i need matured advice pls,

I've being with my partner for five years, i love her and i've invested lots of time, trust and energy on her.

she is a good girl, well manna but we are not sexually compatible.
i don't know what to do about it because we have a two years kid and i can't endure what i cannot change
I'm still young beside i don't want to cheat on her.


please what should i do?

^^ What do you mean you are se*xually NOT compatible?

Maybe it's something that can be changed. If you don't mind, share more details so that people can give you more advice.

Do u love her enuf?

Abi na broda n sis relationship
Reminds me of a funny thread

carefreewannabe:
^^ What do you mean you are se*xually NOT compatible?

Maybe it's something that can be changed. If you don't mind, share more details so that people can give you more advice.

well, i don't think she is ready to change because i don't enjoy having se**x with and she do complain of pains

Like the poster above asked , what do you mean by being sexually incompactible ?

Dyt:
Do u love her enuf?

Abi na broda n sis relationship
Reminds me of a funny thread

i tired ooo.


and no be say my dj too big or too long

Wife or girlfriend

Grendel:

i tired ooo.


and no be say my dj too big or too long

Love making is not abt size of joystick
Its from within
*hammer*

elantraceey:
Like the poster above asked , what do you mean by being sexually incompactible ?

let me be plain
i nor dey enjoy having sex with her but when i do outside ... omo na sweet ooo

Grendel:

let me be plain
i nor dey enjoy having sex with her but when i do outside ... omo na sweet ooo

U are sick right in the head
Anuofia

Dyt:


Love making is not abt size of joystick
Its from within
*hammer*

it driving me crazy because we don't stays together and whenever i travel over there to claim my right .... na another thing go happen

Grendel:

let me be plain
i nor dey enjoy having sex with her but when i do outside ... omo na sweet ooo

And here I was thinking you were being serious...

Dyt:



U are sick right in the head
Anuofia

madam, why the insult? i'm been plain and sincere here please.

no insult for God's sake

crackhaus:

And here I was thinking you were being serious...

jokes apart, i am serious!

Grendel:


well, i don't think she is ready to change because i don't enjoy having se**x with and she do complain of pains

If there is no medical condition attached to her pain, then the reason is possibly that she wasn't hot enough and therefore not wet enough before you started. Make sure that she is relaxed before you penetrate her and take your time for the pre-intimacy. You can create a nice atmosphere when your child is sleeping by dimming the light or lighting some candles, have a nice romantic dinner before, then kiss her and stroke her body, be gentle and show her that her comfort is important to you.

I am quite sure that your problem can be solved.

Grendel:

let me be plain
i nor dey enjoy having sex with her but when i do outside ... omo na sweet ooo

Honestly you need a brain reconstruction because you seem to have been brainwashed outside



Nor be the same kitten she and other girls get? If you don't enjoy it with her have you tired teaching her to do it in a way she'll enjoy it?



Abeg i leave this matter for the iyas of this section.

carefreewannabe:


If there is no medical condition attached to her pain, then the reason is possibly that she wasn't hot enough and therefore not wet enough before you started. Make sure that she is relaxed before you penetrate her and take your time for the pre-intimacy. You can create a nice atmosphere when your child is sleeping by dimming the light or lighting some candles, have a nice romantic dinner before, then kiss her and stroke her body, be gentle and show her that her comfort is important to you.

I am quite sure that your problem can be solved.

God bless you ma. your joy will overflow and your source of happiness will never dry.

thank you

elantraceey:


Honestly you need a brain reconstruction because you seem to have been brainwashed outside



Nor be the same kitten she and other girls get? If you don't enjoy it with her have you tired teaching her to do it in a way she'll enjoy it?



Abeg i leave this matter for the iyas of this section.

you seems rude. thank you anyway

Grendel:


God bless you ma. your joy will overflow and your source of happiness will never dry.

thank you

Thanks. I wish you the same.

If what I said does not help, come back and don't give up too easily. She is your family

She needs to relax and you can help her, I am sure.

Don'T complain if she starts to like it more than you do.

carefreewannabe:


Thanks. I wish you the same.

If what I said does not help, come back and don't give up too easily. She is your family

some people don't know how little or single word can change their world.


taking notes of your most intellectual advice and i pray it works because of my kid.

Grendel:


some people don't know how little or single word can change their world.


taking notes of your most intellectual advice and i pray it works because of my kid.

I also hope, it will work and I am quite optimistic it will but you have to work on it and put some effort into it.

Also, educate yourself and find out what women like. Each woman is different but there is a lot you can try to work it out.
Google for more tips.

carefreewannabe:


If there is no medical condition attached to her pain, then the reason is possibly that she wasn't hot enough and therefore not wet enough before you started. Make sure that she is relaxed before you penetrate her and take your time for the pre-intimacy. You can create a nice atmosphere when your child is sleeping by dimming the light or lighting some candles, have a nice romantic dinner before, then kiss her and stroke her body, be gentle and show her that her comfort is important to you.

I am quite sure that your problem can be solved.

Best advice so far.

greatdeal1408:


Best advice so far.

There is not much more.

carefreewannabe:


There is not much more.

Definition of a good and matured mind

Sorry, I cant help you.
Let me sit back...

greatdeal1408:

Definition of a good and matured mind

I am trying.

Thank you.

Grendel:

let me be plain
i nor dey enjoy having sex with her but when i do outside ... omo na sweet ooo

So you dey play outside match.......



Am sure you don't pre-intimacy with her to get her all excited before you hump her... Because if you do that and you're gentle with her, she will tend to trust you with her body

But, you're outside matches must have being revealed to her and she is not sexual turned to you because you aren't loyal.
Sex is not just physical, it goes beyond that.... Its spiritual, emotional, morals, imaginative and connection of two soul into one. Because all I see in you it just the normal routine of bump and hump.


Let her feel secure, pre-intimacy, allow her to dominate, create the atmosphere, get her wet and...........

dre11:



So you dey play outside match.......



Am sure you don't pre-intimacy with her to get her all excited before you hump her... Because if you do that and you're gentle with her, she will tend to trust you with her body

But, you're outside matches must have being revealed to her and she is not sexual turned to you because you aren't loyal.
Sex is not just physical, it goes beyond that.... Its spiritual, emotional, morals, imaginative and connection of two soul into one. Because all I see in you it just the normal routine of bump and hump.


Let her feel secure, pre-intimacy, allow her to dominate, create the atmosphere, get her wet and...........

Concerning the away match issue, like I said earlier she is not here in lagos with me, i am a busy person but I do find time to check on her every months. She actually denied me of sex one day that I needed it most that was why I learned to play away game by force

Grendel:

you seems rude. thank you anyway

Sorry if i sounded rude.

You seem to be very comfortable and unremorseful about your away matches .Just don't take diseases home to the poor woman.

There are numerous articles on www on how you can deal with sexual incompatibility,things you can explore to make it better.If you are really serious about fixing that aspect of your marriage,you'll find them and help your marriage.

all the best!

Grendel:


well, i don't think she is ready to change because i don't enjoy having se**x with and she do complain of pains

it may be as a result of deficiency of libido. get her fruits, and foods that boost it.(ggl is ur frnd). additionally, pre-intimacy plays a vital role here. make uncontrolably wet n she wil b d 1 draging ur mr Big inside her p**sy. tnk me later.

jidowu84:
it may be as a result of deficiency of libido. get her fruits, and foods that boost it.(ggl is ur frnd). additionally, pre-intimacy plays a vital role here. make uncontrolably wet n she wil b d 1 draging ur mr Big inside her p**sy. tnk me later.

Give me a brotherly hug bro