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iceberylin:
12yrs old dh form elder

How far na?

rockstarB:
I want you guys to know we are both students, tho he is now awaiting service. We have been together for over 3yrs I started dating him since I was in 100L now am in 500L.
The problem is he keeps asking me for money when he knows fully well that I depend on my pocket money, am not stingy towards him so each time he asks I have no choice than to give him.
I started saving from my money last year for future purposes due to the high rate of unemployment, I was able to save 40k but he asked me to borrow him 10k which I did. He didn't return the money but asked for another, to cut it short I dunno how 40k dissappeared.
Each time he says 'babe pls borrow me...I will return it back' i just zero my mind and give him cos I know he won't return it.
I know by God's grace he will see a job as soon as he is done with service. I have saved 25k again this new semester and he is asking for 2k it's not as if the money is huge but am scared that the money will vanish just like the 40k.
I know I shouldn't be asking this here but it's making me feel like a stingy person, my question now is
1) do you think am stingy?
2) is it realistic to start saving even as an undergraduate?
3) is he using me for my money?
Tnks. No Insults pls

he neva loved you

ehin:
My frieand will always say when your foolish u say love is blind I never understand what she meant till I was with my own eye how stupied I was

I dnt get you

rockstarB:
I dnt get you

I never understand what she meant til I saw with my own eyes.I think you should keep your self first befor any body beacuse most times those you care for will not be there when you need them most espeicaly those we cal bf speaking from personal exprince

And this same Op wud av a good guy dats ready 2 do anytin 4 her(financially wise) friendzoned and she z here ranting abt d glutton she has as a boifrnd. Cari ur cross abeg