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Enegod:
Go up behind her when she is washing dishes, grab her, throw her a** on the
counter and screw her Or somethin like that... sex must not always be in the bed room or at night

Good

kushsy:
. The guy may not
be good in sex,boring,small penis or over stays..most importantly loveless marriage...if the excuses are persistent..one or more of this could be the cause.

It's easy to find excuses for any action. Okay let's say the problem here is small joystick, what is the guy supposed to do about it? Grow a longer dick? It's like saying you can't touch your wife because her Ass is too flat. I guess they knew these things before they married each other, so why get married if you're not satisfied with the other person's body?

I don't like entertaining random excuses or blame game when these kinds of issues come up.

Tell your friend that maybe his blokos dey smell. All angles must be covered.

So na here you wan get advice? I dey smile your village witch....they really work

When a man is excessively good to a woman,she will take him for granted.faithful men are the ones that are being cheated on by their wives.once a woman knows that she can trust you not to cheat,she'll start sleeping around since she doesn't have to worry over hubby.
@pentag0nal
The wife of your friend is definitely sleeping around!! She maybe dating a colleague or somebody else hence,the tiredness whenever she comes back.and once women starts sleeping around,they normaly lose interest in their husbands and this is why it is always dangerous to live with a cheating wife.tell your friend to start investigating his wife secretly,he'll be shocked at what he'lll find out.

pentag0nal:
I am planning to settle down soon. I have a very close friend who is a handsome guy and very nice and caring. he is married and from all I see, he is having a good marriage. He confided in me recently that the major problem he is having with his wife is that almost every night when he approaches her for sex, she would say that she is so tired and had a stressful day.

This my friend is a very religious guy and does not want to cheat on his wife because of the fear of God. The problem now is that he is so sex starved and at the point of getting a girl friend.

Please house, what advise do you have for this guy and many good men that find themselves in such a situation. You don't want to cheat on your wife but she continues to deny you sex with excuses. How do you cope knowing fully well that your body is yearning for this thing and you need it.

I discovered that this case mostly happened to supposedly godly or religiuos guy. Reason: the wife knew that under the religion rite, the husband must not have or engage in any extral marital affairs. That's the number 1 reason why they don't care about the feelings of the husbands. If they involved Pastor before they got married, the pastor should be the one to solve the problem. In the absence of that, there is nothing the guy must do, except to accept it as his own cross.
Best bet: Sit the lady involve down when she is ready to listen, and tell her what could happen if they fail to flee away from the Davil.

Slimmos:
divorce her.. infact divorce na oyinbo slangs... my bro pursue her, tell her make her pack her load comot

Lol

Thermythorpe:
. Your friends problem is now something to be discussed on NL abi Issorait

he would copy and paste the pieces of advice for his friend to read.....lol

imagine!!!!!

first what I will just say is that is d marriage tight to d extent that both of u do pray together. and secondly if it has persist d husband going outside to av girl friend it means d wife is tired of d marriage. pls and pls d two of u should pray about d marriage ooooooo not to collapse and d wife starving u from not having sex in marriage is bad try and sit her down and tell her what's wrong with d job is doing and schedule things .if it has gone to d extent of fornicating outside please both of u should fast and pray and go for deliverance I believe with this things will become normal. I pray for good marriage oooo.

@Post

The man who is getting s/e/x starved should seek help for s/e/x addiction. If both husband and wife work during the week, they should reserve s/e/x for the weekend. Any man asking for s/e/x during the week is a s/e/x addict and needs help. Shikena! No wonder the wife is complaining of tiredness.

pentag0nal:


Will that take away the guy's konji or what?

. lol

my comment is :

if she claims to b very tired at night as to deprive you your bed rights, common bro, there are other ways of solving this. If after trying these other ways and she says no to you....she's either cheating on you or you have a problem which she's avoiding to entangle herself with or she's trying to push into a very big calamity of derailing and going against your faith.

Well, consider trying the early morning recipe.... yes she's tired at night.. but not the whole day. you no wen she wakes in d morning.... give her a trial then just before she starts preping to leave.

Try the weekend treat as well, as long as you're married.... no day is a sin to meet.

I would advice, start with the psychological aspect before advancing to the mechanical aspect.

chibic:
When a man is excessively good to a woman,she will take him for granted.faithful men are the ones that are being cheated on by their wives.once a woman knows that she can trust you not to cheat,she'll start sleeping around since she doesn't have to worry over hubby.
@pentag0nal
The wife of your friend is definitely sleeping around!! She maybe dating a colleague or somebody else hence,the tiredness whenever she comes back.and once women starts sleeping around,they normaly lose interest in their husbands and this is why it is always dangerous to live with a cheating wife.tell your friend to start investigating his wife secretly,he'll be shocked at what he'lll find out.

exactly investigation too is needed.

Why is sex even in marriages alway synonimous with NIGHT? #justthinkingaloud#

2 words

Jolly Friends

Why are some ladies like this? She might be having office romance.. that's why she always come home tired. I am a sexually active man, I won't allow that at all.... I'd force she, after all i married her.

pinkycute:
Lolzzzzz... I go treat you well jhooooor


Wait till tomorrow nah before I go give you or perfume abi nah so ur blood dey hot

i trust u say u go treat me well,cus i knw say u be better pikin and u go sabi d tin.

The guy myt be boring on d bed

Rush her and dont take NO for an answer... Maybe she likes it rough and hard...

Hahahahaahah..
9ja Men funny


Imagine A Woman i married giving me TRASH ABOUT SEX..... Are we still playing Boyfriend and Girlfriend?
She must me Mad....
1st night i am tired i would let u be
2nd Night i am tired i would Let u be
3rd Night i am Tired.... I would help u Pack yah BAG... BY MORNING YOUR GOING BACK TO YAH FATHERS HOUSE...

I must say it is imperative 4 a couple 2 enlist common goals n duties they must perform after marriage. perhaps sex is not included in their's

Good counselling is crucial 2

note: marriage shouldn't be built on sex

@op, we hope u will come back here to tell us d solution to d problem.
if she agrees to be baby making-machine no wahala. manage her. and Bleep d hell outside. men r sick and tired of dis women attitude. it's time we take d bull by d horn

The truth about it s, if d woman does dis regularly, den she s getting it from somewhere else. Forget d religious cloak. Dat s just d bitter truth. My advice to d guy, if she persist after trying to talk things over with her, he should divorce her and re marry. Or if his religious sensibilities won't let him, he can separate from her. D bible allows dat at least. I don't see y a woman should take his husband for granted because she feels he s religious n won't cheat on her. D man na still human being n she will regret it if d man falls into another woman's hand, d woman don loose her husband b dat

you want to hear the truth...

majority of women love sex and cant do without it...
if shes denying you that right... then shes either getting it out from someone else or shes has psychologically issue that is reduced her libido for sex.

Well personally here is what i would do though i aint married...

If we are both working and she denies me and night... i would try morning... and if the that aint working.... let see how the weekend goes
and if that still does not work...

"operation pack out of my house and move to the guys house that you are getting it from..."

because it means that shes actually cheating on me.

outside this... the problem might be YOU cos if you are the type that is simply the one minute man...
she will be totally turned off and have every right to deny you sex because what the point of having to heighten her sexual desire and not been able to fulfill it and take it to the end...

infact this is hard,me myslf i pray i shouldnt find myslf in such mess,else i no go gree @ all.

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seangy4konji:
Oma ga oooo...

End time wives...

Make am understand oo make you legooo...

If you go knack outside na she go first tell everybody say u be cheater...

Did she think all she came to do is cook,clean the house and work?

some women no gree collect better home training before them do husbands house.

u funny die bro

Almost all the guys here are saying go outside and satisfy yourself. I may not really know how it works on you guys.

Does getting it outside satisfy you truly? I believe when you love someone, no matter how many times you get it outside, you will always want to have a taste of that person whenever you see him/her. The urge will resurface.

I think the solution here should be: (1) the guy should ask himself if he has been denying the wife sex for long? It kills wife's libido. Whenever she meets him for sex and he denies her, her right. (2) is he the type that wants to have sex with his wife only when he is in the mood? He is revenging back. (3) do you curse your wife when you are quarreling? Your words might have killed her sexual urge for you. It maybe hurting her seriously.

These are the primary things that can make any wife to deny her hubby sex.

Small joystick, tiredness etc are never an excuse for any wife. No matter how tired your wife is, if she is in good times with you, she must love to have sex with you. Even when there hubby has low joystick, majority of wives can pretend that they are been satisfied by their hubby. This occurs only when the wife is emotionally balanced.

Husbands, no matter how annoyed you are, please don't use bad words on your wives. She may be enduring it but the day her mind is made up, she will make that marriage a living hell for you.

Call her and asked her where you've offended her, say sorry. Sorry heals every wound and every woman has a very tender loving heart to forgive their hubby, if you didn't continue to hurt her.

Remarrying is not a solution to some issues, rather dialogue is. Communication is. How many will you marry. Unless you are ready to marry upto 3,000 or more. If 2 or 3 wives can make a man feel good, david, king solomon for have not married how many wives he married.

Try and make peace with you home. #from a wife and a mother of 4 kids.

Johnsonsp:
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My idea is maybe the dedu wife is what yoruba's call lakirebotoO who as no private part. don't mind my yoruba spilling oo.. Or Maybe during her runs days pu**y done spoil like well.. Or she lie to be vegin to her husband b4 they get married y her strong room don turn Konga. O boy cheat on her as much as u know but be careful of HIV oooo

O boy! see child were him papa waste money 2 send sch. "spilling, vegin" lol

arimahoseloka:
timetable for sex? and I thought I've heard it all..

You obviously haven't.