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Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Ewuro4: 2:04pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
jnrbayano: how? |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 2:15pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Putting someone else's need ahead of mine. The bold doesn't connect. 1 Like |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Ewuro4: 2:18pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
jnrbayano: Answers to your 2 questions ... Awful surprises : Putting someone else's (family) need ahead of mine. Pleasant surprise: Independence How's that a rocket science |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 2:40pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Were you not independent prior to your marriage? 1 Like |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Agrika: 3:06pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Marriage is like a soup with different distinct flavours...sometimes e go sweet, sometimes e go sour, sometimes e go bitter...but it's d perfect fussion of these various flavours that brings out the beauty of marriage....first and foremost expect nothing and forget about all that crap about love,u hv been deceived with by the various forms of media...if u like love ur wife like the way Monkey like banana...and u hv "issues" like say anger issues and probably hit her, hmmm... my guy u just dey deceive yourself...if u like go to CNN to announce to d whole world hw u so love ur darling hubby but u urself no dey gree, u constantly nag this poor man to death, u are stubborn and "unbendable" ...babe u just dey deceive urself. There is a lot more to marriage than dinner candles, roses and all 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Nobody: 5:39pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
mutter:You too like food. Smh 1 Like |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by postmann: 5:45pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
ifyalways: Hmmm! GODless Ifyalways 1 Like |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by millionboi(m): 5:54pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
jnrbayano:no mind m,mek he dey pretend |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Nobody: 5:56pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
cococandy: That's all @emboldened. Even if there are hitches - of course there are bad days...we learn from them and move on. I wonder why they don't believe in the marital institution. Gets me wondering if their parents are unhappy too. 6 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by obowunmi(m): 5:56pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Pray before you marry. Marry wrongly and it will cost you your health. |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Nobody: 5:56pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Gloriagee: Exactly what I thought when I read his story. I'm like what a selfish husband. 3 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by millionboi(m): 5:57pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
kristonium:serious,then wat did u do |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by wasmilebags: 5:59pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Your ability to say am sorry wen ever u are wrong and don't allow any disagrement carry on to d next day 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by scribble: 6:04pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Gloriagee: As much as I can cook and once in a while make dinner or a meal for my wife She has been conditioned from young to be a cook for her man she makes such excellent food for me that I go out of my way to really spoil her and I'm not interested in any other woman's cooking Leave that feminist rule book nonsense and find a good African man to enjoy Or are you seeing white people in enduring relationship these days A word my dear 20 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Champele(m): 6:05pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
You are totally right,my sister is stuck with one illiterate man who use her as punching bag just to please her father. A graduate for that matter. bukatyne: |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by cococandy(f): 6:06pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
When did you get married? Congrats o scribble: |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by cococandy(f): 6:08pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: Fine girl. Nice hair # Totally off topic |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Nobody: 6:13pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
cococandy: very off topic o nne. Thanks, it's just normal braids - packed it up. You fine pass sha. 2 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by RedEboe(m): 6:20pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Years before i got married, I thought sleeping with same woman over & over again would get boring. Well, i've come to realise that this is not the case ESPECIALLY when a man endeavours to marry a woman he is $exually attracted to. It was a Pleasant surprise for me to realize that a good wife is more than willing to satisfy ALL her husbands' $exual urges and desires if only he's bold enough to tell her what he wants (lots of hubbys are pussyz). It gets better when the husband reciprocates this by making his wife comfortable enough to also share her inner-most $exual desires, and makes real effort to fulfil them. Yes, $ex is the most important subject in marriage especially for young couples. The AWFUL part about marriage (from the male perspective & in my own opinion) is that, Yes, you could love your wife more than anything on earth BUT for some strange reason(s), you can't get your eyes off other beautiful women that come your way. You DON'T want to keep them as second wives or mistresses, you just want a piece of the pie, for the road. (Yes I know, it's evil) A number of married men have the capacity to bump into a hot $exy babe, appreciate 'God's creation' and move on. While for some other married men, possessed with the spirit of 'marksmanship' in their DNA, as hard as they may try, will end up going for the 'adultrous' chase...with a 90% success rate. Well, you can guess which category I belong to. LOL! 19 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by pwerrymansion(f): 6:20pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
I used to be the egocentric type until I met marriage and it robbed me off t and left me being selfless. Never knew also I could sleep with a man that snores like a pig and still sleep peacefully. . 20 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by personal59: 6:21pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:Pls wats d meaning of dat statement "ur soul-mate is always outside d marriage" |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by bawz012(m): 6:24pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
kmcutez: we r different in nature... as long as d wife doesn't complain... bt if she does den d husband should adjust... I knw some ladies who actually takes responsibility of all house chores without hesitating... saying dat dey enjoy it while some don't... 4 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 6:26pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
personal59: You are living with A "CELL MATE" in marriage! |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Nobody: 6:30pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Oya make una talk o |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Nobody: 6:31pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: Divorce nah. On one hand, you boast of going home to meet your husband, while criticizing single women. On the other hand you criticize mgbeke widows of absent husband (divorcees). On still another hand, you talk about why can't black people stay married. On the last hand, you criticize akata single hoodrats who are unmarried but have kids outside marriage. On still the least hand, you boast about your adulterous escapades. You still haven't seen the psychologist for you bipolar disorder, have you? Mtschewww. You nor know say you Don old finish Biko, after your divorce feel free to fix yourself into one of the above categories 7 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by sylve11: 6:36pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: stop watching banged up abroad, u hear. i never see person like u b4 |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Bebetter: 6:37pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
[size=16pt]It's a constant work in progress, we have to keep working on it, through the good, the bad, the sweet and the ugly, we just have to keep working on it.. or else the "project" will surely end quite abruptly.[/size] 2 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Eluwilussit(m): 6:41pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
jnrbayano: There's no advice that can help you or anyone else. Each marriage is very unique. There's no marriage formula. Experience is the best teacher in marriage. There are some normal everyday principles that can help. This is how I live mine. 1) live one day at a time. 2) don't Rush your actions when pissed. 3) forgive always. 4) fight fair. Don't say too much when angry. If possible, shut up. 5) always remember why you married your spouse. 6) avoid blames. 7) apologize when in the wrong. Men are never in the wrong. Are they? be willing to share fuckups. 9) learn to give freely and expect nothing in return. 10) this is the most important to me: trust God for your spouse. Pray for your spouse every day. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Eluwilussit(m): 6:42pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Eluwilussit: 3 Likes |
Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by Dahjhi: 7:04pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
obowunmi: coughs.. English version of your moniker pls 1 Like
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Re: The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage by DuchessLily(f): 7:06pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
IDEApro:Hmmm...interesting story...me likey God bless ur home |
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