Experience they say is the best teacher, but a wise person learns from other people's experiences, good or bad.

What do you know right now about marriage which you probably didn't know when you were single?

We, in this side of the divide itch to learn too.

Please, can you share?

Scratching head looking up rolling eyes and thinking.

Marriage is more like remodelling of ur previous home, restrategize with ur new spouse and mk ur hom heaven on earth.

Der are really no big surprise if ur on guard and married d ryt person.
Kapish

It is more BORRRRRRRRING than being locked up in GUANTANAMO!
Your SOUL-MATE is always outside the marriage!

Dyt:
Scratching head looking up rolling eyes and thinking.

Haven't you remembered anything to share as yet?

jnrbayano:


Haven't you remembered anything to share as yet?

Share ur own first na

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Dyt:


Share ur own first na

I'm unmarried still

KanwuliaJara:
It is more BORRRRRRRRING than being locked up in GUANTANAMO!
Your SOUL-MATE is always outside the marriage!

Hmmm!

Very interesting. May I know why you enthused that to be in marriage union is to be in prison?

Vision4God:
Marriage is more like remodelling of ur previous home, restrategize with ur new spouse and mk ur hom heaven on earth.

Der are really no big surprise if ur on guard and married d ryt person.
Kapish

You didn't answer the Op. The Op seeks to be educated on those surprises that are evident in marriage which weren't noticed during pre-marital period.

That the choice of a partner is probably thee most important decision you might make in your life.

That patience and tolerance are the main ingredient that have to be cooked in love and respect.

mutter:
That the choice of a partner is probably thee most important decision you might make in your life.

That patience and tolerance are the main ingredient that have to be cooked in love and respect.

Does that mean you are oblivious of this before you married him?

jnrbayano:


Does that mean you are oblivious of this before you married him?

You need to be in it to realise just how important it is.

Just like haveing a child.
You feel the joy and pain of being a parent but the older the child get`s the more you become aware of what it means to be a parent.

Where are they?


The married men and women... Please come in and share your thoughts and experience of what marriage is... Because am very eager to learn before I say.... I Do

Jennydoris:
Where are they?


The married men and women... Please come in and share your thoughts and experience of what marriage is... Because am very eager to learn before I say.... I Do

I think I saw cococandy just peeped and un-peeped without a word and I wondered why.

jnrbayano:




I think I saw cococandy just peeped and un-peeped without a word and I wondered why.

Not on nairaland bro.
If you don't have a sob story to tell,you're not really married or at best pretending to be happy.

I tried that once it backfired.
Got plenty of evil wishes that day.
I no do again.

Let Everybody learn from their own experience. Whether good or bad.

I had always thought that marriage will reduce my sexual urge!
Alas brothers and sisters I was wrong!

jnrbayano:


Hmmm!

Very interesting. May I know why you enthused that to be in marriage union is to be in prison?

Because it is a fact!
We celebrate FREEDOM when we get divorced!
I live in a PRISON. . . called marriage.
I can't wait for a divorce!

See what 2 of my co-workers celebrated this week?

I thought they just graduated from one graduate school o . . . Come to find out say na DIVORCE we dey go celebrate!!!
MUCHECHECHECHEHECHE!!!!

kristonium:
I had always thought that marriage will reduce my sexual urge!
Alas brothers and sisters I was wrong!

Wow!

KanwuliaJara:


Because it is a fact!
I live in a PRISON. . . called marriage.
I can't wait for a divorce!

Awwww! so sorry to hear this.

How long have you been married?

jnrbayano:


Awwww! so sorry to hear this.

How long have you been married?

TOO DAMN LONG!

cococandy:

Not on nairaland bro.
If you don't have a sob story to tell,you're not really married or at best pretending to be happy.

I tried that once it backfired.
Got plenty of evil wishes that day.
I no do again.

Let Everybody learn from their own experience. Whether good or bad.

100% right. .. Most people here are so negative that they don't believe Good marriages/stuffs happen. . They either call you a liar, pretender, hypocrite et al... It's well.

jnrbayano:




I think I saw cococandy just peeped and un-peeped without a word and I wondered why.

Why na? Cococandy...........



Abeg come and say something... dont just peep

Jennydoris:



Why na? Cococandy...........



Abeg come and say something... dont just peep

something

cococandy:
something

not that kind of something....

Good morning.

Jennydoris:







not that kind of something....

Good morning.

morning

KanwuliaJara:

Because it is a fact!
We celebrate FREEDOM when we get divorced!
I live in a PRISON. . . called marriage.
I can't wait for a divorce!
See what 2 of my co-workers celebrated this week?
I thought they just graduated from one graduate school o . . . Come to find out say na DIVORCE we dey go celebrate!!!
MUCHECHECHECHEHECHE!!!!

Lolx. You and your colleagues eee. No boring moment.

jnrbayano:

What do you know right now about marriage which you probably didn't know when you were single?

It is more important to be happy than to be right. . .
Marriage taught me that.Fvck being morally,religiously correct/right, whatever makes me happy,I hold tight.

Marriage can be very sweet and interesting if you'd use your wisdom and can be very frustrating if you're insensitive and immature

Let me share...

I and wify(sic) came back from a church programme 8pm on Tuesday. She asked If I will join her in the indomie noodle she was preparing for dinner and I said No that I desired swallow. Something to fill the stomach properly cos there is this delicious oha soup she prepared the previous day. Honestly, I wish and scheme to finish all the liver,towel and other orishirishi used to prepare it. They were so fresh...

Few minutes later, my EBA and oha soup were served and my expectations grew into anger...this woman don serve me water soup... I look across to her doing justice to her well prepared garnished indomie...(oh men, that indomie tight...green pea, carrot, egg, lettuce) and shouted in frustration: ''Why is this soup watery, am I a prisoner?

Being angry that she is having a better dinner, I raised my displeasure to the power of X5. She explained that the soup I have is the amount she could scoop from the blocked quantity and that she complimented it with water. See me see more anger...I abandoned the food and hit the bed in annoyance. This time it was a mind game. The more she beg to prepare another one the more I cunningly form ''James bond'' and slept off afterwards without eating.

Next morning, after preparing to go out I ask for fried plantain and pap, she said whatever I need I should go get it myself (hangover from lastnight) and I replied; ''since you have decided to starve me, don't shout harder to me any other night again cos I don't wanna faint'' and smiled. I guess she stole a smile, went into the room, got dressed and came out requesting I assist her with money to go see a friend. Women! I quickly dip hand into pocket and handed her a thousand naira bill and she left with just saying thank you.


I was at a lost whether to get angry again or smile off our foolishness when she came right back in with bunch of plantain then I knew my breakfast is guaranteed.
Afterwards she ask me to apologize for rejecting her food the previous night which I did and she became happy.

Umunwayi....God perfect gift.

I'm here to learn.Mine is still young.

Let me learn from the uncles and aunties

IDEApro:
Marriage can be very sweet and interesting if you'd use your wisdom and can be very frustrating if you're insensitive and immature

Let me share...

I and wify(sic) came back from a church programme 8pm on Tuesday. She asked If I will join her in the indomie noodle she was preparing for dinner and I said No that I desired swallow. Something to fill the stomach properly cos there is this delicious oha soup she prepared the previous day. Honestly, I wish and scheme to finish all the liver,towel and other orishirishi used to prepare it. They were so fresh...

Few minutes later, my EBA and oha soup were served and my expectations grew into anger...this woman don serve me water soup... I look across to her doing justice to her well prepared garnished indomie...(oh men, that indomie tight...green pea, carrot, egg, lettuce) and shouted in frustration: ''Why is this soup watery, am I a prisoner?

Being angry that she is having a better dinner, I raised my displeasure to the power of X5. She explained that the soup I have is the amount she could scoop from the blocked quantity and that she complimented it with water. See me see more anger...I abandoned the food and hit the bed in annoyance. This time it was a mind game. The more she beg to prepare another one the more I cunningly form ''James bond'' and slept off afterwards without eating.

Next morning, after preparing to go out I ask for fried plantain and pap, she said whatever I need I should go get it myself (hangover from lastnight) and I replied; ''since you have decided to starve me, don't shout harder to me any other night again cos I don't wanna faint'' and smiled. I guess she stole a smile, went into the room, got dressed and came out requesting I assist her with money to go see a friend. Women! I quickly dip hand into pocket and handed her a thousand naira bill and she left with just saying thank you.


I was at a lost whether to get angry again or smile off our foolishness when she came right back in with bunch of plantain then I knew my breakfast is guaranteed.
Afterwards she ask me to apologize for rejecting her food the previous night which I did and she became happy.

Umunwayi....God perfect gift.

Hahaha! Cool

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ifyalways:
Lolx. You and your colleagues eee. No boring moment.

It is more important to be happy than to be right. . .
Marriage taught me that. Fvck being morally,religiously correct/right, whatever makes me happy,I hold tight.

Very true

Lots of people are frustrated because they are trying to do it the way it 'should' be done.