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The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 11:45am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Experience they say is the best teacher, but a wise person learns from other people's experiences, good or bad. What do you know right now about marriage which you probably didn't know when you were single? We, in this side of the divide itch to learn too. Please, can you share? 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Dyt(f): 11:47am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Scratching head looking up rolling eyes and thinking. |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Vision4God: 11:51am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Marriage is more like remodelling of ur previous home, restrategize with ur new spouse and mk ur hom heaven on earth. Der are really no big surprise if ur on guard and married d ryt person. Kapish 6 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 12:39pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
It is more BORRRRRRRRING than being locked up in GUANTANAMO! Your SOUL-MATE is always outside the marriage! 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 4:55pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Dyt: Haven't you remembered anything to share as yet? 3 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Dyt(f): 5:03pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
jnrbayano: Share ur own first na 1 Like |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Tmex(m): 5:09pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
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Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 7:30pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Dyt: I'm unmarried still |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 7:33pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: Hmmm! Very interesting. May I know why you enthused that to be in marriage union is to be in prison? |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 7:38pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Vision4God: You didn't answer the Op. The Op seeks to be educated on those surprises that are evident in marriage which weren't noticed during pre-marital period. 2 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by mutter(f): 7:43pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
That the choice of a partner is probably thee most important decision you might make in your life. That patience and tolerance are the main ingredient that have to be cooked in love and respect. 10 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 7:59pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
mutter: Does that mean you are oblivious of this before you married him? |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by mutter(f): 8:05pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
jnrbayano: You need to be in it to realise just how important it is. Just like haveing a child. You feel the joy and pain of being a parent but the older the child get`s the more you become aware of what it means to be a parent. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Jennydoris(f): 8:18pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Where are they? The married men and women... Please come in and share your thoughts and experience of what marriage is... Because am very eager to learn before I say.... I Do 2 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 8:28pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Jennydoris: I think I saw cococandy just peeped and un-peeped without a word and I wondered why. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by cococandy(f): 8:34pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
jnrbayano:Not on nairaland bro. If you don't have a sob story to tell,you're not really married or at best pretending to be happy. I tried that once it backfired. Got plenty of evil wishes that day. I no do again. Let Everybody learn from their own experience. Whether good or bad. 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by kristonium(m): 9:17pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
I had always thought that marriage will reduce my sexual urge! Alas brothers and sisters I was wrong! 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 9:19pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
jnrbayano: Because it is a fact! We celebrate FREEDOM when we get divorced! I live in a PRISON. . . called marriage. I can't wait for a divorce! See what 2 of my co-workers celebrated this week? I thought they just graduated from one graduate school o . . . Come to find out say na DIVORCE we dey go celebrate!!! MUCHECHECHECHEHECHE!!!! 3 Likes
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Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 9:22pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
kristonium: Wow! |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 9:25pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: Awwww! so sorry to hear this. How long have you been married? |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 9:34pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
jnrbayano: TOO DAMN LONG! |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Nobody: 9:45pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
cococandy:100% right. .. Most people here are so negative that they don't believe Good marriages/stuffs happen. . They either call you a liar, pretender, hypocrite et al... It's well. 8 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Jennydoris(f): 10:38pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
jnrbayano: Why na? Cococandy........... Abeg come and say something... dont just peep |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by cococandy(f): 11:30pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Jennydoris:something 4 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Jennydoris(f): 7:49am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by cococandy(f): 9:25am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Jennydoris:morning |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by ifyalways(f): 9:53am On Feb 12, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:Lolx. You and your colleagues eee. No boring moment. jnrbayano:It is more important to be happy than to be right. . . Marriage taught me that.Fvck being morally,religiously correct/right, whatever makes me happy,I hold tight. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by IDEApro(m): 10:01am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Marriage can be very sweet and interesting if you'd use your wisdom and can be very frustrating if you're insensitive and immature Let me share... I and wify(sic) came back from a church programme 8pm on Tuesday. She asked If I will join her in the indomie noodle she was preparing for dinner and I said No that I desired swallow. Something to fill the stomach properly cos there is this delicious oha soup she prepared the previous day. Honestly, I wish and scheme to finish all the liver,towel and other orishirishi used to prepare it. They were so fresh... Few minutes later, my EBA and oha soup were served and my expectations grew into anger...this woman don serve me water soup... I look across to her doing justice to her well prepared garnished indomie...(oh men, that indomie tight...green pea, carrot, egg, lettuce) and shouted in frustration: ''Why is this soup watery, am I a prisoner? Being angry that she is having a better dinner, I raised my displeasure to the power of X5. She explained that the soup I have is the amount she could scoop from the blocked quantity and that she complimented it with water. See me see more anger...I abandoned the food and hit the bed in annoyance. This time it was a mind game. The more she beg to prepare another one the more I cunningly form ''James bond'' and slept off afterwards without eating. Next morning, after preparing to go out I ask for fried plantain and pap, she said whatever I need I should go get it myself (hangover from lastnight) and I replied; ''since you have decided to starve me, don't shout harder to me any other night again cos I don't wanna faint'' and smiled. I guess she stole a smile, went into the room, got dressed and came out requesting I assist her with money to go see a friend. Women! I quickly dip hand into pocket and handed her a thousand naira bill and she left with just saying thank you. I was at a lost whether to get angry again or smile off our foolishness when she came right back in with bunch of plantain then I knew my breakfast is guaranteed. Afterwards she ask me to apologize for rejecting her food the previous night which I did and she became happy. Umunwayi....God perfect gift. 143 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by anthoniaz(f): 10:04am On Feb 12, 2015 |
I'm here to learn.Mine is still young. Let me learn from the uncles and aunties 2 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by anthoniaz(f): 10:07am On Feb 12, 2015 |
IDEApro:Hahaha! Cool 6 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by bukatyne(f): 11:15am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Here to read comments 1 Like |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by bukatyne(f): 11:17am On Feb 12, 2015 |
ifyalways: Very true Lots of people are frustrated because they are trying to do it the way it 'should' be done. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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