA, HIV negative, EBOLA negative, -family not more than 5siblings..with most married DON'T BOTHER ABOUT ME... WHEN U MEET ME , u will definitely CHERISH ME... I have a GOOD JOB, GOOD APARTMENT, and growing in my profession. 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by zanga420: 5:06pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
searching4love:hey, ur vex don enter gear, though u just said reality somehow sha. |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Kingsasian(m): 5:09pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Woged2005:God bless u for this post and topic |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by MGoh: 5:11pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Op you too much. So on point |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Kingsasian(m): 5:12pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
I need a WOMAN |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by sexylemo: 5:16pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
searching4love: Hahahahha. Bros, you dey vex o. Its your second post I'm reading today. It's sad that you have been heartbroken several times and that you've not been so lucky in love matters. However, NOT[b] all girls are thieves as you have repeatedly emphasized. Some ladies are selfless givers that aren't so bothered about getting anything in return. Maybe you've been looking in the wrong places. Now you're searching for love in Ghana and South Africa. I laff in Chinese. Better search in the right places and turn off your mugu switch. Maybe you'd be lucky this time. My 2kobo |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by sirgreen: 5:16pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
PLEASE MEN, TURN TO A NEW LIVE!!! A WOMAN IS YOUR PARTNER NOT YOUR SLAVE WHICH YOU FEEL YOU CAN DO ANYTHING. MOST MEN ARE NOT QUALIFIED TO BE THE HEAD. MANY OF THEM DON'T EVEN KNOW THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES OVER A WOMAN- SHAME! AND SO THEY HAVE SACRIFICED THEIR GLORY, HONOUR, AND RESPECT AS THE HEAD. NEVER TRICK A WOMAN BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE MONEY RATHER BE YOURSELF BECAUSE MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING. IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBLE AND MATURED CHARACTER THAT COUNTS. A WOMAN CAN EVEN BE TAKING CARE IF YOU HAVE THESE DIGNIFIED QUALITIES. IT IS HIGH TIME MEN SHOULD WAKE UP TO SOCIAL, FAMILY, MARITAL, MATURITY, DESCENT, GLORIOUS, AND RESPONSIBILITY CHALLENGES. POSTED BY JAMES I.M 1 Like |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by sexylemo: 5:18pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by SuccessfulO(f): 5:19pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
kayciano:Guy u de vex? Abeg calm down oo. Can't stop laughing |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by chelseaguy: 5:27pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Good points but a bit tilted. You could have try to make more balanced. |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by Aystarz: 5:28pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
kayciano: As the answer given to ladies with the same mentality oozing from these ridiculous requirements of yours, I'd say ''Look no farther dude; just go mould her yourself!'' 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by InZA: 5:28pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Well meaning romantic relationships, shared by two well meaning, consenting matured adults are supposed to lead to marriage, like every other endeavour or process that has an ultimate goal, marriage is the ultimate goal of a romantic relationship (I say this with caution though, because I know there are people who just want to "seed around" and enjoy/explore their sexuality). That's the more reason I used "well meaning" and "matured adults". However, even in light of this "ultimate goal", a lady above 30 who begins to put moderately to excessively noticeable pressure on her man to get married to her would only miss out on an otherwise beautiful relationship. Just because you're 30 and single doesn't mean you should make the relationship mechanically fine tuned towards marriage alone, where the relationship becomes only worth it, if the man has proposed after 3months,... Even at the age of 30,I believe a woman can still enjoy other wonderful elements of a loving relationship-companionship, friendship, pulled resources, informed advices and so on.... But if she suddenly deems him not ready for marriage and decides to bail on him... For the singular reason of not being ready for Marriage even though he ticks all her other check boxes,.... I think in summary she's just being a stupiid above 30 young woman. I would probably get married when I'm 33/34....maybe or maybe not to someone who is in her late 20's to early 30's....even at that age I would still want to enjoy romantic love with her and simmer in everything love related in the relationship, I will not want to be put in a position where all she wants from me is my surname..... At all ages... Whether 18 or 80,it is love and Compatibility that really counts....I would want to know that this woman loves me for me and not because of my surname. Ohhh by the way.... Very nice post OP. I learnt quite a lot. The solution may just even be to pick a girl of 21 when I want to get married .... To avoid all this "do's and don'ts" 4 Likes |
Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by sam121(m): 5:30pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Woged2005: My dear when it comes to paying the bride price alone I think u got it wrong...these days, when the centre can no longer hold, even family and friends members help out to keep the whole stuff. I have observed it myself.. 1 Like |
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