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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by aktolly54(m): 2:07pm On Feb 13, 2015
Divorce her if she no gree
Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by Nobody: 2:07pm On Feb 13, 2015
sex is so important in marriage........the husband should reason with his wife
Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by hedonistic: 2:07pm On Feb 13, 2015
pentag0nal:

This my friend is a very religious guy and does not want to cheat on his wife because of the fear of God . cry

This right here is the problem. Religious and predictably faithful guys are often taken for granted and kicked around like a ball. No-nonsense worldly dudes who know their way around town don't suffer the same pathetic fate.

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by Nobody: 2:08pm On Feb 13, 2015
grin He should hire a private detective... Perhaps, another sharp dude is shining her congo!!! undecided
Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by 5minsmadness: 2:08pm On Feb 13, 2015
Lol!

The truth of the matter is,
A woman's libido can never be the same as the average man! Men's sex urge are way higher than most of the ladies around here. To find a woman with equal or higher libido are hard to find.

Marriage entails sacrifice! The man should not expect the woman to have sex with jim everyday. He should discuss with her so they can have a kind of timetable- yes am serious! They can discuss to have it 3times a week. The man should learn self control too as part of his sacrifice in being in the marriage and also help the woman in a few of the house chores. Then she'll be more likely to give it up more often!

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by pwerrymansion(f): 2:09pm On Feb 13, 2015
Its either fatique or your sex life is boring OR she's got her eyes somewhere(maybe an office romance) tongue wink

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by Nobody: 2:09pm On Feb 13, 2015
i will cheat on her definitely, the marriage won't survive, i will cheat openly. because i don't only need sex, i need companionship a woman that will stay by me, be my mother and a wife, and i will be her father and her husband. take care of our children together happily. cuddle during the night. move together in our trying times, marriage is not all about getting a beautiful woman, marriage is about compatibility.

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by Bamz(m): 2:09pm On Feb 13, 2015
Life is quite simple. We humans tend to complicate it.

pentag0nal,

Tell the couple to talk about it.

If they can't meet each other half way, then third parties like counselors may begin to come in the scene.
Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by cold(m): 2:09pm On Feb 13, 2015
Keep praying and fasting. Pray even harder & fast for longer. You can rest assured that will be the only piece of advise you'll get here

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by Nobody: 2:09pm On Feb 13, 2015
iyeeikal:
[b]D

do not profit from others misfortune.
Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by gabinogem(m): 2:11pm On Feb 13, 2015
he should confide in his wife and not with u... taking private matters outside is the 1st step of a broken home.

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by luluosas(m): 2:11pm On Feb 13, 2015
The wife is making unnecessary and unjustifiable excuses. They should talk it together heart to heart. If this didn't work, he should threaten the wife that he was going to have a sex partner outside (not true anyway) since he is starved of sex inside. At this point, that tired woman who always complain of tiredness will fly to his arms begging and pleading that she will make her body available any time, any day he so desire. Just watch it and see.

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by oluvick(m): 2:12pm On Feb 13, 2015
I think he should buy a priceless gift (as he can afford) and then ask, with humility and composed countenance, this very simple question:

"Honey, what are my offenses?"

Trust me, that woman is hurting badly. If not, then someone, somewhere, somehow, is helping out. IMO

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by Nobody: 2:13pm On Feb 13, 2015
pentag0nal:
I am planning to settle down soon. I have a very close friend who is a handsome guy and very nice and caring. he is married and from all I see, he is having a good marriage. He confided in me recently that the major problem he is having with his wife is that almost every night when he approaches her for sex, she would say that she is so tired and had a stressful day. undecided

This my friend is a very religious guy and does not want to cheat on his wife because of the fear of God. The problem now is that he is so sex starved and at the point of getting a girl friend. cry cry cry

Please house, what advise do you have for this guy and many good men that find themselves in such a situation. You don't want to cheat on your wife but she continues to deny you sex with excuses. How do you cope knowing fully well that your body is yearning for this thing and you need it. cry

Some useful information

When a woman isn't in the mood part 1

When a woman isn't in the mood part 2

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by asala1: 2:14pm On Feb 13, 2015
That's why it is good to have more than one wife. If one no do, the other one go do.

My Advice: He should look for money and marry one more wife to relief of these duties. He will be fine.

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by AnnieAnnie(f): 2:14pm On Feb 13, 2015
That is honestly very wicked of that woman. Am a woman and I know how hard it is to ffind a faithful man and she has it and is toiling wit it @ d same time (foolish). Please tell ur friend to exercise a little more patience but should also pretend to b engaged in extra marital affairs. If her head doesn't bring her back, jealousy will. Let him not make any sexual advances at her anymore say for a whole week den he can sleep on the couch or anoda room 4 another week. If possible not eat her food thru out these period.... I bet you she wll adjust n become d advertiser dis time

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by whizkidy: 2:15pm On Feb 13, 2015
pentag0nal:
I am planning to settle down soon. I have a very close friend who is a handsome guy and very nice and caring. he is married and from all I see, he is having a good marriage. He confided in me recently that the major problem he is having with his wife is that almost every night when he approaches her for sex, she would say that she is so tired and had a stressful day. undecided

This my friend is a very religious guy and does not want to cheat on his wife because of the fear of God. The problem now is that he is so sex starved and at the point of getting a girl friend. cry cry cry

Please house, what advise do you have for this guy and many good men that find themselves in such a situation. You don't want to cheat on your wife but she continues to deny you sex with excuses. How do you cope knowing fully well that your body is yearning for this thing and you need it. cry
The guy should consult Mr IK obodolo. Apparently he has been in his shoes before. Tired every night, SMH.
Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by pentag0nal: 2:16pm On Feb 13, 2015
5minsmadness:
Lol!

The truth of the matter is,
A woman's libido can never be the same as the average man! Men's sex urge are way higher than most of the ladies around here. To find a woman with equal or higher libido are hard to find.

Marriage entails sacrifice! The man should not expect the woman to have sex with jim everyday. He should discuss with her so they can have a kind of timetable- yes am serious! They can discuss to have it 3times a week. The man should learn self control too as part of his sacrifice in being in the marriage and also help the woman in a few of the house chores. Then she'll be more likely to give it up more often!

I suggested this to him that three times a week will be fine but when he talked with his wife, she said the maximum she can do is one in two weeks ie. twice in a month.
Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by pentag0nal: 2:18pm On Feb 13, 2015
luluosas:
The wife is making unnecessary and unjustifiable excuses. They should talk it together heart to heart. If this didn't work, he should threaten the wife that he was going to have a sex partner outside (not true anyway) since he is starved of sex inside. At this point, that tired woman who always complain of tiredness will fly to his arms begging and pleading that she will make her body available any time, any day he so desire. Just watch it and see.

Ok, I have written this down.
Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by AlfaSeltzer(m): 2:18pm On Feb 13, 2015
It is always a "close friend". Isn't it?

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by yusfaith78(m): 2:19pm On Feb 13, 2015
She doesn't love him again

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by pentag0nal: 2:19pm On Feb 13, 2015
asala1:
That's why it is good to have more than one wife. If one no do, the other one go do.

My Advice: He should look for money and marry one more wife to relief of these duties. He will be fine.

This sounds good too.
Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by Nobody: 2:20pm On Feb 13, 2015
The GREATEST employment in LIFE is your marriage ...
While your BEST WAGES/ PROFITS are your KIDS..
EVERY other thing is geared towards supporting these things...

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by toshmann(m): 2:20pm On Feb 13, 2015
pentag0nal:
I am planning to settle down soon. I have a very close friend who is a handsome guy and very nice and caring. he is married and from all I see, he is having a good marriage. He confided in me recently that the major problem he is having with his wife is that almost every night when he approaches her for sex, she would say that she is so tired and had a stressful day. undecided

This my friend is a very religious guy and does not want to cheat on his wife because of the fear of God. The problem now is that he is so sex starved and at the point of getting a girl friend. cry cry cry

Please house, what advise do you have for this guy and many good men that find themselves in such a situation. You don't want to cheat on your wife but she continues to deny you sex with excuses. How do you cope knowing fully well that your body is yearning for this thing and you need it. cry

There are over 2 billion pretty women on this planet. undecided

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by ezugegere(m): 2:20pm On Feb 13, 2015
There's possibility she's still getting it real good from her ex. The guy should take time and investigate.

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by lolaxavier(m): 2:20pm On Feb 13, 2015
pentag0nal:


I suggested this to him that three times a week will be fine but when he talked with his wife, she said the maximum she can do is one in two weeks ie. twice in a month.

Guy, advise your friend very well...his wife must probabaly be bumping and grinding with another man during the day...
Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by Nobody: 2:20pm On Feb 13, 2015
Am sure someone else is servicing her kitty kat @ the work place, so she aint starved,cos i cant imagine how a young married lady would work so Hard that she forgets her Bedroom work..who then is supposed to do it, ekaette or mary mbok......Getting a girlfriend would just make him a cheat, dont allow marriage turn you to a sinner,talk to your wife,complain bitterly, she has to reduce that work load or else you shud probably take the sex to her office afterall she will eventually get tired when she gets home nah...this ur situation is so annoying sef, e dey vex me, chaiii....After he has complained and and she doesnt change, she is frEe to have a galfriend or even another wife,infact na me go bless the union..

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by santos876(m): 2:20pm On Feb 13, 2015
bro make it know t her dat if she shud continue wif such attitude, dat u will av no oda option dan t seek attention else were.if she's foolish she shud continue and bear d consequences............. click like if ur n soport

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by Nobody: 2:21pm On Feb 13, 2015
My questions are, what does the wife do for a living? Is she the bread winner of her home? Does she work with construction company? If yes, does she carry kponkpon? (Mixed Cement with sand) and if after all this questions, all her answers are ''NO'' O boy, you berra find solution to your problem fast make e no be say somebody else dey service Madam and she don lose interest in your sex life..! cool

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Re: His Wife Is Always Tired At Night For Sex by Charly68: 2:21pm On Feb 13, 2015
The man should investigate the woman very well,she must have been cutting corner outside only to come home to deny her husband of his conjugal right..I am 100% sure that somebody is satisfying her outside .An uncle of mine experience similar thing until the bubble burst.

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