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sweettease:
That you get things straight with her now before its too late, find out what she really wants and know how to sort yourself out now.

So I guess it's never too late for the guy always late for the lady. Thanx anyway but dats my current situation.

StealthyMe:
Eiyaa...

ur signature ........
really funny

BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

Eyah sorry sister nkiru, wait ooo my great grand dad need a young lady to marry he's rich and handsome can u pls give me dat you sister number so I can like them up

I suspect the woman had been dating other big men and was not ready to settle down. Wasted the man's time. When did he start to work with shell? Who is the senior manager who helped him to the woman?

favoured234:
Its a really sorry case, but let me blindly play the guy that dumped her


I met this girl when I was 23 and she was 21, we both didn't have anything and the relationship was running smoothly.
2 years later (25) I went for NYSC and came back somehow we were breaking up and making up..
She has got quite a huge number of male friends cutting through all ages, I continually tell her that I am not comfortable with her associations with those people, after I complain it goes down and later come up..
On different occasions I have seen some really alarming messages on her phone that points that she is cheating but she bluntly denies it and cries high heavens (oh yeah I cant stand her tears) so I will forgive and let go...
Throughout my job hunting period she never left me just like a lot of other girls would do, she was the one that submitted my cv for this shell job I am doing right now... forgot to tell you I later found out that it was one of those her men that got me the job because she told him I am her cousin

When I got the job about 3 years ago she changed totally; she wants to know everything about the money I earn, how I spend my life, where and how I sleep, she was virtually helping me to live my life, again, her family controls my relationship in more ways than one.. The male friends doubled, I couldn't just be the man anymore.. at the slightest she reminds me of how she brought me out from the gutter

Yes don't get me wrong, I love this lady to high heavens, I have done all I can to make sure she sees things from my perspective but no way, so I wonder if I can stand this in marriage...

Fellow Nairalanders what will you advice.......
I know all of you will say kick her arse....
In summary there are three sides to the story; his side, her side and the truth..

Good speculation. But I wonder if the guy offered marriage at any time; does it have to do with infertility issues?

God punish devil for lies 11yrs bah

11 years courtship / dating/ friendship ?
I don't get it.

fleezytran:
So I guess it's never too late for the guy always late for the lady. Thanx anyway but dats my current situation.

Yeah, our chances are usually lower. I can marry a man that's a decade older than I am but I doubt a guy that's a decade younger will feel same about marrying me, even if I find such a guy, that kind of love story doesn't appeal to me.

BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

His level has now changed abi? The bastard!
Honestly there's no amount of words u will tell her that will soothe her pain, she's in serious pains as in serious.we can only pray and be there for her.
One thing for sure that man will watch his world crumble.

I ahree with u on ladies shining there eyes, dem no dey hear! Most men that women assisted end up disappointing them.
May God compensae your cousin with muchj better..... I really am sorry for what that low class gold digging, betraying, devil worshipping,heartless bastard did to her. So sorry

sweettease:
So sad, God will compensate her with a much better husband in Jesus name!
I can't begin to imagine what she is going through now, 11 years, kai! He will reap what he has sown.

How are you sure she is not reaping what she has shown too?

lacasera14:
but What's wrong with guys these days?

That's what you get when your personality is stinking...

My own problem is just to read pple comment on this nairaland,but today i feel like to say sometin abt this situation..your sister was in a relationship 4 11years,she graduated at the age of 21 and i guess she was having a date when she was in skul,she met another guy at NYSC camp,d guy woe her she agreed.ur sister secured work 4 him for shell.11years working with shell is every young boy dream..range rover pinshure we no see.dat 11yrs dey were busy fucking like dogs no plan for d future... love is sacrifice not selfishness..human mind is due to change..so tell ur sister to move on with life...i perceive some lies,am waiting for the guy story shaa because girls are very desperate maybe she cheated on him..our pple say dem no dey use one person mouth tey judge quarrel..

Person when help person, na thank you them dey tell am. So he said thank you to her with a range. 11 years na beans? Why she go date for that long!

BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

LANREFORWA:
I need a Job in Shell if your sister can help only. Am already married pls

Awoof dey spoil belle

BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

Congratulations to all the parties involved!

sexyjennik:
That is y God is watching u

ur dp is why I do sin...........Have a lovely Sunday

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Nairalander01:
This cousin of yours must be really patient, 11 years and yet nothing to show for it; thats how some men end up attracting curses upon themselves.

Later some naija guys will scream ; naija ladies ain't faithful
Mtchewwwwww

sweettease:
So sad, God will compensate her with a much better husband in Jesus name!
I can't begin to imagine what she is going through now, 11 years, kai! He will reap what he has sown.

she dhould go and learn how to buy husband.sad but true

similar stuff happened to a friend of mine, she dated this guy for 10 years and got dumped, the guy fell in love with another girl and got married.

What of the millions of guys that spend hundreds of thousands of naira and the girl will still marry another man? OP no dey make am like big deal, e dey happen to guys Tey tey.

There's no smoke without fire.... Until I listen to the d guy's side of the story then I will comment.....

sweettease:
I saw 15 years recently, and they finally got married. The funny thing is that, she said even though they dated for that long, it was still like she married a different man.

different in what sense?

Who is the retired shell officer?

Exponental:
@op.... seriously, ur sister is sick!
hw can u date a man with a good job for 11years?

read and read carefully.... D man didn't have the job for 11years... She was dating him even before he got d job... He finally got it and dumped her after being together for 11years

LadyX:
How can you date for 11 years?

I wonder oo.

She should have left him after 6 years, when she was 27.

Anyway, her investment was the job she got for him..

sweettease:
See this Americana wanna be trying to practice trash talk on me. I don't blame you, I blame Hollywood, stewpid mofo. He didn't promise her marriage, 11 years and he is now realising it. Did you even do verbal reasoning in school? Because your reasoning seems to be that of a hooligan whose opportunity for exposure is Hollywood with no respect for the opinions of others. Do yourself a favour and don't get killed during the election being a political thug. Nonsense!

wooow interesting. Applaud. U sound more like a victim to such? Anyways sorry for ur life. U talk like someone who is over aged and not married. Lol. As*** life don render ur life miserable. All in da names of runs

If she hadn't stayed with him through the hard times, he would have gone out calling her names and insulting every lady. Now she is through with the hard times with him imagine what he could only think of doing to her. It's realy not fair. I feel sad for her.

simple she got The job for him then arrange the bastards sacking 11years not fair na

BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

SUPER STORY

me na graduate, and I dey ready to marry your cousin, only and only if she go give me job for shell
ikeja registry 12am tomorrow no entertainment needed fast fast sharp sharp make we marry